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NEWS: Sex With 30 Somethings (Part II)

Atlanta is not called HOTLANTA because of the heat, daaayum. Our gentleman from the dirty south loves experimenting to an extent, and is somewhat a hopeless romantic for attempting a long distance relationship. Let’s cross our fingers his fear of commitment can be conquered. I haven’t seen “Butterfly Effect 2”, I’ll have to check out the buttery nipples for myself!

Sex : Male

Age: 35

City: Atlanta

Astrological Sign: Cancer

Single (y/n): No

Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
I see myself marrying and I would like to think that the special person in my life currently, would be that person. However, I have seen that my commitment to relationships lacks in the past and I need to be able to commit in order for the relationship to be taken to the next level. Marriage scares the hell out of me.

Do you believe in being with one person forever?
No, I’ve been with multiple people. However, I do believe that marriage is a commitment and requires both parties to be fully involved. It seems like with today’s society, once the times get tough, people tend to dip.

Would you be willing to try an open relationship? Do you believe they work?
I’ve been in an open relationship and as long as both sides are honest, do believe they can work. However, I tend to believe that people eventually want to move to the next level or end the relationship.

Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
Probably not. I think it would cause more issues than help. Think this is more of a thing for people experimenting and trying new things.

What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
I would prefer 2girls1guy but as long as there is no touching between boys and depending on the situation. Basic Rules? Swords touching is not cool! DP? No thank you.

What is a fantasy of yours? Have you ever fulfilled it?
I’ve had a ton of fantasies and some of them have been fulfilled. However, I continue to think/dream/fantasize about things and try to make some of them happen. Standard thoughts and nothing too extreme.

Sex in the rain? Completed.

Sex outside/public? Completed, etc…

If you’re single what dating sites have you used? If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included.
N/A

Did you find them to be useful?
N/A

Were you honest with profile? If not what were you dishonest about?
N/A

What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
Our current locations. Long distance relationships suck and don’t work but I am trying as the person is suppose to be moving to me.

Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom?
Yes, I wouldn’t be harsh or blunt about it. I would try to show my partner what I like and what not. I would hope that they would tell me what I was doing wrong for them and showing me things they like. Think sex is key to a relationship and needs to be strong.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
Yes, I’ve been with partners that did not feel comfortable with me or themselves. I just think some people are confident in themselves and their body. I just tried to show what I liked. For partners I wasn’t fully involved with, I tended to just walk away from a repeat.

What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session? Impotence. Sucks when my mind takes control and I start to over think.

Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
Yes, family and friends look at me strangely when I say I have never been married. It seems like people look at me with even more sadness than someone that has been married and divorced.

Lightning Round:

1. What type of music makes you the horniest?
R&B/Hip Hop/Rap genre

2. What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you?
Taken control.

3.What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane?
Discretely under a blanket on the airplane.

4. Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times?
Yes, not sure how many times but more than once.

5. Do you miss sex with an ex?
Miss? Not really miss but still remember some of the more memorable times.

6. Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s?
I feel more confident now which leads me to think Im better however I believe I was less self conscious then which allowed me to go further than I would probably now.

If better, why? If worse, why?
See Above.

Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous )?
I’ve noticed that I’ve basically gone from relationship to relationship with little single time in between. Which leads me to believe I need a partner to feel whole.

What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene?
Butterfly Effect 2: Buttery Nipples for the win!

Do you look at porn?
Yes, helps release stress and anxiety if you’re not having constant sex.

Get to Know “EmmaLouise”…

With EmmaLouise

How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
When I started getting jobs answering phones in college, the moment I’d answer, men would always say “Oh my God, you have a sexy voice!” I always thought that was a really sweet compliment. When I decided to end a super-stressful career as a psychotherapist, I thought that phone sex would be a fun way to use my sexy voice, my listening skills, and my wicked imagination while staying at home in my cabin in the woods. As a mature woman with lots of life experience, I knew I would find exciting new people to get to know and be friends with, and have incredible sex with! I was right–I’m having more fun than ever!

With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
Hearing a man’s excitement, and hearing a man cum. For me, if I can hear it, it becomes very real. I get so turned on by the heavy breathing, the little gasps and moans. Tease and denial is endless fun because of this, but it’s also frustrating because I have to deny myself, too–I don’t get to hear my caller cum! But I know it’s worth it for the incredible intensity of his arousal.

Is there anything you do to get yourself in the mood for an erotic fantasy phone sex session?
Yes, I get dressed in things that make me feel erotic–especially made out of real silk. Real silk just makes me want to be touched. Usually a camisole and shorts or tap pants, or a short skirt, so I can easily reach everything my caller and I are talking about! I light some incense and if it’s in the evening, I might have a glass of wine.

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
I am a box of chocolates. Some of them are sweet and light, and they melt so softly and submissively on your tongue. Others are a little nutty! A few might surprise you, but always in a delicious way. Some are dark chocolate, complex and superior–the femdomme side of myself. You can take bites of each, enjoy them all, or just pick out your favorites. Open the box and dig in!

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex calls on NiteFlirt?
This IS my fun! I do some life coaching, and when I have down time I like to read, garden, putter around my cabin. I love making jewelry and original clothes, and I’m a creative geek at heart. I just finished my website, www.yourdarkestsecrets.com!

What’s up next for you at NiteFlirt?
I’m celebrating my first two months, which have been very successful, and the launch of my website, by having a “Customer Appreciation Day.” Friday, August 23, all my listings will be only .99 per minute. It’s a way of saying “thank you!” to the great guys who have been keeping me turned on for the last two months!

NEWS: Intimate Whispers from the 30 Somethings (Part I)

As a thirty something single female, I often find myself wondering how my peers are doing when it comes to relationships, love, and sex. I think to myself “Do people really have open relationships, are people fulfilling sexual fantasies, does everyone want to get married, am I a dead fish in the sack compared to others?” I conducted a survey with a handful of 30 year olds (men and women) and I was pleasantly surprised with the answers. People be loving sex, which isn’t shocking but I think more folks want that true love to last more than they admit. Read our first story from a sweet dirty thirty +1 chick! Sounds like she needs to put her big girl pants on and get back in the saddle!

Sex : Female

Age: 31

City: New York

Astrological Sign: Leo

Single (y/n): Y

Do you see yourself marrying your significant other? If not, are you happy? If single do you see yourself getting married in the future?
Yes, I see myself spending a huge portion of my life with one person, if we get married that’s cool too!

Do you believe in being with one person forever?
I still have a little faith, my parents have been together for 31 years so it must jive for some, people are fickle when it comes to relationships these days – I truly believe you need to put the effort into it like anything else in life that you want to flourish.

Would you be willing to try an open relationship? Do you believe they work?
No, I don’t believe they work, at least not for me. I’d be lying to myself if I thought that one would be.

Would you try a threesome with your partner if you were in an exclusive relationship?
No, In this case sharing is NOT caring. 

What would you prefer? 2 guys 1 girl or vice versa?
If I ever did indulge I’m not sure how I’d have it. I would think 2 girls would be awkward, and with 2 guys it seems intimidating, so probably neither!

What is a fantasy of yours? Have you ever fulfilled it?
I’m pretty open in the bedroom, so things, I’ve wanted I’ve tried.  I evolve a lot so I’m sure in a year or so I’ll have a new fantasy to experiment with.

If you’re single what dating sites have you used? If currently dating have you used dating sites in the past, if so, which ones? Dating Apps included.
I have not.

Did you find them to be useful?
N/A

Were you honest with profile? If not what were you dishonest about?
N/A

What is something that would fix in your current relationship (if anything)? If you’re single, why do you think you’re single?
I think I’m single because I’ve been dealing with a career upheaval and lots of stress, so I don’t really put myself out there, so to speak.

Are you comfortable with telling you’re partner they aren’t up to snuff in the bedroom? Absolutely, in the sweetest way possible of course. Sex is an important component of a relationship, you need to communicate.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a partner that wasn’t bringing the noise in the sheets? Did you tell he/she? If so, how did you break the bad news to them?
To be honest I think everyone that I’ve been in an exclusive relationship has been enjoyable in bed. I think one casual encounter sucked, I never went THERE again.  If I was dating someone I’d just be open and loving about it.

What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during a sex session? Nothing off hand, maybe if my landscaping wasn’t up to snuff! Which is like NEVER. 

Even though we live in a progressive world, do you still feel societal pressures to get married and have kids?
|Yes, more so now at 31.

Lightning Round:

What type of music makes you the horniest? Lounge House
What is the sexiest most seductive thing anyone has ever done to you? I love men that take charge. One memory stains my brain… he took me out of the shower laid me on the bed and went down on me, and then we had great sex!
What is sexier? Sex in a park on a blanket for a few to see, or discretely under a blanket on an airplane? Park.
Have you thought about sex today, if so how many times? Yes, once or twice. More after doing this survey.
Do you miss sex with an ex? Sometimes
Do you think you have sex better now in your 30s or better in your 20s? I would say right now my 20s because I haven’t had much of it lately.
If better, why? If worse, why? The real answer is that sex in my 30s is great because hell you’ve had years of practice by now!
Do you feel more complete and whole as a person when dating someone, single, or doesn’t matter (BE HONEST PEOPLE its anonymous )? I don’t mind being single, there are tons of great things going on in my life but how great can it be if you can’t share it with someone else?!
What’s your favorite non-porno movie sex scene? Hmmm
“In the Cut” with Mark Ruffalo and Meg Ryan.
Do you look at porn? Everyday that ends in Y! In reality, yes once in awhile.

NEWS: The Wetter, The Better?

Lube is a silky god sent substance that most of us love and appreciate. I’m not an expert on lube, and to be honest I’m not really sure what’s out there on the market these days, but I do recall a college roommate of mine having a life supply of Astroglide, lol! If you’re sexually active it’s uber important to educate yourself on ways you to create a more safe, pain free, enjoyable sex life for yourself and partner. There is nothing worse than a dry spell during a romp. A friend of mine once describe it as trying to fit a marshmallow in a keyhole, ooof!

Brier Jirka is a sex therapist with the Methodist Physicians Clinic Women’s Center and has weighed in on the importance and benefits of lubrication on Omaha.com. Jirka explains how there are multiple reasons why your natural lubrication may be lower than usual or non-existence.

“This is a very misunderstood area of sexuality. There are many things that can contribute to a lack of lubrication during sex such as low estrogen, anxiety or fears that sex will be painful, alcohol and nicotine use and not enough foreplay before intercourse. Some over-the-counter medications such as Benadryl, which can dry out mucus membranes, also cause a lack of lubrication.”

Lets face it as you get older things tend to dry up just a tad, and why not take the bull by the horns and fix it!? If you’re still in your early 20’s and reading this at least you can take a mental note!  Jirka also provided a list of different types of lubrication available:

“Water-based lubricants (with or without glycerin) 
This is the most commonly sold lubricant. It does dry out, but can quickly be rejuvenated with a few drops of water or saliva. It works well with latex condoms, unlike some lubricants that can break down latex. When choosing to use water-based lube, there’s a difference between those with and without glycerin.   Non-glycerin water-based lubricants are a great choice for women with recurrent yeast infections or extremely sensitive genitals. These lubricants last longer than glycerin-based products and offer a gentle cushion during intimacy. They can reduce irritation to the genitals, are safe to use with condoms and don’t stain fabric. (Brand example: Slippery Stuff)   Water-based with glycerin lubricants have a slightly sweet taste and are very slick. Some of these lubricants feature a warming sensation during intercourse. Negative effects of these types of lubricants include short-term effects and that they can sometimes cause a sticky texture. They are not recommended for women prone to yeast infections or who are diabetic as they have properties similar to glucose. (Brand example: KY-Jelly or KY-Liquid)  Water-soluble lubricants contain oil and shouldn’t be used with condoms.

Silicone-based lubricants 
Silicone is the longest lasting of all the lubricants. It is hypoallergenic and safe to use with condoms. Advantages of using silicone-based lubricants include their effectiveness for women with sensitive genitals, they can be used in water and they’re great for sensual body massage.   Caution should be taken as the long-lasting slippery texture can be dangerous for falling in tubs and showers. Although these lubricants are odorless and tasteless, they are not recommended for oral sex. Silicone lubricants are also more expensive than water-based types and require more cleanup. They are not recommended for use with certain silicone sex toys.

Natural oil-based lubricants (NOT mineral oil) 
These types of lubricants, such as vegetable/corn/avocado/peanut/olive oils, have some benefits during intimacy. They are great for vulvar massage because they are safe for the vagina and safe to ingest.   Disadvantages include they may stain fabric and could destroy latex condoms and sex toys.

Petroleum-based lubricants 
Examples of petroleum lubricants include mineral oil and Vaseline. Unfortunately, these products may irritate women’s vulvas, stain fabric and destroy latex condoms and should not be used in the vagina.

Fertility promotion lubricants 
Since lubricants often impair sperm’s fertilization capabilities, couples desiring to become pregnant may need lubrication that will help fertilization rather than prevent.”

I found this to be very informative, I had no idea there are so many lubrications to choose from. I think I’m going to give this grease a go!

Get to Know “MeanMark”…

With MeanMark

How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
Through a friend.

What is your favorite part of being a flirt on NiteFlirt?
Acting out my fantasies and getting paid for it.

Is there any kind of specific fetish that you yourself enjoy?
A pretty woman with pretty feet.

what erotic fantasy would you like enacted on you?
A pretty woman naked on her knees and licking my feet.

If you were some sort of sexy erotic food, what would you be?
An apple.

Q&A with “Sexy HypnoGirl”

Q: Please give us a brief introduction of yourself for those unfamiliar of you.
A: My name is Nicole, I am 32 years old (I know I look and sound much younger) I live in a small town in Kentucky. I moved here 7 years ago so I could be closer to My mother. I am the youngest of 7. I have 5 sisters and 1 brother.
Before moving to Kentucky I lived in Florida, where I was raised by My grandmother. I guess that’s how I came by the Princess mindset. Hypnosis is more than just a fun way to earn a living (although it is very fun) hypnosis is My passion. I plan on practicing till I have either gotten tired of it or am no longer having fun with it. (I doubt that will ever happen)

Q: I have read that you got started in hypnosis in a hypnotherapist office after high school? Can you elaborate on this a bit?
A: A friend of the family was the receptionist/secretary in a hypnotherapist office. She was pregnant and taking a leave of absence to have her baby. She arranged for Me to fill in for her while she was away. While there I would listen to the hypnotherapist doing sessions, and I was fascinated and captivated. Whenever he had a female client he would leave the door ajar so that I could see what was happening and he would explain to the client that it was policy to have another female either in the room or watching from the next room. The hypnotherapist would also do sessions for Me when I would get a migraine. That’s where and when My passion for hypnosis all started.

Q: What was it that gave you interest in using hypnosis not just for it’s obvious therapeutic aspects, but in a more erotic manner?
A: I’ve always enjoyed controlling men with My mind and My body so using hypnosis is the next obvious progression. When I was in Florida I worked part-time at a radio station doing a morning public service show. I would always get calls after the show from many different men wanting to date Me. They said My voice was a turn on. So I decided to use My voice to do something I really wanted to do, Control men.

Q: Have you found hypnosis to be useful in enhancing sexual responses and experiences with clients over the phone?
A:Over then phone is more difficult than in person only because you can’t see how the person is responding. Over the last few years I have developed a pretty good ear for listening to the subtle signs that the client gives. (Breathing, the way they respond to direct questions, ect..) Hypnosis is very useful no matter how you use it. (Sexual pleasure, Medical, Self-improvement)

Q: Can you take us through the process of a typical session you have with one of your clients? How would one prepare first before talking to you before a session? How is the session itself typically like?
A: I cannot answer this fully only because no two sessions are alike. I try to find out what the person is really into but ultimately it all comes down to turning them into a loving, caring, obedient submissive. The only thing you have to do to prepare for a session with Me is get comfortable, make sure We/we won’t be disturbed then pick up the phone and call Me. I would prefer that you check to make sure you can spend at least 20 minutes with Me to get a full session. The client should also know that there are many times I will not allow them to relieve themselves during the call, its all up to Me in the end.

Q: When one listens to your work, you give off a sense of being very sweet and innocent in your sessions? Do you feel this has aided you in your hypnosis career, and if so how?
A: I do sound very young and very innocent. I believe this is because I have never smoked and I rarely drink. I take care of Myself and I want to be the best Me I can be. The sweetness is coming through because that’s just My personality. I think that by sounding so young and innocent it disarms the listener, and they let go before they realize it. But soon they see I am not as innocent as they thought. I do feel that My voice has played a part in advancing My career in that it is very different than most other hypnotist. Not that one sound is better or worse than another. Diversity is what makes life interesting. I almost hate being called a Hypno-Domme simply because I believe submission is a gift that is given freely and not forced out of the submissive. I see Myself as more of a Princess, but I do call Myself a Soft Domme on My page.

Q: Some hypnotist seems to specialize in certain areas of erotic hypnosis. Some use hypnosis to enhance BDSM sessions. Others Financial domination. Am I correct in the belief that you specialize in nurturing feelings of true love and addiction in your clients?
A: You are very correct I do specialize in this simply because I do what feels right for Me. Like I told you this is My passion, so I do what makes Me happy. What woman doesn’t love having hordes of men worshiping Her and telling Her how beautiful She is and how much they love and adore Her. Like I said its all about Me.

Q. Do you often use erotic hypnosis to help change your submissive’s to better themselves and their lives? If so, in what way do you feel that this is important?
A: I do want them to better themselves because a happy healthy submissive is going to be around for a lot longer. Not to mention part of a submissive’s job is to take care of his Princess. How can he do this if he is not able to take care of himself? I don’t put the entire focus of My sessions on improving themselves but I do want them to be able to take care of Us/us both. So its up to them to decide in what way they use the suggestions that are given.

Q. Is there anyone who you feel has inspired you as a hypnotist through their work?
A: I do not listen to other female hypnotist because I want to remain very unique in the way I do sessions. I do not want to try to imitate somebody else. I really like My style and if I were to start looking around I could fall into the trap of “wow maybe that works better”. Then I would lose who I am. I guess the only one I can give credit to for inspiring Me to become a hypnotist is the hypnotherapist I worked for in Florida. (clap clap cheer cheer thanks Ralph)

Q: What is it that you feel is your best attribute as a female hypnotist? Your voice? Personality? What is it that keeps people wanting to experience your sessions?
A: All of the above, plus I genuinely care about My submissive’s. If you are going to submit yourself to somebody wouldn’t you like to know that they care about you?

Q. What are some facts about Princess Nicole that you feel would shock some people if they knew?
A: I am a gamer I love online fantasy role-play games. I met the man I am dating playing EverQuest. I have also played City of Hero’s, Dark Age of Camelot, Anarchey Online, WarHammer Online and World of Warcraft. In each of these games I played a healing class of some kind. One of My submissive’s plays World of Warcraft, so he has changed servers and now serves Me in game as well. Gathering things I need helping My mom in game when she plays, whatever I need. After all I am a Princess.

Q. Why do you think erotic hypnosis appeals to so many people?
A: So many people have such highly stressful jobs. They feel like the weight of the world is on them. They are the ones that are in charge and the ones that have to make all the hard decisions. Not to mention the responsibility that they have at home. Many clients have families that they are responsible for. Through erotic hypnosis they can escape all of that even if it is only for 15 minutes or an hour at a time. They don’t have to think or decide or do anything, they can simply submit themselves to another person and escape.

Q: What would you like those who may be interested in your work to know about you before taking that first step?
A: One should know I take what I do very seriously and so should they. I completely give them all of My attention during a session so I expect complete and total respect. I do not tolerate clients that call and after a few minutes hang up. I will not put up with anybody that thinks I am there to serve them. Just because I sound sweet don’t think I will tolerate rude or bossy submissive’s. I will care for and respect the submissive that knows his place. DO NOT play games with Me! I will not continue with any caller that tries to play another hypnotist and I against each other. I hate it when a submissive feels they can demand their way. Don’t over step any of these boundaries and you will see I am one of the kindest and most caring person you will ever talk with.

Q. If you were going to an island for a long time, and could only bring one of your own sessions with you… which one would you pick and why?
A: Wow, this is something I had never even thought about. My sessions are all designed and geared toward submissive males. Since I am neither submissive nor male I don’t have any that would do the trick for Me. I would do self hypnosis no need to bring a session after all I am the session LOL.

Q: What future plans do you have in store for your fans and submissive’s alike?
A: I feel like I am growing not only as a hypnotist but as a person as well. Those submissive’s that hang around get to go on this growing journey with Me.

Get to Know “ILoveJanelle”…

With “ILoveJanelle”

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and phone with cam (cam sex) calls on NiteFlirt?
I am a geek in my spare time. I’m always playing PS3 co-op with friends online or solo playing my RPGs such as Final Fantasy, lol. If I am not playing my games then I’m off shopping. I am one big shop-a-holic, lol.

With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
I love role play. Role playing is so much fun and endless. There are so many ways to play and just enjoy yourself. I love to be in sexy different outfits and just having a good time which makes things so much more exciting. That’s just part of my sex, just having to wear something sexy then get it hard and good, lol.

What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you on one of your hot phone sex calls?
Some girls might know him. He calls once in awhile and loves to hear a girl sneeze or blow her nose. I think that was the funniest/weirdest fetish someone could have. I tried so hard not to laugh because I like to please everyone’s fantasy, but everytime I hung up with him I just laughed inside.

Is there any kind of specific fetish that you yourself enjoy?
Yes, and I think every girl can agree on this. When someone sends a really nice tribute after the phone sex call and you feel weak and loving inside. It’s like you just enjoy when a guy spoils you and you just want more and more. I think that’s a fetish I do really enjoy.

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
I would love to be a sweet cake, any flavor doesn’t matter. I’m just that sweet that you crave it in the morning before eating breakfast or have to have it after dinner. That juicy frosting on top just makes your mouth water. Very much a good cake that gives you that food porn moan, lol.

Get to Know “EbonyVixenJoanne”…

With “EbonyVixenJoanne”

How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
I have a high sex drive and I couldn’t always get it when I wanted! Instead of touching myself, by myself, I decided to help others like me and have fun!

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and phone with cam (cam sex) calls on NiteFlirt?
I’m a regular girl, the typical girl next door…movies, going out to eat, doing college work and hanging out with friends.

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
I love whip cream, yes most people say it but I love white cream!

With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
I love to get on top! Cowgirl! I hit the spot EVERY TIME!

Is there anything you do to get yourself in the mood for an erotic fantasy phone sex session?
I turn on slow music and turn off the lights, and while in the chat I always touch myself!

Get to Know “Mistress Lillith”…

With “Mistress Lillith”

How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
In my ‘day to day’ I’ve always had an insatiable sexual appetite and always an interest in female domination (along with all the facets and layers that go along with femdom). I’ve engaged in play groups and Pro-domme sessions. To me, going into the world of femdom phone sex was just a natural progression of things. I was a younger mistress when I started in the phone world, and basically started as a barely legal babe that blossomed into a fabulous femme fatal.

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and phone with cam (cam sex) calls on NiteFlirt?
One of my favorite things to do is to curl up with a glass of red wine or hot tea (depending on the time of day 😉 ) enjoying a Jodi Picoult book, sometimes just reading and relaxing on the couch – Other times soaking in a nice hot tub with aroma therapy beads and bubble bath.
Of course there is the bi-weekly outting of getting a mani/pedi—having my hands, feet and legs massaged is something I crave. I love being pampered and treating myself to a bit of pampering.

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
If I had to be any kind of sexy erotic food, I would choose the Cherry. Why – well…I dare you to just pop one. You can’t. It’s an automatic addiction and before you know it your stomach may ache (like your balls may during a tease and denial session) , and you are out of cherries. But you go back for more – you need more, you crave more. So, that’s why I chose the sexy, addicting cherry.

With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
Most would say ‘the orgasm’ – I enjoy the build up TO the finale (*IF* I allow you to have one 😉 ) . It’s something I learned while studying tantric sex and tantric masturbation – enjoying the moment, living in the moment, becoming almost addicted to the build up before and loving sitting on that edge – loving it even more than the finale. Orgasms are wonderful but once they are over, many times the feeling is gone, unless you have the stamina to go again. But for me, it’s all about the chase, the excitement of the climb.

Is there anything you do to get yourself in the mood for an erotic fantasy phone sex session?
To get into the mood, I like to sit and do a bit of meditation. Just like I get my subbie boys into a certain state of mind (aka subspace) I like to be in my own private domme space. A couple deep breaths, a few moments of intense relaxation and just letting my mind go where it may – when my eyes open, I’m ‘in the zone’ and ready to play.

Get to Know “MissErinBlack”…

With MissErinBlack

How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
I began with some advice from ladies I’m friends with. Both of these ladies are professional dommes, and suggested that I try NiteFlirt to help supplement my income. It’s been wonderful thus far; NiteFlirt allows me to experiment with session ideas on different types of clients. I’m happy to be here!

What is your favorite part of being a Flirt on NiteFlirt?
Truly just how many willing sluts there are out there for me to use! All kinds of sluts from sissies to paypigs. I also love training via NiteFlirt. It’s incredibly effective.

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and phone with cam (cam sex) calls on NiteFlirt?
I’m normally attending to real-time submissives, cooking, reading, or working out. Furthering My education is important to Me, so I spend a lot of time learning.

With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
My absolute favorite part of sex, or any sexual experience for that matter, is power exchange. There’s nothing as thrilling as a submissive wanting Me to take his/her power away, and do whatever I please with that power.

Is there any kind of specific fetish that you yourself enjoy?
I love foot fetishists; there are few things as lovely as having My feet catered to after a long day in high-heeled leather boots. I love the feeling of having my toes sucked and having my arches massaged by a tongue that is desperate to please. I also have a soft spot for cuckolds, sissies, and anal sluts. Nothing is better than someone desperate to please Me.