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Manifesting Orgasms Using Sex Magic

Kinksters are spicing up their sex lives through “sex magic,” a type of sexual “manifestation” that utilizes “energy within.” While sex magic is often used for self-pleasure, it’s traditionally much more involved than simple “manifesting.” In 2020, Vice writer Helen Meriel Thomas detailed her dabbles into the kinky craft, claiming it was a multi-step ritual that involved setting intentions, breathing exercises, and, of course, masturbating.

For some, the intention might be as simple as a climax, but for others, they can “channel all of the electric energy of your orgasm into” the visualization of any goal. Some sex magic proponents also charge their sex toys in the moonlight or carve sigils on candles to burn. “There are some immediate effects because you are charged and aware of what you just did, but as the afterglow of an orgasm surfaces, so does the energy created and released into the universe,” one woman enthused.

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This 83-Year-Old Man Just Made His Gay Porn Debut

A new gay porn company called Himeros.tv wants to reinvent the genre with its latest porn star: an 83-year-old man named Norm. Himeros.tv introduced the world to Norm on their Youtube channel to prove they’re not about typical gay porn content. The racy video they recently previewed called “Blessing of the Elder” shows Norm rubbing his body and masturbating.

“In the gay world, it often seems like youth is the only currency of value. Norm, and so many gay men like him, have so much to offer our community—including wisdom, experience and, yes, beauty,” the video’s producer said. Norm says that he came out later in life, and is now having the best sex of his life. Himeros.tv hopes that with the help of Norm, the porn site can expand people’s mind around elders and sexuality: “Passionate, powerful, and ecstatic sex isn’t just for young people. It’s for all of us.”

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Check out more about the 83-year-old gay porn star: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/davey-wavey-83-year-old-gay-porn-star-norm/

Sex Is Best In Your Sixties, Survey Finds

Contrary to popular belief, sex gets better as you get older. A new report shows that your sex life actually reaches its peak in your 60s. The eighth annual Singles in America survey taken by more than 5,000 single people in the US found that single women are having the best sex at 66 years old and men at 64.

According to sex therapists, this is because as you get older and know what you like, sex is more fulfilling. It’s also because when you’re older, you’re more free to explore the dimensions of your sexuality, especially since you are less limited about what other people, society, and your partner think. Older people continue to stay frisky well into their 80s, with many of them reporting having sex, oral sex and masturbating even in their 80s and 90s. So there you have it: sex isn’t just a young person’s game.

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Check out more about how sex is better in your 60s: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5346141/Sex-best-SIXTIES-survey-finds.html

12 Things That Twitter Users Think Are Better Than Sex

Is there really anything better than sex? The well-intentioned people of Twitter wanted to explore this question with the opening line, “Yeah sex is cool but…” Here are 12 things Twitter users say are better than sex (we’ll let you decide).

“yea sex is cool but have you ever pulled out a full piece of crab leg meat.” Yea, yea—that is pretty good.
“sex is good and all but have you ever got your shift covered by the first person you texted.” Not bad—but not as good as sex!
“yeah sex is cool but have you ever called a dog from another room and you hear his paws hitting the floor as he runs towards you?” Adorable—but nothing beats sex!
“yes sex is cool but have you ever been watching vine compilations and seen a vine you’ve never watched before.” Yup—sex is definitely better!
“yeah sex is cool and all but have you ever opened the microwave at the last second so the timer doesn’t go off so you feel like you just defused a bomb in a movie.” You know what else is like a bomb going off?—when you have an orgasm from sex!
“yeah sex is cool but have you ever seen the waiter at olive garden coming to your table with the breadsticks.” Mmm, breadsticks…
“Yeah sex is cool but have you ever found a 20 dollar bill in your pocket?” We have a few ideas for what you can do with that $20…
“yeah sex is cool but have you ever gotten a text back.” Yeah, especially if it’s a sext back!
“yeah sex is cool but have you ever been sarcastic with somebody and they respond with even more sarcasm.” Ok, you got us—sarcasm is way better than sex.
“sex is good, but have you ever closed 15 tabs after finishing a project?” Yeah, because now you can open 15 porn tabs!
“Yeah sex is cool but have you ever tried listening to the crunchy noise it makes when you step in the snow.” We prefer other, wetter noises!
“yeah sex is cool but have you tried not leaving your bed or communicating with the outside world for 3 days straight.” Right—’cause you’re masturbating.

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Check out more things that Twitter users think are better than sex: https://www.buzzfeed.com/morganmurrell/xx-things-people-on-twitter-think-are-better-than-sex

This Motion Sensor Makes Sure You Don’t Get Caught Watching Porn

You’ve probably experienced that moment watching porn when you think you’re alone—but then someone surprises you out of nowhere. We all know there’s no boner-killer more annoying than getting caught in the act. Thankfully, an Indiegogo campaign will make sure this unfortunate scenario never happens again.

