Tag: Polyamory

Polyamorous ‘Throuple’ Shares Secret For Happy Relationship

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A polyamorous “triad” who say they have “no rules” have revealed the secret to their happy relationship: they enjoy sex with each other and they all have sex with other women together, too. “Our relationship has no rules with each other. We always love, make out, hold hands, we try to put no limits. We all have sex together and we enjoy it more when it’s all three of us,” the man with two girlfriends said. They also date other women, as long as all three agree there is a mutual attraction.

“We always let them know that if she doesn’t like all of us together then we can be friends and it ends there,” he explained. The “throuple” said that when it comes to polyamory, as with any relationship, the key is honesty and respect. “For me, polyamory means that there is more to life than just normal rules, you can live happy and enjoy a fantasy every day.”

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Check out more about a polyamorous triad: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6192643/Open-polyamorous-trio-enjoy-three-way-sex-women.html

New TV Series Explores Kinky, Polyamorous Relationship

feetJames Davis is just a regular guy—except he shares a home with his wife, fiancee, and two sex slaves. The former soldier swapped the military for his very own BDSM sex dungeon, which he lives in while the ladies in his life take the upstairs of the house. A new five-part TV series will explore their polyamorous BDSM lifestyle, the different sexual relationships they all have with each other, and the frequent sex parties at their home.

Davis, who has given himself the title of “patriarchal overlord,” requires the four women to wear collars, ask permission to use the bathroom, and call him “master.” In the sex dungeon he constructed, called House of Cadifor: Fetish Playroom, the bondage equipment includes an A-frame, a cage and numerous sex toys. Davis describes himself as a rope performer, fetish photographer, BDSM writer, kink educator, lifestyle dominant and consent advocate—and also, “just a guy who loves both freedom and commitment, and who was lucky enough to find some incredible women to love, and who love me back.”

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Check out more about a new series exploring a polyamorous relationship: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6057319/Meet-army-veteran-wife-fiancee-submissive-sex-slave-girlfriends-Australian-country-town.html

How to Do Polyamory, Successfully

If polyamory seems hard, that’s because it is. Polyamorous couples often have partners in other polyamorous relationships, and those partners have other relationships, and so on. So how do polyamorous couples juggle their time, deal with the inevitable jealousy, and all the other difficult factors that go into dating multiple people? Here’s how to do polyamory, successfully, according to those who know:

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  1. There’s no such thing as TMI
    It’s all about communication. Being transparent is the best way to defuse the jealousy: checking in, tell-alls, daily texts. This is the key to avoiding envy.
  2. Be a planner
    According to one long-term polyamorous couple, Google calendar is a godsend. Since there’s so many people involved, this is an indispensable tool where everyone can log and view plans, dates, and vacations up to a year in advance. “Time is the most valuable resource within a poly relationship.”
  3. Accept your jealousy and grow from it 
    “There’s a growth opportunity in being able to see your partner in love with someone else.” Instead of letting the jealousy overwhelm you, think of it as an opportunity for growth.
  4. Get to know your lovers’ lovers
    This is also key for managing jealousy. “The tendency is to build things up in your head. ‘I haven’t met you, so you must be way cuter, younger, smarter, sexier.’ It helps alleviate a lot of concerns if you get face to face.”
  5. Never force it
    Starting a monogamous relationship with someone you hope will be into polyamory later on is a recipe for disaster.

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Check out more tips on how to do polyamory successfully here: https://www.pdxmonthly.com/articles/2016/4/22/how-to-do-polyamory-successfully

A Polyamorist View of Monogamy

Have you ever considered what’s more difficult, monogamy or polyamory? Many people assume that because monogamy is the more socially acceptable form of romantic partnership, it must be easy, and more natural. But a polyamorist in Together magazine examines the many challenging and unnatural ways monogamy manifests itself in our society. Here are some of the highlights (read the entire piece below).

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“Arguably, polyamory requires a lot more ‘work’ than monogamy. It’s logistically more challenging managing multiple relationships—there are only so many hours in a week,” says polyamorist Michael McDonald. “But if monogamy is so much simpler than polyamory, why does it feel like so much work?” McDonald argues that monogamy is not natural—as in, it’s not in a human’s nature to couple with just one person—so if a person chooses to be monogamous, then they are participating in “an advanced form of relating that requires us to transcend what comes naturally to us in relationship.”

McDonald goes on to describe how monogamous couples can be separated into two different camps: conscious monogamy and unconscious monogamy. Conscious monogamy is when a couple transcends their very nature to choose a long-term, co-created partnership. Unconscious monogamy is rooted in fear, relating to societal expectations and to anxieties about security, which he says is the more common, more insidious form of monogamy we often see today. McDonald believes, therefore, that we should “be encouraging polyamory as the norm, and monogamy as the advanced, only meant for the most experienced.”

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Check out more about a polyamorist’s view of monogamy here: https://together.guide/a-polyamorist-view-of-monogamy/