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Anal Beads Will Make Your Orgasms Better and Stronger

As anyone who’s ever tried anal beads can attest, they really work when it comes to cumming! The beads act like a massage inside your body, but the magic really happens when you pull them out before or during orgasm. Here are some tips to get started on your anal beads journey.

  1. Start gradually
    When starting out, choose one with a slight pearlsgradual increase of beads. “As the beads start to get larger up the length of the strand, you are allowing yourself to get used to the toy,” explains a sexpert.
  2. Use thick anal lube
    Lube is a must during anal play, but using anal lube specifically will be even better. The thickness of anal lube sticks to the toy better, so you don’t have to apply as often.
  3. Make sure there’s a loop or a handle
    Just like with butt plugs, you want to make sure the toy can be easily removed.
  4. Relax and communicate!
    If you’re nervous, you can always start out teasing the area with a vibrator to get warmed up. You want to be as relaxed as possible before insertion, so be sure to communicate how you’re feeling.
  5. Get an anti-bacterial cleaner
    In order to use your anal beads repeatedly, you’ll want to clean your beads between use with this.
  6. Try a kit
    If you’re not sure what you’ll like—something thicker, sturdier, etc—purchase an anal bead kit and experiment!

Want to experiment with something new and intense? We make magic happen here!

Check out more about the wonders of anal beads: https://www.refinery29.com/best-anal-beads-to-use-butt-play#slide-9

Weed Products Designed For Sex, Rated

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From dildos that are also pipes to vaginal (or anal!) marijuana suppositories, there’s a lot of weed products out there today promising to do amazing things for your sex life. Thankfully, one Broadly writer decided to see if such marijuana-themed sex products as Schlong Bong and weed lube actually enhance sexual pleasure. Here’s some of the products she either found to be “surprisingly dope” or a real buzz kill (check out her full ratings below).

  1. FORIA Awaken Weed Lube
    The latest innovation in marijuana-infused lube is supposed to “enhance sensation, increase desire, improve lubrication, heighten awareness, deepen orgasms, and relax your body.” According to the reviewer, after applying the lube “liberally to my clitoris, inner and outer labia, and inside my vagina, as instructed, and turned on my favorite device,” she would rate the experience a 10/10. “I felt each sensation and touch was intensified, and I was more relaxed than I have been in a long time. Fuck human partners!”
  2. Foria Relief Vaginal Suppositories
    This product offers “muscle-relaxing and pain-relieving properties of cannabis—without inducing a psychotropic ‘high.’” The reviewer found her muscles super relaxed, which led to a “top-notch” masturbating experience!
  3. The Original Schlong Bong
    This uncannily realistic looking dick-shaped bong wants you to turn “’Foreplay’ Into 420-Play!” The 9-inch cock-bong wasn’t a big hit (no pun intended!) with the reviewer, but if you’re in the mood to “toke and stroke it,” or perhaps to bust out a great conversation piece, this is the weed-related sex toy for you!
  4. Stay Erect Cream
    A 5-ounce tube of this cream, which has hemp seed oil as its main ingredient, is meant to be rubbed on a penis “until erection is achieved.” The product claims to help maintain a “full satisfying erection” and “prolong ejaculation,” but according to Amazon reviewers, this product was not satisfactory or 420 friendly!

Weed content isn’t allowed but you can still have a dope sexual experience on NiteFlirt!

Check out more marijuana-sex products here.

8 Life-Changing Sex Toys To Try In 2017

Images Source: Primal HardwereWhile everyone has a favorite sexual companion in their nightstand, why not try something new this year? According to Amazon users, these naughty products will keep you coming back again and again. Here are 8 sex toys that will change your sex life in exciting new ways (get details in the BuzzFeed link below).

  1. A vibrating cock ringIf the reviews are true, this vibrating cock ring will give you a real good buzz: “Amazing ring! I’ve tried many and this one is just the right size and shape to get the job done. Most of the sub-par rings don’t reach my anatomy during intercourse and this one hits the spot! Love the little nubs on it also. Good quality and well made product!” —Review Girl
  2. A glass dildo for G-spot stimulationAt only $19.95, this amazing toy will make your G-spot and your wallet very happy. It gets a 5/5 rating on Amazon.
  3. Silicon-based lubeSliquid Silver lube will keep things nice and slippery. One reviewer said they had no problem staying lubricated “for long duration of time, including one 24-hour plug session.” Now that’s an endorsement!
  4. A butt plug kit to ease you into anal play Naughty Plug Silicone Anal Trainer Kit is great for those who want to ease on in to ass play. One reviewer  says, “The smallest size is not intimidating at all. Comfortable, smooth, and they stay in well.”
  5. A soft and spicy floggerIt gets a 4.8/5 rating because, as Anthony R. says, “Great weight and balance. Can deliver a wide variety of strikes to suit your style of play.”
  6. A sex swingThis exciting product is promising to take your sex game to new heights. It has firm handles for optimal support and adjustable leg straps for deep penetration.
  7. An egg vibe your partner gets to controlThere’s something very exciting about giving control over to someone else. A reviewer boasts, “the multiple vibration patterns and speeds are great. It’s fun to use.”
  8. Soft restraintsThis product is naughty and comfy: “The straps that go around your arms and legs are soft and don’t dig into your skin, which is nice.”

