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Men in Cuba Are Putting Pearls in Their Dicks To Become Better Lovers

pearlsIn the latest baffling sex trend, men in Cuba are surgically inserting pearls into their cocks to become better lovers. In Cuba, sexual prowess is everything, which is why men go to dangerous lengths to enhance themselves downstairs. The pearl, which is a tiny ball made of plastic, is slipped in under the skin of the penis through a small incision. According to Cuban myth, “women who feel the pearl go mad with pleasure.”

Unfortunately, the surgery is not often performed with proper sanitary measures, and many of the men become infected and need to have the pearl removed because of complications, such as tetanus, balanitis, and gangrene. But what’s even more shocking than the riskiness involved is the fact that the pearl doesn’t actually make sex more pleasurable for women. Dr. Almudena López, a sex therapist in Cuba, told Vice that “for it to really stimulate the clitoris, the pearl should be placed at the very base of the penis, which never happens. As for the G-spot, that’s something you can easily reach with a finger, but it’s much more complicated to reach directly with the penis.” We think it’s fair to say that these guys might consider giving the pearl to the sexy lady in their lives with a ring or necklace—instead of with their cocks!

Want to enhance your sex life the natural way? You don’t need pearls to make the ladies around here go mad with pleasure!

Check out more about “the pearl” here: https://distractify.com/sex-relationships/2016/03/09/pearl-enhancements

Bisexual Women Discuss Whether Men or Women are Better in Bed

LetsTalkSexIn case you’ve ever wondered who bisexual women prefer in the bedroom—men or women—we’ve got good news for you. A new Youtube video asked bisexual women to discuss their sexual preferences with men and women, and their answers were pretty enlightening. Here’s what they said (check out the video below).

  1. Women make better sex noises
    Women are more “sexually expressive” in bed, while “guys kind of get that deep throat-y thing.”
  2. You can always get the perfect cock size…with a dildo
    But at the same time, it’s easier to fuck a guy: “when you’re gonna get it on, you don’t have to get all the equipment like lesbians do. You don’t have to be like, ‘hold on, gotta get the strap on.’ It’s easy, like wam bam!”
  3. Women are better at fingering
    “Women know how to finger-fuck WAY better than any guy!”
  4. Women let men ask them out, but women have no problem asking other women out 
    “Guys are sort of intimidated by confident women. So you kind of take the back seat and let them approach you. But I feel like with females, I don’t have any problem approaching them at all.”
  5. Both sexes are good at giving head
    “I think both sexes are good in different ways.”

Looking to have an enlightening sexual experience yourself? Whatever your preference, we can promise you’ll get what you’re looking for here!

Check out the video of bisexual women discussing men and women in bed here: https://distractify.com/sex-relationships/2016/02/28/aimee-bisexuals-decide-once-and-for-all-if-men-or-women-are-better-at-sex

7 Sex Tips To Make Her Cum

Image Source: Flickr.com | WillVisionThe pussy is a wonderful and mysterious thing. Despite its ability to have multiple orgasms, among its many other talents, it’s just not as easy for most women to get off as men. But now there’s new research of over 2,000 women which found some helpful information about what makes women cum. Here are 7 sex tips to try on her or yourself for better and more intense orgasms.

  1. Edging, or getting super close to cumming and then backing off
    Over 65% of the women surveyed said this helps them to cum better and stronger.
  2. Hinting or teasing sensitive areas
    Teasing is when you approach those sensitive areas but don’t actually touch them. “Like touching the area outside of the vaginal opening without going in,” explains a sex researcher on the study. Over 71% of women said this really turns them on and makes them cum better.
  3. Keeping the speed, movement, pressure, etc. exactly the same
    Nearly 67% of the women said that consistency is key when it comes to cumming. “Just before orgasm, it’s like a sort of tightrope where its easy for that to be the point where you lose it,” says a researcher. “A lot of women said that everything needs to be held constant.” So if she says “Don’t stop!” then, you know, don’t stop!
  4. Or, switch things up to keep it interesting
    Different strokes for different folks, right? 78% of women said they like unpredictable sensations at different points of arousal—which makes sense considering the different vibe patterns on sex toys.
  5. Keeping some sort of rhythm or pattern
    Most women said they know what they like when it comes to a sex rhythm and that it always gets them off. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it!
  6. Change the technique after the first orgasm when going for a second one
    Changing it up on the second go-around is the key to cumming really good again.
  7. Continuous, circular motions on the clit
    A whopping 78% of women swear by this.

