phone sex Archives - Page 37 of 47 - Phone Sex: News, Insights, & Secrets NiteFlirt.com

Get to Know “EmmaLouise”…

How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
When I started getting jobs answering phones in college, the moment I’d answer, men would always say “Oh my God, you have a sexy voice!” I always thought that was a really sweet compliment. When I decided to end a super-stressful career as a psychotherapist, I thought that phone sex would be a fun way to use my sexy voice, my listening skills, and my wicked imagination while staying at home in my cabin in the woods. As a mature woman with lots of life experience, I knew I would find exciting new people to get to know and be friends with, and have incredible sex with! I was right–I’m having more fun than ever!

With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
Hearing a man’s excitement, and hearing a man cum. For me, if I can hear it, it becomes very real. I get so turned on by the heavy breathing, the little gasps and moans. Tease and denial is endless fun because of this, but it’s also frustrating because I have to deny myself, too–I don’t get to hear my caller cum! But I know it’s worth it for the incredible intensity of his arousal.

Is there anything you do to get yourself in the mood for an erotic fantasy phone sex session?
Yes, I get dressed in things that make me feel erotic–especially made out of real silk. Real silk just makes me want to be touched. Usually a camisole and shorts or tap pants, or a short skirt, so I can easily reach everything my caller and I are talking about! I light some incense and if it’s in the evening, I might have a glass of wine.

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
I am a box of chocolates. Some of them are sweet and light, and they melt so softly and submissively on your tongue. Others are a little nutty! A few might surprise you, but always in a delicious way. Some are dark chocolate, complex and superior–the femdomme side of myself. You can take bites of each, enjoy them all, or just pick out your favorites. Open the box and dig in!

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex calls on NiteFlirt?
This IS my fun! I do some life coaching, and when I have down time I like to read, garden, putter around my cabin. I love making jewelry and original clothes, and I’m a creative geek at heart. I just finished my website, www.yourdarkestsecrets.com!

What’s up next for you at NiteFlirt?
I’m celebrating my first two months, which have been very successful, and the launch of my website, by having a “Customer Appreciation Day.” Friday, August 23, all my listings will be only .99 per minute. It’s a way of saying “thank you!” to the great guys who have been keeping me turned on for the last two months!

NEWS: Intimate Whispers from the 30 Somethings (Part I)

As a thirty something single female, I often find myself wondering how my peers are doing when it comes to relationships, love, and sex. I think to myself “Do people really have open relationships, are people fulfilling sexual fantasies, does everyone want to get married, am I a dead fish in the sack compared to others?” I conducted a survey with a handful of 30 year olds (men and women) and I was pleasantly surprised with the answers. People be loving sex, which isn’t shocking but I think more folks want that true love to last more than they admit. Read our first story from a sweet dirty thirty +1 chick! Sounds like she needs to put her big girl pants on and get back in the saddle!

Sex : Female

Age: 31

City: New York

Astrological Sign: Leo

Single (y/n): Y

Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
Yes, I see myself spending a huge portion of my life with one person, if we get married that’s cool too!

Do you believe in being with one person forever?
I still have a little faith, my parents have been together for 31 years so it must jive for some, people are fickle when it comes to relationships these days – I truly believe you need to put the effort into it like anything else in life that you want to flourish.

Would you be willing to try an open relationship? Do you believe they work?
No, I don’t believe they work, at least not for me. I’d be lying to myself if I thought that one would be.

Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
No, In this case sharing is NOT caring. 

What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
If I ever did indulge I’m not sure how I’d have it. I would think 2 girls would be awkward, and with 2 guys it seems intimidating, so probably neither!

What is a fantasy of yours? Have you ever fulfilled it?
I’m pretty open in the bedroom, so things, I’ve wanted I’ve tried.  I evolve a lot so I’m sure in a year or so I’ll have a new fantasy to experiment with.

If you’re single what dating sites have you used? If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included.
I have not.

Did you find them to be useful?
N/A

Were you honest with profile? If not what were you dishonest about?
N/A

What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
I think I’m single because I’ve been dealing with a career upheaval and lots of stress, so I don’t really put myself out there, so to speak.

Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom? Absolutely, in the sweetest way possible of course. Sex is an important component of a relationship, you need to communicate.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
To be honest I think everyone that I’ve been in an exclusive relationship has been enjoyable in bed. I think one casual encounter sucked, I never went THERE again.  If I was dating someone I’d just be open and loving about it.

What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session? Nothing off hand, maybe if my landscaping wasn’t up to snuff! Which is like NEVER. 

Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
|Yes, more so now at 31.

Lightning Round:

What type of music makes you the horniest? Lounge House
What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you? I love men that take charge. One memory stains my brain… he took me out of the shower laid me on the bed and went down on me, and then we had great sex!
What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane? Park.
Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times? Yes, once or twice. More after doing this survey.
Do you miss sex with an ex? Sometimes
Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s? I would say right now my 20s because I haven’t had much of it lately.
If better, why? If worse, why? The real answer is that sex in my 30s is great because hell you’ve had years of practice by now!
Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous )? I don’t mind being single, there are tons of great things going on in my life but how great can it be if you can’t share it with someone else?!
What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene? Hmmm
“In the Cut” with Mark Ruffalo and Meg Ryan.
Do you look at porn? Everyday that ends in Y! In reality, yes once in awhile.

NEWS: The Wetter, The Better?

Lube is a silky god sent substance that most of us love and appreciate. I’m not an expert on lube, and to be honest I’m not really sure what’s out there on the market these days, but I do recall a college roommate of mine having a life supply of Astroglide, lol! If you’re sexually active it’s uber important to educate yourself on ways you to create a more safe, pain free, enjoyable sex life for yourself and partner. There is nothing worse than a dry spell during a romp. A friend of mine once describe it as trying to fit a marshmallow in a keyhole, ooof!

Brier Jirka is a sex therapist with the Methodist Physicians Clinic Women’s Center and has weighed in on the importance and benefits of lubrication on Omaha.com. Jirka explains how there are multiple reasons why your natural lubrication may be lower than usual or non-existence.

“This is a very misunderstood area of sexuality. There are many things that can contribute to a lack of lubrication during sex such as low estrogen, anxiety or fears that sex will be painful, alcohol and nicotine use and not enough foreplay before intercourse. Some over-the-counter medications such as Benadryl, which can dry out mucus membranes, also cause a lack of lubrication.”

Lets face it as you get older things tend to dry up just a tad, and why not take the bull by the horns and fix it!? If you’re still in your early 20’s and reading this at least you can take a mental note!  Jirka also provided a list of different types of lubrication available:

“Water-based lubricants (with or without glycerin) 
This is the most commonly sold lubricant. It does dry out, but can quickly be rejuvenated with a few drops of water or saliva. It works well with latex condoms, unlike some lubricants that can break down latex. When choosing to use water-based lube, there’s a difference between those with and without glycerin.   Non-glycerin water-based lubricants are a great choice for women with recurrent yeast infections or extremely sensitive genitals. These lubricants last longer than glycerin-based products and offer a gentle cushion during intimacy. They can reduce irritation to the genitals, are safe to use with condoms and don’t stain fabric. (Brand example: Slippery Stuff)   Water-based with glycerin lubricants have a slightly sweet taste and are very slick. Some of these lubricants feature a warming sensation during intercourse. Negative effects of these types of lubricants include short-term effects and that they can sometimes cause a sticky texture. They are not recommended for women prone to yeast infections or who are diabetic as they have properties similar to glucose. (Brand example: KY-Jelly or KY-Liquid)  Water-soluble lubricants contain oil and shouldn’t be used with condoms.

Silicone-based lubricants 
Silicone is the longest lasting of all the lubricants. It is hypoallergenic and safe to use with condoms. Advantages of using silicone-based lubricants include their effectiveness for women with sensitive genitals, they can be used in water and they’re great for sensual body massage.   Caution should be taken as the long-lasting slippery texture can be dangerous for falling in tubs and showers. Although these lubricants are odorless and tasteless, they are not recommended for oral sex. Silicone lubricants are also more expensive than water-based types and require more cleanup. They are not recommended for use with certain silicone sex toys.

