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Kink Educator’s BDSM Workshops Boomed During Lockdown

A kink educator helped thousands of people around the world live out their sexual fantasies during lockdown. One of her most popular workshops is her spanking class, which has up to 100 people at a time and up to 50 participants in real-life sessions. “My business boomed in lockdown. The pandemic gave people time to think about what they want in bed and explore their desires in the comfort of their home.”

“It’s not all about flogging, spanking and tying each other up,” she explains. “It can be a very sensual experience.” She talks about pouring hot wax all over your partner’s naked body “like a work of art,” letting your partner “control” when you orgasm, and experimenting with sensory deprivation. “There really is something for everyone so don’t be afraid to try.”

Want to explore your desires from the comfort of your home? At NiteFlirt, there really is something for everyone!

Check out more about a kink educator’s BDSM workshops booming during lockdown: https://nypost.com/2022/01/13/sex-educator-reveals-the-surprising-items-all-her-clients-love/

Tasty Teaser: A Good Spanking

There’s an appeal to a good spanking; most seem to prefer getting the spanking themselves than giving it, but it’s quite popular. There’s many more submissive men than dominant ones that call. Many come quite prepared before their call with spanking implements at the ready. Wooden spoons, belts, paddles, a riding crop, their own hand. They crave punishment and are often seeking to relive spanking episodes from many decades ago that left a big impression on them. Most men are not going to be able to get a girlfriend or wife to spank them, so they keep their fetish to themselves. Calling an operator to dole out a spanking is a wonderful way to get some direction.

Some like to have a spoken count of how many strikes they will give themselves. It’s quite entertaining to hear the “whack” of something across their rear end and their wince of pain as they are striking themselves. You do get some men that want the ladies to be the ones bent over though, exposing their lovely round derrière to be struck by their Master. Both scenarios arouse the callers, whether they are receiving the spanking, or administering it. Some have a very good tolerance and you can count dozens of times for them to spank themselves. Sitting down will be no picnic after a call with a cruel Niteflirt domme.

When you pick up the phone and hear, “I’ve been bad,” you just know they are craving punishment from a firm hand. Do you love a blistering spanking and like to be told what to do? There’s a lot of ladies here that will be more than happy to direct you and give you a very red bottom over the phone. Those “whacks” we hear in the background are amusing to us, they make us laugh, and they show us how weak you really are. If you’re in the mood for some punishment, give one of the Niteflirt ladies a call… your ass will be red and your dick will be hard!

6 Very Kinky Sex Stories

What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done? Has it involved BDSM, bodily fluids, or extreme sex acts? If so, then these very kinky sex stories will be right up your alley! Here are 6 for your reading pleasure.

“I’m in a full-time Master/slave dynamic with my partner. One of my biggest kinks is piss play and humiliation. My fondest memory was having 22+ men pee on me while I was wearing a cone of shame. After being peed on, my Master forced me to sit in the pee for a long time before being allowed to shower off. It was definitely one of the hottest things I’ve ever done.” Just. Wow.
“I’m all about the kink: I’ve nursed a grown man like a baby, I’ve been fisted and then had his penis inserted at the same time, and I’ve had my vagina stretched with a vaginal speculum.” This sounds intense. Literally.
“My girlfriend and I are into cuckolding. We met a guy and I watched him fuck her in the ass while I sucked her toes. After he came in her ass, I licked it out and we kissed. Five minutes later, she started giving him a blowjob again. He came in her mouth, she kissed me, and then spat it into my mouth.” The couple that cuckolds together stays together?
“Once, my ex and I were having sex on his couch and I asked him to cum on my breasts. When he was done, I swirled his semen over each nipple and put my finger in my mouth to lick off the rest. Then I said, ‘I’m not cleaning it up. I’m going to leave your cum on me all day.’ And I did. We went to the grocery store, the park and out to dinner.” Naughty!
“My girl has a Daddy/dom fetish. Spanking and impact play are a must, usually coupled with clothespins and nipple clamps. She’s absolutely required to call me Daddy or Sir, and if not, punishment will ensue.” Yes, please, daddy!
“Me and my ex had a party and in the middle of it we stealthily made our way to the back room and while we were having sex I tied her up. When we were done I left her like that and then after an hour I came back and we did it again.” Sounds like a great party!

Looking for something kinky yourself? Let’s get the party started!

