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NEWS: 3 Generations of Sex, Intimacy, & Relationships (Part I)

A 31-year-old woman, a 41-year-old woman, and a 50-year-old woman from 3 different continents answer some delicate and sensual questions about their libidos, what they won’t stand for in the sheets, and what their fairytale ending is.

Today we start with a seasoned sexual temptress, our 50-year-old Dame. She commands a powerful man with a sexual appetite. She’s kinky and willing to explore unknown territories. After reading what she had to say its clear 50 is the new 30 when it comes to sex! Stay tuned tomorrow for what our 40-year-old leading lady had to say.

Age: 50

Current level of sexual libido 1-5, 5 being can’t live without sex:
5.

Astrological Sign:
Virgo.

Does astrology play any effect on who you date, or have sex with?
Yes I believe in compatible signs.

Have you ever been in love, if so how old were you when you were first in love?
15.

What was the astrological sign of the man you were in love with?
Capricorn.

What did you love about sex with him?
Groping, youthful play.

What characteristics of a man are you looking for, be detailed and be honest. Also, what characteristics are you looking for in the sheets, and how has that changed since your first sexual experiences if at all?
I like a sensual adventurous man who takes control, who is uninhibited, experimental, like role-playing. Men that can fuck me hard but also make love gently. To be honest this has never really changed for me, I have always been a very sexual person.

What is the biggest turn off in bed?
Hairy men, small cocks, bad smells, funky tasting spunk, flabby untoned bodies, lack of experience, laziness.

Do you enjoy dirty talk?
YES

Do you contribute to the dirty talk?
Yes.

Is there a position that you just dread? Is there a position that you love but are too bashful to ask for?
I dread being upside down – especially if my face looks the same as it does upside down in yoga. Nope

Would you change anything about yourself in the bedroom?
A more accommodating A-hole.

Are you open to sex with no attachments, have you ever had that type of relationship and was it a harmonious? (Be honest ladies)
Yes

Have you ever been cheated on, and if so, what can your next partner do to ease your fears about cheating?
Yes but I’ve cheated too so it’s a level playing field for me.

Do you feel that men have changed when it comes to intimacy, loyalty, and relationships since your first sexual experiences/relationships?If so, why do you think this is the case?
My answer is yes in some ways but because of my geographic location. Currently I live in a culture where the attitude to relationships is very different to where I have experienced my first relationships.

Do you feel that you’ve changed when it comes to intimacy, loyalty, and relationships since your first sexual experiences/relationships? If so, why do you think this is the case?
Yes because of the above…I’ve become more relaxed about commitment.

When you’ve been in a relationship what have you done to revive the sex life when you’ve hit a rut?
Role-playing, toys, and, experimenting.

Have you ever tried dating sites, if not are you open to it?
Yes but mainly out of curiosity, I have met 2 people from dating sites many years ago.

In a perfect world what is your fairytale ending, marriage? marriage with kids? unmarried with no kids, unmarried with kids, open relationships, a few more long term relationships with different men with or without kids?
No kids and married or unmarried, but in a committed relationship.

 

Tune in tomorrow for a visit from our 40-year old subject…

 

 

Do you have a Strange or Taboo Fetish?

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As a society, our list of “taboo” items on any topic evolves over time.  In the 1800’s a bikini clad woman on the beach would have been arrested.  In the early 1900’s the term ‘swingers’was only applied to people sitting on a front porch swing.  If you mention Phone Sex in the wrong crowd today, you’re going to get the crazy eye.  But how about some of these Strange or Taboo Fetishes to spice up your otherwise stale Fetish list…?

Agalmatophilia:

Mannequin Love – this term can apply to someone who’s in love, or having ‘relations’ with a mannequin, doll, or statue… talk about a Stiff.

Ursusagalmatophilia: Plushies or Furries –  This is the term for people who like to dress up in furry outfits and well, get their primal desires satisfied.  It’s a happy community, most of the outfits are intended to be cute and sweet. Awwww.

