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NEWS: 3 Generations of Sex, Intimacy, & Relationships (Part I)

A 31-year-old woman, a 41-year-old woman, and a 50-year-old woman from 3 different continents answer some delicate and sensual questions about their libidos, what they won’t stand for in the sheets, and what their fairytale ending is.

Today we start with a seasoned sexual temptress, our 50-year-old Dame. She commands a powerful man with a sexual appetite. She’s kinky and willing to explore unknown territories. After reading what she had to say its clear 50 is the new 30 when it comes to sex! Stay tuned tomorrow for what our 40-year-old leading lady had to say.

Age: 50

Current level of sexual libido 1-5, 5 being can’t live without sex:
5.

Astrological Sign:
Virgo.

Does astrology play any effect on who you date, or have sex with?
Yes I believe in compatible signs.

Have you ever been in love, if so how old were you when you were first in love?
15.

What was the astrological sign of the man you were in love with?
Capricorn.

What did you love about sex with him?
Groping, youthful play.

What characteristics of a man are you looking for, be detailed and be honest. Also, what characteristics are you looking for in the sheets, and how has that changed since your first sexual experiences if at all?
I like a sensual adventurous man who takes control, who is uninhibited, experimental, like role-playing. Men that can fuck me hard but also make love gently. To be honest this has never really changed for me, I have always been a very sexual person.

What is the biggest turn off in bed?
Hairy men, small cocks, bad smells, funky tasting spunk, flabby untoned bodies, lack of experience, laziness.

Do you enjoy dirty talk?
YES

Do you contribute to the dirty talk?
Yes.

Is there a position that you just dread? Is there a position that you love but are too bashful to ask for?
I dread being upside down – especially if my face looks the same as it does upside down in yoga. Nope

Would you change anything about yourself in the bedroom?
A more accommodating A-hole.

Are you open to sex with no attachments, have you ever had that type of relationship and was it a harmonious? (Be honest ladies)
Yes

Have you ever been cheated on, and if so, what can your next partner do to ease your fears about cheating?
Yes but I’ve cheated too so it’s a level playing field for me.

Do you feel that men have changed when it comes to intimacy, loyalty, and relationships since your first sexual experiences/relationships?If so, why do you think this is the case?
My answer is yes in some ways but because of my geographic location. Currently I live in a culture where the attitude to relationships is very different to where I have experienced my first relationships.

Do you feel that you’ve changed when it comes to intimacy, loyalty, and relationships since your first sexual experiences/relationships? If so, why do you think this is the case?
Yes because of the above…I’ve become more relaxed about commitment.

When you’ve been in a relationship what have you done to revive the sex life when you’ve hit a rut?
Role-playing, toys, and, experimenting.

Have you ever tried dating sites, if not are you open to it?
Yes but mainly out of curiosity, I have met 2 people from dating sites many years ago.

In a perfect world what is your fairytale ending, marriage? marriage with kids? unmarried with no kids, unmarried with kids, open relationships, a few more long term relationships with different men with or without kids?
No kids and married or unmarried, but in a committed relationship.

 

Tune in tomorrow for a visit from our 40-year old subject…

 

 

Do you have a Strange or Taboo Fetish?

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As a society, our list of “taboo” items on any topic evolves over time.  In the 1800’s a bikini clad woman on the beach would have been arrested.  In the early 1900’s the term ‘swingers’was only applied to people sitting on a front porch swing.  If you mention Phone Sex in the wrong crowd today, you’re going to get the crazy eye.  But how about some of these Strange or Taboo Fetishes to spice up your otherwise stale Fetish list…?

Agalmatophilia:

Mannequin Love – this term can apply to someone who’s in love, or having ‘relations’ with a mannequin, doll, or statue… talk about a Stiff.

Ursusagalmatophilia: Plushies or Furries –  This is the term for people who like to dress up in furry outfits and well, get their primal desires satisfied.  It’s a happy community, most of the outfits are intended to be cute and sweet. Awwww.

Partialism/Gas Pedal Honeys: – I’m very familiar with Foot fetish and shoe fantasies but some guys get up to speed simply by seeing images of lady’s high heels placed on the gas pedal?!

