Sexperts Recommend Sexually Fantasizing To Keep Your Relationship’s Spark Alive

frustrated coupleSex toy company Lovehoney recently surveyed 4,500 people about their sexual fantasies, and the findings are giving sexperts important insights about what keeps a relationship staying lusty. It seems a surprising number of men and women fantasize about having sex with an ex-partner, which according to professionals, is actually very healthy. “Fantasies allow monogamous couples to get all the pleasure of ‘new’ sex without the pain of broken hearts and relationship,” an expert said.

Sexperts are also saying that planning fun activities and acting on sexual urges no matter how preoccupied you might be are the ingredients to maintaining a satisfying sex life long-term. “Lust is primitive, wild and edgy. We need risk and a hint of danger to continue to see our partners as sexual beings,” one expert said. The most important thing is just to make time for regular sex—whether it’s a quickie or a long, luxurious fuck-fest, be sure to get it on with your partner!

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Check out more about how to keep your sex life hot here: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4601894/Expert-shares-sex-tips-spark-alive-couples.html

4 Kink Tips For Women to Ring in Your 4th of July

womandominatingmanLadies, do you want to let your kink flag fly? Many women want to experiment with kink, but aren’t sure where to begin. If you’re new to kinky play, here are some handy tips for your next sexual adventure.

  1. Kinky sex is different for everyone
    Kink is an umbrella term that includes everything from BDSM, fantasy, sensation, fetish play, sex toys, and so much more. Try some things you’re curious about and see how it feels for you. Just “play!”
  2. Communication is key
    This is true for any sexual activity, but it’s especially important during kinky play. Be sure to share what you’re comfortable with and talk about any inhibitions beforehand. Always express your limits when stepping outside your own sexual comfort zone.
  3. Do your research
    Masturbate and explore your fantasies before you act on them with a partner. Read books, take a sex workshop, talk to people—in other words, explore kink and be creative! Think outside the box when getting freaky!
  4. Practice sex play and embrace novelty
    As with everything, you’ll get better at it the more you do it. Variety is the spice of life—be open to trying new things.

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Check out more kink tips for ladies here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/8-things-every-woman-should-know-before-trying-kink_us_59494c04e4b07d3e35d88f44

6 Of The Kinkiest Sex Confessions Ever

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sexual_dominatrixSure, you’ve done some kinky stuff before. But we’re willing to bet these sex confessions are some of the kinkiest you’ve ever heard! From piss enemas to anal centipedes to piss-exhibitionism, these are the naughtiest, dirtiest things people have done during sex ever!

  1. The piss enema
    “My master put in an anal speculum and opened it up all the way. After he came in my ass, he gave me a piss enema and peed inside of me. I came super hard from it.” Whatever turns your on!
  2. Anal centipede
    “I experimented with an ass-eating train including around 10 people. Not bad at all. I also experimented with putting grapes up my ass and eating them.” It’s like that movie—but kinkier!
  3. The piss bucket
    “This year my boyfriend wanted to branch out and try new things. He took off my clothes and made me kneel on the ground, then he invited some people over and they used me as a piss bucket. After that they jacked off onto my face. Then my boyfriend fucked me in front of them.” Annnnd: this wins the kinky award!
  4. The stranger’s car
    “My girlfriend and I have a thing for sex outside. Over the summer we’ve checked off quite a few places. There’s been a police station, alleyway, and waterfront, but the sexiest place was on a city street during nightclub hours. We found a small car lot. Cunnilingus never felt better onlooking passersby from upside-down on the hood of a stranger’s Audi.” Naughty!
  5. The toy drawer
    “I told him to choose a surprise from my toy drawer. Sixty seconds later, I had a leash and collar around my neck, a vibe in my vagina, and his dick in my ass. I’ve never had a more intense orgasm.” Surprise!
  6. Slut collar
    “I wore a vibrating anal plug for the whole day, turning it on at random times no matter where I was or what I was doing. Another time I also wore a slut collar while being spanked with a paddle that left the impression of the word ‘slut’ on my ass.” You’ve been very naughty today!

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Check out more of the kinkiest sex confessions ever: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/do-not-put-vodka-in-a-vagina

Couple’s X-rated Thrill Ride Caught On Camera

thumbsupA motorist in Moscow is giving new meaning to the art of multi-tasking. He and his female partner were filmed having sex while driving down a highway! The talented driver pulled off the impressive, x-rated stunt in a Hyundai traveling at 45 mph.