Check out more kinky sex stories here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/the-kinkiest-would-you-rather-game

This BDSM-Inspired Variety Show Is Hosted By a Porn Star and a Dominatrix

Finally, variety shows are getting the BDSM punishment they’ve always needed thanks to Paid or Pain, the traveling stage show by retired famous porn star Lisa Ann and comedian Jay Nog. The gong-ruled variety show features four newbie comics, who get punished by a dominatrix if they’re bad. Such punishments include clothes pins on extremities, metal paddle spankings, mouse traps, one especially nasty-looking stun gun. Ouch!

While the plan is to eventually format the naughty entertainment for TV, for now the BDSM-inspired road show is strictly for the stage. Between jokes, you can ask uber-famous porn veteran Lisa Ann anything—except “if you can have sex with me or how much it costs to have sex with me.” There’s even a banana-eating contest and porn trivia where the audience gets a shot to take home one of Ann’s sex toys (there’s a Fleshlight modeled after her). “I just hope somebody comes,” says a standup who gets the pain treatment. “You guys look like you came here to masturbate.”

Have you been very bad lately? Come get your punishment the sexy way here!

Check out more about the BDSM-inspired variety show: https://www.dailydot.com/upstream/lisa-ann-sxsw-dominatrix-paid-or-pain/

15 Erotic Photos of a 60-Year-Old Dominatrix

Sandra LaMorgese understands that being a dominatrix is more than just wearing black leather and having a ferocious attitude. The 60-year-old dominatrix understands that her job is about the pleasure and intense transfer of sexual energy that comes from dominating her clients. To demonstrate what it’s all about, she allowed Huffington Post to photograph one of her sessions with a sexy, tight-assed 28-year-old (check out the erotic photos below).

In the dungeon, the red walls are lined with various torture instruments, and there’s a bondage table, a metal cage, and other BDSM devices in the room. She whips, paddles, and spanks the naked man’s ass until it’s bright red, then lies him on a massage table and teases him with a fiery blaise stick along his ass, back, chest, and feet. Later, she restrains his wrists behind his back with handcuffs, and has him kneel before her submissively, head bent obediently at her leather-bound breasts. She even ties him up and flogs him, his feet barely touching the floor. “The practice of BDSM involves trust, compassion, love, acceptance, erotica, and surrendering control …That, along with a few necessary beatings,” Mistress Sandra says.

In the mood for a “sexual energy transfer” yourself? Step into NiteFlirt’s erotic pleasure chamber!

Check out 15 photos of the 60-year-old dominatrix at work here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/15-unbelievable-photos-of-a-60-year-old-dominatrix-with-her-client-nsfw_us_578fc7cde4b0fc06ec5b4f55

Wrestling Porn Takes BDSM to the Next Level

Ultimate Surrender is Kink.com’s newest porn for BDSM enthusiasts. The videos include strong, sexually empowered women wrestling while incorporating sexual maneuvers into the fights. The winner gets to sexually dominate the loser in the fourth match, which is why wrestling porn is being dubbed “UFC porn.” Its appeal comes from combining BDSM with the inherent sexuality and excitement of contact sports—not so different from the ancient Romans kinky, naked wrestling matches that were as much about sexual voyeurism as about the game itself.

The fights include “nipple torture, spanking, and exposed flesh, plus headlocks, bulging muscles, knee braces, and a bell for the victor,” reports Slate. “The quickest way to win,” the Ultimate Surrender site advises, “is to make your opponent have a screaming orgasm totally against her will.” Wrestling porn is also a nice departure from traditional BDSM porn in the way that there isn’t a clear sub or dom. “The sight of two highly athletic individuals using considerable strength to struggle for “top” billing is both erotic and an impressive physical spectacle—like football, or women’s rugby,” Slate says. In other words, wrestling porn is not pretend fighting; this isn’t two girls struggling on a mat for entertainment. These are athletes, subjected to strict training regimens, rules, and score charts. Let the (sexy) games begin!

In the mood for a little (kinky) wrestling yourself? Ain’t nothing “pretend” about the way we get down!

Check out more about wresting porn here: https://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2015/12/23/why_wrestling_porn_fills_an_important_sexual_niche_in_our_lives.html

The Rise of Ass Play, Explained

With all the attention the ass has been getting lately in pop culture, it’s hard to remember a time before Kim Kardashian “broke the internet” with her voluptuous backside and Nikki Minaj twerked her way into America’s heart with her asslicious video “Anaconda.” So what is to thank for our culture’s newfound love of all things Ass, and, more specifically, the rise of ass play? Huffpost recently discussed why “the act of backdoor loving is definitely having a cultural moment” in a deliciously ass-centric video (watch below).