Salirophilia:  Get Dirty – Do you shower before sex?  Not if you’re into Salirophilia.  These dirty guys and gals get off on getting muddy, dirty, smearing makeup, food, and anything that makes for a messy scene.

Hybristophilia: Bad boys gone worse! – Most every girl had a crush on the bad boys in high school but if you are totally into Hybristophilia, you’re looking for love behind bars.  Many women even fall for guys serving out a life term for horrible crimes!

Claustrophilia: Tight places – This fetish is centered around me confined in a tight space, not necessarily bound, but just being in a small area like a box.

Odaxelagnia:

Bite Me – A little nibble goes a long way with this group.  They get aroused the more they bite or get bitten. Nibble Nibble!

Want to talk to me about these or any other Freaky Fetishes on your list?  Drop me a message and let me know!

 

NEWS: NYC High Line vs. NYC Fetish Festival 

I guess luxury-housing trumps a fetish festival in the Big Apple.  For those not familiar, the NYC High Line is a section of the old elevated New York City railroad that runs along the lower West Side of Manhattan, which was reconstructed and now is an “aerial greenway.”  This historic area will soon be the home of new high-end condos.  Unfortunately, due to the construction in the High Line community, the Folsom Street East Festival will be cancelled after 16 years. 

This event is “ the largest outdoor fetish street festival on the eastern coast, which brings thousands of sexy kinksters out onto the streets of New York City on a summer afternoon to celebrate sexual diversity and expression.The now-defunct Gay Male SM Activists (GMSMA) held the first Folsom Street East in 1997. Named after the famous Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco, the block party was an instant success, bringing our S/M-Leather-Fetish brothers and sisters together for a great celebration, while raising money to support worthy causes.”  I wonder if it’s BYOW, bring your own whip?

Sadly, it seems as though some New Yorkers are on board, and are welcoming the community building that will take place in the High Line neighborhood. Clearly there is a shortage of luxury cribs in NYC, riiiiiiiiight.  Fear not, there is a bright side to this story, looks as though the fetish fiesta might be making a comeback next year. No venues revealed, but don’t go throwing out your ass-less chaps and gimp masks yet. Folsom Street East announced on their website, “THANKS FOR 16 GREAT YEARS CELEBRATING SEXUAL FREEDOM WITH THE FOLSOM STREET EAST STREET FESTIVAL, AND WE HOPE TO SEE YOU BACK ON THE KINKY STREETS OF NEW YORK CITY IN 2014!”

I hope to see the Folsom Street East Festival back in action, let freedom ring!

NEWS: Who The Hell Could Replace Kelly Lebrock!?

Folks, your prayers have been answered! Word on the street is the 1985 hormone-fueled hilarious teen classic “Weird Science” is getting remade.  This John Hughes gem was totally ahead of its time, it quenched the thirst of so many horny teen boys that hadn’t seen a pair of titties in real life yet.   Screenwriter Michael Bacall has been given the go ahead to remake this sci-fi comedy.

For those of you that are too young, or have zero taste for quality cinema, this flick is about two teenage nerds (before nerds were cool) that knew they’d be waiting eons before they saw a chick naked. They decided to take matters into their own hands and create the sexiest woman that their nerdilicious brains could handle from their computer.  Seems far fetched and cheesy, and maybe it was, but if you were lucky enough to watch as a teen or preteen in ’85 it fueled the fire in your nether region and it most likely remains a fan favorite to this day! Kelly LeBrock played the computer generated babe, and I have to say she was absolute perfection so it’s going to be a feat to replace her, perhaps Jessica Biel!?

For the unfortunate few that have yet to see the original, and for the loyal fans of this 80’s legend: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B8dldLG_ZhI

NEWS: Cat Scratch Fever!

When women hit their 40’s they are placed into the “Cougar” category.  Seasoned, sensual women who rightfully want to hit da’ club, wear what they want, and bone younger men.  According to actress, Helen McCrory “More and more women are having relationships with younger men. It’s partly that women are not losing their figures now. They no longer feel it inappropriate to be sexual at 40 in the way many did 50 or 60 years ago.” I see women all the time that are 40+ that rock the apple bottoms, have abs of steel, and clearly have hearty sexual appetites. Bon appetite ladies!