Want to have a better, more intense sexual experience? We’ve got all the right moves here!

Check out more sex tips to make her cum here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/caseygueren/sex-tips-for-vaginas#.qn93Y70m2M

Inside the All Women’s Sex Club

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_halloweenSkirt Club, the secret sex club strictly for ladies, got its start in the UK and quickly expanded to Sydney, Australia, Miami, Florida, and New York City in just two years. The club describes itself as “An underground community for girls who play with girls.” And because of the discreet nature of the woman-centered “play parties,” the club is proving to be the first of its kind for women who want a safe-haven to explore their sexual girl-on-girl fantasies.

Confidentiality is key for offering the women a place where they can experiment without any pressure to participate or perform for anyone but themselves. “After attending ‘play parties’ with a male ex, where the focus was more on his pleasure than hers, Genevieve LeJeune, 34, dreamed up Skirt Club to satisfy female desires,” reports the Daily Beast. LeJeune wanted to create an environment that’s as much about the mental stimulation and seductiveness than about the actual sex. But, of course, the sex is hot, too: the parties can literally go all night, and a member dished that at one party “a woman was a dominatrix and she fucked all the girls there.” Sounds like a good time to us!

In the mood for a discreet “play party”? You don’t need an exclusive secret membership for that—we always go all night long here!

Check out more about the women-only sex club here: https://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/01/30/inside-skirt-club-the-all-women-sex-haven-taking-over-the-world.html

7 Things Everyone With a Pussy Should Know About Kegels

sexyyogaLadies, have you been doing your Kegels lately? You know the importance of pelvic floor exercises for keeping your lady parts nice and toned and ready for action, but do you know how to do them correctly? Here are 7 things you need to know about keeping your pussy healthy and strong with Kegels.

  1. Most people do Kegels wrong
    The majority of people squeeze the muscles around their va-jay-jays like the butt and thighs. “To find the right muscles, try to stop your pee midstream next time you go to the bathroom. The muscles you need to do that are the muscles needed to do a Kegel exercise,” says a physical therapist.
  2. Make sure you squeeze and lift your pelvic floor like an elevator
    “Imagine that elevator going up into your body, hold the elevator, and let it go back down.” And remember the “lifting” is what’s important here — many people just push down on their pelvic floor or squeeze, which isn’t effective.
  3. Ask your gynecologist to check out your technique
    Your gyno can easily tell you if you’re using the right muscles. They can also give you pointers, and let you know about the current tone of your pelvic floor.
  4. You can actually see your muscles working if you’re doing them correctly
    “If you want to check out your Kegels in action, you can lay on your back with a mirror between your legs. If you’re doing them correctly, you’ll see what’s called a ‘clitoral nod’ and an ‘anal wink’ — meaning that your clitoris will shift down and your anus will tighten into a smaller shape.”
  5. You can pretty much do them anywhere
    Sitting or lying down, standing up—however you feel comfortable. And since no one will know you’re doing them, you can literally do them anywhere.
  6. You can even do them during sex!
    “Sometimes it can help your Kegel technique to have something solid to squeeze, like a partner’s penis or a toy,” says the physical therapist. “And since the added ~grip~ can be pleasurable for your partner, that’s some A+ multitasking.”
  7. Kegels will improve your sexual pleasure
    Kegels help your lady parts to function better, and with more strength and blood flow to the area, it’s going to enhance sensations during sex.

