NEWS: Air Sex Championships 2013

I’m always a day late and a dollar short, how did I not know about an air sexin’ contest!? I have been air humping for years, it always gets a chuckle, (think Steve Buscemi in Airheads).

According to the Huff Post the 4th annual Sex Air Championships was held in NYC at Manhattan’s Cutting Room this past weekend. Air humping connoisseurs and skilled imaginary banana peelers came out to show off their unique talents. Comedian Chris Trew hosted the competition, and there were two simple rules: participants must have an imaginary partner on stage, and the O face must be imitated. Sounds fair and legit to me.

Best part of the story is the returning champ, “Jam Out With My Clam Out” took home the win for the second straight consecutive year. Host, Chris Trew told the Huff Post:

She’s just very good, she had the crowd with her the entire time, she did something I’ve never seen before. When she took her teeth out, then her husband who died and she kept jerking him off, it was so good.”

This is my type of performing arts! This reminds me of a video I came across of the soulful R&B Grammy winner Miguel doing the air freak nasty at one of his concerts, he most certainly would of taken home the gold this weekend if he participated.

Check out his bump n grind: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jCNf5h2fP8

NEWS: Prop 8 has met it’s fate! Hit the bricks!

California is chock full of soaring rainbow flags, smiles, and justice today. The Supreme Court ruled today that a portion of DOMA is unconstitutional, a 5-4 ruling! DOMA, the Defense of Marriage Act signed by President Bill Clinton in ’96 had prevented same sex couple’s marriages (that were recognized by their home state) to be recognized by the federal government. 

Well, say goodbye to that nonsense because after today’s verdict gay married couples will be eligible for the same federal benefits that heterosexual couples are granted once married, such as joint tax returns and social security benefits. Justice Anthony Kennedy stated in the majority opinion:

By seeking to displace this protection and treating those persons as living in marriages less respected than others, the federal statute is in violation of the Fifth Amendment.”

This is a monumental victory for gay rights and equality; everyone in love should have the chance to be lawfully married to the love of their life and receive equal benefits and recognition by our government. I am personally stoked for the Gay community at large and this is just one more giant step in the right direction. For more information on the Supreme Court ruling click here.

NEWS: The straight-laced folk want sex too!

Have you ever noticed that conservative people are risqué and scandalous on the sly? It’s pretty much like your token friend who grew up going to Catholic school that is the wild child out of the crew. According to a recent survey conducted by the British Journal of Health Psychology conservative men are more influenced by an erotic picture than a guy that isn’t shy about his enthusiasm for sex.

The study shows that men who have no interest or willingness to partake in casual sex are more apt to get freaky after seeing a sensual photo of a babe in a bikini. The study goes on to reveal that because there aren’t initial intentions to do the nasty from the get-go it can lead to unprotected sex.

“Think of this as similar to young teenagers drinking,” study researcher Megan Roberts, a psychologist at Brown University explained. “Most don’t go out explicitly intending to get drunk, but are willing if they are offered alcohol at a party. Likewise, many adults do not intend to have casual sex, but would be willing to do so if presented with the opportunity.”

This study doesn’t surprise me one bit, all of my gal pals that come off as demure and conservative are the friends that reallyyyy let their hair down when we’re partying and enjoying the fruits of the single life. I believe the findings in this survey are spot on, it makes sense that if you deny primal urges such as sex when you’re exposed to a sultry picture or subliminal sex images you’re going to want to quench that urge 10x more than someone that is always down for the cause.

Want To Understand How It Really Works?

By MissReaghan

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Hello, gents. Look, normally I would give you the big, eloquent speech about how I am a British-born Goddess, and all of you should bow before me and offer your money as a sacrifice, and blah, blah, blah, yadda, yadda, yadda. Not today, though.

Here is the real meat of the matter that needs to be choked down before we can have the sweet pudding of our fantasy time: You are a loser who needs to pay women to talk to you and act like they give any shred of a damn about you or to have phone sex with you if you are lucky. It is especially hard to get attractive women such as me because, well, we are hot and our time is more valuable. Sorry to tell you this, but I have had a little champagne tonight and did not quite feel up to the charade that all of us often feed you.

The truth is, well, none of us care about you in the slightest. Half the time, if we remember anything about you, it’s because you gave us a bucket of money or you are a frequent caller. But let’s face it, if number two is true, then that means number two is, too. Also, even if you do give us a bucket full of money, most financial domination Mistresses will still sound completely uninterested in you because now they just want to go online and buy shoes with the money you just gave them and your fantasies are impeding that process.

