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This Is The Amount Of Sex You Have, According To Your Age

Image Source: Flickr.com | Richard FosterA recent study claims to know how much sex you are having—just by looking at one piece of information. It turns out one of the main predictors for how often you get off is your age. Not surprisingly, those who are getting the most action are younger people, aged 18 to 29, who have sex an average of 112 times a year, or twice weekly.

In your 30s, you get laid slightly less, with 86 times a year or 1.6 times a week. Unfortunately, it seems 40 to 49-year-olds have half the amount of sex of their 20-something counterparts, with 69 (a very good number!) fuck fests a year. Researchers say the takeaway is to be proactive about health and well-being, all throughout life—especially when it comes to your sex life.

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Check out more about the study that shows how much sex you have depending on your age: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4799612/The-sex-having-according-age.html

These Are The Types Of People Who Are Having The Best Sex

A recent study published in Scientific American found that being a little obsessed with sex may lead to being less satisfied in bed. Individuals who exhibit what researches call “obsessive sexual passion”—which is defined as having an urgent need for sex and immediate gratification—tend to enjoy sex less. The study recommends a “harmonious” approach to sex rather than an obsessive one, where people incorporate sexuality into other parts of their lives.

sexy-scientistWhile passion is still important, participants who were seen to embody harmonious sexual passion showed greater control over their sexual desires, and had less sexually intrusive thoughts. For those who showcased obsessive sexual passion, long-term, satisfying relationships were harder to achieve. According to the study, the key to enjoying sex more is to harness passion in ways that bring joy to all aspects of your life.

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Check out more about the types of people who enjoy sex the most: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/07/165306/how-to-have-best-sex

Women Reveal The Specific Moves That Make Them Cum

Photo via Conceived Brooklyn
Photo via Conceived Brooklyn

A recent study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy examined the different types of clitoral stimulation that makes women cum. Researchers partnered with OMGYes and asked women a variety of questions about female pleasure. They found that 36 percent of women need clitoral stimulation to cum, with another 36 percent saying that don’t need it but it definitely makes an orgasm much more intense.

As far as they types of touch women prefer to achieve orgasm, there’s a huge range in terms of what gets women off. Researchers asked very specific questions about the amount of pressure (light to medium and hard), the motion (side to side, up and down, diagonal, circular, pulsating, etc.), and where they like to be touched (directly on the clit; around the clit). According to the study’s findings, two thirds of respondents preferred direct clitoral stimulation with most reporting that they also like stimulation just around the clitoris, and 51 percent like circular movement. In the end, the study encourages women to simply “go explore and see what you like.”

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Check out more about the study on female pleasure: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/straight-women-reveal-the-specific-movements-that-make-them-orgasm_us_59a43c7ee4b05710aa5dd83e

7 Kinky Sexual Fantasies

5624757405_1eebcbdd8c_zEveryone has a naughty sexual fantasy that gets them excited. And when it comes to exploring kink, using your imagination is always a good place to start. Here are 7 kinky sexual fantasies from real people who are turned on by BDSM.

  1. Submission
    “I just want to have some really wild, animalistic sex. Like shove me down and fuck me brutally. Call me a dirty bitch. Make me submit. Command me.” They like it rough!
  2. Sexually teased and orgasm control
    “A full BDSM scene: tied, restrained, in nipple clamps or sticks; being flogged, cropped, sexually teased and orgasm controlled.” Naughty naughty!
  3. Completely dominated
    “My fantasies always include choking/hard spankings/control/biting. I like it when I have no power.” We can see the appeal!
  4. Public sex
    “I want to have sex in a two-way mirror box in a busy public place, so that me and my partner can see outwards, but everybody else just sees a mirrored box.” Risque!
  5. Being forced into a locked room
    “I’ve always fantasized about a manager or security guard forcing me into the janitor closet and having their way with me. It really gets me going.” Sexy.
  6. Being submissive with a butt plug
    “I’m a very loud, dominant woman, and I like switching it in the bedroom.” If you can dream it, you can do it.
  7. Being submissive with a vibrator
    “I want to be on all fours while my mate ‘inspects’ me. Spreading, poking, investigating every crevasse of my body. Inserting things, vibrating when I’m not expecting it.” Kinky!

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Check out more kinky sexual fantasies: https://www.refinery29.com/sexual-fantasies#slide-42

This Is The Best Time Of Day To Have Sex

Image Credit: NASA
Image Credit: NASA

What if we told you there’s an optimum time of the day to have sex? Better start setting your clock, because according to a recent study, the best time to have sex is around 45 minutes after you wake up. The survey used data from 1,000 participants and found that 7:30am is the sweet spot for getting it on.

Researchers note that “energy levels are at their highest after a good night’s rest which means both sexes have more stamina.” Interestingly, sex is like exercise in that “the rush of endorphins sparked by sex lowers blood pressure and stress levels and makes us feel more upbeat for the rest of the day.” The survey adds that since male testosterone levels peak in the morning, guys last longer in bed—so be sure to start penciling in some good morning sex!

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Check out more about the best time of day to have sex: https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2017/08/10/best-time-of-day-sex_a_23073490/

Here’s How People Orgasm Around The World

cup-1010916_1920Ever wonder how people orgasm in different parts of the world? Thanks to a new survey from adult toy retailer Lelo you can find out what countries have the best, loudest, and most frequent orgasms. Here are the juicy results from 2,200 people polled across 21 countries.

