Couples With A Good Sex Life Are More Likely To Cheat, Study Finds

oldsexThere’s a surprising reason your partner might cheat: you’re fucking them too good. A new study that followed 233 newly married couples for up to three and a half years found that having a good sex life may make your partner more likely to stray. “Researchers suggest that people who really enjoy sex are more likely to be unfaithful because they seek out sex with more partners,” reports Daily Mail.

The study also found that men with a hot wife were less likely to cheat than women with a more-attractive husband. Interestingly, attractive women were slightly more likely to remain faithful than less attractive women, while more attractive men were more likely to cheat. Not surprisingly, participants who had a “lingering eye” on an attractive person were 50 percent more likely to “play away” from home. The authors write: “With the advent of social media, and thus the increased availability of and access to alternative partners, understanding how people avoid the temptation posed by alternative partners may be more relevant than ever to understanding relationships.”

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Check out more about the study that finds couples with a good sex life are more likely to cheat: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5383289/Couples-good-sex-life-likely-cheat.html#ixzz57oGCe3N3

The Hottest Sex Happens In The First Year Of A Relationship, Study Finds

Image Source: Flickr.com | WillVisionIt seems the hottest sex you’ll have in a heterosexual relationship takes place in the first year. According to a new study, women in relationships are four times more likely not to care about an all-night fuck fest than those in shorter relationships. But the same isn’t true for men, who do not lose sexual interest over time.

The study, made by Southerampton University and based on 11,508 participants, found that women are especially disinterested in sex if they have “different sexual preferences to that of their partner.” This means that for women, the quality of their relationship and communication with their partner is very important to whether or not they want to get it on. “It highlights the need to assess and – if necessary – treat sexual interest problems in a holistic and relationship, as well as gender-specific, way,” researchers explain. So there you have it: good communication equals good sex.

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Check out more about the study on desire in relationships: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-4880686/Women-bored-having-sex-partner-1-YEAR.html#ixzz4scrZ6GGK

People Who Have ‘Friends With Benefits’ Report Being Sexually Satisfied

adult-1822413_640A new survey of 1,000 Americans and Europeans gives surprising new insights into “friends with benefits” arrangements. As it turns out, women are more likely to have FWBs than men. Not only that, but people who have them are pretty satisfied with their sex lives—in fact, they’re more satisfied than people in relationships.

“51% of Americans in FWB arrangements said they were satisfied, 30% said they were only somewhat satisfied, and 19% said that they were dissatisfied,” reports Refinery29. In comparison, people in relationships rate their sexual satisfaction somewhat lower: 43% of Americans said they were satisfied, 26% were somewhat satisfied, and 31% were dissatisfied. Researchers of the study aren’t necessarily saying that FWBs is superior to relationships, but the survey does prove that casual sex can work very well for some people.

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Check out more about the study that shows people who have friends with benefits are sexually satisfied: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/11/179254/friends-with-benefits-statistics

6 Very Kinky Sex Stories

womandominatingmanWhat’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done? Has it involved BDSM, bodily fluids, or extreme sex acts? If so, then these very kinky sex stories will be right up your alley! Here are 6 for your reading pleasure.

  1. “I’m in a full-time Master/slave dynamic with my partner. One of my biggest kinks is piss play and humiliation. My fondest memory was having 22+ men pee on me while I was wearing a cone of shame. After being peed on, my Master forced me to sit in the pee for a long time before being allowed to shower off. It was definitely one of the hottest things I’ve ever done.” Just. Wow.
  2. “I’m all about the kink: I’ve nursed a grown man like a baby, I’ve been fisted and then had his penis inserted at the same time, and I’ve had my vagina stretched with a vaginal speculum.” This sounds intense. Literally.
  3. “My girlfriend and I are into cuckolding. We met a guy and I watched him fuck her in the ass while I sucked her toes. After he came in her ass, I licked it out and we kissed. Five minutes later, she started giving him a blowjob again. He came in her mouth, she kissed me, and then spat it into my mouth.” The couple that cuckolds together stays together?
  4. “Once, my ex and I were having sex on his couch and I asked him to cum on my breasts. When he was done, I swirled his semen over each nipple and put my finger in my mouth to lick off the rest. Then I said, ‘I’m not cleaning it up. I’m going to leave your cum on me all day.’ And I did. We went to the grocery store, the park and out to dinner.” Naughty!
  5. “My girl has a Daddy/dom fetish. Spanking and impact play are a must, usually coupled with clothespins and nipple clamps. She’s absolutely required to call me Daddy or Sir, and if not, punishment will ensue.” Yes, please, daddy!
  6. “Me and my ex had a party and in the middle of it we stealthily made our way to the back room and while we were having sex I tied her up. When we were done I left her like that and then after an hour I came back and we did it again.” Sounds like a great party!

