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How To Have Safe Shower Sex

Shower sex can be very hot—just as long as you don’t slip and fall. Porn star and marketing director for an adult film company Jiz Lee has some sage advice, first of which is simply to use a bath mat: it will make shower sex less slippery and add some cushion to your knees for giving head. You can also opt out of standing and use a bench or stool: “Benches or shower chairs can also be used to prop a leg up, or to lean on if you’re bent over,” they said. 

Lee cautioned people against standing on the ledge of the bathtub, or holding onto the curtain rod. Also, whenever you adjust positions, take a second to make sure you feel steady and stable—not just to avoid potential injury, but also because it’s much harder to have good sex if you’re worried about falling. Lastly, Lee encouraged people to “lean into the entire sensory experience of having sex not only with yourself, or your partners, but with the water”—if you have a removable shower head, you can experiment with hydro stimulation.

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Check out more about how to safely have shower sex: https://www.vice.com/en/article/qjpn35/how-to-have-sex-in-the-shower

Standing Sex Positions To Take Your Sex Life To New Heights

Aviva SinayThere are few things hotter than standing up while you’re getting down. Whether you’re in the shower or just can’t wait to get to the bedroom, these standing sex positions will definitely add flavor to your repertoire. Here are some of the best ones to take your sex life to new heights.

  1. Three-legged
    Having sex up against the wall is already super fun, but this position has the added bonus of taking some of the difficulty out of standing sex. Stand facing your partner, lift one leg and wrap it around your partner’s hip for extra support.
  2. Mermaid
    This one’s very acrobatic and definitely requires good core strength. Stand in a “spooning” position with your legs wrapped behind the giver and your arms entwined.
  3. Victory
    Designed for small spaces, both the giver and receiver lean their bodies back to rest against the walls or door jamb. The receiver keeps one leg on the ground between the giver’s legs, and lifts the other leg and places it over the giver’s shoulder. Who says you can’t have hot standing sex in a tiny shower?
  4. Pile Driver
    This is fantastic for people who like clit stimulation during penetration—it’s also a great pose for intense G-spot and prostate stimulation. The receiver lies on their back, lifting their legs backwards until their hips and lower back raise up, while the giver straddles them on top.
  5. 90-Degree Angle
    Just like it sounds, the giver stands behind the receiver and bends them forward at a ninety-degree angle, holding their hands behind their back. “Not only does this position allow for deep penetration, but it also lets the receiver relax while their weight acts as a counterbalance,” says Refinery29.

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Check out more of the best standing sex positions: https://www.refinery29.com/standing-sex-positions-guide#slide-7

Steamy Lesbian Sex Positions

5363515948_0afee4be51_zLesbian sex is hot. And these steamy lesbian sex positions will make it even hotter. Here are the best ones to try during your next girl-on-girl fuck fest.

  1. Standing Shower Sex
    This one’s a classic for any twosome, but shower sex is especially rewarding if you and your partner both have pussies. “Stimulating and penetrating your partner with your hands in such a small space can make things even more exciting (especially if you’re really flexible),” says Refinery29.
  2. Doggy Style
    Whether you’re using a strap-on or just doing penetrative hand play, this position is much easier on the wrist and forearm. It’s also great for G-spot stimulation, and allows you easy access to touch almost all of the partner on the bottom—you can grab, stroke, bite, pull hair, the possibilities are endless!
  3. Facing a Wall
    With this, one person is pressed against the wall while the other fingers and/or plays with their clit from behind. This one is extra steamy because you can reach so many different spots, and even throw anal play into the mix.
  4. Face-To-Face
    Here, limbs mingle, and you can basically do whatever you want—bust out the dildos, vibrators, anal beads, double-headed dildos, and so much more.

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Check out more about the hottest lesbian sex positions: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/02/139157/best-lesbian-sex-positions#slide-8

5 Underwater Sex Tips To Use This Summer

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_mermaid_trina_masonWhat is it about a body of water that makes people all randy? It probably helps that you’re half naked and it’s hot, plus it can be a rush to get it on in public. If you’re looking to give underwater sex a try this summer, here’s some tips for when you get wet and wild!

  1. Use lube
    It might seem counterintuitive, but water actually reduces your body’s natural lubrication. Sexperts recommend a silicone-based lube to keep things nice and wet for your underwater adventure.
  2. Use protection
    The urban myth that chlorine in a pool or hot tub kills sperm is 100% false—be sure to wrap it up! Safe sex rules still apply by the pool.
  3. Don’t forget about sex toys!
    Why not add some sex toys in to your water fun? There are many, many sex toys specifically designed for the water, like vibrating cock rings and clit massagers.
  4. If public sex seems too risky, have shower sex
    If exhibitionism isn’t your thing, try the privacy of your backyard hot tub, or your shower. These are great places to explore wet sex without any of the risks!
  5. Take it indoors
    It’s really hot to start messing around in water, and then move inside for the main event.

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Check out more underwater sex tips: https://www.refinery29.com/underwater-sex-pool-guide#slide-7

These Positions Will Make Anal Sex Totally Hot

When you watch anal sex in mainstream porn, it usually involves the receiving partner bent over, enjoying being vigorously jackhammered by a giant cock. In real life, while doggy style anal is definitely awesome, there are many other sex positions that are equally as A shunga print. Photograph: Geoffrey Clements/Corbispleasurable. So grab your lube and brace yourself for the best anal sex positions.