Want to find something new and exciting this year? Come get naughty with us!

Check out more life-changing sex toys to make 2017 the most exciting year ever here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/norawhelan/recommended-sex-toys

10 Masturbation Techniques For Adventurous Ladies

magicwandarthistoryYou probably have your tried-and-true masturbation techniques. You know what you like, and what gets you off. But aren’t you a little curious what other people might be doing when they indulge in a little self-love? Here are 10 techniques that you just might want to try for a little added adventure in your sex life.

  1. Use two vibrators
    With two vibrators, you can use one for your clit and one for your G-spot—double the pleasure!
  2. Sit in a chair and straddle your G-spot vibrator
    “I straddle it on a chair and have a pair of pants in between the chair and vibrator and it’s such as AMAZING hands-free orgasm!” Thanks for the tip!
  3. Watch yourself in the mirror while you masturbate
    What is it about watching yourself get nasty in a mirror that is just so hot?
  4. Be liberal with lube
    Same as with partner sex, wetter is better!
  5. Switch up your positions
    On your back, on your stomach, on your knees, on your side—have at it!
  6. Watch porn and replicate the action on yourself
    Whatever they’re doing in the porn, do on yourself: “So if a woman is having sex, I’ll time the thrusts of my vibe with the guy’s or if she’s getting rimmed, I’ll stroke my asshole.”
  7. Bring your waterproof toys into the bath with you
    “I suction cupped a dildo to the side of the tub and used a vibe to stimulate my clit. A+” Splish, splash, I was taking a bath!
  8. Use the shower head 
    We’d be willing to bet probably every woman has tried this amazing sensation on her clit at one time or another…
  9. Try ass-play
    “Sometimes I treat myself to my G-spot vibrator and butt plug, and it’ll have me coming within a minute.” Gets the job done!
  10. Take your time with turning up the vibration
    Slow and steady wins the race!

Looking to treat yourself tonight? Come get adventurous with us!

Check out more masturbation techniques you just might want to steal here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/tldr-lots-of-humping?utm_term=.tddBQZe2xj#.lfwk5oql41

8 Even More Awkward Moments You Have During Man-on-Man Sex, Part II

As you probably know, sex can be awkward. And as we already covered in “8 Awkward Moments You Have During Man-on-Man Sex, Part I,” sometimes shit literally happens if you’re a guy who fucks guys. Here are 8 even more awkward moments you have during gay sex.

  1. When you run out of lube
    This especially sucks when you are oh. so. close. to finishing!
  2. When he pulls down his pants and you realize there’s no way he’s ever…
    Gonna fit! Bigger isn’t always better, as it turns out.
  3. When you accidentally catch a load in your eye
    And then no one actually believes that you have pink eye.
  4. When you can’t find his butthole
    You’re poking around like a fool as he’s waiting impatiently for you to find it.
  5. When he looks nothing like his Grindr profile
    Hm, maybe it’s time to update that pic—you know, by about 15 years!
  6. When you can’t finish no matter what
    A bottle of lube, a cramped jaw, hand and wrist later, he finally gives up!
  7. When you realize your both tops or bottoms
    This is like that awkward dance in a confined space when you’re trying to get around a person who is also trying to get around you, and you’re both accidentally going in the same direction.
  8. When you have to pee right as things are heating up
    Do you run to the bathroom and ruin the moment, or pee on him? The choice is yours.

Looking to heat things up? You don’t need to worry about awkward sexual encounters—we’re prepared for anything here!

Check out more even awkward moments you have during man-on-man sex here.

12 Things People Wish They Knew About Anal Sex

Image Source: Flickr.com | User: ipalatin
Image Source: Flickr.com | User: ipalatin

For many people who’ve experimented with anal sex, they wish they knew then what they know now. You know, like not to pull out those anal beads like you’re starting a lawnmower! Here are 12 things people wish they knew about anal sex before trying it for the first time.

