Tag: orgasm

5 Fun Facts About Male Orgasms

ID-100216698The male orgasm is a weird and wonderful thing. While you probably know the basics about cumming (it feels amazing!), you may not have heard some lesser known facts—like just how fast cum can travel (hint: it’s super fast!). Check out these 5 fun facts about the male orgasm that are sure to amaze and make you smile:

  1. Orgasms Reduce the Risk of Cancer
    Science has found that men who ejaculate regularly—around 20 times per month—lower their risk of prostate cancer by 20%. As though you needed a reason!
  2. Cum Travels Really, Really Fast
    “Faster than a speeding bullet! More powerful than a locomotive!” Well, not really. But still, cum travels really, really fast—around 28 mph!
  3. Orgasms From Sex Are Better Than Orgasms From Masturbation
    You may have noticed how much better cumming feels with another person, but there’s scientific evidence to back this up. It’s because during sex, 400% more prolactin is released when you cum, making you feel sleepy and sexually satisfied—until the next go around!
  4. Women Aren’t the Only Ones Who Fake Orgasms…
    According to a study, 28% of men have faked an orgasm at one time or another. Oh, Tricky Dicks!
  5. Men Are Capable of Multiple Orgasms
    While most men need about 30 minutes before they can go again, it is possible for men to have multiple orgasms. By managing testosterone levels and even switching up sex positions, men are able to train themselves to cum over and over again.

Feel like having a weird and wonderful experience yourself? At Niteflirt, we are all about putting science to the test!

Is the G-Spot a Myth?

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_autoblow2Some medical researchers have been arguing that the G-spot is about as real as unicorns and angels, which has made women everywhere wonder if they’ve been wasting their time searching for the elusive “vaginal orgasm.” A review published in the Journal of Clinical Anatomy asserts that the existence of the so-called G-spot, or the magical spot located inside the pussy that can make a woman cum, cannot be proven with scientific evidence. This is why the researchers say that women should focus on the “female orgasm” instead of the “vaginal orgasm,” since every woman has the capacity to orgasm if her clit is nice and stimulated.

The researchers explain that the clit is basically the “female penis” since its anatomical structure is so closely related to a male’s cock (see pictures below). While the comparison may seem strange, a clit and a dick are similar in the way that increased blood flow causes their spongy tissues to engorge right before orgasm—the only difference is that the clit is very small and hard to find, which is why it’s important to educate and demystify women about their pussy’s. The study’s aim is to raise awareness about the myths of the “vaginal orgasm” so that women who feel shame at not being able to cum through PIV sex alone can start taking control of their own sexual pleasure.

At NiteFlirt, we’re all about empowering women through sex! Come celebrate the amazing and wonderful joys of the “female orgasm” right here!

Read more about the G-spot study here.

These Sex Toys Will Make You Orgasm Better

Every lady loves her sex toys. They’re fun alone or with a partner, and best of all, they make you cum in incredible new ways. But what if we told you that there are some sex toys that can make you cum even better? Here are 4 incredible sex toys that will give you bigger, better, louder, and more intense orgasms than you ever dreamed possible (and check out the video below that the co-founder of Babeland created):

  1. INA Wave Vibrator
    This LELO vibrator is the more refined sister sex toy to the infamous vibrator/dildo, The Rabbit. It has a vibrator on the top, a dildo on the back, and instead of making The Rabbit’s circular motion, it does a “come hither” type motion that is perfect for hitting your special sensitive spots.
  2. Hand-blown glass dildo
    If you’re looking to go right for your G-spot, this is the dildo for you. Make sure to get yourself nice and aroused beforehand, then slip it inside to make some G-spot magic! It can also be heated in water or cooled in the freezer for added sensation.
  3. Stronic Pulsator
    This sex toy is the perfect combo of vibrator and dildo. Although it looks like a vibrator, it doesn’t vibrate. Instead, it acts just like a cock (or a fucking machine), and is the closest thing you’ll get to actually getting fucked when you’re by yourself.
  4. The Pop Plug
    When women masturbate, it’s usually about stimulating the clit and the G-spot—but what about the ass? It’s getting stimulated too, and it wants to get invited to the party! With this sex toy, you can lube it up, pop it in, and forget about it. It will make everything much more stimulated and ready for that ultimate, mind-blowing orgasm!