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Check out more kinky sex stories here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/the-kinkiest-would-you-rather-game

Those Good Vibes You Feel After Sex Can Last For 48 Hours, Study Finds

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_havingsexYou’ve probably noticed how your mood improves after sex, thanks to a flood of endorphins and other feel-good chemicals in your body. But what if we told you those post-sex good vibes can actually last days? It’s true: a new study suggests that the positive effects of getting laid can last for up to two days—not to mention the relationship benefits, which can last months.

A team of researchers at Florida State University examined data from hundreds of newlywed couples, who were asked to report how satisfied they were with three things: their sex life, their partner and their relationship as a whole. Unsurprisingly, when the couples had sex, they felt increased sexual and relationship satisfaction—but what’s interesting is that the “afterglow” effect lasted up to 48 hours. Not only that, but they were also happy with their relationships for months afterward! So, there you have it: science says get it on!

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Check out more about how the benefits of sex can last 48 hours: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/those-good-vibes-you-feel-after-sex-can-last-for-48-hours-study-finds_us_58d3f3b2e4b0b22b0d1aa255

Gay Couples In Open Relationships Are Happier and Closer, Study Finds

Image Source: Flickr.com | MasterDesigner 92282778@N06A new study suggests that gay couples who are in an open relationship may form a closer bond than those who are monogamous. The study, which was conducted at the Center for Health, Identity, Behavior and Prevention Studies at New York University, looked at 10 same-sex couples in open relationships to examine their happiness levels and overall satisfaction. And the results showed that gay couples in open relationships appeared to be happier and to have more fulfilling relationships.

“My impression so far is that they don’t seem less satisfied, and it may even be that their communication is better than among monogamous couples because they’ve had to negotiate specific details,” said the lead researcher. According to the study’s participants, communication is key to a happy, healthy relationship. A set of rules and open communication is really what makes an open-relationship successful. Although there’s still a stigma involved with open relationships, these happy gay couples know that their relationship is  healthy and strong: “We’ve run into gay and straight people who have assumed our relationship is ‘lesser than’ because we’re not monogamous. I think that’s offensive and ridiculous,” explained one of the participants. Right on!

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Check out more about the study that shows gay couples in open relationships can actually be closer:https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2016/07/24/gay-couples-in-open-relationships-can-actually-be-closer-study-suggests/

How to Do Polyamory, Successfully

If polyamory seems hard, that’s because it is. Polyamorous couples often have partners in other polyamorous relationships, and those partners have other relationships, and so on. So how do polyamorous couples juggle their time, deal with the inevitable jealousy, and all the other difficult factors that go into dating multiple people? Here’s how to do polyamory, successfully, according to those who know:

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  1. There’s no such thing as TMI
    It’s all about communication. Being transparent is the best way to defuse the jealousy: checking in, tell-alls, daily texts. This is the key to avoiding envy.
  2. Be a planner
    According to one long-term polyamorous couple, Google calendar is a godsend. Since there’s so many people involved, this is an indispensable tool where everyone can log and view plans, dates, and vacations up to a year in advance. “Time is the most valuable resource within a poly relationship.”
  3. Accept your jealousy and grow from it 
    “There’s a growth opportunity in being able to see your partner in love with someone else.” Instead of letting the jealousy overwhelm you, think of it as an opportunity for growth.
  4. Get to know your lovers’ lovers
    This is also key for managing jealousy. “The tendency is to build things up in your head. ‘I haven’t met you, so you must be way cuter, younger, smarter, sexier.’ It helps alleviate a lot of concerns if you get face to face.”
  5. Never force it
    Starting a monogamous relationship with someone you hope will be into polyamory later on is a recipe for disaster.

