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This Is Why Vore Porn Is So Popular

Vore is a fetish where kinksters get off to the idea of being eaten or eating another person—and it’s more popular than ever. Vore enthusiasts fantasize about consuming or being consumed, with the most common categories including a predator consuming their prey by the ass, tits, cock, or pussy. Vore has its roots in BDSM’s power exchanges: more specifically dominance and submission play as well as sadism and masochism fetishism.

Vore isn’t rooted in sexual cannibalism, and it shouldn’t be confused with a literal, physical desire to eat another person. Rather, Vore is about power and control—predator-prey, or dom-sub roles— although the predator may not always be the dominant in Vore scenes. Some kinksters enjoy being physically dominated by their predator, while others like the idea of being in another person’s body. Really, Vore’s appeal varies from kinkster to kinkster—which explains its appeal to so many online.

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Check out more about Vorn porn’s popularity for kinksters: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/what-is-vore-porn/

BDSM Is Just Like Golf, Study Says

What does golf and BDSM have in common? A lot more than you might realize, actually. According to a new study, BDSM should be treated just like any other “leisure activity.” In fact, the study was so convincing that BDSM has been reclassified along leisure activities in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.

Experts say that since BDSM helps participants develop personal skills, create a sense of adventure and reduce stress, it’s not different than sports like golf, hiking and skiing. If it weren’t similar to such leisure activities, they argue, it wouldn’t include words like “play” and “games.” The study, led by Idaho State University, states: “A few recent studies have suggested that BDSM participation might provide important psychological and social benefits, such as feelings of pleasure or enjoyment, fun, an escape from the demands of everyday life, personal growth, improved relationships and self-expression.” BDSM—ahem, golf—anyone?

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Check out more about the study that shows BDSM is no different than golf: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-4979518/Sociologists-claim-bondage-just-like-playing-golf.html

7 Kinky Sexual Fantasies

Everyone has a naughty sexual fantasy that gets them excited. And when it comes to exploring kink, using your imagination is always a good place to start. Here are 7 kinky sexual fantasies from real people who are turned on by BDSM.

Submission
“I just want to have some really wild, animalistic sex. Like shove me down and fuck me brutally. Call me a dirty bitch. Make me submit. Command me.” They like it rough!
Sexually teased and orgasm control
“A full BDSM scene: tied, restrained, in nipple clamps or sticks; being flogged, cropped, sexually teased and orgasm controlled.” Naughty naughty!
Completely dominated
“My fantasies always include choking/hard spankings/control/biting. I like it when I have no power.” We can see the appeal!
Public sex
“I want to have sex in a two-way mirror box in a busy public place, so that me and my partner can see outwards, but everybody else just sees a mirrored box.” Risque!
Being forced into a locked room
“I’ve always fantasized about a manager or security guard forcing me into the janitor closet and having their way with me. It really gets me going.” Sexy.
Being submissive with a butt plug
“I’m a very loud, dominant woman, and I like switching it in the bedroom.” If you can dream it, you can do it.
Being submissive with a vibrator
“I want to be on all fours while my mate ‘inspects’ me. Spreading, poking, investigating every crevasse of my body. Inserting things, vibrating when I’m not expecting it.” Kinky!

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Check out more kinky sexual fantasies: https://www.refinery29.com/sexual-fantasies#slide-42

‘Fifty Shades’ Gets a Whole Lot Sexier in New Show ‘Submission’

Many people found the sex in the Fifty Shades of Grey movie to be a bit, um, tame. Especially considering that the erotic trilogy turned so many onto BDSM. But if Fifty Shades was meant for the “mom” demographic, then Showtime’s new mini-series Submission is for the more adventurous viewer.

Acclaimed adult film director Jacky St. James is the brains behind the six half-hour episodes that dive deep into the world of BDSM. The series follows a young woman who becomes involved with a mysterious erotic novelist. After reading his book, Slave, the more adventurous doppelgänger of Anastasia Steele gets turned on to the complex world of whips, chains, swings and other kinky stuff. She quickly falls into a dangerous love triangle and must discover her own sexual boundaries while being passionately thrust into the endless possibilities of BDSM. Enter at your own risk on May 12!