I feel bad for all of you, I really do. Well, kind of. So I tell you what, even though it might take you giving me money in the double digits, or even triple digits for some of you, to be worth my time, when you do make it worth it, I will act super-interested in what you have to say! Deal?

Good. Call me.

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Say Hello to “MistressCandice”…

By MistressCandice

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Domination was born of sex. It’s always been all about sex. Women owning their sexuality and yours. Whether through the use of pain for sexual pleasure, controlled orgasm, tease and denial it’s all about sex. Giving or withholding. That doesn’t mean it’s about intercourse but it can be. For Domination in the modern age, Domination is determined by the practicing Dominatrix.

There was a time in our history where Dominatrixes came under scrutiny and for them to continue practicing their trade for pay they had to remove sex from Domination. With the invent of the internet we are now able to put sex back into PRO Domination. Giving it or withholding it, all of it is a part of Domination. Many Prohibition Dommes still prefer to keep sex removed from their interaction, I do not. However I myself am more than a pro Domme.  I am and have been lifestyle for what seems forever, and we lifestyle Dommes never twisted the core of being a Dominatrix to suit the law. We didn’t have to.  Being a Dominatrix has always been legal. We only had to worry about safe, sane, and consensual.

Erotic hypnosis is exactly what it implies.  EROTIC is an adjective

Erotic: giving sexual pleasure or sexually arousing

Hypnosis:  an artificially induced trance state resembling sleep, characterized by heightened susceptibility to suggestion.

So while I am both A dominatrix and Erotic hypnotist I am also a Hypno Domme. Sometimes I combine all three, sometimes I just play in one realm or the other.  It depends on a couple of things.  One is my mood and the other is yours!

Now that we are clear on what I do know there is nothing to fear for when we play there is no safe word on the internet during hypnosis only a safe space. You draw the lines of the box that I play within. So there are twists and turns and surprises but all within the space we create.

-Mistress Candice

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NEWS: Great Expectations

As a 30 (closing in on 31 – yikes) year old single female, I often wonder what single men are looking for. If a guy is merely seeking out a Friday fuck fest, physical attraction might trump all, but if they are looking for someone to have and to hold, they for sure have greater expectations.

Dating sites are a topic that comes up among singles quite often, because lets face it, if you aren’t hitting the bars every weekend it seems hopeless you’ll have a serendipitous moment with your soulmate in Starbucks. The fantastic aspect of dating sites is you can peruse through people based on their profile and characteristics they put out there, the caveat, is it all bullshit!? Who friggin’ knows! So when I come across a survey on USA today that reveals “what singles want” I’m enchanted to read.

This data was compiled from a broad national survey that included about 5,500 single adults 21+ years and older. Here is a sneak peek of some of the results:

 

 


Top “must haves” in relationships for men:

63% Is someone I can trust and confide in.
57% Treats me with respect.
40% Is physically attractive to me.

Top “must haves” in relationships for women:
84% Treats me with respect.
77% Is someone I can trust and confide in.
58% Has sense of humor/makes me laugh.

What men judge women on the most:
58% Teeth
55% Grammar
51% Hair

What women judge men on the most:
71% Teeth
69% Grammar
58% Clothes

Least important to men:
4% Eager to marry.
6% Makes at least as much as I do.
7% Eat similar foods.

Least important to women:
6% Eager to marry.
9% Eat similar foods.
11% Wants to have children/Shares my political beliefs.

Woaaahh I need to whiten my grill! To read the entire survey check out USA Today

NEWS: What’s your lucky number?

Have you ever pondered how many people your partner has boinked? I think it’s safe to say it’s crossed everyone’s mind once or twice.   If you do muster up the courage to ask the major buzz kill question, make sure to emphasize what ‘having sex’ means to you.   The definition of sex is not universal amongst people, it comes in all shapes and sizes!

A study by the Kinsey Institute at the University of Indiana was published in the journal of the American Medical Association, and I have to say some of the information had me surprised. 600 students participated in the survey and more than 90% said penis-vagina intercourse counts as sex, while 81% said penis-anal intercourse meant “had sex”. 40% said oral-genital contact counts as “had sex.” If my boyfriend asked me how many men I’ve taken down I’d include all penis-vagina and penis-anal encounters I’ve had.

