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Researchers Explain Why You Giggle Or Sneeze After Orgasm

Do you ever laugh, sneeze, or cry after orgasm? If so, it turns out you may be experiencing a phenomenon called the peri-orgasm, or uncontrollable psychological or physical sensations after sex. While “losing control” during climax is definitely a pleasurable aspect of sex, with peri-orgasm, unpleasant flu-like symptoms can occur and last for days.

“It is not clear how common it is, but one small study highlighted by researchers who reported their findings in the Sexual Medicines Review found that ten out of 47 women had such responses,” reports Daily Mail UK. The most common symptom for men is sneezing, but more insidious after-effects can include migraine headaches, panic attacks, and even hallucinations or altered consciousness. Researchers believe such behavior is caused by misfires in the nervous system, when the parasympathetic nervous system sends signals to the wrong places. The report said: ‘The diversity of the phenomena is notable, and they have little in common other than that they all relate to the physiology of orgasm.’ When orgasming goes wrong…

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Check out more about why you sneeze or laugh after sex: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-4502698/Why-partners-giggle-sneeze-sex.html

7 Things Your Pussy Wants You To Know About Masturbation

BuzzFeed wants to know: “Have you appreciated your clitoris lately?” The reason they ask is because masturbation is amazing, and so good for your mind and body! Here are 7 ways to do right by your pussy.

Masturbation should never be treated as a “stand-in for sex”
Masturbation is its own unique and important sexual outlet—as one sex therapist explains, it should be “regarded as first class” and not “relegated to a second-class citizenship.” She adds that it’s “a lifelong relationship you have with your body and with your own sexuality.”
It ain’t all about the Big O
The ultimate goal of masturbation shouldn’t be about having an orgasm—in fact, it could be giving you performance anxiety. She advises women to “just focus on pleasuring yourself without worrying about whether or not you get off.”
Use your digits before graduating to toys
Figuring out how to get yourself off first without a toy sets a good foundation before experimenting with different kinds of orgasms. “Learn your baseline, and then you can go wild,” she says.
Use the clit!
This is the main reason women have trouble orgasming. Get a vibrator and go get off!
Plenty of people require simultaneous stimulation of various erogenous zones for the best orgasm, too
If clitoral stimulation isn’t working for you, play around with penetrating yourself, or exploring other erogenous zones!
Besides being super fun and feeling great, there are health benefits to masturbation
“It relieves stress, it helps you feel more relaxed, and it boosts endorphins and testosterone levels, which can improve your mood,” according to the sexpert.
Masturbating can help you enjoy sex with other people more
As the sexperts explain, if you don’t know what feels good to you, how will you be able to guide a partner? Your pleasure starts with knowing your body, exploring your body, and embracing your sexual health.

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Check out more female masturbation tips here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/the-clit-is-it?utm_term=.xlxyb7R9G5#.lcd5MYZAzb

Tennis Match Gets Interrupted By Sounds Of Loud Sex Nearby

What is it about tennis that is just so damn sexy? Maybe it’s all the grunting, the sweating, the excitement? Well, during a recent tennis match between Frances Tiafoe and Mitchell Krueger at the Sarasota Open in Florida, the unmistakable sounds of two people going at it brought the already smokin’ hot sport to the next level (check out the video below)!

“Well that is … the most bizarre situation,” the announcer said when the excited screams could be heard loud and clear. Even Tiafoe, mid-game, when he could no longer ignore the loud sex moans coming from across the lake, shouted out, “It can’t be that good!” Then the announcer added, “At least somebody’s having a good night,” to the orgasmic commotion. Later, Tiafoe tweeted that the sex noises were definitely real and that “I couldn’t be happier when I heard that.” All that hot sexual energy must have had a positive effect on Tiafoe—he won the match!

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Check out the video of loud sex noises interrupting a tennis match here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tennis-match-gets-interrupted-by-sounds-of-loud-sex-nearby_us_58f77a05e4b05b9d613f0084

This Is How a $1 Vibrator Compares To a $400 Vibrator

When it comes to vibrators, does spending more really yield bigger orgasms? Vice wanted to find out, so they tested $1 vibrators against vibrators ranging in price from $32 to $428. Here’s how the cheap ones measured up against the fancier ones.