Natural oil-based lubricants (NOT mineral oil) 
These types of lubricants, such as vegetable/corn/avocado/peanut/olive oils, have some benefits during intimacy. They are great for vulvar massage because they are safe for the vagina and safe to ingest.   Disadvantages include they may stain fabric and could destroy latex condoms and sex toys.

Petroleum-based lubricants 
Examples of petroleum lubricants include mineral oil and Vaseline. Unfortunately, these products may irritate women’s vulvas, stain fabric and destroy latex condoms and should not be used in the vagina.

Fertility promotion lubricants 
Since lubricants often impair sperm’s fertilization capabilities, couples desiring to become pregnant may need lubrication that will help fertilization rather than prevent.”

I found this to be very informative, I had no idea there are so many lubrications to choose from. I think I’m going to give this grease a go!

News: Best Brain Booster!

Sex is the source! It’s proven to be the fountain of youth, it’s beneficial for your overall health, it can aid with migraine pain, it feels great, and it’s just fucking awesome! If you can believe it, I have another reason why you should GET YOURS: Professor Barry Komisaruk at Rutgers University carried out a study where he measured the blood flow to the brains of women while they got off, and found out that the BIG O increases activity throughout your entire brain! This is significant because other brain stimulating activities such as crossword puzzles only boost specific areas. I think this means the climax just electrifies everything in your dome piece, so to speak!
“Mental exercises increase brain activity but only in relatively localized regions. Orgasm activates the whole. At orgasm we see a tremendous increase in the blood flow (to the brain). It brings all the nutrients and oxygenation to the brain,” he told The Times. Hi people, sex is brain food! Blueberries and your daily dose of fish are essential too but do they taste as good as an orgasm? Maybe this is what the meaning of “I’ll fuck your brains out” means? For the entire article click here.

NEWS: Titty Time Turns Into Titty Turmoil!

Sometimes when you’re bellied up to a sandbar in Florida enjoying cocktails, the only thing left to do to complete your night is flash your jam jams to the bar! That is exactly what Ronda Beckman did. Beckman took off her shirt and yelled to the crowd “It’s titty time.” I bet you thought she was going to say Miller time! WRONG! 

According to the Huff Post, Beckman served up her flapjacks for the patrons at Captain Jax Sandbar and Grill in Fort Pierce on August 2nd, and refused to cover herself up. According to sources Miss Ronda was out on the dance floor when the cops arrived (obviously) and supposedly called an officer “a piece of shit and an asshole.” You guessed it, Ronda’s solo titty act came to a screeching halt and she was arrested for indecent exposure, lewd lascivious behavior and disorderly intoxication.

It’s sad that Ronda’s titty time ended in jail time. People need to know when to pump the brakes and close the curtain, shows over, you’ve had to many cheap tequila shots, go home…but jail?!

Happy Friday!

NEWS: Foul Florida Flasher!

In Venice, Florida cops are searching for a flasher that is supposedly trying to make deals with his victims. He offers them cold hard cash and in return he wants to lock lips with their ass cheeks! WTF this guy is a new breed of creepy!

“I’ll give one of you $200 or each of you $100 if you let me kiss your butt,” the note reads, according to WPBF-TV. He went on to write: “If you wave to me, I’ll drop to my knees and play with myself while you watch,” the Herald-Tribune reported. REALLY!? This guy is still on the loose and the Huffington Post did provide a photo of the beast and the note he left for the two women. I find this disheartening, I’ve always thought of streaking/flashing as something funny and light hearted, like scenes in Porky’s or Frank the Tank’s infamous streak in Old School. I hope the Floridian cops find this clown and bring him to justice, no one wants to see his junk or be propositioned for his acts!

NEWS: Go Green The Sexy Way!

Whether you choose to drive a Prius, recycle, or use eco-friendly sex products you’re helping out the environment. Bravo!  French businessman Frederic Donnat owner of Divinextases (a French Firm) launched a natural “erotic cosmetics” line 2 years ago. Donnat noticed a cash cow in the market and went for it! He saw something “more interesting than the usual organic beauty product.”