Partialism/Gas Pedal Honeys: – I’m very familiar with Foot fetish and shoe fantasies but some guys get up to speed simply by seeing images of lady’s high heels placed on the gas pedal?!

Salirophilia:  Get Dirty – Do you shower before sex?  Not if you’re into Salirophilia.  These dirty guys and gals get off on getting muddy, dirty, smearing makeup, food, and anything that makes for a messy scene.

Hybristophilia: Bad boys gone worse! – Most every girl had a crush on the bad boys in high school but if you are totally into Hybristophilia, you’re looking for love behind bars.  Many women even fall for guys serving out a life term for horrible crimes!

Claustrophilia: Tight places – This fetish is centered around me confined in a tight space, not necessarily bound, but just being in a small area like a box.

Odaxelagnia:

Bite Me – A little nibble goes a long way with this group.  They get aroused the more they bite or get bitten. Nibble Nibble!

Want to talk to me about these or any other Freaky Fetishes on your list?  Drop me a message and let me know!

 

NEWS: NYC High Line vs. NYC Fetish Festival 

I guess luxury-housing trumps a fetish festival in the Big Apple.  For those not familiar, the NYC High Line is a section of the old elevated New York City railroad that runs along the lower West Side of Manhattan, which was reconstructed and now is an “aerial greenway.”  This historic area will soon be the home of new high-end condos.  Unfortunately, due to the construction in the High Line community, the Folsom Street East Festival will be cancelled after 16 years. 

This event is “ the largest outdoor fetish street festival on the eastern coast, which brings thousands of sexy kinksters out onto the streets of New York City on a summer afternoon to celebrate sexual diversity and expression.The now-defunct Gay Male SM Activists (GMSMA) held the first Folsom Street East in 1997. Named after the famous Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco, the block party was an instant success, bringing our S/M-Leather-Fetish brothers and sisters together for a great celebration, while raising money to support worthy causes.”  I wonder if it’s BYOW, bring your own whip?

Sadly, it seems as though some New Yorkers are on board, and are welcoming the community building that will take place in the High Line neighborhood. Clearly there is a shortage of luxury cribs in NYC, riiiiiiiiight.  Fear not, there is a bright side to this story, looks as though the fetish fiesta might be making a comeback next year. No venues revealed, but don’t go throwing out your ass-less chaps and gimp masks yet. Folsom Street East announced on their website, “THANKS FOR 16 GREAT YEARS CELEBRATING SEXUAL FREEDOM WITH THE FOLSOM STREET EAST STREET FESTIVAL, AND WE HOPE TO SEE YOU BACK ON THE KINKY STREETS OF NEW YORK CITY IN 2014!”

I hope to see the Folsom Street East Festival back in action, let freedom ring!

NEWS: Who The Hell Could Replace Kelly Lebrock!?

Folks, your prayers have been answered! Word on the street is the 1985 hormone-fueled hilarious teen classic “Weird Science” is getting remade.  This John Hughes gem was totally ahead of its time, it quenched the thirst of so many horny teen boys that hadn’t seen a pair of titties in real life yet.   Screenwriter Michael Bacall has been given the go ahead to remake this sci-fi comedy.

For those of you that are too young, or have zero taste for quality cinema, this flick is about two teenage nerds (before nerds were cool) that knew they’d be waiting eons before they saw a chick naked. They decided to take matters into their own hands and create the sexiest woman that their nerdilicious brains could handle from their computer.  Seems far fetched and cheesy, and maybe it was, but if you were lucky enough to watch as a teen or preteen in ’85 it fueled the fire in your nether region and it most likely remains a fan favorite to this day! Kelly LeBrock played the computer generated babe, and I have to say she was absolute perfection so it’s going to be a feat to replace her, perhaps Jessica Biel!?