You may have noticed recently that in the popular shows “Girls,” “The Mindy Project,” and “Broad City,” the lady characters all enjoyed the pleasures of anal play. Further proof of the rise of ass play is in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, which found that 46% of women have tried anal, with over half incorporating it into their regular sex routines. In a historical 1948 study about American sexual habits, only 11% of married straight dudes reported having tried anal sex. So, as Huffpost asks, “how did ass play go from distasteful to flavor of the month?” We’ll give you one guess: porn. Yes, porn is to thank for bringing ass to the masses. And as porn star Asa Akira said, “Ass is the new pussy.”

Want to jump on the ass bandwagon yourself? Let’s take a ride down the Hersey Highway!

Check out Huffpost’s video here.

Animal Rescuer By Day, Dominatrix By Night

Lorraine White, aka Princess Lucina, gets to incorporate dog collars into both of her lines of work: animal rescuer and dominatrix. By day, she works with animals, and by night she gets paid $300 an hour to whip her clients into submission in her dungeon. So what’s it like for her to carry on a (kinky) double life? White has only recently opened up about her alter ego as Princess Lucina when she needed to apply for permission from the city to keep her dungeon up and running.

And now that she’s gone public as a dominatrix, she’s enjoying the excitement of keeping up two very different roles: “As a dominatrix, I’m very stern. I wear rubber dresses and brandish various instruments of torture…But when I help with the dogs, I’m…giving them plenty of hugs.” In her dungeon, she has all types of torture instruments, but says that most people like “middle of the road stuff like boot worship, tied and teased, little bit of pain, a little bit of nipple torture, spanking, smoking fetishes, a bit of cross-dressing, hoods, gags, losing control, bondage.” She likes balancing the roughness and power of being a dominatrix with taking care of and nurturing animals: “It mixes my passion for animal rescue with the sensual and sadistic side of BDSM.”

Interested in trying out a kinky double life yourself? Just bring your safe word and we’ll do the rest!

Check out more about Princess Lucina here: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/dominatrix-second-job-animal-rescue-5552272

March Badness; “Scintillating Sixteen” Second Round

Our first round is over and it got pretty racy in a few of these battles! There were some results we didn’t see coming, some results we called with our predictions perfectly, and some that were just so close it was ridiculous. On to the second round and the Scintillating Sixteen!

Your response in our March Badness competition has been incredible so far so let’s keep it going!

SECOND ROUND, THE SCINTILLATING SIXTEEN
TOP DIVISION

Spanking vs. Verbal Humiliation

We were shocked with Spanking’s close victory over Masturbation Instruction in the first round. Maybe that was just the test it needed though to really get you spanking lovers to wake up and come out in force! It’s a matchup of classic strength vs. classic strength in this second round battle. Make your voices heard!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Spanking. We’re sticking with this classic fetish in the second round.

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Physical Domination vs. Strap-On

Physical Domination eked out a win over Forced Bi in their first round matchup while Strap-On was forceful and dominant in it’s face-off with Ballbusting. The latter wasn’t much of a fight as Strap-On took over 80% of the vote. What do you expect from Strap-On? To ask for a victory nicely and walk away? Come on, now.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. Huge upset by Physical Domination in the first round. We don’t think it can continue.

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Orgasm Control/Ruination vs. Face Sitting

We couldn’t have been more wrong with our first round prediction of Orgasm Control going down early. It thoroughly dominated in it’s first round vote and now finds itself up against a much more formidable foe in Face Sitting, who scored a surprise upset over Financial Domination with a late push in the first round. We underestimated just how wicked so many of you are.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Face Sitting. We expect this Cinderella to keep things going in this second round bout.

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Tease & Denial vs. Cuckolding

Keeping with the theme of people not being allowed to cum, Tease & Denial did quite well in their first round matchup despite our prediction. Looks like we’ll never get a chance to see that Princess gang after all. Cuckolding seems like a real favorite though so we sense we might be in for a real close vote in this second round matchup.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Cuckolding. Just can’t see this one being all that close.

