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Survey Finds People Aren’t Shy About Their Turn Ons

A survey looked at 2,000 sexually active adults’ preferences and found what turns people on. Conducted by OnePoll for LELO, the survey found that people are most likely to be vocal about their turn-ons (74%), but aren’t shy about bringing up what turns them off, either (64%). From foreplay (63%) and neck kisses (41%) to being a good kisser (38%), respondents who have hooked up with a one-night stand have an easier time admitting their preferences to someone they’ll never see again (67%).

When it comes to serious relationships, three-quarters of Americans see that conversation as a milestone (75%), and a similar percentage said it’s an important discussion when committed to someone (77%). This may be why people prefer to be in a relationship for at least three months before bringing up what gets them going (53%). “It is important to nourish intimate conversations frequently and in accordance with your likes and dislikes. This is the only way to optimize the complete sexual experience and have both partners pleased and satisfied,” a LELO spokesperson said.

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Check out more about a survey showing people aren’t shy to talk about their turn ons: https://nypost.com/2022/11/01/1-in-7-are-afraid-of-being-shamed-for-sex-preferences-poll/

7 Weird Sensations That Turn People On

feet-1095408_1280There are some things that strangely just get you going. Whatever the reason, when you experience it, it instantly puts you in the mood. Here are some of the incredibly specific sensory experiences that real people admitted to getting turned on by.

  1. The sound of a heart beating
    “I literally want to fuck someone while a loud thumping heartbeat audio is playing in the background. I actually need to experience hearing heartbeats in order to orgasm.” Whatever vibe pattern turns you on!
  2. Feeling turbulence on an airplane
    “The vibrations from the turbulence feels amazing and so does the thrill from when the airplane is descending. It sounds crazy, but it’s a serious turn on for me.” Living dangerously can make a person want to get wild!
  3. Foot play
    “I really get in the mood when someone licks, bites, and sucks on my toes. Getting a pedicure literally turns me on and I won’t be able to stop thinking about having sex.” Foot fetish!
  4. Being tickled
    “It’s sort of like the overload of sensation you get right before you come.” Yup, there’s a fetish for that too!
  5. Ears being blown on
    “When someone blows into my ears, I immediately get horny. The sensation always sends tingles down my back and I can’t help but be in the mood.” Hot!
  6. Watching paint-mixing videos
    “The sounds and blending of the colors make me wet for a reason I don’t know how to explain.” Kinky!
  7. Feeling ears being cleaned with Q-tips
    “The relief that it brings me is an orgasmic experience and it actually makes me horny. I’ve masturbated after using a Q-tip many times.” It’s like a dildo—for your ears!

What turns you on? We can always tickle your fancy here at NiteFlirt!

Check out more strange sensory turn-ons: https://www.buzzfeed.com/shannonrosenberg/visual-and-auditory-things-that-turn-people-on

Study Shows Listening to More Music Will Get You Laid

What is it about music that is such a turn on? Is it the way it gets your heart racing when you dance, the sensuous rhythms, or the sexiness of a sultry voice? Whatever the case, music is hot, and now a study proves what we’ve long known about its uncanny abilities: it will get you laid

For the study, researchers asked 30,000 people from all over the world to play music out loud at home for a week. And what the researchers found was that the increase in music also led to a 66% increase in sex! It also caused people to say “I love you” 50% more. Another interesting sexy-music fact: 59% of participants said people become more attractive when they play songs the participants’ love. So go ahead and pump those jams—it’ll lead to some other pumping later!

In the mood for something sultry? Turn down the lights, turn up the volume, and let’s get down to the music!

Check out more about the study that shows listening to more music will get you laid: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/listening-to-music-means-more-sex

7 Sex Tips To Make Her Cum

Image Source: Flickr.com | WillVisionThe pussy is a wonderful and mysterious thing. Despite its ability to have multiple orgasms, among its many other talents, it’s just not as easy for most women to get off as men. But now there’s new research of over 2,000 women which found some helpful information about what makes women cum. Here are 7 sex tips to try on her or yourself for better and more intense orgasms.

  1. Edging, or getting super close to cumming and then backing off
    Over 65% of the women surveyed said this helps them to cum better and stronger.
  2. Hinting or teasing sensitive areas
    Teasing is when you approach those sensitive areas but don’t actually touch them. “Like touching the area outside of the vaginal opening without going in,” explains a sex researcher on the study. Over 71% of women said this really turns them on and makes them cum better.
  3. Keeping the speed, movement, pressure, etc. exactly the same
    Nearly 67% of the women said that consistency is key when it comes to cumming. “Just before orgasm, it’s like a sort of tightrope where its easy for that to be the point where you lose it,” says a researcher. “A lot of women said that everything needs to be held constant.” So if she says “Don’t stop!” then, you know, don’t stop!
  4. Or, switch things up to keep it interesting
    Different strokes for different folks, right? 78% of women said they like unpredictable sensations at different points of arousal—which makes sense considering the different vibe patterns on sex toys.
  5. Keeping some sort of rhythm or pattern
    Most women said they know what they like when it comes to a sex rhythm and that it always gets them off. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it!
  6. Change the technique after the first orgasm when going for a second one
    Changing it up on the second go-around is the key to cumming really good again.
  7. Continuous, circular motions on the clit
    A whopping 78% of women swear by this.

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Check out more sex tips to make her cum here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/caseygueren/sex-tips-for-vaginas#.qn93Y70m2M

How to Share Your Sexual Fantasies

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_friendsWhile it’s true that everyone has sexual fantasies, it’s also true that many people don’t feel comfortable sharing theirs. Thankfully there are ways to get more comfortable with divulging your desires with others. Here are some tips for feeling more at ease with exploring your fantasies with a partner.

  1. Get comfortable with your fantasies
    Take the time to explore what turns you on without judgement. Everyone has personal desires and fantasies, and what gets you hot is nothing to be ashamed of. Figure out what you like—and what you’d like to happen in real life—before letting someone else know.
  2. Don’t overanalyze what turns you on
    There’s no reason to ask yourself “why” you have a particular fantasy. It doesn’t necessarily say anything about you as a person. Accept that sex isn’t rational, and just go with it.
  3. Figure out a good time to discuss your fantasies
    Timing is everything, so it’s important to feel very comfortable with someone before discussing your fantasies. At the same time, if it’s a deal breaker to date someone who might not share your particular kink, it’d be a good idea to discuss your sexual tastes with them sooner rather than later. Regardless, you should gauge how the other person might respond by asking some leading questions like “I saw this thing on the internet. How would you feel about doing something like that?”
  4. Practice asking
    Here are some good lines: “You know what sounds really hot to me?”; “There’s this thing I’ve always wanted to try, but I’ve been waiting until I found the right person.”; “I would love to see you doing…”

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Get more ideas on how to share your sexual fantasies here.