Tag: sex

Study Finds (Just the Right Amount of) Sex Will Make You Happy

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_havingsexThe link between sex and happiness has been well established. Like that famous study which found that increasing the frequency of sex from once a month to once a week increased happiness to the same extent as having an extra $50,000 in the bank! But as it turns out, this study and others like it are missing a very important piece to the sex/happiness theory: what’s more important, quantity or quality? A new study conducted at Carnegie Mellon University sought to answer this.

The study asked 64 straight couples to double the amount they fucked each week and then to fill out a series of questionnaires ranking how happy they were. What the study found, somewhat surprisingly, was that more sex did not equal more happiness—in fact, the participants were less happy, especially in terms of the quality of the sex and their energy and enthusiasm. One of the study’s researchers, Dr. Loewenstein, had this piece of advice as the takeaway for the experiment: concentrate on quality rather than quantity if you want to increase your happiness. It’s about pleasure, not frequency; those who like the sex they’re having will want to have it more, which will (obviously) help their mood.

Feel like increasing your happiness? We are all about quality experiences here!

Check out more about the study here.

What “The Overnight” Gets Right About Swingers

Screen Shot 2015-07-08 at 3.23.26 PMThe Overnight, a new movie about swingers, is a hilarious and boundary-pushing departure from Hollywood’s usually prudish attitude toward kinky sex. It has nudity, a huge prosthetic dick, up-close shots of butt-holes, and, of course, swingers swinging. So now, a swinger and author of a book on “The [swinging] Lifestyle,” Daniel Stern, is weighing in on what the film gets right about swinger culture.

First, it’s set in SoCal, which is known for being particularly swinger-friendly: “It is realistic that they would set it in L.A., from my experience, because it’s very active out here. There’s a lot of stuff going on any day of the week,” Stern says. The movie also shows the couples fooling around while their children are asleep, which is something Stern says is realistic since many couples start swinging shortly after having kids to spice up their sex lives. And the hot guy-on-guy and girl-on-girl sex in the film is something you can definitely find as a swinger (mainly on the internet), if you’re into that.

Feel like having some naughty fun with us? We’re all about spicing it up here!

Check out the trailer for The Overnight!

6 Pieces of Furniture Ranked By Difficulty of Having Sex on Them

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Distractify came up with a comprehensive (and brilliant!) study about the difficulty of getting it on on 13 common pieces of household furniture. Some are silly (a lamp), while others are surprising (it’s harder to fuck in the shower than it is on a toilet). Check out some highlights of the list (and see the entire thing below):

6. Rocking Chair
Even though this seems like it would be the perfect piece of furniture to have sex on (like a sex swing but on the ground), it is surprisingly unruly.
5. Kitchen Counter
While movies would have you believe that the kitchen counter is the hottest place in the house to get it on, one attempt at it will prove Hollywood a big fat liar. Sadly, its hard surface and sharp edges make it unsustainable for a long fuck fest. But it’s still great for foreplay!
4. Shower
Distractify: “A shower is basically a formation of vertical, slippery surfaces upon which you desperately cling for the hope of some traction, but in the end one person always ends up being unable to breathe because they’re under the stream of water, and the other person is exhausted from trying to cling to the tiles.”
3. Toilet
The toilet doesn’t scream romance, and for good reason: the lid’s often loose, the water’s an obstacle, etc. etc.
2. Desk
This one’s a classic—and so hot! The only drawback: the clean-up afterward, since you’ll inevitably be sweeping everything onto the floor in a mad fit of passion!
1. Gliding Foot Rest
Distractify again: “The single greatest piece of furniture to ever be utilized for a romantic occasion…What we once called “doggy style” the foot rest has transformed into a thing of grace. What was once “the missionary”? Now a mesmerizing sexual ballet.”

Feel like utilizing some common household items yourself? We are all about “mesmerizing sexual ballets” here!

Check out the full list!