Looking for ways to enhance your pleasure? We can help whip you into (sexual) shape right here!

Check out more things every lady should know about Kegels: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/youre-squeezing-right-now-arent-you#.yyMknE6aJ4

Oh Joy Sex Toy’s Illustrated, X-Rated Review of the Eva Vibe

evaYou might remember the Eva Vibe. It’s the first ever vibrator that fits snugly between your labia for hands-free solo or couple’s sex. It is adorable, looks like a little pussy beetle, and now, for the first time, has been reviewed! Oh Joy Sex Toy gives you the ins and outs of the Eva in a helpful, graphic comic (check it out below).

While the Eva looks like a cute little lapel pin for your labia, it doesn’t seem like it’d be all that comfortable. The illustrator/reviewer found upon trying out the Eva that it was surprisingly comfortable—which turned out to be not such a great thing. While it’s unobtrusive, “it’s so inconspicuous as to be ineffective on my bits,” she said. Unfortunately, all those good vibrations hit directly above the clit, so you need to push it down with your finger to get the good stuff, thus defeating the purpose of it being “hands-free.” She also had issues with it staying in place. If you’re getting pounded, there’s a good chance for most women that Eva will fly out of your pussy: “This little whirligig kept leaping for freedom any time I moved,” she said. The verdict: Eva’s got loads of potential, but for now, it just doesn’t hit the right spots.

Looking for some good times yourself? We can hit all the right spots here!

Check out the x-rated webcomic for Eva the hands-free vibrator here: https://bitchmedia.org/article/oh-joy-sex-toy-eva-vibe

Virtual Vaginas Are Teaching the Masterful Art of the Female Orgasm

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_vibrator1The makers of the website OMGYes are leading the way to a whole new era of female pleasure, one virtual vagina at a time. They decided that an instructional, interactive website could help close the orgasm gap and get women off just as often as men during sex. The instructional website is basically a huge encyclopedia of clitoral touching based on interviews their research team conducted with over 2,000 women.

Now they are offering their findings on female pleasure to the internet. For a small fee, you can learn techniques like “edging,” “hinting,” “staging,” and “accenting,” each with their own descriptions and videos. OMGYes also has “touchable technology,” which helps members to learn about the female orgasm through interactive images of pussies that can be touched, rubbed, flicked, etc. And as you interact with virtual pussies, a sexy narrator leads you through the techniques, describing in explicit, breathy detail how she likes to be touched. The simulations, based on the interviews and the anatomies of real women, are extremely realistic, if not entirely pornographic. “We’re hoping that it gives people a toolkit of things to discover and explore, and new ways to talk about it all,” said a researcher.

Looking for something sexy and interactive? We can lead you through stimulating experiences right here!

Check out more about how virtual vaginas are teaching the art of the female orgasm here: https://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/12/30/can-kinsey-approved-virtual-vaginas-help-close-the-orgasm-gap.html

Japan Opens First Bar Devoted to Getting Women Off

bartokyoIn a very buzz-worthy move, Japan has opened its first bar devoted to vibrators, dildos, and other female sex toys. Love Joule, a funky, colorful bar in Tokyo is the first “love and sex bar dedicated to women,” according to the Tokyo Reporter. The owner of the bar wanted to make female masturbation a less taboo, more open discussion in her famously regressive country. “Since most people view female masturbation as something of a mystery or taboo, it is not a usual topic at typical bars,” she said.

This place is sure to get people talking! Behind the bar where liquor bottles would normally be, there are rows and rows of colorful sex toys. So far, the spot has been very popular with Japan’s commercial sex and adult film stars. One patron explains why she likes the bar: “It is a great place to drink and talk about what we women love to talk about, sex and guys, that’s also a big pull.” Not only that, but the bar prohibits single men from entering without being accompanied by a female companion. Guess they’ll just have to go to one of the many male sex toy shops!

