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6 Reasons To Appreciate Those Bravely Taking a Dick in the Ass

It’s hard out there for a bottom. From needing to watch what you eat to all the prep involved, taking a dick in the ass is definitely no walk in the park. Here are 6 reasons to appreciate those brave backdoor souls.

Taking a dick in the ass is a lot of effort
In other words, porn stars who make it look so damn easy are liars.
You have to plan and watch what you eat
If you want to have hot, clean sex, just say no to that burrito!
You have to prep, i.e, douche
Yup. And it’s not that fun to stick something that isn’t a dick up your ass!
Wine and lube are your best friends when you’re a bottom
More is more!
You gotta have those towels at the ready!
Unless you want funky lube-stained sheets…
It’s not as easy to have spontaneous sex
While spontaneous sex is hot, sometimes you can’t help but think to yourself, “but wait, am I gonna shit myself?” But then you really start to enjoy yourself and stop worrying!

To all the brave bottoms out there, we salute you! Now let’s have some hot, hard experiences!

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11 Ways to Nail Sex With Any Man

Does the above headline sound familiar? Does it remind you of every Cosmopolitan cover you’ve ever seen in the checkout line of the grocery store? More importantly, does it make you roll your eyes every time you see it? If so, you’re going to love Buzzfeed’s parody video “11 Ways to Nail Sex With Any Man” (check it out below). Here’s what you need to know to make him wag his tongue for more (hint: burritos are key).

Lightly scratch his back.
Mm, that sounds nice. Off to a great start here!
Gently bite his ear
Ok, things are starting to heat up!
Leave a lipstick heart on his mirror
Sexy. Flirty.
Hide under the bed when he goes to the bathroom, then grab his feet when he comes back to bed.
Um, sort of like a feisty cat?
Right when he’s about to orgasm, whisper “burrito” in his ear.
Maybe he really loves Mexican food? Like, a lot?
Wear red lipstick and leave a trail of kisses to his toaster.
Ok….now you’ve lost us.
Wrap just your bottom in sheets and pretend to be a mermaid.
Then have him unfasten your sea-shell bra?
Or even better, wrap yourself in the blanket and pretend to be a burrito.
Getting hungry, daddy?
Put peanut butter in your bra for a sticky surprise when he goes to touch your breasts.
Like a Reeses cup—soft on the outside, warm and salty on the inside!
Hide a toy car in your vagina for him to find.
That’s one way to rev his engine!
Have his family hide in the closet with takeout and jump out and yell “surprise” after you’re finished making love.
Worst. Surprise. Party. Ever.

Looking for some tasty surprises tonight that don’t involve burritos or peanut butter? We can make you wag your tongue for more right here!

Check out Buzzfeed’s “11 Ways to Nail Sex With Any Man” here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/michellekhare/11-ways-to-nail-sex-with-any-man#.ntopJwrbOk

Straight Guys Are Using Vibrators Much More Than Ever Before

A recent report printed in Mel Magazine shows straight guys are engaging in auto-erotic ass-play with much more frequency than you might have expected. The report was conducted by a psychologist based in Albuquerque, New Mexico who surveyed hundreds of men on their past masturbatory habits. And what the study found was that a good percentage of straight men use vibrators and other objects to get themselves off.

According to the results of the report, almost 1 in 3 men have used vibrators to help themselves get off, 1 in 4 insert any object such as a butt plug, and 1 in 3 men stimulate themselves with their fingers. These findings prove that straight guys are starting to embrace ass-play at a much higher frequency than in recent years. In a 2009 study led by Trojan condoms, only 17% of straight guys said that they used vibrators during masturbation. According to a sex therapist, the significant increase in the use of vibrators by straight men implies that there’s less of a stigma around ass-play now. He explains: “It’s very common. A lot of men have heard about it, so it’s safer to engage in self anal-play than to engage in it with another person. If I’m giving it to myself, it doesn’t have the cultural stigma attached to that area.” Here’s to a future with more sex-positivity and more backdoor fun!

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Check out more about straight guys using vibrators more than ever before here: https://www.thegailygrind.com/2016/02/27/straight-guys-vibrator-use/

Men in Cuba Are Putting Pearls in Their Dicks To Become Better Lovers

In the latest baffling sex trend, men in Cuba are surgically inserting pearls into their cocks to become better lovers. In Cuba, sexual prowess is everything, which is why men go to dangerous lengths to enhance themselves downstairs. The pearl, which is a tiny ball made of plastic, is slipped in under the skin of the penis through a small incision. According to Cuban myth, “women who feel the pearl go mad with pleasure.”