How amazing! Now you can enjoy the fruits of fucking whilst being conscientious about the planet, Merci Frederic Donnat! Donnat has 8 products currently and is working towards creating 4 new products for next year! According to the Huff Post he has all sorts of naughty organic goodies, “From balms for buttocks left sore by a spanking session to intimate perfumes, all Donnat’s products are made in France with sustainable materials from reputable sources. They use beeswax and shea butter rather than palm oil and all are wrapped in recyclable packaging.” All efforts to preserve our environment are commendable in my eyes, even better when it’s associated with pleasure time toys!

NEWS: Technology for the bedroom!

Do you think that you’re a champion in bed? Do you bring the noise in the sheets? Well the new app spreadsheets will determine if you’re a dead fish, or guru of love!

“Spreadsheets is a mobile app that monitors your performance in bed to provide statistical and historical feedback. Find out how many thrusts per minute you’re averaging, how long you go for, and exactly how loud it gets. Keep a record of your encounters, date, time, and performance,” according to their website.

This app is so choice! A tool to bring a little humor into the bedroom (which is vital), and who knows maybe you needed to up the ante when it comes to your sexy time skills anyway. Moans and jackhammer thrusts aren’t equivalent to quality lovemaking, however I think a little playful game between two loving adults could spice things up, as long as the game doesn’t get too competitive and feelings get hurt.

“Spreadsheets can be used: in bed, in the car, on the couch, in your pocket, on a trampoline, in a hammock (both traditional and banana), at the club, at your in-laws, in a tent, the world is your playground… or your science lab.” I think that Spreadsheets is worth a go, it would be a turn on and just looking at the stats would be motivation station! I’d want to break my current score! Will you be trying spreadsheets?!

Whew! I’m a little hot and bothered now and I think this Benny Bennasi classic is approriate at this time!

NEWS: Patty Wagon Oral Sex!

What do you do when you’re chained and on your way to the clink? You have some oral sex, obviouslyyyyy! Two inmates Carlisa Brookins and Alexis Garcia were being transported to a Las Vegas jail (along with 8 other prisoners) and decided to engage in some licky licky, sucky sucky. All of the men were seated in a row on one side and the female inmates on the other side. All the jailbirds had restraints around their tummies, so the officer that noticed Brookins bending over to slob on Garcia’s knob was a bit surprised, according to the Las Vegas Sun.

According to a nearby inmate, Jessica Melaerts Garcia told Brookins “I’ll get you off before we hit downtown.” Whatta guy, at least Garcia was going to reciprocate! Damn, those jailbirds really had a hankering to get off. They could have at least waited for a conjugal visit once they hit the slammer! For the full story click here.

NEWS: Quite Possibly the Best Day of the Year!

Ladies, it’s all about you today. No seriously, it’s International Day of the Female Orgasm! The focus is all on the women today, flick it, lick it, tickle it, pat it, grind it… whatever you have to do to make it happen! We have the lovely country of Brazil to thank for this glorious day of moaning.

According to the Aztecas Noticias the genius idea for this holiday came to life in the northeastern town of Esperantina in Brazil. According to the Huff Post, “Councillor of the people decided to dedicate the day to the female orgasm as compensation for the “sexual debt” he owed his own wife.” Ummn hiiii, the Councillor sounds like a man that was sent from the heavens! Brazil truly is a magical country, like you need more reasons to love the place; Giselle Bundchen, Carnival, the rainforest, and men that create international holidays that pay homage to women getting off!

Today the holiday is celebrated in Brazil, Spain, Mexico, Argentina, Peru, and Norway. That is fabulous but I think we should celebrate it in the USA as well. On that note, I hope you all have a toe curling Friday! A few tips of mine for a hearty orgasm:

Send your lover an erotic text this afternoon explaining what you want tonight. Get the ball rolling!
When you get out of work tonight, chill out… take 5/10 minutes to meditate or just zone out, and listen to music. Rid yourself of the day’s stress.
Make sure you have a sexy pair of panties on, better yet don’t wear any.
Greet your partner with a warm smile, and a hearty hug when you reunite on this Friday evening.
When things start to get steamy, just let go, lose your inhibitions, don’t be shy, and make sure to be just as gracious and giving as your partner.