  1. Norwegians have the most orgasms
    35% of Norwegian respondents claim they orgasm at least once a day—the global average is only two to three times a week.
  2. Brazilians are screamers
    Brazilians are easily the loudest in bed, with 65% of respondents saying they scream during sex.
  3. Italians, Spaniards, and Chileans cum the hardest
    Not surprisingly, these three “Romance” countries report the most intense orgasms.
  4. Brits cum a lot
    The stereotype that Brits are boring in bed has been laid to rest (pun intended): 11% of UK respondents claim they orgasm at least once a day, and 53% said their orgasms were sometimes loud, the highest in that category.
  5. Australians are some of the quietest cummers
    Over a third of respondents say they’re usually quiet in bed. What happened to the Thunder Down Under?
  6. Canadians need to start having better orgasms
    Sadly, 15% of Canadians have never even experienced an orgasm, and another 15% rate their orgasm intensity just a 1 out of 10. As BuzzFeed says, “Stop being so polite, Canada!”

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Check out more about how different countries orgasm: https://www.buzzfeed.com/tomvellner/heres-how-people-orgasm-around-the-world

This Disorder Causes You To Have Sex While You Sleep

Sex dreams are hot—especially if you wake up horny and have some good morning sex! But there’s a sleep disorder that causes some people to actually engage in sexual activity while they’re asleep: sexsomnia. Sexsomnia, AKA sleep sex, is similar to sleepwalking or sleep talking, and involves “inappropriate arousal” during the non-REM stage of sleep.

Screenshot 2016-05-11 09.33.19Someone with sexsomnia might grope, fondle, masturbate, or even fuck during this stage. While sleep sex might sound like fun, sexsomnia is actually a serious medical condition. Those with sexsomnia can’t remember the sex episodes, and it contributes to poorer sleep. So if you think you might actually be living out your erotic dream, go and talk to your doctor—you’ll rest easier.

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Check out more about sexsomnia: https://www.refinery29.com/what-is-sexsomnia-sleep-sex

Women Reveal What Makes A Great Sex Partner

Image Source: Flickr - 434picsWhat do women want when it comes to sex? Glamour Magazine has an answer, thanks to their Summer Of Sex series that asks real women what they like in bed. Here’s what they said when it comes to the things the best sex partners have in common.

First things first, women like good head: “They’re good with their mouths.” Besides oral sex and attentiveness (I.e, “they put me first”), they also said they like clear communicators who aren’t shy about asking for what they want and listening to what their sexual partner wants, “even if it’s kinky.” Not surprisingly, they also wanted someone with “a nice size”—but in general, “just a penis” seemed to fit the bill.

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Check out more about what women want when it comes to a great lover: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/are-you-good-in-bed_us_59a49a04e4b050afa90c3dd4

5 Tips From Phone-Sex Operators To Up Your Dirty Talk

Phone sex is hot. Whether you’re in a long distance relationship or just want someone to talk dirty to you, phone sex is an extremely fun and erotic way to get off—after all, the brain is the biggest sexual organ in the body. Here are detailed tips from professional phone-sex operators to help you perfect your dirty-talk game.

  1. Indulge in your fantasies
    One of the best things about phone sex is that you can really explore your fantasies. Try to set the scene with sensory details—imagine you’re telling your partner a sexy story; you want it to be super vivid.
  2. Plan beforehand
    Setting a phone sex date lets you get your head in the game. “It opens up an opportunity to talk about what you might want to explore, what phrases or words turn you on, and how to signal that you’re ready for phone sex to be over.”
  3. Read an erotic story
    This will let you say dirty things without the pressure of having to actually come up with them yourself.
  4. Don’t rush it
    Phone sex is the ultimate tease. You’re describing every touch and movement, so take your time and let the pressure build. It will drive your partner wild!
  5. Make sure your language is action-oriented
    “Shove that, shake those, grab and hold and twist, push it in, push it in — way in,” says a phone-sex operator. “That purr in your voice will be even breathier and insistent when you ask if [they] want you to spread wider, or clamp down like a vise.” Hot!

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Check out more tips from phone-sex operators about how to talk dirty: https://www.refinery29.com/2016/07/116151/phone-sex-tips-how-to-talk-dirty#slide-13

Man Wanted To Make a Baby During the Eclipse

One man had very specific plans for how he’d like to experience the total solar eclipse in Oregon: make a baby. He posted an ad on Craigslist to find a game partner willing to go on a “cosmic orgasmic” adventure with him. “If we have chemistry, I would like for us to make love while the eclipse is happening,” he writes.

Image Credit: NASA
Image Credit: NASA

But the real magic happens when totality occurs: “we will have simultaneous orgasms and we will conceive a child that will be on the next level of human evolution.” In order for this to happen, the man’s cock will need to be directed towards the sun, because “both of our cosmic orgasmic energy will be aligned with the planets.” So, ladies, if you’re down for some metaphysical fucking, you can experience a “brief moment of ecstasy”—but only if you like cats.

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Check out the man’s craigslist ad to make a baby during the eclipse here: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/08/167779/craigslist-ad-totality-eclipse-pregnancy