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BOTTOM DIVISION

Bondage vs. Feminization/Sissy

What a battle of heavyweights! So early in the bracket! Both completely dominated their competition in their respective first rounds. It’ll be interesting to see which fetish is more beloved here as they truly differ in their tactics. We just wish it could have come a little later in the tournament. Make your picks!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Bondage. Frankly we just like being tied up more than we like wearing a dress.

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Goddess Worship vs. Oral Servitude

We were hoping for a little more fight out of Electric Play against Goddess Worship, as it’s one of our favorites, but it just wasn’t meant to be. Both of these fetishes are public favorites and both crushed in the first round. Which do you prefer? A strong Goddess or a strong tongue?
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Goddess Worship. We expect another strong victory for this classic fetish.

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Chastity vs. Ass Worship

Chastity is always a tough one for us here at NiteFlirt because, let’s face it, we like to have sex! With that said though, you all spoke and it came through the first round with flying colors! Now it’s up against Ass Worship and we’re having a tough time calling this one. This ‘not having sex’ thing has us so confused.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Chastity. You all seem to really enjoy your discipline!

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Foot Worship vs. Spitting

Both Foot Worship and Spitting had two of the closest victories (mid 50%) of the first round which quite frankly we just didn’t expect. We are expecting it here though and think it’ll be a real dogfight between these two niches.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Foot Worship. Another surprise victor in the first round, we really just think we underestimated Foot Worship from the beginning.

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Get your votes in now! This round only last for two days and will be over on March 17th!

Next stop: the Exotic Eight!

As always, come Speak to Your Desire™ at NiteFlirt if these fetishes are getting you as hot as they are us!

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Welcome to March Badness 2015

March Madness, you say? Nah, we don’t care much about cutting down the nets in college basketball. We care about how naughty each of you are in the bedroom. At NiteFlirt, we’re all about March Badness!

NiteFlirt’s been in business for over twelve years so we know a thing or two about fetishes and BDSM, and we love them all. But which BDSM fetish is the best? We want to crown a winner for the sexiest and most deserving BDSM fetish of the year, and we need your votes to do so! 32 of our favorite fetishes will face off against each other until we have a clear winner — NiteFlirt’s 2015 March Badness Champion!

We’ve separated our fetishes into two divisions: Top and Bottom. Vote for your favorite in each match to see it continue on to the next round. The voting schedule is below. Each round of voting will last for only a few days, depending on the round, so make your votes count! You’re allowed to vote once per hour.

First Round: 3/11 – 3/15
Second Round (Scintillating Sixteen): 3/15 – 3/17
Third Round (Exotic Eight): 3/17 – 3/19
Frisky Four: 3/19 – 3/22
Championship: 3/22 – 3/24

The first round winners will be announced on March 15th!

Let’s kick things off with our Top Division:

TOP DIVISION

Spanking vs. Masturbation Instruction

On paper, this may seem like a mismatch. Spanking is a classic fetish — who doesn’t love a little smack on the backside every now and again? — so you might think is has a big advantage. But Masturbation Instruction has really been on the rise in recent years with many Dommes now offering this service, so don’t count it out quite yet!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Spanking. Too much history to overcome.

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Verbal Humiliation vs. Home Wrecking

Another tried and true classic, Verbal Humiliation, is pitted against another upstart in this first round matchup. This time Homewrecking is attempting to unseat a favorite and make a deep run. Some have reservations about Homewrecking and just how “real world” it can get, so let’s see how this fetish fares with all of you!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Verbal Humiliation. The real world can sometimes get a little too real.

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Physical Domination vs. Forced Bi

A little Physical Domination is up against Forced Bi in this matchup. In a sense, both of these fetishes can be pretty intimidating as they both involve the exertion of real force and domination. Many would argue that we all have a little Bi in us already, just waiting to come out! Which do you prefer?
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Forced Bi. We think we all do have a little in each of us!

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Strap-on vs. Ballbusting/CBT

Strap-on?! Ballbusting and CBT?! Which can you choose? Both are about power and taking control and both get us so hot! We think this is going to be one of the closest match ups of this first round. Just the thought of these amazing fetishes gets us worked up, and also sitting with our legs a little more closely crossed.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. The power. The ferocity. We love it.

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Orgasm Control/Ruination vs. Whips/Canes/Paddles

Hmmm, Orgasm Control. Another real power fetish. Of course, on the other hand, we’ve got another classic with Whips, etc. It may just come down to acquired taste as to which of these two fetishes gets you going. To each their own, we always say…
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Whips/Canes/Paddles. See our prediction above.