The Internet Weighs In On What Makes Someone Great at Sex

jean_koulevBuzzFeed recently asked their readers an important and often debated question: what makes someone great at sex? And from that seemingly simple question, BuzzFeed compiled the answers into a list called “21 Sex Tips That Aren’t Bullshit.” They insist that the list is NOT “a rolodex of sex positions, above-average genitalia, or decades of experience,” but rather an honest response from real, sexual humans on what they value from someone who is very good in bed. Here are some highlights (check out the full list, complete with sexy/silly gifs, below):

  1. Worshipping someone’s body
    Treating someone’s body as the best thing you have ever experienced is perhaps the ultimate indicator of how good you are in bed.
  2. Speaking up during sex
    Someone who’s willing to tell you what they like and dislike or what feels amazing is definitely a turn on!
  3. Being honest about orgasms
    The internet’s advice: stop faking orgasms! One woman says instead of faking it, “Mov[e] your hips or guid[e] them with your hand or moans [to] turn them into great lovers…” Great advice!
  4. Sharing a kink
    Kink is sexy—why not let your partner in on yours?!
  5. Focus on the pleasure, not the end-goal
    Taking the pressure off of cumming really allows you to just focus on the pleasure and enjoy yourself in the moment.
  6. Taking your time
    Don’t rush the foreplay! Have fun and don’t forget all the steps that lead up to the amazing main event: lip biting, earlobe nibbling, grinding—the possibilities are endless!
  7. Being up for anything
    “Being open-minded to trying new things but also knowing the definitive boundaries for each person.” —Alexis Ferguson (Facebook)

Want to have a great sexual experience yourself? We are all about focusing on the pleasure and having a good time here!

Check out BuzzFeed’s “21 Sex Tips That Aren’t Bullshit”

The Most Hilarious Sexual Phrases in Romance Novels

cosmic_banditaWhile writers are known for their creativity, romance writers in particular are known for their ridiculouscreativity when it comes to describing sex (ahem, Fifty Shades of Grey, anyone?). So blogger John Ferri decided to compile lists of the most absurd, hilarious sexual descriptions he found in his wife’s romance novels. Here are some of the gems:

Romance Novel Epithets for the Cock
  1. Rigid source of heat
  2. Engorged flesh
  3. Iron-hard tumescence
  4. Love’s sweet arrow
  5. Plenipotentiary instrument
  6. Molten member
  7. Torrid extension
Romance Novel Epithets for the Pussy
  1. Damp, most needy place
  2. Fiery furnace
  3. Most treasured pearl of passion
  4. Glistening portals of her womanhood
  5. Molten need
Romance Novel Descriptions of Sex
  1. Impaling her on his straining shaft
  2. Plunging hotness penetrated
  3. Possess the lily
  4. Embalming injection
  5. Love’s sweet lava flowed
  6. Staccato spasms
  7. Burned to a cinder

Wow. Some of those descriptions sound dangerous! We don’t know about “writhing with burning caresses” but we would definitely be up for some “lightning bolts of fulfillment!”

Check out more hilarious sexual phrases from romance novels here!

The New “Smart” Sex Toy That Will Transform Your Sex Life

Screen Shot 2015-06-18 at 2.52.11 PMEverybody knows about amazing modern devices that allow us to enhance and improve our lives in exciting new ways. But what if we told you that a new “smart” sex toy is aiming to transform people’s sex lives in equally exciting ways? Introducing the Lovely, the wearable that is basically like a Fitbit for your cock. You wear it during sex, and not only does it act like a vibrating cock ring—great for stimulating the clit as well as enlarging the penis—but it also can track your sexual activity!

This means that it can track the number of thrusts or calories burned, to the intensity of the sex. And, according to the device’s designers, it can help you to “have even better sex next time” by recommending different sex positions and personalized advice depending on your tastes, kinks, and how you like to get it on. But best of all: the device isn’t just for straight couples. One rep of the Lovely says, “You can put this wearable on a dildo, you can put it on your fingers, you can use it on a toy on yourself.” Well, how lovely!

Want to have some “personalized” fun with us? We are all about stimulating and innovative experiences!

Check out more about the Lovely here.

An Orgy For People With Disabilities

1465053692_37e1d45f37_mOne thing you maybe never thought of when it comes to attending a massive sex party: is it wheel chair accessible? Well now a Toronto sex party calling itself the first accessible orgy for people with disabilities has that and much more. The event is called “Deliciously Disabled” and its aim is to both throw a great sex party and to create an empowering space for people with disabilities.