To make matters more confusing, a separate survey conducted by the Kinsey Institute with people between the ages of 18 and 96 found that there is no single generation or gender that agrees on a definition of “had sex.” I can understand why someone would want to know how many people his or her partner has bed but just keep in mind curiosity killed the cat!

Get to Know “Naughty Olivia”…

With Naughty Olivia

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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
One of my girlfriends was really having a great time with NiteFlirt and encouraged me to give it a try a couple months ago; I did and I haven’t looked back since!  It is my new obsession.

What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you on one of your hot phone sex calls?
I have a very vocal cat that sometimes wants to compete with my callers for attention; one time I had to explain to my caller that “More than one pussy was clamoring for his attention!”

What is your favorite part of being a phone mistress?
I love to take calls while I’m on the clock for my day job; it can be so boring and dreary and every single caller I get is a way for me to take my mind off things and spice things up!  I have a very high sex drive and it’s an excellent outlet for me.

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and cam sex calls on NiteFlirt?
I consider myself to be rather outdoorsy; I love to experience the Colorado outdoors.  I love to bike the roads and mountains out here.  I also love to hike the Front Range on the weekends, occasionally with some camping.  I also love to summon my subs a few times a week in the evenings to get some power play in; nothing makes me wetter!

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
I would be a warm hot fudge, slowly flowing down your body, sweet and warm at first, but before you know it, you’re drowning and dominated by chocolate-y goodness and cannot get out, no matter how hard you try.

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Get to Know… “Kiwi Candy”

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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
Phone sex as a job was suggested to me by the boyfriend I was with at the time. After a few months of him not being able to keep up with my need for hard kinky sex, he thought being a phone girl would give me the attention I needed. So he introduced me to NiteFlirt, and my sex drive has only sped up since.  I don’t see myself doing anything else but being a good submissive phone girl.

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and cam sex calls on NiteFlirt?

Doing photo shoots is one of my favorite things to do when I’m not indulging in naughty phone play. I also really enjoy spending time at the beach. I will never turn down a chance to go shopping, or to go to a movie. I relax watching my many TV shows that I am addicted to when I can.

Is there any kind of specific fetish sex that you yourself enjoy?
BDSM is probably my biggest fetish. The way I feel when I enter subspace…gets me wet every time. There is an added intensity to an orgasm when I’m tied up and helpless, that I crave all the time. The way the paddle feels when it stings my ass, sends waves of pleasure through me. Add it all up, and you can see why I’m so willing to be a submissive slut.

What erotic fantasy or phone domination would you like enacted on YOU?
I really love the fantasy of being a naughty girl next door. It makes me really hot to know I’m causing a man to cheat on his wife with me, seducing him away from the woman he is with. To push it further, I want him to get me pregnant. I like seeing how much risk a man will take to get his hands on my body.

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NEWS: Sexy Time Benefits!

Sex truly is a sacred pastime and for the most part we all thoroughly enjoy it, and when we aren’t getting nookie, we crave it.  Just from personal experience when I’m back in the saddle, I sleep better, I’m calmer, and I find that I get very creative. My creative juices start flowing, so to speak.

I came across an article in Playboy that provides an astounding list of benefits that stem from sexual intercourse. Sex is such a natural, primitive pleasure that can happen between two people, it only makes sense that good can come from it.  Check Playboy’s list out, you may want rethink that phony headache excuse tonight: •    Sex not only lowers stress levels, it also assists in lowering blood pressure!

•    Having more sex boosts levels of the hormone Oxycotin, which helps build and strengthen the bond between partners.

•    Research shows that having sex once or twice a week can boost your immune system.

•    One study proved that having sex on a regular basis increases your lifespan.  (What a hell of a panty dropper!!)

•    The more sexually active you are the more attractive you are to the opposite sex.  (Oh dear god, I must be a fugly Josie Grossy right now.)

•    Orgasms release so many endorphins they’ve been proven to alleviate pain.  (Hooray for the O face!)

•    If you’ve had an anger streak, fear not… sex relieves tension!  (No need for anger management classes)

•    Sex releases sleep – inducing endorphins that help you sleep more soundly. (It’s clear to me why I’m an insomniac now, awesome…)

•    Sex sharpens your sense of smell.

If this list hasn’t totally sold you on why you should be buying a one-way ticket to pleasure town I don’t know what will!  Get your freak on!