All this talk of bigger and better orgasms really put us in the mood! Want to get invited to our party? Everything’s more intense with us!

Check out the co-founder of Babeland’s video here!

The Joys of Finger-Fucking

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_orgasm5Looking to switch it up in the bedroom and make your lady very very happy? Look no further than finger-fucking—an underrated and seriously amazing way to get your lady off and leave her sat.is.fied. Here are some reasons why you should throw some healthy fingering into the mix tonight.

While getting fucked is fantastic, fingers can offer a more focused, intense stimulation than any other body part. You can hit every erogenous spot while using your fingers—rubbing her clit with one hand and using the other inside her for an amazing internal/external combination. Fingering’s also more likely to make her cum than PIV (penis in vagina) sex: since 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, you can hit all her spots this way. But best of all, fingering allows you to watch your lady respond to all the pleasure you’re giving her!

This sounds like a great way to spend an evening to us! Want to get some good practice in? We’re always down for some amazing ways to switch it up!

Read more about the joys of finger-fucking here, along with some tips about how to do it right!

7 Amazing Facts About the Amazing Female Orgasm

As we’ve written about before, the pussy is a wonderful and beautiful thing, and the female orgasm is definitely part of that. A new video from Wired explains the amazing female orgasm and the ways a woman reaches climax both physically and chemically. While the male orgasm can be described as an “explosion,” the female orgasm is more subtle and mysterious, so here are some facts to explain what exactly goes on when a woman cums:

  1. The clit has a lot of nerve endings
    8,000 nerve endings to be exact! That’s why the clit is so sensitive (like the tip of a cock!).
  2. The majority of women need clitoral stimulation to cum
    Yes, most women—around 70%—need both clitoral stimulation and penetration to achieve an orgasm. Better put those hands to good use!
  3. Some women can orgasm without either clitoral stimulation or penetration
    Yes, there are some magical women out there who can cum without any sexual stimulation at all. These women can cum just from kissing or giving head!
  4. A woman’s pain threshold can increase up to 107 percent during climax
    Yup, that probably explains why many ladies like it hard and rough right when they’re cumming!
  5. Some women can cum while giving birth
    A very small percentage (.3%), but yes, some women can manage to get their rocks off while popping out a baby!
  6. 94 percent of women can orgasm from anal sex
    The joys of backdoor sex, ladies and gents!
  7. Ten percent of women can get off at the gym
    While it’s a small percentage, it’s amazing to think that there are some ladies out there who can cum just from working out. That would definitely make going to the gym more enjoyable!

There you have it—the wonders of the female orgasm! Now let’s put all that knowledge to good use!

Imaginary Teasing

By Seductress Suzie

Weaving The Fantasy
As a teasing Phone Sex Mistress, I am an expert at weaving a fantasy in your mind, aren’t I?  Just with my voice, I can make you believe I am right  there, alongside of you.  That isn’t your hand stroking your cock, teasing it, it’s mine.  That isn’t a Fleshlight, it’s my talented mouth, or my wet and warm pussy you’re sliding that cock into.  I know just how to get inside of your head and make you believe that I am right there with you.

Guiding Your Masturbation
You’ve got a lot to do with this though.  You let me take control of your cock. You let me guide your hand as it strokes your shaft, rubs over your pre-cum slick head and cups those swollen cum filled  balls.  It’s really not your hand though, is it?  It’s my soft hand, the one that knows exactly how to touch you, to bring you to the edge, and then back off, then take you to the edge again and again. I will keep you on the edge until you are begging for a release.

I Know How To Tease You
That amazes you, doesn’t it?  How I know how to let up or even stop without you saying a word.  And you do try to fool me, you naughty little slut.  You think if you don’t say anything, if you don’t actually say “Oh, Goddess, I’m so close”, that you might actually sneak in an “accidental” orgasm.  Silly little stroker, you don’t have to say anything!  I know by how you’re breathing, by the little moans and gasps that escape your lips…. just how close you are.  So I can stop…or  I can give you just that one last stroke and then stop……denying of that orgasm that you think you need.  Come and play with me little pets, and experience how much fun orgasm denial can be.

Ciao,
Suzie

NEWS: Clitorises, Climaxing, Connecting…OH MY!

We’ve all read that we need to stop and smell the roses, eat clean, practice yoga, love ourselves, mediate, but what about “Orgasmic Mediation?” As a 30 year old female I can honestly say that climaxing is not always something that I can conquer myself, let alone with a partner (apologizes to my lovely ex’s). I can’t speak for all women but I am sure there are plenty of orgasm deficient ladies out there, including myself.

I recently came across a TEDx lecture that held my undivided attention for an entire fifteen minutes; moreover I was enchanted the whole time (which is a feat) The title of the lecture is “Orgasm. The Cure for the Western Woman” by Nicole Daedone. Daedone is the Founder of OneTaste, a San Francisco based company that is devoted to educating people on topics that I truly believe are vital, that is if you enjoy feeling amazing and experiencing true ecstasy. OneTaste offers training and education on orgasms, communication, and man-woman relationships. This practice is something that Daedone calls OM, Orgasmic Mediation. I think this is a mediation I can handle, ooommmmmmmm.

OneTaste describes OM: “It’s a practice that is a gateway to more vitality, connection, and Turn On. It’s deliberate and structured will repeatable results. It’s mediation, equally powerful for both partners- only the object of focus is the clitoris. OM is a source of power – a well from which to draw energy. It’s profound, yet simple and you can have it whether you are single or couple.” I don’t know about you but they had me at “object of focus is the clitoris”, I was sold!

OneTaste offers training through social media, conferences, and in-person private coaching. I suggest during your long holiday weekend you do yourself a favor and set aside fifteen minutes to watch Daedone’s TEDx lecture, who knows you might find your legs “butterflied open” and in a euphoric state, you’ll understand after you watch!

Back on the Market

By Kinky Kristina

I’m Kinky Kristina and my callers have told me I’m the horniest, kinkiest housewife, and MILF on Niteflirt.  Now, I have an announcement to make here on the Niteflirt blog, I’m making the move from horny housewife to hot-to-trot divorcee, because I’m divorcing my husband!  I’ve started dating again and this is putting me in an intriguing sexual situation where I’m essentially cuckolding my husband until we’re legally divorced.  Ha, he deserves to be cuckolded anyway.  Since I’ve been dating again, wearing sexy lingerie, outfits, stockings and heels instead of blouses, jeans and flats is making me very turned on.  I’m in my “Dirty Thirties” and being in my sexual prime is an amazing experience I want to share with more Niteflirt callers who want to talk to a horny housewife or MILF.

I’m also an “Anything Goes” type of girl, so we can get down and dirty.  I enjoy being on Niteflirt, chatting with men from all over, fulfilling fantasies, role plays and the best bonus for me:  orgasms! As many as I want!  As a mature woman, I have so much more sexual experience and really know how to get men off in so many different ways.  I only started to do phone sex when my marriage was going downhill and it was more for me to have a sexual outlet, since I wasn’t having my sexual needs fulfilled.  I wasn’t sure if phone sex, being a virtual form of sex, would be fulfilling but I’ve found that it is such an intense experience, and I try to make it so real and appeal to every sense that a man has.  If you want an intense phone sex call experience, then call me.

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