PLAYFUL VIBRATING BULLET, $1Vice’s reviewer put it this way, “It is the cheapest thing I’ve ever put near my vagina.” Nuff said.RATING: -1/5; VALUE FOR MONEY: 0/5
WATWEPROOF RABBIT VIBRATOR, $32The Rabbit is a classic for a reason. And while it’s pretty retro at this point, if a vibrator ain’t broke, don’t fix it. It’s the best $32 you’ll ever spend: “It’s sort of like having three people down there at once,” said Vice.RATING: 5/5; VALUE FOR MONEY: 5/5
LELO SMART VIBRATING BODY WAND LARGE, $194The reviewer said it’s great for “Lifehackers and minimalist YouTubers.” And it’s multi-functional design works like a charm: “use it on a sore back, wank with it, stir stuff with it, cosplay with it, massage anything. It feels like something you’re not sure that you need, but that you should have anyway.”RATING: 4/5; VALUE FOR MONEY: 5/5
LELO TIANI 24K, $399This is billed as a “couple’s vibrator,” and works by putting one “arm” inside you while also buzzing. The reviewer said that most of the charm is knowing that you’re getting off to a premium, luxury toy. But ultimately it didn’t beat The Rabbit.

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Check out Vice’s review of cheap to fancy vibrators: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/wibrator-za-piataka

Goop’s Telling Women To Put Jade Eggs In Their Pussies

There’s a new product Gwyneth Paltrow recommends adding to your Goop shopping cart that’s promising to do wonders for your sex life. No, it isn’t a $15,000 gold dildo or sex-dust smoothies—it’s the “ancient” jade egg, which for $66 will “increase chi, orgasms, vaginal muscle tone, hormonal balance, and feminine energy in general.” Goop also boasts that the eggs “were once the strictly guarded secret of Chinese concubines and royalty in antiquity.”

Goop alleges that sleeping and walking around with a stone egg in your ladybits is not only the new kegels, but will also magically make you appear more attractive. Unsurprisingly, actual doctors are already criticizing Paltrow for dolling out pseudo-science medical advice that is actually bad for women’s health. One OB/GYN pointed out that putting a porous rock inside you is dangerous because bacteria can easily lodge into its various nooks and crannies, unlike medical-grade silicone. Having an egg up there could also have the opposite effect of kegels and actually damage those muscles. Jade eggs are currently sold out on Goop, which leads us all to wonder—after so much questionable sex advice, such as vaginal steaming and toxic lube, why are women still buying “Yoni” Snake Oil from Gwyneth Paltrow?

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Check out more about Goop telling women to put jade eggs in their pussies: https://gizmodo.com/no-you-should-not-put-jade-eggs-in-your-vagina-because-1791390211

‘Golden Trio’ Of Sex Moves Boosts Chances Of Female Orgasm

Researchers have found a way to help close the female orgasm gap. A study from a team of US researchers say that to get a woman off, a combination of genital stimulation, deep kissing and oral sex, aka the “golden trio,” is needed to increase the likelihood of achieving an orgasm. Published in the Journal of Archives of Sexual Behavior, the study looked at 52,000 participants to shed light on orgasm gaps between the sexes and also between people with different sexual orientations—and for straight women, the findings were pretty grim.

“While 95% of heterosexual men reported that they usually or always orgasmed during sexually intimate moments, just 65% of heterosexual women did. By contrast, the figure was 89% for gay men, 86% for lesbian women, ” reports the Guardian. As researchers says, the gaps between men and heterosexual women were already known, but the ones between lesbians and straight women highlight the need for men to better understand just what it takes to get a woman there, so to speak. “About 30% of men actually think that intercourse is the best way for women to have orgasm, and that is sort of a tragic figure because it couldn’t be more incorrect,” said a co-author of the research. Researchers say they hope couples will consider the “golden trio” and incorporate it into the bedroom—after all, everyone deserves to experience “their fullest sexual expression to the maximum of their ability.”

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Check out more about the “golden trio” of sex moves to help women orgasm: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/feb/23/golden-trio-of-moves-boosts-chances-of-female-orgasm-say-researchers

9 Women Confess How They Really Feel About Oral Sex

Every woman is different when it comes to what gets her hot during sex. For some women, oral sex is a necessary precursor to the main event, while others find that it is the main event, while still others would rather just skip the whole thing entirely. Here, 9 women on Whisper confess how they really feel about oral sex—and as you can imagine, their responses are wildly different.

“I can honestly say I like when my man kisses me after going down on me and I can still taste myself on his lips.” Some tasty dessert is always welcome after a good meal!
“I love getting oral from a dude that knows what he’s doing. It feels soooo good!” Amen to that!
“My secret: I start texting people when my boyfriend is busy going down on me. Romance is dead.”Sounds like someone needs a phone intervention…
“I’m really uncomfortable receiving oral sex because it’s too up close and personal.” Well, that is the point…
“I think it’s so hot when my lover wakes me up by going down on me.” Breakfast is served!
“I love receiving oral sex but guys never want to do it. Why?” It’s called the orgasm gap. And ladies, that is a deal breaker.
“I used to hate when guys went down on me but now it’s what I want my boyfriend to do all day every day.” Sounds like the perfect way to spend a day—or every day— to us!
“I love people going down on me, the feeling of their tongue and their fingers is orgasmic.” Yes!
“I can only orgasm when I’m getting oral sex but I can never do it when I have regular sex. Is there something wrong with me?” The orgasm gap rears its ugly head again…sounds like this lady and her man have some homework to do.

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Check out more confessions about how women really feel about oral sex: https://distractify.com/sex-relationships/2016/10/17/oral-sex-confessions

Anna Kendrick Had the Perfect Response To a Guy Giving Her an Orgasm

It’s clear from Oscar-nominated actress Anna Kendrick’s new book that what she should really win an award for is communicating in bed. She knows the orgasm gap is a depressing reality for far too many women, and in Scrappy Little Nobody she gets candid about keeping it real during sex―including the one time she gave props to a guy for giving her an orgasm! Here’s her story.

After a few months with a boyfriend, she still hadn’t had an orgasm with him. So how’d she respond when he finally got her there? A big high-five! “’So hey, first time I’ve had an orgasm during that whole situation,’” she writes. “I raised my hand for a high five. ‘Up top!’” The dude didn’t respond well, but we’ve got to give Kendrick props for her assertiveness. As study after study has shown, good communication is the key to good sex. Up top, ladies who aren’t shy about communicating during sex!

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Check out more about Anna Kendrick’s perfect response to a guy giving her an orgasm: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/anna-kendrick-orgasm_us_582f43f4e4b058ce7aaad863

Women Try Orgasming In Three Minutes Or Less

Most women take a little longer than guys to, um, get there. But one sex toy, the Womanizer, claims that 80 percent of users orgasm after only two or three minutes. BuzzFeed wanted to find out if it was worth the hype, so they had women gave it a go (watch the video below).

The Womanizer is unlike a typical vibrator: it’s hands-free and uses a suction cup to suck and pull the clit, sort of like with oral sex. And at a whopping $249, these manufacturers better make women cum in three minutes or less! So does this bad boy really get the job done? “Holy shit! I came in exactly three minutes. Exactly as I was finishing, the timer went off!” said one satisfied customer. Another woman came in one minute and 30 seconds! So, working women who need to get some—you won’t regret investing your time in the Womanizer!

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Check out more about the sex toy that makes women cum in three minutes or less: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/women-try-orgasming-in-three-minutes-or-less_us_581778b0e4b0990edc32861d

BuzzFeed Tells Men To Cut a Hole In a Bar of Soap and Fuck It

In BuzzFeed Motion Pictures’ latest video called “6 Easy Masturbation Hacks For Men,” there’s some pretty strange masturbation tips. One jerking off “hack” involves tapping the head of the dick through the underwear until reaching an “explosive orgasm.” Why a dude would want to take hours tapping his dick through his underwear when he can simply use the tried-and-true method of jerking off is never explained. But the strangest masturbation tip by far is the one involving soap.

BuzzFeed instructs men to cut a hole in a bar of soap and then fuck it, wearing a condom to avoid irritation. As Jezebel says, “This is a deranged solution to a problem that can easily solved with one or two hands and a solid work ethic. This is an urgent care visit waiting to happen. This is a waste of good soap.” BuzzFeed definitely hasn’t thought this one through—we mean, how would guys explain the giant hole in the otherwise perfectly normal bar of soap in their bathroom?

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Check out more about fucking a bar of soap and BuzzFeed’s other suggestions in the video below or read more on Jezebel