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Financial Domination vs. Face Sitting

Now we’re talking! A real, ahem, face-off we have here! Two true powerhouses going after each other. It’s really going to boil down to just how strong your wallet is or how developed your tongue is. May the best fetish win!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Financial Domination. Quickly becoming a classic. Too much cash to not love!

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Tease & Denial vs. Brat/Princess Girls

We really wish that we could see the physical manifestation of all of these fetishes battling each other in real life. It goes without saying that we would pay a large amount to see a gang of Princess Girls hanging out on a stoop outside waiting for the lovers of Tease & Denial!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Brat/Princess Girls. We want to see that gang!

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Cuckolding vs. Small Penis Humiliation

One of our personal favorites here at NiteFlirt, cuckolding, is going up against small penis humiliation and we think it’s going to be a seriously close fight. If you judge by the calls our girls take on the site, this could be one of the tightest votes in the Top Division!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Cuckolding. We see a runaway here.

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That’s it for our Top Division! Now let’s get to the Bottom:

BOTTOM DIVISION

Bondage vs. Ponyplay

We absolutely love the creativity of Ponyplay, but we just can’t see this equine fetish overcoming the pure joy of Bondage. Bondage has practically been around since the beginning of time. It’s involvement in so many other fetishes makes Bondage seem it can’t lose. How can a fetish that often incorporates the fetish it’s facing off against win?!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Bondage. Probably the biggest mismatch of the first round.

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Feminization/Sissy vs. Human Furniture

Feminization has really taken off as a popular fetish in recent years, and it’s one of the most popular on NiteFlirt as well. Deep down, many big, strong men are just longing for that pretty, pink dress. Not to say that Human Furniture isn’t gaining in popularity, but it still is a pretty niche fetish. With that said, we can think of a gorgeous individual or two that we’d like to turn into a human table or chair.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Feminization/Sissy. We think more men want to be feminized than people want to be furniture.

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Goddess Worship vs. Electric Play

We just love these two fetishes! Goddess Worship speaks for itself and is incredibly popular. But we really get off on the high-tech nature of Electric Play here at NiteFlirt — an electrified wand being used on our naughty bits gets us all aflutter.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Goddess Worship. It’s just not Electric Play’s year.

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Oral Servitude vs. Pumping/Suction

While these two fetishes sound like they are somewhat related, we’re looking at two very different concepts. Feed your oral obsession with Oral Servitude or enlarge and make more sensitive different parts of the body through Pumping/Suction? Both sound great to us! Cast your votes!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Oral Servitude. Hard to say ‘no’ to a hot pair of lips and a strong tongue.

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Chastity vs. Feeding/Eating

The winner of this matchup may boil down to how submissive or dominant you are. Chastity is all about discipline and power. Feeding/Eating is all about messy fun in the bedroom.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Feeding/Eating. We love to eat! Plus we feel that pure fun is going to win out over the more disciplined fetish here.

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Foot Jobs vs. Ass Worship

Do you love a sexy pair of feet or do you crave a perfect, round ass? It’s a question that every person must ask themselves at some point in their life. We know this is a tough one because we struggled with our pick as well.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Ass Worship. We love a perfect, shapely, gorgeous, bouncy ass. We think most out there will agree.

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Hypnosis vs. Foot Worship

The feet are back for another battle! But this time, they’re taking a less active role by being worshipped. Hypnosis, on the other hand, is quite an active fetish with many nuances and variations. Perhaps we need to be hypnotized into worshipping some gorgeous feet? Things are starting to get complicated.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Hypnosis. In a clean sweep, we don’t see either of our foot-related fetishes making it out of the first round.

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Spitting vs. Wax Play

Wax Play is so — ahem — hot! We love this messy fetish here at NiteFlirt so very much. Can we say it lights our fire? Ok, enough. The question really becomes how can it compete with a fetish so simple, so pure, as Spitting though? Can it? We’re rooting for it!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Spitting. As much as our hearts say Wax Play, our minds say Spitting is the pick here.

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Which fetishes are your favorites? Get your votes in to get them counted! We’ll announce the first round winners on March 15th and then we’ll move on to the second round.

If getting through this first round got you all hot and bothered, come visit NiteFlirt and Speak to Your Desire™!