Minimeyes motion sensor is a discreet Bluetooth-connected motion-sensing cube that can be easily placed on a desk or a bookshelf when you’re looking for some, ahem, quality time with yourself. When it senses someone walking into the room or opening a door, it immediately hides all the open windows on your desktop and mutes the sound. On a mobile, it can close the app you’re using or give you a notification and audio alert. Finally, a device that lets you browse porn with some peace of mind!

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Check out more about Minimeyes: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/minimeyes-connected-motion-sensor/

Basically Everyone Is Masturbating At Work

Your suspicions about why there’s often a line for the toilet at work has just been confirmed. According to a recent survey, 39 percent of office workers admit to rubbing one out in the office restroom. And it’s not just men doing the deed—men and women, gay and straight, all indulge in some workplace self-love from time to time.

“If I’m really hungover at work, masturbating helps me feel better,” said one survey participant, while another admitted “I’m just a horny lady.” Aside from the hassle of waiting for a stall, masturbating at work might actually be beneficial for both employees and employers. Masturbating relieves stress and boosts endorphins—not to mention how much healthier it is than smoke breaks or vending machine binging. Some psychologists even agree that masturbation breaks can be a good motivational reward for employees after a busy day. Maybe it’s time for offices to re-think the purpose of the break room?

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Check out more about the survey that proves your co-workers are masturbating at work: https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2017/01/11/masturbating-at-work_n_14106174.html

NFL Security Guard Caught Masturbating On Field

One NFL security guard got a little too excited during a recent Chargers game. Several fans noticed the man getting into the spirit, so to speak, and a shocking video of the incident was uploaded to social media. It shows the young Elite Security employee masturbating on the sidelines as he was working.

The 45-second clip recorded by someone in the stands captures the guard with his right hand stuffed down his pants, and his hand moving back and forth near his crotch. Not surprisingly, a group of hot cheerleaders can be seen dancing nearby. Elite Security has apologized for the incident, as well as the San Diego Chargers, who definitely don’t condone this type of over-enthusiastic fandom.

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Check out more about the NFL security guard caught jerking off during a game: https://www.thegailygrind.com/2016/12/20/nfl-security-guard-caught-masturbating-field-chargers-game-team-responds/

Macy Gray Wrote a Love Song—To Her Vibrator

Macy Gray is in love with Bob, and she wrote a nice little song about it (listen and watch the animated music video below). Nothing seems out of the ordinary, until you learn who Bob is: “Battery Operated Better,” aka her vibrator! Gray’s favorite sex toy is a “Rabbit from a hat” who “knows just where it’s at.” Yup, sounds like the perfect boyfriend!

Bob’s “better,” Gray sings, because he is “not complicated” and “fits like a glove.” Bob gets the job done as many times as she wants—from morning to night—without complaining “when I want another.” All Gray has to do to “start the fire and lightning” is turn him on. “Ooh ahh ohh I, I love my baby.” Ahh, yes, Macy Gray—you know “just where it’s at” with this song!

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Check out Macy Gray’s song and music video to her vibrator: https://themuse.jezebel.com/macy-gray-loves-her-vibrator-so-much-that-she-wrote-a-s-1720590352

The Pleasures of Dry Humping

Ah, yes. Dry humping. Perhaps you haven’t thought about this little bit of foreplay since you were a teenager furiously making out on your parent’s sofa. But adding some hot, dry humping into the mix before getting into the wet, real humping can definitely help you to spice things up in the bedroom. Here are some reasons to start grinding tonight.

The best reason to dry hump is simply because it feels really really good, especially for women. Many women get off when masturbating by rubbing against things, adding firm pressure, and grinding. Dry humping can also be a fun, sexy tease that will build up the anticipation in your foreplay until you’re both begging for the real thing. Some people even prefer the taunting pressure without allowing themselves the release afterward (mainly those who are into BDSM). You can dry hump in jeans for less direct contact (but for heaven’s sake, no belt buckles!), in your underwear, or even naked for more intense clitoral stimulation. Then just “do the humpty hump” to your heart’s content!

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How Masturbation Can Help You Orgasm With a Partner

It’s really quite simple: to have better orgasms with someone else, you should start by having them by yourself. That’s because figuring out your own self pleasure can help you instruct others how to get you off. Here’s how:

Train your clit to be more responsive
By masturbating, you’re actually “training” your clitoris to respond to different types of stimulation. The more practice you get exposing your clit to different sensations, the easier it will be to get off with your partner. When masturbating, try switching up the strokes, the amount of speed or pressure, different positions, and the number of fingers you use. Learning new ways to pleasure yourself is key to keeping it fresh and fun with a partner.
Show your partner what you like
Truly, the best way to get what you like from a partner is by showing them yourself. Try masturbating in front of them—it’ll be instructional and fun to watch! After going solo for a bit, have them put their hand over yours so they can see what you like. When they get a feel for what gets you hot, try tag-teaming your clit for a while, switching off hands every few minutes.
During sex, give yourself a hand
Ain’t nothing wrong with giving yourself what you like during sex. Often that involves stimulating your clit with your fingers or with a vibrator during the act. This is especially easy to do in certain positions, like doggy style or woman on top.

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Check out more tips about how masturbating can help you orgasm with a partner here.