The XXX scene was filmed from another car on the road and posted to a major Russian social network. The report said the man was driving his Hyundai while being “attentive to his partner at the same time.” Ironically, the Hyundai motto is “New Thinking, New Possibilities,” which really seems to fit with the driver and his thrill-seeking accomplice (she can be seen in the video riding him reverse cowgirl as he attempts to drive). Luckily, the man managed to avoid an accident.

Looking for something thrilling yourself? Unstrap your seat belt and get ready for the ride of your life!

Check out more about a couple fucking while driving down a highway here: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4572894/Couple-s-X-rated-exchange-driving-MOTORWAY.html

Here’s What People Are Saying About This Oral Sex Toy That Looks Like a Windmill

1435975150441.cachedLadies, have you ever fantasized about a sex toy that would simulate head? If so, we bet you never expected it to look like the Sqweel 2, an oral sex toy made by Lovehoney. Its recently become the subject of much internet discourse—mainly because it looks like a windmill made of tongues!

As one Twitter user quipped, “there’s no way this sex toy, meant to simulate oral, was designed by a woman.” Another responded with, “speak for yourself, I exclusively date paddleboats.” Turns out, Sqweel 2 definitely was invented by a man, who defended his medieval waterwheel by saying that it “got a great response from female testers” and to not “knock it till you’ve tried it.” Surprisingly, a lot of reviewers have said it was “oddly accurate” and “clit lapping heaven.” But it still only has a 3.5 star rating because, according to the negative reviews, it was “Like having oral with a tired husband” and “Felt more like I was abusing myself with a balloon whisk.”

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Check out more about the oral sex toy that looks like a windmill: https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliareinstein/paddleboat-me-harder-baby

Where To Find The Best Lesbian Porn

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_kissingConsidering how popular lesbian porn is, it’s a mystery why most of it isn’t made for queer women. Thankfully, BuzzFeed has some tips—courtesy of real queer women—about where to find authentic lesbian porn. Here’s what they said (hint: skip the videos with long fingernails!).

  1. Get specific in that search bar
    Don’t be shy about searching for specific things you like to see in your favorite videos. And if you’re looking for realism, try searching for the words “real lesbian orgasm.”
  2. Seek out queer directors and follow their work
    There’s plenty of queer women porn directors out there who are the real deal. Some favorites include Jiz Lee, Courtney Trouble, and Erika Lust, who recently did a series where people wrote to her about their fantasies and she turned them into films!
  3. Likewise for queer porn stars
    “I’ve watched videos starring Lily Cade because she’s actually a lesbian. Find actors that are actually queer and the porn will be better and more realistic.” Good advice!
  4. Explore kink!
    There’s all types of new kinks and subcategories to tickle your fancy! Check out the plethora of queer, realistic BDSM and really explore what turns you on.
  5. Use social media
    Be sure to follow people in the know to see what they’re watching and use social media to further your search. Now, go forth—and search!

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Check out more tips about where to find the best lesbian porn: https://www.buzzfeed.com/skarlan/we-asked-queer-women-where-they-find-lesbian-porn-thats

6 Steamy Stories About Makeup That Stayed On During Crazy-Good Sex

15929936930_14a78eca47_mLooking to get the most bang for your fuck? Look no further than these sex-endorsed beauty products! Whether you’re facedown on a pillow for hours or giving the best blow job ever without smudging that perfect red lipstick, this is the best sex-proof makeup on the market.

  1. Kylie Lip Kit, perfect lipstick for blow jobs
    “I went over to suck my FWB off. Even after the 30-minute-long blow job that got pretty messy, it was still in place! No need to reapply before I left. No one could tell that I was just sucking the life out of some guy.”
  2. Anastasia Beverly Hills Dipbrow Pomade, to help you avoid that awkward postcoital convo about where the hell your eyebrows went
    “I was getting screwed mercilessly by not one, but TWO guys in a session that lasted a little over three hours, spanning several vehicles and rooms of the house on a steamy 76-degree night. And my eyebrows were STILL on fleek!!! My face was getting shoved into pillows, sofa arms, and body parts, and somehow I made it out alive with both eyebrows still intact.” Now that’s a ringing endorsement!
  3. CoverGirl Lash Blast Waterproof Mascara, for when you’re facedown for hours
    “I was facedown moaning into his pillow for probably two hours with this mascara on, and when I sat up to return the favor, not even a nut on the face could make this heavy duty mascara budge.” Shut up and take our money!
  4. Wet N Wild Color Icon Bronzer, to complement your O-face glow
    “I rode that dick all night, and then he fucked my pussy up by eating me out! I had pools of sweat coming off my face, but no makeup!” So that’s why there’s a glow after!
  5. Benefit Cosmetics Goof Proof Brow Pencil Easy Shape & Fill, great for bukkake
    “My man licked all over my face and came on it and my brows didn’t even smudge.” Better than a good old-fashioned facial!
  6. NYX HD Studio Finishing Powder, won’t betray your midday BDSM proclivities
    “I try to keep my base as light as possible and then set it with the NYX Translucent Setting Powder. That stuff keeps my face on, even through rough sex in the humid summer.” Gotta keep it light when you’re getting rough!