McCrory currently plays a role where she is an older woman that is in love with a younger man, she believes this scenario is playing out more in real life.

Unfortunately there is a lingering stigma surrounding older women preying on the youthful bologna pony, even though it’s pretty standard these days to see a 50-year-old man with a 30- year- old women.  A few examples come to mind: Alec Baldwin, Kelsey Grammar, Hugh Hefner, and the King of young peach, George Clooney.  These dudes are praised and it’s considered normal.  On the flipside Demi Moore received less than favorable media for dating a younger man. McCrory shares my sentiments and states there is a “deeply sexist” attitude towards the cougars from their male peers that are in the same position.   Haters gonna hate but I say to the cougars, “GET SOME!”  Do you agree that age ain’t nothing but number?

 

Article for Link: https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/celebritynews/9993173/Cougars-on-the-rise-because-women-look-better-in-their-40s-actress-Helen-McCrory-says.html#mm_hash

I Love Butterflies

By Sexy HypnoGirl

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Especially the kind I get in My stomach before I go on stage.

It’s a wonderful feeling. Knowing that in a moment all these people, that I see through the curtain, will look at Me. Mesmerized – stupefied. Hanging on to each word that I say as if their lives depended on it.

I’m the center of their universe. The men get warm cheeks and the women shiny eyes as they stare. And it makes Me feel so wonderful to hold them all in the palm of My hand. To be able to change their mood just by the sound of My voice or the movements of My body.

I have always loved to act. And I’m so happy that finally things have worked out, so that I can do it again.

Although I never thought about it back in Florida, where I used to be in lots of plays, acting has been a perfect playground for Me as a Domme. Through acting I have learned to never lose a beat – to always stay on top of situations and think fast if somethings goes wrong. Like when My co-actors forget their lines (I have that effect on people). My acting talent combined with My knowledge of psychology and hypnosis makes it virtually impossible to resist Me.

Talking about resisting. One sweet slave that has tried to run from Me many times he finally given in and is settling in nicely as one of My good boys. you see – that’s the way it always ends. When My sweet poison has entered your system, the world will seem more and more bland and dull to you until the day you finally let go and bow to Me. If you are reading this blog you are already starting to condition yourself for Me. The first little step, then the next and the next…

–Sexy HypnoGirl

NEWS: Sex Sells in Silicon Valley

Silicon Valley is filled with innovation, entrepreneurship, and sex workers! CNN unveiled that the Silicon Valley has a thriving sex industry, where women are charging up to $400-$500 per hour.  This makes total sense, the work obsessed young Internet moguls in the valley don’t have time to wine and dine, so dropping $500 on a wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am with a professional seems like the feasible route to take.

Don’t let these sex workers fool ya though, it must be something in the air over there, but they’re just as tech savvy as their rich clients. A few sex workers explained they’re accepting credit card transactions by utilizing Square, a credit card reader that attaches to your smartphone, the workers are registering it as a “consulting service”. I’m completely blown (pun intended) away by the business driven minds in the Valley!  Sounds like something we can incorporate into our own little world, huh?  😉

Some of these working women are becoming avid social media enthusiasts working in the sex industry too! “Everything I know about social media marketing I learned doing sex work,” sex worker Kitty Stryker told CNNMoney. “Currently I’m using Hootsuite a lot; I’m using Klout a little bit. I also use Twitter calendar, which is just this simple free thing, but it’s got very interesting analytics data.” I’m confident these women have some clients that could assist setting up their very own Facebook Business Page, LOL.
Article for Link: https://www.playboy.com/playground/view/up-in-smoke-silicon-valley-sex-workers

NEWS: Will You Be A Nipple Ink Trailblazer?

Okay so I thought anal bleaching was odd, but that is sooo last season. The up and coming cosmetic procedure is Nipple tattooing or “tittooing.” Tatting the nips is the new fashion trend in Liverpool, England. Europe is usually a few fashionable steps ahead of the U.S. but don’t fret I’m confident this service will be offered at your local tattoo parlor shortly!

This procedure was originally used during breast reconstruction but it seems now women are having the tittooing done to make their nipples darker, rounder, and larger! WAIT, as a woman I thoroughly enjoy my pink nipples, and when did silver dollar size nipples become popular again?