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Check out more about Submission here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/submission-trailer-showtime_us_5723d441e4b0b49df6ab6641

The Raciest Lines From the New Fifty Shades of Grey Book

The new E.L. James book, Grey, is just as hot and naughty as readers would expect it to be. The book, which re-tells Fifty Shades from Christian Grey’s perspective, has already sold 1.1 million copies—just 4 days after it was released! Readers just can’t seem to get enough of the Fifty Shades, BDSM phenomenon, which is why news outlets like Entertainment Weekly are already compiling lists of the best, raciest lines. Here are some of the jewels:

“Her sharp intake of breath is music to my dick.”
“Vanilla sex? Can I do this?”
“Genital clamps—you have got to be kidding me.”
“I drag my hand through my hair, and in as even a tone as I can manage I ask, ‘Are you hungry?’/ ‘Not for food,’ she teases. / Whoa. She might as well be addressing my groin.”
“Oh, this is going to be fun. You’d be amazed what I can do with a few cable ties, baby.”
“’How would you like your eggs?’” / “ ‘Thoroughly whisked and beaten,’ I reply.”
“Oh, this ass is mine, so mine. And it’s going to get warmer.”

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Check out more racy lines in Grey here!

BDSM Class at Community Center Shut Down

A BDSM class disguised as a “relationship support” meeting was gagged recently by community center officials when they found out about its kinky intentions. The class was being run by a group called the Cambridge Kink, who wanted to educate locals about the BDSM lifestyle. After several classes, which included such titillating topics as “violence/resistance play” and the “basics of erotic hypnosis,” community officials discovered the true nature of the naughty, BDSM classes, and banned the event for good. Boo!

For around $16, the Cambridge Kink offered BDSM courses in caning, dominance/submission, and general “kink on a budget”—not to mention tea and pastries! The community center, which usually hosts girl scout meetings and bingo, admitted that while BDSM is more socially accepted now than ever before (thanks in part to the wild success of Fifty Shades of Grey), it is still not enough for the center. We guess it’s back to the underground BDSM sex dungeons for these Cambridge Kinksters!

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Cock Control

By MissReaghan

If you’ve ever spoken with me before, I’m sure that you’re fully aware of who’s in control of your cock. But every now and then, I like to remind you, even if you haven’t actually forgotten. It’s fun for me, you know? I have so many different ways to choose from, after all.

How To Stroke Your Cock

Certainly you’ve been doing it yourself for a long time, haven’t you? You know just the right strokes that make you feel good and can probably pace yourself so that you know exactly how many minutes it takes for you to get off. You know your triggers and how long you can hold off before the inevitable “cumshot”. Certainly you’re comfortable in doing things your way … but maybe the time has come to try something new? But where do you go to find a new “trigger”? Who knows you better than you know yourself?

How to Control Your Cock

In the time I have been working as a phone sex Mistress, I have picked up different techniques and approaches to the same end goal: Controlling your cock. Whether it be through an extended guided masturbation session or something more drastic, such as chastity training and CBT … I always find just the right combination of stroking and teasing. But, yes, cock control is certainly an important act of submission. In fact, the very first thing I do when I allow a sub to serve me is to take control of his cock. Even if I haven’t agreed to own *him* yet, I will own his cock. It helps to establish control early, you understand. Leads to fewer problems down the road.

How I Control Your Cock

But, of course, the one thing all my cock control techniques have in common is that they all involve denial or, at the very least, delay. What’s the point of owning your cock if I can’t control when and how you orgasm? Or perhaps I should say “IF” you orgasm … and that’s a pretty big “if” most of the time.

Do you need to be reminded who holds the leash to your itty-bitty penis? Good. You know what to do, then, don’t you?

A quick final thought: