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Femdom

By MissReaghan

You all know the saying, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, yes? Well, I can counter that with a phrase of my own that summarizes exactly the nature of our relationship and how you can best serve your Mistress.

What is a Femdom?

When you think of a Mistress, what is the first image that pops into your head? Is it the image of a woman, all decked out in black rubber and carrying a whip while she screams at you in German? An impossible-to-please woman who will crush your balls beneath her stiletto-ed heel and make you beg for the privilege of thanking her for her time? Do you picture a well-dressed, be-suited woman hovering over your every move and correcting even the smallest of mistakes with a disappointed look and a quiet “Hmm” under her breath?

Recently I had a survey on my phone sex blog, asking people that same question and the variety of answers it brought back were somewhat surprising to me. Even “non-kinky” people had an opinion about what it meant to them and, I was surprised to find that quite a few weren’t that far off the mark. They all seemed to radiate an answer that boiled down to power exchange and a woman that is sure of herself and absolutely in control.

Control me, Mistress!

How does that control manifest itself? Like the definition of “Femdom”, there are many definitions to what “control” is. Some would search through the pages of a phone sex site looking for just the right woman to expertly teach them cock control and orgasm training. Others want jerk-off instructions or just to listen as a woman guides their masturbation. Some require a strict Dominatrix with a “take no prisoners” approach to obedience while others would respond far better to a more sensual, teasing flirt. Still others like it somewhere in the middle … Sensually Strict, as it were.

Her level of control over you is entirely dictated by what you respond to. Just like in anything else in life … if YOU aren’t enjoying yourself, she’s going to know it and that will make for an unsatisfactory call for everyone.

So I leave you with the phrase I promised you at the beginning.

“The way to a femdom’s heart is through your mind.”

Know what you enjoy and the kind of phone sex domination that suits your personality best and then go find her!

Why call a phone sex domme?

By LadySascha

Let’s suppose you have the evening to yourself. Your wife is out with the girls tonight, and you’ve been thinking about a fantasy that she won’t entertain. Perhaps you enjoy a bit of feminization by dressing up in her lingerie, panties, bra, and stockings, when she is out.

And so you dress up, and you’re sitting at your computer, looking at your secret cache of videos, and pictures that show other men in panties just like you. Maybe you read a few stories about feminization. But you’ve seen and read them all before, and they all seem a bit shopworn and trite. And nothing about them gets you very excited tonight.

So you start looking on Niteflirt at fetish phone sex dommes, and you come across Lady Sascha, who calls herself the Sadistic Cocktease. You’re not sure if you should spend the money. I mean after all there’s so much out on the web that’s free, right? Why would anyone call a phone sex dominatrix for fetish phone sex?

But you look at all the pages of my 5 star feedback. And you see that you get 3 minutes free by joining Niteflirt, and you reason that after all you can hang up after that, if you don’t want to spend any more money, right?

So you decide to call… You realize that while just dialing and connecting to Niteflirt, you are surprisingly nervous. Then we’re connected, and my sensual, throaty voice sends a tingle down your spine and straight to your cock. You’re amazed at how sexually excited you already are.

As we talk, I ask you questions about your fetishes. You find yourself telling me things that you’ve never told a single person before. You tell me about your cross-dressing in your wife’s dirty lingerie, and how you shave yourself when you go on business trips. You confide about the hidden dildos and the bisexual and shemale fantasies you have. You even find yourself confessing your need for humiliation.

As we talk, you feel a bond growing between us. I actually listen to you and what you have to say. And I respond to you with fantasies about the fetishes you want and need: the desire for you to be a sissy, or cuckold, or to suck cock, or even to be safely humiliated for those things. I call you by name, and make the phone call personal for you. We can even talk about fantasies that can’t be done in real life, such as vampyrism, or giantess fetish, or vore. No video or pornsite can take the place of a real live person responding to you, and knowing your deepest darkest secrets.

After you have finished the call, you realize that this is only the beginning. Lady Sascha has begun to draw you into her web. You’re already thinking about the next call. In a few days, you may even email me with more secrets, knowing that I will read all your thoughts and fantasies; and we can talk about those when you call again.

So to answer the question posed in the title, this is why my fetish phone sex guys call me. I can get into your head. I can make our time together personal for you. I can fashion and tailor a fantasy phone sex call in any way you like.

All you need to do is pick up the phone and call. If I’m not logged on Niteflirt at the moment, don’t hesitate to write me on there. I can make an appointment with you that can meet your time constraints.

I hope to hear from you soon.