  1. Missionary Anal
    With this position, missionary is anything but vanilla. Add a pillow under the bottom’s hips to help find that perfect spot.
  2. Anal Cowgirl/Cowboy
    This one’s great for anal sex beginners because it’s one of the most comfortable. It allows you to be in control of both the depth and speed of penetration. An added bonus for people with pussies: you can rub your clit while being anally penetrated, which can lead to some serious orgasms.
  3. Blossoming Anal
    Detailed in the Kama Sutra, blossoming anal is when “the receiving partner lowers their head and raises their pelvis, while the penetrative partner places their hands around their lover’s hips.” It is a deeply intimate position that works best by lifting the pelvis while maintaining eye gaze.
  4. Shower Anal
    Here, you stand up and fuck from behind—while in the shower. It might be useful to have the bottom bend over at first and place their hands on the shower wall for support, while the top adjusts their hips to find a comfortable angle of insertion.

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Check out more of the best anal sex positions: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/04/149093/best-anal-sex-positions#slide-6

7 Moments Everyone With a Pussy Has Experienced While Masturbating

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_orgasmfaceThere are some experiences in life that are universal—and masturbation is one of them! Sometimes you’re bored, have to be stealthy, or are in the shower…so you might as well have an orgasm! If you have a pussy, we guarantee you will recognize some—or all—of these scenarios (check out the full list below).

  1. When you can be really loud
    Sometimes, you have to be stealthy and put pillows and blankets on top of yourself to mute the sound of your vibrator. But then there’s those rare and sacred times when no one’s around and you can crank up the volume on your porn and really let loose!
  2. When you wind up thinking about someone you’d rather not think about
    As BuzzFeed says, “No matter what fantasy you start out with, every once in a while someone completely random pops up and hijacks your fantasy.” Whoops!
  3. When the battery fails on your vibrator right as you’re about to cum
    This is just about the. Worst. Thing. Ever!
  4. When you have nothing better to do than rack up multiple orgasms
    Sometimes, with a can-do attitude, you find out exactly how many consecutive orgasms you can have in one session!
  5. When you’re in the shower and want to test out your shower head
    Everyone’s heard that the shower head on your clit is the holy grail of orgasms, so why not give it a go while sudsing up!
  6. When you make your clit go numb from using the highest setting on your vibrator
    This is not for the faint of heart, but sometimes, you want to see if you can cum in three seconds flat!
  7. When you need to put yourself to sleep
    Everyone knows cumming before bed is the best way to ensure a good night’s sleep.

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Check out more experiences everyone with a pussy has had while masturbating: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/masturbation-is-always-the-answer

New Kinky Video Game Lets You Scrub Down Men in the Locker Room Shower

Robert Yang is revolutionizing video games with his queer, kinky scenarios that subvert the typically “straight dude gamer audience.” Last year, he created several sexually-focused games such as “Hurt Me Plenty,” a game about spanking and kink, “Succulent,” where gamers fellate a popsicle, “Stick Shift,” about cars and handjobs, and “Cobra Club,” where gamers send dick pics. And now, his latest queer-centric creation, “Rinse and Repeat,” is an exploration into the kinky world of submissives in the very sexualized realm of a communal shower.

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Yang explains that the game is a gay male fantasy for those who are interested in experimenting with dom/sub relationships. Yang says, “My game isn’t unique in this sense, lots of video games have domineering relationships with their players, but I think my game is one of the few that sexualizes this dynamic, especially in a gay way designed to poke at a predominantly straight…audience.” In “Rinse and Repeat,” the player is asked by a sexy naked dude to scrub his back—and other important areas—as he showers. The scenario soon turns into a BDSM experience of dominance and submission. “Gay sex is the only thing that’s hot and dirty enough to subvert the video game industry’s lazy reliance on graphic violence and consumerism,” Yang explains.

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Check out more about “Rinse and Repeat!”

How to (Safely) Fuck in the Shower

showerIf you’ve ever gotten wet and wild in the shower, you know how hot shower sex can be. Getting sudsy and clean while getting down and dirty is definitely a great way to add some fun to your sex life.
But if you and your partner are different heights, or if you’re worried about slipping and falling or getting soap in unfortunate places, we’ve got some tips to make getting frisky in the shower go more smoothly.
  1. Sportsheets help with slipperiness
    Sportsheets has a line of shower sex products that will help with the slipperiness, like single or dual suction locking handles or foot rests for leverage. They even have suction handcuffs for a little BDSM action!
  2. Don’t use condoms
    Condoms aren’t meant for shower sex. They can slip off and degrade in the water.
  3. Definitely use lube
    Even though you’re in the water, counter-intuitively water does not keep things nice and wet! This is because it actually dries up the pussy’s natural wetness. So use a silicon-based lube, which can sustain contact with water for long periods of time.
  4. Fuck standing up
    The best way to safely fuck in the shower is to do it facing one another, with the shorter person propping their leg up (again, a foot suction cup helps here). Try not to use your partner for leverage, which can lead to slipping; instead, use the wall for support.
  5. Shower head is the best head
    If penetrative sex is just too slippery and difficult, try some head! A cushy shower mat is great for blowjobs. Also try pushing your lady against the wall and fingering her from behind, or using water-proof sex toys. And of course, anal play is great in the shower for getting all squeaky clean before getting dirty.
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