Tag: Monogamy

More Couples Are In Open Relationships Because They’re ‘Bored With Each Other’

It seems couples are rearing to get out after so much time in lockdown—of their monogamous relationships. Romantic burnout caused by spending too much time together during the pandemic has caused lovers to seek out more exciting prospects. A sex therapist reported a 45 percent leap in inquiries about discussing the subject with partners in recent months.

She said: “Couples are now keener than ever to spice things up a bit. Many have started to outsource their needs in the shape of open relationships.” While men are usually the ones who suggest more sexual freedom, it is women who want it to continue. “Women are now much more in charge and much more demanding,” which according to the sex therapist, is why we’re seeing more open relationships these days.

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Check out more about couples seeking open relationships because they’re bored with each other: https://nypost.com/2022/04/13/more-couples-enjoying-open-relationships-because-theyre-bored-with-each-other/

A New Survey Reveals India’s Kinky Side

A dating app revealed all of India’s dirty secrets between the sheets. Tinder surveyed 1,500 singles in the 18-34 age group across seven urban Indian cities about their sexual preferences. It turns out, a majority of people in India are down to getting kinky in bed, with 71 percent of them saying they’re up for innovating, regardless of the age group.

Most of them also revealed that they feel freer and more open to experimentation when they’re fucking casually or having a one-night stand. Most people said they prefer to fuck at night, while 32 percent could get going at any time of the day, and a very small 8 percent were all about morning sex. It seems for urban Indian Gen Z and millennials, there’s a lot of hot action happening!

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Check out more about a new survey revealing India’s kinky side: https://www.vice.com/en/article/qvgqzq/almost-50-percent-of-indians-surveyed-have-lied-about-being-too-tired-from-working-to-avoid-having-sex

Sex Therapist Says You Should Be In An Open Relationship

A Canadian sex therapist and author of “A Happy Life in an Open Relationship: The Essential Guide to a Healthy and Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life” believes the secret to a happy, long-term relationship is being nonmonogamous. She argues millions of people would improve and strengthen their marriages and relationships if they accepted that “for many of us, one partner cannot meet all our needs.” She explains how being in an open relationship allowed her to finally explore her bisexuality and kinks.

“I knew I was interested in women because I always liked watching lesbian porn,” she says, describing her first “sensuous” sexual experience with a woman. Being in an open relationship also allowed her to explore BDSM, since her partner “tried kinky sex but doesn’t like it.” She enjoys spanking, dirty talk, handcuffs, hair pulling and mild, pleasurable pain with many partners, while her partner also has casual and longer-term sex partners. “What we do with other people does not matter,” she writes. “In fact, my joy is seeing him happy in other relationships.”

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Check out more about a sex therapist’s book on the benefits of nonmonogamous relationships: https://nypost.com/2020/03/09/why-this-sex-therapist-says-you-should-be-in-an-open-marriage/

Monogamy Killed The Penis Bone In Humans, New Research Suggests

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_cocks_on_filmEven though we call erections “boners,” ironically, human men don’t actually have penis bones. For decades scientists have wondered why, but a new study might finally answer the mystery. As it turns out, monogamy killed the penis bone.

The study ultimately discovered “a clear [relationship] between the bone’s length and a species’ promiscuity: more promiscuous species had longer bacula,” writes The Economist. And the longer the penis bone, the more likely a man would keep the female away from his competition while he impregnated her. “What scientists now theorize is that humans lost their penis bones when monogamy became prevalent, about 1.9 million years ago. They no longer had the pressing need to keep away the competition by fucking for a long time,” reports Gizmodo. So there you have it, guys—you lost your dick bone, but gained true love.

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Check out more about how monogamy killed the penis bone: https://gizmodo.com/new-research-suggests-monogamy-killed-the-penis-bone-in-1790075764

A Polyamorist View of Monogamy

Have you ever considered what’s more difficult, monogamy or polyamory? Many people assume that because monogamy is the more socially acceptable form of romantic partnership, it must be easy, and more natural. But a polyamorist in Together magazine examines the many challenging and unnatural ways monogamy manifests itself in our society. Here are some of the highlights (read the entire piece below).

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“Arguably, polyamory requires a lot more ‘work’ than monogamy. It’s logistically more challenging managing multiple relationships—there are only so many hours in a week,” says polyamorist Michael McDonald. “But if monogamy is so much simpler than polyamory, why does it feel like so much work?” McDonald argues that monogamy is not natural—as in, it’s not in a human’s nature to couple with just one person—so if a person chooses to be monogamous, then they are participating in “an advanced form of relating that requires us to transcend what comes naturally to us in relationship.”

McDonald goes on to describe how monogamous couples can be separated into two different camps: conscious monogamy and unconscious monogamy. Conscious monogamy is when a couple transcends their very nature to choose a long-term, co-created partnership. Unconscious monogamy is rooted in fear, relating to societal expectations and to anxieties about security, which he says is the more common, more insidious form of monogamy we often see today. McDonald believes, therefore, that we should “be encouraging polyamory as the norm, and monogamy as the advanced, only meant for the most experienced.”

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Check out more about a polyamorist’s view of monogamy here: https://together.guide/a-polyamorist-view-of-monogamy/