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Women and Men Talk About Their Sex Lives For Four Hours Every Month

18501126518_249aa0ec57_zWhat happens in the bedroom doesn’t usually stay in the bedroom, according to a new study. As it turns out, 76 percent of Americans talk about their sex lives with another person at least once a month. In fact, the average person spends around four hours per month sharing intimate details about their sexual encounters with friends.

The survey of 2,000 adults in long-term relationships found that the most frequently discussed topics were related to how good the sex was, how long it lasted, the setting of the encounter, and, not surprisingly, dick size. It also found that 37 percent of respondents are honest about the sex, while around 30 percent exaggerate their stories, either to cause jealousy or because they’re actually bored with their sex lives. Respondents said they dished on the sex mainly as a way to catch up with friends—literally about the most intimate details of their lives.

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Check out more about the study that shows most Americans talk about their sex lives: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5093811/People-spend-FOUR-HOURS-month-discussing-sex-lives.html

7 Stories About Encounters With Really Big Dicks

Image Source: Flickr.com | MattysFlicks
Image Source: Flickr.com | MattysFlicks

BuzzFeed asked their readers to share their most memorable encounters with big dicks. And man, did they deliver. Here are the best big dick stories they shared.

  1. “My high school boyfriend and I retired early to my tent where we commenced a hot and heavy petting session. After, he whipped out a very long, rock solid and extremely girthy penis. We spent the next ten minutes simply working on getting the tip in. It was exhausting and it definitely made me appreciate the wonders of lube.”
    Ah, lube—the miracle product!
  2. “We exchanged numbers and ended up developing a long distance relationship, and he sent me a dick pic that pretty much made me choke on my coffee. I was sure he’d break me in half. Unfortunately we broke things off before I was set to fly to see him for a weekend. That was the dick that got away.”
    There’s always that one dick you never forget!
  3. “When I pulled his boxers down his dick hit my forehead and I fucking almost choked on the thought of that thing in my throat. I don’t think I got more than an inch of that sucker in my mouth.”
    You win some, you lose some…
  4. “Ex-boyfriend was around 11 inches. He was a giant penis, so I guess it stood to reason he had one too.”
    The big dick with the big dick.
  5. “In college, I hadn’t seen many penises before, but I could barely get my mouth around it. When he tried to put it in only the tip fit. I found out later that he had been doing adult movies on the side to make some extra cash.”
    Of course!
  6. “I met a dude while I was working at a shoe store. He was embarrassed about his large shoe size, to which I said saucily, ‘well you know what they say about big feet’ with a wink. Fast forward. We start dating, and, man, did I find out how appropriate that joke was.”
    There’s some truth to every good joke, right?

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Check out more big dick stories: https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliegerstein/just-17-stories-about-encounters-with-really-big-penises

Inside Germany’s First Sex Doll Brothel

Germany has joined countries like Japan and Spain in offering a unique sex establishment: sex doll brothels. Bordoll is run by a young madam who operates a brothel and BDSM studio, which now offers clients the option of having sex with one of 11 silicon sex dolls. For $60 for 30 minutes or $90 for an hour curious customers can experience what it’s like to fuck a premium sex doll.

The madam estimates that 30 percent of guests just want to experience what it’s like to have sex with a doll, while 70 percent become regular customers, some of whom travel for miles just for the experience. “These are Next Top Model standard girls,” she boasts. “Most guys would be too intimated to approach a real woman if she looked this good.” She also explains that men like being able to act out their fantasies on a doll, describing the experience as “95 percent” like sleeping with a real women.

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Check out more about the first sex doll brothel in Germany: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/a37g7k/zu-besuch-in-deutschlands-erstem-sexpuppen-bordell

9 Songs You Should Never Listen To While Having Sex

frustrated coupleSome songs are great to listen to while getting your freak on. And some are definitely not. According to BuzzFeed, these are best examples of what never to turn on when you’re trying to get turned on.