For the unfortunate few that have yet to see the original, and for the loyal fans of this 80’s legend: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B8dldLG_ZhI

I Love Butterflies

By Sexy HypnoGirl

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Especially the kind I get in My stomach before I go on stage.

It’s a wonderful feeling. Knowing that in a moment all these people, that I see through the curtain, will look at Me. Mesmerized – stupefied. Hanging on to each word that I say as if their lives depended on it.

I’m the center of their universe. The men get warm cheeks and the women shiny eyes as they stare. And it makes Me feel so wonderful to hold them all in the palm of My hand. To be able to change their mood just by the sound of My voice or the movements of My body.

I have always loved to act. And I’m so happy that finally things have worked out, so that I can do it again.

Although I never thought about it back in Florida, where I used to be in lots of plays, acting has been a perfect playground for Me as a Domme. Through acting I have learned to never lose a beat – to always stay on top of situations and think fast if somethings goes wrong. Like when My co-actors forget their lines (I have that effect on people). My acting talent combined with My knowledge of psychology and hypnosis makes it virtually impossible to resist Me.

Talking about resisting. One sweet slave that has tried to run from Me many times he finally given in and is settling in nicely as one of My good boys. you see – that’s the way it always ends. When My sweet poison has entered your system, the world will seem more and more bland and dull to you until the day you finally let go and bow to Me. If you are reading this blog you are already starting to condition yourself for Me. The first little step, then the next and the next…

–Sexy HypnoGirl

Greedy Money Bitch

By Intoxicating Isabelle

What’s Up Money Pig?

Are you just a lonesome sad little piggie?  Are you lusting after your Greedy Money Bitch lover’s body?  You know that everything comes with a price with a Financial Domination Phone sex bitch like me, don’t you?
No… You expect to pay for something that is as priceless as a Greedy Money Bitch with a sexy, smoking hot body.  You would do anything just to be in my presence…
You know that you could never deserve a woman such as me.
You have probably lusted after women like me from afar for as long as you can remember.

You can even probably remember the plethora of times you have tried to buy the affections of a gorgeous woman only to be laughed at or petted like a pathetic dog.

You have learned to accept your place: a stupid money pig phone sex slave that was meant to serve only the strictest and meanest of women.

You Are A Human ATM Slave
This is why you stand now broken, worthless and useless before your Greedy Money Bitch Mistress, ready to beg and plead to serve me.  You know that I do not NEED or even WANT your money, but your financial domination is the price you must pay to be offered a spot as my obedient money pig.
I find it mildly amusing to use you like some sort of human ATM slave.  You are nothing more than another credit card for me to pamper and spoil myself like the financial domination phone sex Queen that I am.
You will only find pleasure in being used for the money in your wallet.  You will take on extra jobs and tasks just so that you can keep your Greedy Money Bitch happy.  You will work endlessly for only minutes of my time and in those minutes you will be complete and happy.
Come now my obedient money slave phone sex boy and get ready to be used by your Greedy Money Bitch.  I have a Wish List  that needs some attention too!
Ciao,
Isabelle

NEWS: No More Fuss for the Bust!

This is epic news for the ladies. The necessity of wearing a bra to keep your bosoms lifted and perky could all be a sham, according to French doctor, Jean-Denis Rouillon. Rouillon studied 330 women over 15 years.  What a pimp! In his 15 years of research he found that women who wore a bra on a regular basis would notice the twins heading down south more than women that went commando.

“Medically, physiologically, anatomically – breasts gain no benefit from being denied gravity,” Rouillon said in a radio interview Wednesday. “On the contrary, they get saggier with a bra.” This is totally liberating, but for us ladies with Nat Geo nipples we may still have to rock a bra with certain material.  While on the subject of nipples, Rouillon also noted that for women who didn’t wear bras, ”on average their nipples lifted seven millimeters in one year in relation to the shoulders.” Think of all of the money women will save, and all of the boners it will cause!