Want to celebrate the joys of female pleasure? Ain’t nothing taboo about women getting off!

Check out more about Japan’s first bar devoted to female masturbation here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/01/love-joule-japans-first-bar-devoted-female-masturbation-opens-tokyo_n_1930552.html

A Woman Sent Guys Unsolicited Pussy Pics To See How They’d React

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What woman hasn’t received an unsolicited dick pic on a dating site? The answer is none. So to flip the script, a writer from LA decided to send unsolicited pussy pics to guys on Bumble, a new dating app, to see how they would react. And the responses she got are about as you’d expect—totally enthusiastic!

After a brief introduction, she sent the first guy a vagina pic. His response? “Yummy. That for me?” Another guy was so thrilled by the pussy pic, he used emojis to express his excitement! Another guy got very excited, too: “My tongue needs to be there ASAP. You have the most perfect vajaja, I wanna meet her.” This guy thought he’d found love-at-first-vagina-sight: “I would definitely like to lick that. Best girl I’ve matched with on Bumble so far.” Some guys had more subtle reactions: one dude sent a pic back of himself shirtless (come on, dude—obviously you need to send a dick pic!), and even stranger, a different guy sent back a pic of his dog. Sure seems like sending an unsolicited pussy pic will make any guy’s day on a dating site!

In the mood to get a thrilling surprise yourself? You can use more than emojis to express your excitement here!

Check out more about the woman who sent unsolicited pussy pics here: https://distractify.com/humor/2015/11/20/mustafa-watch-me-vijajay

Everything You Wanted To Know About Lesbian Sex But Were Afraid To Ask

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_lesbiansHuffpost Gay Voices recently asked real lesbians about real lesbian sex to find out what really goes on under the sheets (“or on top of the kitchen table or in the back seat of an Uber”). Their candid responses help to clarify what’s true about lesbian sex and what’s myth. Here are their answers to the most frequently asked questions about lesbian sex.

  1. What Is ‘Sex’ When It’s Between Two Women?
    “Anything we want it to be, honestly. Lesbian sex is about intimacy and pleasure, which is what any kind of sex really should be about.” True enough! Just use your imagination…
  2. Are There Specific Things That All Queer Women Do In Bed?
    “Lesbian sex isn’t just about scissoring, strap-ons, or eating pussy. There are an infinite number of ways that queer women have sex and an infinite number ways that queer women define sex.” Again, with a little imagination, the possibilities are infinite!
  3. Do Lesbians Fuck?
    “Queer women fuck. We have the hot, sweaty, nasty, delicious sex that has nothing to do with billowing curtains and satin sheets.” That sounds hot!
  4. Do You Miss Cock?
    “Fingers are far more agile than a penis and there are a zillion toys out there to help the cause.” Imaginative and resourceful!
  5. Is One of You the ‘Guy’ in Bed?
    “A thousand times no. Penetration is not the key to female orgasm. It’s a component. Lesbian sex isn’t an imitation of straight sex, which is a very good thing because studies show lesbians have more orgasms.” You know what they say: lesbians have more fun!
  6. Is One of You Always the Aggressor in Bed?
    “The kind of lesbian sex I enjoy the most is the kind I like to call “switch play.” We switch roles depending on our moods and desires.” Sexy!
  7. Do Lesbians Really Enjoy Fisting?
    “Fisting is a real thing. And no, if you’re communicating and doing it right, it doesn’t hurt; it’s awesome.” Fisting and lesbians: both awesome!
  8. Do Lesbians Like Ass-play?
    “Queer men and straight couples don’t get to have all the fun. Whether it’s a dildo, vibrator, or fingers, lesbian sex can also include the back door.” Girls just want to have fun!

In the mood for some fun yourself? We’ve got plenty of creative ways to have an awesome time here!

Here are more answers to frequently asked questions about lesbian sex.