  1. “Angel” by Sarah McLachlan
    Potentially erotic lyric: “It’s hard at the end of the day / I need some distraction / oh, beautiful release.”
    We’re all looking for that beautiful release at the end of the day, Sarah.
  2. “The Reading Rainbow Theme Song”
    Potentially erotic lyric: “Friends to know, and ways to grow…”
    Friends always know the way to grow.
  3. “Cotton Eye Joe” by Rednex
    Potentially erotic lyric: “his eyes was his tools and his smile was his gun / But all he had come for was having some fun.”
    Sounds like fun to me!
  4. “Jesus Take The Wheel” by Carrie Underwood
    Potentially erotic lyric: “Oh, take it from me / Oh, wow, oh.”
    Oh, wow, indeed!
  5. “You’ve Got A Friend In Me” by Randy Newman
    Potentially erotic lyric: “Just remember what your old pal said / Boy, you’ve got a friend in me.”
    The casual sex anthem, ladies and gentlemen!
  6. “She’ll Be Coming ‘Round The Mountain” (Traditional)
    Potentially erotic lyric:
    The whole song is basically a celebration of the female orgasm. Sex positivity!
  7. The Canadian National Anthem
    Potentially erotic lyric: “With glowing hearts / With thee rise.”
    We’re rising, too, Canada!
  8. “Seventy Six Trombones” from “The Music Man”
    Potentially erotic lyric: “They were followed by rows and rows of finest virtuosos / The cream of ev’ry famous band.”
    Mmm… cream…
  9. “Peanut Butter Jelly Time” by Chip-man & The Buckwheat Boys
    Potentially erotic lyric: “now freestyle, freestyle – freestyle / Freestyle, freestyle – your style.”
    Yeah! We love some freestyling in the bedroom!

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Check out Buzzfeed’s full list here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/daves4/crazy-frog-making-love?utm_term=.ydOVbQBjj#.xed7zx355

4 Sex Positions Inspired By The Holidays

sexyxmaswomanWe have the perfect thing for you to de-stress during the holidays: sex! Sex is the best way to take a break from the partying, fighting with family, and overeating. Here are 4 sex positions that you can use to have some great holiday sex!

  1. Toy Soldiers (aka Spooning)
    This one gets you all lined up in a row, like toy soldiers—very horny toy soldiers! Here, you lay in the spooning position, back to front, and let whoever’s in back lead by playing with your nipples and clit. This one’s perfect for when you’ve had too much to eat and drink!
  2. Ties Up In a Bow 
    This tricky position uses the pretty bow as its inspiration. Lay on your back and cross your legs over your partner’s chest, either at the knee or ankles, while they fuck you. The deep penetration this position offers is the best gift of all!
  3. The Spinning Dreidel (aka Bouncing Reverse Cowgirl)
    Bustle explains it this way: “It’s like reverse cowgirl except your feet are flat (or close to flat on the bed), so there can be more bouncing involved. You can face forward, back, side — or spin! OK, maybe don’t spin.”
  4. Christmas Wreath (aka Lotus)
    Take a break from the holiday chaos with this intense yet calm position: your partner sits cross-legged and you lower yourself onto them, wrapping your legs and arms around them into a tight wreath. Happy holidays!

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Check out more holiday-themed sex positions here: https://www.bustle.com/articles/197223-5-sex-positions-inspired-by-the-holidays

The Hottest Sex Happens In The First Year Of A Relationship, Study Finds

Image Source: Flickr.com | WillVisionIt seems the hottest sex you’ll have in a heterosexual relationship takes place in the first year. According to a new study, women in relationships are four times more likely not to care about an all-night fuck fest than those in shorter relationships. But the same isn’t true for men, who do not lose sexual interest over time.

The study, made by Southerampton University and based on 11,508 participants, found that women are especially disinterested in sex if they have “different sexual preferences to that of their partner.” This means that for women, the quality of their relationship and communication with their partner is very important to whether or not they want to get it on. “It highlights the need to assess and – if necessary – treat sexual interest problems in a holistic and relationship, as well as gender-specific, way,” researchers explain. So there you have it: good communication equals good sex.

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Check out more about the study on desire in relationships: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-4880686/Women-bored-having-sex-partner-1-YEAR.html#ixzz4scrZ6GGK

7 Tips For Orgies

feetIf you’ve ever had an orgy, we bet there’s a few things you wish you’d known beforehand. This is why members of the BuzzFeed community decided to give helpful tips for you to know before you go. Because let’s face it—orgies are never what they look like in porn.

  1. Don’t stress if it’s not what you expected.
    “Most of the time, 75% of the group is confused.” Just go with it!
  2. Don’t do something you’re not comfortable with. If you don’t want to be double-penetrated or jerked off or kissed, say so.
    Also, safe words are key.
  3. Stimulation overload can totally occur.
    As one single lady who recently went to swinger’s party said, “Don’t be hesitant to take a break if you need one.”
  4. Don’t let your defined sexuality get in the way.
    “Don’t be afraid to try something new. When there’s more than three people, inhibitions already don’t matter.” Anything goes at an orgy!
  5. Don’t get inside your head about what other people are seeing, doing, or thinking.
    Nobody is judging you if they’re there too.
  6. You’ll know pretty immediately if the orgy is a right fit for you, so trust your gut.
    “Most people who participate in an orgy are extremely open-minded. You’ll either decide immediately that it’s not for you, or you’ll just go with the flow and have a lot of uncomfortable laughs along the way.” Both are totally fine!
  7. If you’re feeling left out, make sure you communicate that.
    Remember that you’re in charge of your own experience at an orgy.