Gary Proudman, a clinician who’s an avid tittooer states:

“A lot of people want their nipples made darker. It’s the fashion. Some people think theirs are too pink or their boyfriends want them done. I think sometime they are doing it because they are conscious of them being pale and they think it’s fashionable to have dark nipples. They’ll look at the magazines and page 3 and unfortunately a lot of it might be peer pressure. The girls get them done so they can go topless and not be embarrassed, or when they’re in a changing room and getting changed. They can go on holiday in front of their partners, go for massages, spray tans and just not be conscious of their body.”

The process takes 2 hours and costs $2k, and lasts from 1 year to 18 months. I think at that price I’d use a magic marker.  For those who love tattooing though, this just might make sense!

 

 

Link to Article: https://perezhilton.com/cocoperez/2013-04-17-nipple-tattooing-tittooing-is-the-latest-cosmetic-trend/?from=tease_perezhilton#.UW_vyBxZcc8

NEWS: I think ‘doing’ the robot is back in!

Robots have been around for decades, a fascinating invention that is still exciting but in the same breath, pretty old school. You’ve got R2-D2 from Star Wars, Johnny5 from Short Circuit, and of course Pixar’s beloved WALL-E.  I could nerd-out and name many more but let’s just get back to the subject at hand.

There are tons of reasons why robots were invented; they can’t call into work because of a massive hang-over and I’m sure they’re much more efficient than a human, just to name two. However, I do not believe robots were invented to do the nasty with humans.  Just my personal opinion.

The Huff Post and YouGov conducted a survey to find out how people felt about a significantly robot friendly future. The survey shows that a healthy number of Americans have no qualms about robots assisting with the dreaded tasks of household chores and driving our cars and some said they were even okay with robots helping fight in our wars. The high percentages fell with questions pertaining to robots helping with the elderly and having sex with humans, naturally (thank god).

To sum up the survey: 33% said they wouldn’t mind having a robot servant, 46% percent stated they were okay with robots driving cars, and 9% said they would be open to bonking a robot! The survey went so far as to ask people if they thought having sex with a robot would constitute cheating.  They responded and 42% percent are on the fence with that!

I’m not judging the 9% at all! I’ve had my share of lovers that were pretty robotic in the sheets, so if had the chance to try out robot love I’d definitely want my first session to be with Michael Fassbender’s character, David in Prometheus, daaaaaayyuuuum.

Go to the Huff Post to review the whole survey.

The thought of all this robot love has gotten me a little hot and bothered.  Until that day in the future though I think we can stick to some of the offerings right here at NiteFlirt to satisfy a fantasy or two.  😉

 

Greedy Money Bitch

By Intoxicating Isabelle

What’s Up Money Pig?

Are you just a lonesome sad little piggie?  Are you lusting after your Greedy Money Bitch lover’s body?  You know that everything comes with a price with a Financial Domination Phone sex bitch like me, don’t you?
No… You expect to pay for something that is as priceless as a Greedy Money Bitch with a sexy, smoking hot body.  You would do anything just to be in my presence…
You know that you could never deserve a woman such as me.
You have probably lusted after women like me from afar for as long as you can remember.

You can even probably remember the plethora of times you have tried to buy the affections of a gorgeous woman only to be laughed at or petted like a pathetic dog.

You have learned to accept your place: a stupid money pig phone sex slave that was meant to serve only the strictest and meanest of women.

You Are A Human ATM Slave
This is why you stand now broken, worthless and useless before your Greedy Money Bitch Mistress, ready to beg and plead to serve me.  You know that I do not NEED or even WANT your money, but your financial domination is the price you must pay to be offered a spot as my obedient money pig.
I find it mildly amusing to use you like some sort of human ATM slave.  You are nothing more than another credit card for me to pamper and spoil myself like the financial domination phone sex Queen that I am.
You will only find pleasure in being used for the money in your wallet.  You will take on extra jobs and tasks just so that you can keep your Greedy Money Bitch happy.  You will work endlessly for only minutes of my time and in those minutes you will be complete and happy.
Come now my obedient money slave phone sex boy and get ready to be used by your Greedy Money Bitch.  I have a Wish List  that needs some attention too!
Ciao,
Isabelle