I have full intentions to trailblaze the sans bra fashion this summer. If it stirs up any controversy my response will be  “It’s what the French are doing!” Happy Friday!

On a completely separate and unrelated note:  Ryan Gosling. You’re welcome…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-zAbT0NkcLU

NEWS: Are Women Really HUNG-up on size??

Patrick Moote is a handsome young comedian and actor who went on a quest after a failed marriage proposal to his girlfriend at a UCLA basketball game went viral. I actually watched some of the youtube and felt so horrible for the guy I couldn’t bare to watch the rest. This rejection lit a fire in Moote to create “Unhung Hero”, a documentary showcasing his truth-seeking journey of whether or not penis size matters.

According to Men’s Health, “Unhung Hero played to a packed house at SXSW, no doubt thanks to Moote plastering photos of himself—his whole self—all over the festival to drum up interest in his flick. Afterward, the brave star shared why coming up short is anything but a death sentence for your love life.”

Patrick tells Men’s Health: “To be completely honest, I think physically, there’s a big problem with having too big of a penis. If your penis is too big, physically you don’t fit with this person. Women have different-sized vaginas, men have different-sized penises, and you find the right fit for two people and it works. But it’s more than just a physical fit. Your interests have to work together. We did a ton of man-on-the-street stuff, which I hated because it was me talking to strangers about my penis. [Laughs] But we talked to a bunch of guys where a small penis, for them, was something they almost wanted because there were times in relationships where, physically, it didn’t work. The sex hurt the women. If your penis is small, at least you can supplement—physically, you’re not actually hurting the person.”

I applaud Moote, he might not be well endowed but he has a set of balls on him for coming forward and making this documentary, and that is sexy! I personally don’t need a man to pack heat, however I won’t complain . I do agree with Patrick Moote that there is a right fit for each person, and there is much more to factor in, if in fact you are looking for more than just sex. I can’t say that a missile is going to keep a relationship going for the long haul; I would think there has to be more. To read the rest of Moote’s interview with Men’s Health click here.

Link for Article: https://news.menshealth.com/patrick-moote-unhung-hero/2013/03/23/

Femdom

By MissReaghan

You all know the saying, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, yes? Well, I can counter that with a phrase of my own that summarizes exactly the nature of our relationship and how you can best serve your Mistress.

What is a Femdom?

When you think of a Mistress, what is the first image that pops into your head? Is it the image of a woman, all decked out in black rubber and carrying a whip while she screams at you in German? An impossible-to-please woman who will crush your balls beneath her stiletto-ed heel and make you beg for the privilege of thanking her for her time? Do you picture a well-dressed, be-suited woman hovering over your every move and correcting even the smallest of mistakes with a disappointed look and a quiet “Hmm” under her breath?

Recently I had a survey on my phone sex blog, asking people that same question and the variety of answers it brought back were somewhat surprising to me. Even “non-kinky” people had an opinion about what it meant to them and, I was surprised to find that quite a few weren’t that far off the mark. They all seemed to radiate an answer that boiled down to power exchange and a woman that is sure of herself and absolutely in control.

Control me, Mistress!

How does that control manifest itself? Like the definition of “Femdom”, there are many definitions to what “control” is. Some would search through the pages of a phone sex site looking for just the right woman to expertly teach them cock control and orgasm training. Others want jerk-off instructions or just to listen as a woman guides their masturbation. Some require a strict Dominatrix with a “take no prisoners” approach to obedience while others would respond far better to a more sensual, teasing flirt. Still others like it somewhere in the middle … Sensually Strict, as it were.

Her level of control over you is entirely dictated by what you respond to. Just like in anything else in life … if YOU aren’t enjoying yourself, she’s going to know it and that will make for an unsatisfactory call for everyone.

So I leave you with the phrase I promised you at the beginning.

“The way to a femdom’s heart is through your mind.”

Know what you enjoy and the kind of phone sex domination that suits your personality best and then go find her!