Deliciously Disabled is a masquerade ball that will include a sex toy workshop, a swinging orgy, and, of course, hydraulic lifts for wheelchairs. One of the event’s organizers explains it like this: “this event is about providing access to People living the experience of disability to be part of an experience they are so often denied. This event is about putting disability and agency over one’s body at the forefront.” The disabled-friendly orgy wants to show that people with disabilities are sexual beings who enjoy getting frisky and freaky: “Hey, we’re here and many of us enjoy sex just like everybody else…I think that it’s important that people realize that sexual expression is a human right,” another organizer said.

Want to have some group fun with us? We’re all about inclusive sexual experiences here!

Check out more about Deliciously Disabled here!

This New Game-Changing Female Condom Has It All

Screen Shot 2015-06-18 at 2.36.26 PMThe latest female condom, the VA w.o.w. Condom Feminine, has changed the condom game in profound new ways. It’s latex and customizable, it vibrates, and even has blue-tooth capabilities! And with the Condom Feminine’s built-in miniature bullet vibrator which sits nicely against the clit, it’s the first ever condom designed for both safety and pleasure.

Created by Ixu, the Condom Feminine is part of the new wave of condoms that aims to revolutionize safe sex by making condoms that are both functional and pleasure enhancing. And since the focus for making a condom that feels really really good is mostly centered around male condoms, the Condom Feminine has an opportunity to change the perception of the female condom for the better. The only female condom approved by the FDA in 2009, the FC2, was harshly criticized for “its lack of effectiveness, desensitizing material and garbage bag sound effects during sex.” IXu’s Brian Osterberg said, “Unfortunately, the FC2 has given the female condom a bad name. We’re trying to reverse that image and that mindset.”

We’re all about safe sex options that actually enhance sex! Come have some game-changing experiences with us!

Check out more about new technologies and innovations in safe sex here.

Money-Shots in 3-D at Cannes

3900638598_7023bbe4cf_qIf you thought porn couldn’t get any better, imagine seeing it in 3-D. That’s what audiences at Cannes wanted to experience first-hand with filmmaker Gaspar Noé’s groundbreaking film, Love, the first ever 3-D porn. He promised to “give guys erections and make girls wet,” and tempted audiences with his racy movie posters of ejaculating cocks.

The film’s described as an erotic art house flick, so not only are the 3-D shots visceral and interactive, but the shots are also beautifully shot, with candle-lit fellatio and sex scenes. The plot is mainly about a fraught and sexy ménage à trois, but let’s be honest, what the people came to see was the 3-D sex scenes. In one scene, an image of a huge cock cascades toward the audience, cumming (literally) at them! And the group masturbation scenes are even more realistic and intense in 3-D. Whatever critics ultimately decide about the film, we could only guess that porn enthusiasts everywhere will want to check out this groundbreaking work of adult entertainment.

Love, Cumming To a Theater Near You (Literally)! Want to have some interactive and intense experiences with us? We can guarantee a groundbreaking good time right here!

Check out some clips of the movie!

This Man Has Two Penises and He Knows How to Use Them

Screen Shot 2015-06-03 at 2.45.56 PMRecently a man with two fully functioning cocks sat down to answer some curious peoples’ questions on Reddit’s “Ask Me Anything” Q&A page. The man went by “DoubleDickDude,” or DDD for short, and explained that he has a rare congenital condition that causes him to have two sex organs. But while his condition is rare and definitely freaky, he enjoys having two dicks, which he says are both 6 inches long, with one that gets as large as 7 inches when he’s really turned on!

He’s a bisexual, and though women have had mixed reactions to his two cocks, he says that men love it. He’s currently in a relationship with both a man and a woman, and he’s allegedly been able to fit both of his dicks inside a woman at the same time! “[It went] very nicely. She complained later though… [But] she kept coming back for more at least for three months,” he said. While having two cocks has had its frustrations, like when he goes commando (which is almost always) the seam of his pants can get in the way of his two cocks each taking its own side, he’s happy with his two gifts!

We guess you could say he’s doubly blessed! Come get wild and freaky with us!

Check out Huffington Post‘s article and photo of his cocks (Disclaimer: what’s seen cannot be unseen!).