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Check out more tips on how to do polyamory successfully here: https://www.pdxmonthly.com/articles/2016/4/22/how-to-do-polyamory-successfully

A Polyamorist View of Monogamy

Have you ever considered what’s more difficult, monogamy or polyamory? Many people assume that because monogamy is the more socially acceptable form of romantic partnership, it must be easy, and more natural. But a polyamorist in Together magazine examines the many challenging and unnatural ways monogamy manifests itself in our society. Here are some of the highlights (read the entire piece below).

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“Arguably, polyamory requires a lot more ‘work’ than monogamy. It’s logistically more challenging managing multiple relationships—there are only so many hours in a week,” says polyamorist Michael McDonald. “But if monogamy is so much simpler than polyamory, why does it feel like so much work?” McDonald argues that monogamy is not natural—as in, it’s not in a human’s nature to couple with just one person—so if a person chooses to be monogamous, then they are participating in “an advanced form of relating that requires us to transcend what comes naturally to us in relationship.”

McDonald goes on to describe how monogamous couples can be separated into two different camps: conscious monogamy and unconscious monogamy. Conscious monogamy is when a couple transcends their very nature to choose a long-term, co-created partnership. Unconscious monogamy is rooted in fear, relating to societal expectations and to anxieties about security, which he says is the more common, more insidious form of monogamy we often see today. McDonald believes, therefore, that we should “be encouraging polyamory as the norm, and monogamy as the advanced, only meant for the most experienced.”

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Check out more about a polyamorist’s view of monogamy here: https://together.guide/a-polyamorist-view-of-monogamy/

 

10 Types of Sex Everyone Will Have at Least Once

We’ve all had a moment while having sex where you think to yourself, “Well, it seemed like a good idea at the time.” And that’s because when you fantasize about it—shower sex, for example—it seems so perfectly erotic. But once you’re actually doing it, the reality can sometimes be a bit less sexy. Here are the 10 types of sex everyone will have at least once (check out Buzzfeed’s hilarious illustrated version below).

The “weirdly sticky experimental food” sex
Chocolate sauce always seems so sensual…until it’s dripping down your body in brown, runny streaks and getting all over the bed!

The “we haven’t done it in this room before” sex
When your elbows are digging into the kitchen tile and the drawers are sticking into your legs, it’s easy to see why people have sex in beds!

The “tried to do a sexy striptease but was wearing skinny jeans” sex
Face, meet floor.

The “quickie before work” sex

“No pressure but I’ve got a breakfast meeting.”

 

The “probably too hungover to have sex” sex
“Can you go on top now?”
*face turns green* “OH GOD NO.”

The “shower sex is meant to be great” sex
“You’re holding on a bit too tight.”
“I’m scared I’ll slip and knock my head!”

The “my housemates are right outside the door so we have to be quiet” sex
That can be hot!

Image Source: Flo Perry / BuzzFeed

The “I want to be able to say I had sex outside” sex
“Hurry up, I’m freezing my tits off!”

The “I saw the position in porn and thought it looked super cool” sex
Upside down, in a head-stand, legs in the air, doing push-ups—yup, porn makes it look so easy!

The “super lazy but seriously satisfying Sunday afternoon” sex
“Skyrockets in flight. Phew! Afternoon delight!”

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Check out Buzzfeed’s illustrated list “Types Of Sex Everyone Will Have At Least Once” here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/floperry/types-of-sex-every-couple-has-at-least-once#.hlxbW39OpM

Skype Sex Confessions

Oh, the joys of Skype sex! Whether you’re trying to keep the spark alive in a long-distance relationship, or trying to, um, “get to know someone better,” Skype sex definitely gets the job done. Here are 7 people’s confessions about their experiences with Skype sex.

“The best part about Skype sex is that you don’t have to cuddle afterwards.”
True. You also don’t have to sneak away early in the morning…

“Long distance Skype sex is the worst. His battery died but my libido didn’t….”
Quick, somebody get that man an outlet!

“I have weekly Skype sex with a stunning married woman. She says it actually saved her marriage.”
Skype sex saves the day again!

“I once had Skype sex with 2 guys back to back. One was my ex, the other was a stranger.”
Sounds like you had a very fun and productive day!

“My bf came twice from our Skype sex tonight and all I did was moan.”
A sexy success story!

“Just realized: I’ve had Skype sex with a guy in Ireland, Scotland, and England. Now I just have Canada and Australia to check off my list.”
Around the world in 30 days!

“Skype sex is only good for so long. It just makes me crave him more than ever.”
Well, yeah. That’s the point!

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