Tag: social media

Couples With A Good Sex Life Are More Likely To Cheat, Study Finds

oldsexThere’s a surprising reason your partner might cheat: you’re fucking them too good. A new study that followed 233 newly married couples for up to three and a half years found that having a good sex life may make your partner more likely to stray. “Researchers suggest that people who really enjoy sex are more likely to be unfaithful because they seek out sex with more partners,” reports Daily Mail.

The study also found that men with a hot wife were less likely to cheat than women with a more-attractive husband. Interestingly, attractive women were slightly more likely to remain faithful than less attractive women, while more attractive men were more likely to cheat. Not surprisingly, participants who had a “lingering eye” on an attractive person were 50 percent more likely to “play away” from home. The authors write: “With the advent of social media, and thus the increased availability of and access to alternative partners, understanding how people avoid the temptation posed by alternative partners may be more relevant than ever to understanding relationships.”

Looking for something tempting? Let’s play on NiteFlirt!

Check out more about the study that finds couples with a good sex life are more likely to cheat: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5383289/Couples-good-sex-life-likely-cheat.html#ixzz57oGCe3N3

Tinder Threatened to Sue the App Known as ‘Tinder For Threesomes’ 

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_tinderIt seems Tinder didn’t take too kindly to the new app 3nder, which was designed to help users find some wild three-way fun. Tinder’s main complaint was that the name 3nder was too close to Tinder, so Tinder threatened to sue. 3nder, deciding it best to avoid a hellish legal battle, recently changed its name, as well as its focus on threesomes.

3nder will now be known as “Feeld,” (playing the field? Coping a feel?) and instead of focusing on three-person trysts, it will instead lean more toward sexual openness. It’s being described as “a field for you to discover your sexuality and explore it by yourself, with your other half or with any human you’d like” where you can “explore love beyond societal norms.” So, good news for those who are interested in sexual discovery; bad news for those looking for a fantasy-land of commitment free threesomes. Thanks a lot, Tinder.

Looking for a sexual fantasy-land yourself? We’re all about wild exploration here!

Check out more about the threesome app 3nder’s rebranding here: https://gizmodo.com/tinder-for-threesomes-got-totally-boned-moves-on-1784818529

Kanye Denies His Kinkiness—And That’s a Shame

kanyeThis week, America’s favorite self-aggrandizing rapper, the Yeezus aka Kanye West, got into yet another public feud on social media, this time with Wiz Khalifa. When West stepped over the line and insulted his and Khalifa’s ex, Amber Rose, the anti-slut shaming hero chimed in, calling out West for his kinky proclivities. She tweeted this: “Awww @kanyewest are u mad I’m not around to play in ur asshole anymore? #FingersInTheBootyAssBitch” West immediately denied his love of ass play, replying with: “Exes can be mad but just know I never let them play with my ass … I don’t do that … I stay away from that area all together.”

It’s a shame that West doesn’t embrace his kinkiness, but what many proponents of consensual adult kink have said is much worse is Amber Rose’s homophobic and sexist tweet suggesting that men who like ass play are “bitches.” They’ve also called her out for her disappointing and hypocritical sex shaming. One sex expert commented, “Especially with the hashtag, #FingersInTheBootyAssBitch, that is exactly the kind of homophobia that makes it difficult to explore prostate play. It’s the male equivalent of slut shaming.” He adds that lots of men—gay and straight—enjoy prostate stimulation, and there’s nothing wrong with that. “Your nerve endings have nothing to do with your sexual orientation,” he explains. Too bad Kanye didn’t get the memo.

In the mood for some kinky fun? Ain’t no shame in this game!

Check out more about Kayne denying his kinkiness here: https://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/01/30/don-t-kink-shame-kanye.html

NEWS: Sex Sells in Silicon Valley

Silicon Valley is filled with innovation, entrepreneurship, and sex workers! CNN unveiled that the Silicon Valley has a thriving sex industry, where women are charging up to $400-$500 per hour.  This makes total sense, the work obsessed young Internet moguls in the valley don’t have time to wine and dine, so dropping $500 on a wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am with a professional seems like the feasible route to take.