Unfortunately, the surgery is not often performed with proper sanitary measures, and many of the men become infected and need to have the pearl removed because of complications, such as tetanus, balanitis, and gangrene. But what’s even more shocking than the riskiness involved is the fact that the pearl doesn’t actually make sex more pleasurable for women. Dr. Almudena López, a sex therapist in Cuba, told Vice that “for it to really stimulate the clitoris, the pearl should be placed at the very base of the penis, which never happens. As for the G-spot, that’s something you can easily reach with a finger, but it’s much more complicated to reach directly with the penis.” We think it’s fair to say that these guys might consider giving the pearl to the sexy lady in their lives with a ring or necklace—instead of with their cocks!

Want to enhance your sex life the natural way? You don’t need pearls to make the ladies around here go mad with pleasure!

Check out more about “the pearl” here: https://distractify.com/sex-relationships/2016/03/09/pearl-enhancements

Bisexual Women Discuss Whether Men or Women are Better in Bed

In case you’ve ever wondered who bisexual women prefer in the bedroom—men or women—we’ve got good news for you. A new Youtube video asked bisexual women to discuss their sexual preferences with men and women, and their answers were pretty enlightening. Here’s what they said (check out the video below).

Women make better sex noises
Women are more “sexually expressive” in bed, while “guys kind of get that deep throat-y thing.”
You can always get the perfect cock size…with a dildo
But at the same time, it’s easier to fuck a guy: “when you’re gonna get it on, you don’t have to get all the equipment like lesbians do. You don’t have to be like, ‘hold on, gotta get the strap on.’ It’s easy, like wam bam!”
Women are better at fingering
“Women know how to finger-fuck WAY better than any guy!”
Women let men ask them out, but women have no problem asking other women out
“Guys are sort of intimidated by confident women. So you kind of take the back seat and let them approach you. But I feel like with females, I don’t have any problem approaching them at all.”
Both sexes are good at giving head
“I think both sexes are good in different ways.”

Looking to have an enlightening sexual experience yourself? Whatever your preference, we can promise you’ll get what you’re looking for here!

Check out the video of bisexual women discussing men and women in bed here: https://distractify.com/sex-relationships/2016/02/28/aimee-bisexuals-decide-once-and-for-all-if-men-or-women-are-better-at-sex

7 Facts You Should Know About the Male G-Spot

You’ve heard of the G-spot, but have you heard of the male G-spot? If you’re a guy who’s experimented with ass-play, you probably aren’t surprised to learn that there is in fact a G-spot inside the prostate. When stimulated properly, the male G-spot can make orgasms all the more pleasurable. Here are 7 facts you should know to enhance you or your partner’s experience.

It’s located about 3 inches inside the anus
This proves that when it comes to ass-play, bigger is definitely not better!
It’s shaped like a walnut
The prostate reaches its full, adult size at 20-years-old. It measures 1.6 x 1 x 1.2 inches, and weighs between 0.66 -0.75 ounces—the shape and size of a walnut.
You’re probably rimming the wrong place
“Unless you have a giraffe’s tongue, you’re not going to be able to reach his prostate. Instead, you should lick his perineum to maximize pleasure, which is located between his testicles and anus. It puts pressure on his prostate externally,” says Pride.
Kegels will help you have better and longer prostate orgasms
By doing Kegel exercises, you can strengthen your prostate and in turn have better, more intense G-spot orgasms. Contract the muscles in the anus and release repeatedly to get those muscles ready for awesome orgasms.
Dildos and prostate massagers are not the same thing
While a dildo is straight, a prostate massager is curved, vibrates, and is specially designed to maximize prostate stimulation.
Use the “come hither” motion to hit the G-spot
Use your index finger or middle finger (or both!), and make the “come here” motion with your finger facing towards his belly.
Prostate orgasms are full-body orgasms
“Orgasms occurring in conjunction with stimulation of the prostate gland can result in orgasms perceived as ‘deeper,’ more widespread, intense and longer lasting,” says a doctor and sex expert.

Want to have a “full-body” experience? “Come here” and we’ll do the rest!

Check out more facts about the male G-spot here: https://www.pride.com/gay/2016/1/22/8-things-everyone-needs-know-about-male-g-spot

Things Gay Pornstars Are Tired of Hearing

Although the life of a gay pornstar has its advantages (lots of hot gay sex, anyone?), the realities aren’t always enviable. Especially considering all the judgment and stupid questions people ask on a regular basis. To give a glimpse into a day in the life of a gay pornstar, a new video highlights the most annoying things they hear every day. Here are the highlights (watch the video—and the sexy shirtless pornstars—below)

“Oh, you’re so much smarter than I thought you would be!”
This stereotype is just one of the annoying things adult film actors have to deal with.
“When are you going to get a real job?”
Um, we’re pretty sure fucking guys on screen for hours at a time is a real job!
“It must be really hard for you to find dates in real life.”
*Every guy in video rolls eyes
“How do you get off with people in porn when you’re not attracted to them?”
This is why porn is most certainly a real job! These people are professionals, people!
“Does your granny know what you do?”
Well if she does, she’s one cool granny!
“Do you ever feel like you’re judged unfairly by what you do?”
Here, all the guys were cracking up.
“How does porn impact your relationship?”
“What relationship?” retorts a pornstar.
“How does it feel to know people are getting off to you?”
*coy, proud grins

Want to do things you’d never tell your granny about? We can give you a permanent grin right here!