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Check out more tips for orgies: https://www.buzzfeed.com/spenceralthouse/sorry-mom-i-know-i-have-a-college-degree

7 Sex Pillows To Elevate Your Pleasure

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If you’re looking for a way to take your sex life to the next level, here’s a great way to do it: sex pillows. Sex pillows are specifically designed to give you the lift you need to maximize your pleasure. Here are the ones that’ll give you the best bang for your buck.

  1. Liberator BonBon
    This one’s perfect for solo play—you can mount your favorite vibrator or dildo to it and enjoy the ride! It’s firm enough to support you, hands-free.
  2. Liberator Wedge
    This basic sex pillow provides the perfect lift to aid in penetration and help you find your G-spot. As one porn star says, “Wedge pillows help to keep me feeling safe and secure while doing wild positions.”
  3. Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Position Master
    Specifically designed for BDSM, this pillow’s handles double as an effective place to attach straps for both ankle and wrist bondage.
  4. Liberator Ramp
    If you’re looking for a more intense experience, this ramp allows for even deeper positions. It’s also great for partners with extreme height differences.
  5. Toughage Soft Inflatable Sex Ramp Pillow
    “This sturdy pillow can withstand the most extreme positions, and also doubles as a toy-holder for solo vibrator action,” says Refinery29.
  6. Liberator Hipster
    The curviness of its design makes for optimal G-spot stimulation, and sex positions are virtually unlimited with the high and low lifts.
  7. Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Position Master With Cuffs
    The soft velvet pillow and hand-cuffs will allow you to achieve new angles while comfortably being restrained.

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Check out more of the best sex pillows: https://www.refinery29.com/best-sex-pillows#slide-12

7 Sex Horror Stories That Will Make You Say ‘OMG, Are They Okay?’

wtf-1780728_640BuzzFeed recently asked readers to share the most hilarious, horrific, and weird things that ever happened during an orgasm. And boy did they deliver! These hilarious sex horror stories will make you say “OMG” at the ridiculously unfortunate timing.

  1. Accidental threesome
    “One night, we were in missionary position with her legs up on my shoulders. Just as we were both in the throes of orgasm, her dog, who had apparently snuck up on the bed, jammed his cold little nose right up between my cheeks as I was finishing.” Bad boy!
  2. TIIIIMBEER
    “After a particularly intense session with my fiancé, I hopped off the bed to clean myself up and collapsed onto the floor. My legs were still shaky and not cooperating. He’s laughing, I’m laughing — then I pee myself.” Intense!
  3. Unexpected reaction
    “My boyfriend was going down on me for the first time and instead of having an orgasm, I had a full-blown panic attack. He had no idea what was going on and thought I was enjoying it, until I kicked him in the head.” When losing complete control goes wrong…
  4. Pleasure-pain
    “One time I had a VERY intense orgasm while using my vibrator, and ended up kneeing myself in the face which resulted in a very messy bloody nose. Still no regrets though.” I hope they teach kickboxing!
  5. The worst intruder
    “My girlfriend at the time was giving me a BJ. My dad opened the door and ended up staring me right in the eyes as I finished. Horrifying.” Just. The. Worst. Thing. Ever.
  6. After-O surprise
    “When my boyfriend and I were still in the early months of dating, we were doing it missionary style. Right after he came, he let out a huge fart.” Is it a compliment, like belching after a good meal?
  7. So good it makes you break into song
    “My then-boyfriend (current fiancé) made me orgasm so hard I started crying and singing “The Circle of Life” from Lion King. Still don’t know why a kid’s movie came to mind.” That was one powerful orgasm!

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Check out more sex horror stories: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/orgasm-horror-stories

People Who Have ‘Friends With Benefits’ Report Being Sexually Satisfied

adult-1822413_640A new survey of 1,000 Americans and Europeans gives surprising new insights into “friends with benefits” arrangements. As it turns out, women are more likely to have FWBs than men. Not only that, but people who have them are pretty satisfied with their sex lives—in fact, they’re more satisfied than people in relationships.

“51% of Americans in FWB arrangements said they were satisfied, 30% said they were only somewhat satisfied, and 19% said that they were dissatisfied,” reports Refinery29. In comparison, people in relationships rate their sexual satisfaction somewhat lower: 43% of Americans said they were satisfied, 26% were somewhat satisfied, and 31% were dissatisfied. Researchers of the study aren’t necessarily saying that FWBs is superior to relationships, but the survey does prove that casual sex can work very well for some people.

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Check out more about the study that shows people who have friends with benefits are sexually satisfied: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/11/179254/friends-with-benefits-statistics