Looking for a mind-blowing experience that’ll last and last? Come to NiteFlirt when you’re feeling yourself!

Check out more sex-endorsed beauty products here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/patricepeck/18-sex-proof-beauty-products

Strip Club Claimed Dancers Were Therapists To Skirt $3.1 Million In Taxes

Copy-of-Stripper_on_a_Pole_svgIt’s true exotic dancers perform an important service to their customers, but can anyone call it “therapeutic”? That’s what one Manhattan strip club claimed when trying to finesse their way out of a hefty tax bill. In an attempt to skirt $3.1 million in state taxes, the strip club claimed its dancers were providing therapy to customers, and not just entertainment.

According to the New York Daily news, the owners of the Penthouse Executive Club unsuccessfully argued that they shouldn’t have to pay taxes because its dancers provided services not unlike a massage therapist or a sex therapist. The owners told a state tax tribunal, “what is provided in its clubs is not entertainment, but rather a non-taxable service similar to a therapeutic massage conducted in a sensual manner or personal services provided by a sex therapist.” Unfortunately, the tribunal didn’t agree—but maybe that’s because they don’t frequent enough strip clubs?

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Check out more about the strip club that claimed its dancers were therapists to skirt a tax bill: https://consumerist.com/2017/05/08/strip-club-claimed-dancers-were-therapists-to-skirt-3-1m-in-state-taxes/

5 Secrets Sex Shop Workers Want You To Know

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Let’s face it, sex shop workers have a wealth of knowledge. They’ve seen it all and they’ve heard it all about the latest, kinkiest, best sex toys out of there. Here are 5 secrets they want you to know.

  1. No matter how wacky you think your kink or fetish is, they’ve had folks request it before
    You might think you’re all alone on Planet Kinkster, but there’s nothing sex shop workers haven’t heard before. “We hear, ‘Am I normal for wanting ___?’ all the time, and as long as whatever you’re doing or want to do is between two consenting adults or a solo activity, the answer is absolutely!”
  2. If there’s something new you want to try but don’t know where to start, just ask
    Whether it’s BDSM, a fisting toy, or getting info about anal play, always ask the sexperts.
  3. Be prepared to share
    “We are experts on the products we sell and you are the expert on your body, so together, we can work together to find a product you’ll really love.” Perfect!
  4. They’re not nymphomaniacs and they don’t have after-hour orgies
    While they might know a thing or two about local parties and scenes, the stereotype that all sex shop workers are hyper-sexual is just not true…for everyone.
  5. A lot of shops have classes you can take advantage of
    Think of it like sex ed—that’s actually helpful! They cover pleasure-based sexual education to help you discover what really turns you on.

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Check out more secrets sex shop workers want you to know: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/sex-toy-shop-secrets

Porn In 2007 Vs. Porn In 2017

LetsTalkSexPornhub recently celebrated its 10th birthday, so to mark the occasion it released statistics on how porn has changed in the last decade (spoiler alert: a lot!). It found that the top three categories of all time are Amateur, Gay, and Blowjob, with Amateur remaining a big hit since Pornhub’s launch in 2007. Teen is also a popular category, but MILF has stayed popular longer, reigning supreme as the most searched category from 2012 to 2014.

But in 2015, the Lesbian category rose through the ranks to the top spot and has yet to be out-searched. Other interesting data: back in 2007, the average user would spend a grand total of 13 minutes and 46 seconds watching porn, while in 2017 the average user spends four minutes less time on the site, thanks to broadband internet. The site has also gone from 134 hours of uploaded porn to a whopping 476,000 hours of video. All that porn should make for some good celebrating!

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Check out more about porn in 2007 vs. porn in 2017: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/this-is-how-porn-has-changed-in-the-last-10-years