Check out the video of things gay pornstars are tired of hearing here or watch the video below

6 Ways For Guys to Improve Their Sex Lives, According to Science

What if we told you that you don’t necessarily need to reach for that bottle of Viagra or the numerous other sexual enhancement treatments the next time you want to keep it rock hard for a marathon fuck fest? According to science, there are many other alternatives that can help you to up your sex game whether you struggle with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction (ED), or a low sex drive. Here are 6 proven ways guys can improve their sex lives.

Get some exercise
Science has shown that men who are the most physically active have the best erectile function and sex drive. By incorporating either 2 hours of strenuous exercise or 6 hours of moderate exercise every week, you can expect serious results in the bedroom.
Do kegels
While you’re at it, don’t skip exercising your dick! Doing kegels not only helps with premature ejaculation and ED, but it can help you to become multiply orgasmic!
Drink less booze
“Whiskey dick” is real. Studies have shown that bouts of heavy drinking can lead to problems with getting an erection and reaching orgasm. And for those who regularly abuse alcohol, 72% reported sexual performance problems. While you don’t need to quit drinking, definitely drink in moderation.
Stop smoking cigs and weed
Research has shown that smokers, who make up just 28% of the population, make up a whopping 40% of those with ED. And those who smoke weed are also at risk for developing erectile problems, since cannabis inhibits receptors in the dick.
Learn to love your dick (not literally)
Over 50% of men reported feeling that their penis was too small. This self-consciousness can lead to performance anxiety during sex. The good news is your cock is probably perfectly normal. Not only that, but the vast majority of women say that they’re totally happy with their partner’s size.
Use lube
Using lube inside the condom contributes to more arousal. It enhances your pleasure and comfort while wearing it, and if you put some on the outside, it’ll feel amazing for your partner, too.

Looking for ways to enhance your pleasure? We can help you keep it rock hard right here!

Check out more ways for guys to improve their sex lives: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/playboycom/10-ways-men-can-improve-t_b_8639216.html

A Woman Sent Guys Unsolicited Pussy Pics To See How They’d React

What woman hasn’t received an unsolicited dick pic on a dating site? The answer is none. So to flip the script, a writer from LA decided to send unsolicited pussy pics to guys on Bumble, a new dating app, to see how they would react. And the responses she got are about as you’d expect—totally enthusiastic!

After a brief introduction, she sent the first guy a vagina pic. His response? “Yummy. That for me?” Another guy was so thrilled by the pussy pic, he used emojis to express his excitement! Another guy got very excited, too: “My tongue needs to be there ASAP. You have the most perfect vajaja, I wanna meet her.” This guy thought he’d found love-at-first-vagina-sight: “I would definitely like to lick that. Best girl I’ve matched with on Bumble so far.” Some guys had more subtle reactions: one dude sent a pic back of himself shirtless (come on, dude—obviously you need to send a dick pic!), and even stranger, a different guy sent back a pic of his dog. Sure seems like sending an unsolicited pussy pic will make any guy’s day on a dating site!

In the mood to get a thrilling surprise yourself? You can use more than emojis to express your excitement here!

Check out more about the woman who sent unsolicited pussy pics here: https://distractify.com/humor/2015/11/20/mustafa-watch-me-vijajay

Porn Stars Give Guys Oral Sex Tips

Helpful porn stars decided to give some clueless guys a tutorial about how to eat pussy. To help the guys learn the right way to please ladies during foreplay, the porn stars demonstrated how to give really good head on oysters. And as you can imagine, things got very messy, and very weird (check out the video below). Here are some highlights.

First, one porn star demonstrated how to get a lady all revved up by kissing the oyster as if it were the belly, down to the thighs, and so on. Then, a different porn star instructed her student “to lick up and down, and spit on it [here she spits on her oyster]. Get it all nice and wet.” In other questionable advice, a porn star tells her student that he’s “gotta buff it first.” One lady gave excellent advice: “definitely if she says, ‘Don’t stop, keep going,” please don’t stop!” One student asked a very good question [after putting too much tabasco on his oyster]: “if a pussy burns your face, what should you do?” The answer: “run!” Other helpful tips included swirling and using an unpredictable rhythm with the tongue on the clit, and definitely using fingers in addition to giving her clit lots of love and attention. Oh yeah, and definitely don’t squeeze lemon on her pussy!

In the mood for some messy fun yourself? You don’t need a dozen oysters to get a lady to yell, “please don’t stop!”

Check out the video of porn stars teaching guys to eat pussy on oysters here: https://distractify.com/humor/2015/12/10/mustafa-porn-stars-drop-knowledge