Don’t let these sex workers fool ya though, it must be something in the air over there, but they’re just as tech savvy as their rich clients. A few sex workers explained they’re accepting credit card transactions by utilizing Square, a credit card reader that attaches to your smartphone, the workers are registering it as a “consulting service”. I’m completely blown (pun intended) away by the business driven minds in the Valley!  Sounds like something we can incorporate into our own little world, huh?  😉

Some of these working women are becoming avid social media enthusiasts working in the sex industry too! “Everything I know about social media marketing I learned doing sex work,” sex worker Kitty Stryker told CNNMoney. “Currently I’m using Hootsuite a lot; I’m using Klout a little bit. I also use Twitter calendar, which is just this simple free thing, but it’s got very interesting analytics data.” I’m confident these women have some clients that could assist setting up their very own Facebook Business Page, LOL.
Article for Link: https://www.playboy.com/playground/view/up-in-smoke-silicon-valley-sex-workers

PhoneSexLove: My Interview with “MJ”

I am Mistress June and this is an interview with the new marketing guy at NiteFlirt, MarketingJohn. Referred to sometimes as MJ but not to be confused with Michael Jackson. (I have a few connections, but not those kinds of connections.)

Question #1 – Who are you? You can be direct, you can muse metaphysically, you can share whatever you like. But please tell us who you are and be sure to include what you do for a living.

MJ: I am the new guy. The guy who has taken over Marketing at NiteFlirt. I come from a crazy background, with hands in all kinds of quirky businesses and ‘off the beaten path’ gigs and adventures. I bring a real strong creative sensibility to my world here at NiteFlirt and intend on pushing as many envelopes as I possibly can, although admittedly most of those envelopes may already be open in this little world that we all call home now. Ha.

I’ve already had about a thousand ideas for ways that we could grow business here at the ‘Flirt, but it’ll be a bit of a push for a little while to get things up and running. I think within a short amount of time we’ll all come up with a million new ideas that we can work into the company, and I can really piss off my immediate superiors with. That’s my cute way of mentioning that I LOVE input and creative ideas thrown my way, so don’t hesitate!

Question #2 – You mention testing your boss and getting creative. I relate to that rebel artist energy very much! But I am curious about the structure you will be rebelling against. What can you share with us about NiteFlirt to help us understand this phone sex industry platform that so many of us have come to depend on?

MJ:  I’m more referring to that rebel energy in terms of coming up with newer and more creative ways to market ourselves. It can always be a challenge within the adult industry so we need to spin a web that is inclusive of everyone without scaring anyone away. It can be tricky! It is such an interesting space because, let’s face it, almost everyone LOVES what we do, but a lot of those people prefer to keep that love somewhat hidden. It’s my job to find ways to draw those people out a little more and show them that it’s alright to let their kink flag fly with us!
At NiteFlirt we really consider ourselves and the site to be just one big wacky, kinky team. We value the Flirts so much, as well as our callers, and just want to continue to create a world where we can all keep playing and enjoying ourselves. A big part of that is my job since I’m figuring out how to bring that world to all of us. The truth is that we all really love our jobs and we have a really great time working together.

Okay, question #3 – My last question, have you ever tried phone sex?
He he… just kidding! Are you blushing? No, that is not my last question either.
Final question, what is one of your goals for the future of NiteFlirt? Tell us about something you are working on.

MJ:  Ha. I am a bit of a pussycat so I haven’t really delved into phone sex too much. I know that’s not your official question but just answering because i don’t mind. I definitely don’t have the “I want to be dominated and pushed around” side really. But I guess sometimes the boys don’t know they do, huh? Ha.
I honestly have so many goals at the ‘Flirt. Continue to grow and build on the social media footprints that we have already started on the last few months. Everything from continuing to grow our Tumblr blog to better communication on Twitter, and a deeper community feel on Facebook. Not to mention NiteFlirt’s own blog! We’re active on so many other sites, but that’s just to name a few where people can engage with me and NiteFlirt as a whole.

We are also working to come up with some new and innovative ways that callers can interact with the Flirts. It’s all a little overwhelming right now because we are just trying to get things really rolling while cooking up new concepts as well. The beginning of something is always the toughest and I’m definitely dealing with that right now. My specialty is ‘having fun’ though so really I just want to come up with new and exciting ways that we can satisfy all the communities at NiteFlirt; the callers, the Flirts, the company, and everyone in between.

Well, thank you for your time, MarketingJohn! I am excited about the future of NiteFlirt and eager to see your fun angle on how we can all better connect.
Folks should feel free to contact MJ through any of the NiteFlirt social media outlets or through comments here.

(This is the first installment of PhoneSexLove, a
new weekly column to be published here each Wednesday. Find out
more and listen to an accompanying podcast at PhoneSexLove.com.)