  1. Don’t go from 0 to 100 
    “You need to work up to it. Do NOT go straight to the penis.” Foreplay is all, people!
  2. Slow and steady wins the race
    No need to rush! Ease it on in nice and slow.
  3. It might raise your sexpecations
    “I wish I had known that anal sex would increase my expectations for sexual pleasure. I had a partner who made it really enjoyable for both if us.”
  4. Don’t pull anything out too fast
    “Best advice related to toys: Don’t remove anal beads as if you’re starting a lawnmower.”
  5. You can never use too much lube
    Nuff said.
  6. Cleanliness is next to godliness
    Don’t forget those wipes!
  7. Just say no to the burrito
    Maybe stay away from burritos the day you’re having anal sex…
  8. Those tingly, warming lubes could burn your butt
    “I do NOT recommend tingly lube! That stuff feels like a fire demon.”
  9. Might be wise to switch out your white sheets beforehand
    Or use towels!
  10. Bottoms can still run the show
    “The receiver or bottom should know that they are always in control and most definitely have the ability to shut down like Fort Knox.”
  11. Don’t put whatever was in the ass back in the pussy
    You could get an infection!
  12. Pegging can be fun!
    “I wish I knew that giving (for me, pegging) is just as fun as receiving. People are too quick to judge something before trying it!”

Looking to have an enjoyable, fun experience? We can definitely raise all your sexpectations!

Check out more things people wish they knew about anal sex here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/carolinekee/never-eat-chipotle-the-day-before#.qvMbwedpjz

Gay Sex in Porn Vs. Gay Sex in Real Life

Original Image Source: Flickr.com | icanteachyouhowtodoit You may have noticed that the hot, freewheeling sex in gay porn isn’t exactly the most realistic depiction of what it’s really like. If you’ve ever tried to imitate what goes on in gay porn in real life—like if you’ve ever tried to pay the pizza guy with a blow-job, for example—then you know just how different gay porn can be from the real thing. Here are 7 examples of gay sex in porn vs. gay sex in real life.

  1. In gay porn, everybody is down for sex
    Oh, if only the pool guy, the fireman, and the police officer were actually down for sex whenever you wanted it in real life!
  2. In gay porn, they can stick it in without any foreplay whatsoever
    Um, yeah—in real life you’d be like “WTF?! That hurts!”
  3. In gay porn you never see them apply lube
    Apparently in the magical world of gay porn, cocks just slip in without any problem. In real life, however, you could use half a bottle of lube and still go back for more!
  4. In gay porn, they will fuck literally anywhere
    Yeah, it might be kind of difficult to fuck in the back of a busy lecture hall without anyone noticing.
  5. In gay porn, bottoms are folded down like pretzels to get into the trickiest sex positions
    Unfortunately in real life, not everyone is able to get their legs up behind their heads.
  6. Bottoms have no problem taking a dick in their butt in gay porn 
    In real life, it’s not always done so gracefully…
  7. In gay porn, you can fuck for hours
    In real life, things can only go on for so long. Damn!

Looking to add some fantasy to your life? We’re down for anything here!

Check out more about gay sex in porn vs. gay sex in real life here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/gay-sex-in-porn-vs-gay-sex-in-real-life#.uwp1wMz8vZ

9 Facts About Lube Everyone Should Know

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sexhoursLube: everyone uses it. Or if they don’t, they really should. Lube is an essential ingredient to a wet, pleasurable sexual experience for all parties involved. But not all lube is created equal. Here are 9 facts everyone should know.

  1. Water-based lubes are the most common type of lube
    While these are the most popular, probably because they wash off easily, they also dry out quickly, which means you need to reapply during longer fuck-fests.
  2. Silicone-based lubes last longer than water-based
    They also are great in the shower since they don’t blend with water.
  3. Silicone-based lube should not be used with silicone sex toys
    The material in the lube will break down the material in sex toys, which could let bacteria in.
  4. Silicone-based can be hard to remove
    Buyer beware…
  5. Oil-based lubes breaks down the latex in condoms
    That’s why they should mainly be used for handjobs, unprotected sex, and sexual activities requiring, um, bigger equipment, like fisting.
  6. Lube has an expiration date
    Note: once you open it, you should use it within a year.
  7. Keep lube at room temperature and with the bottle closed
    So maybe don’t put it in the fridge?
  8. A well lubricated cock enhances pleasure for both the man and the woman
    Amen to that!
  9. It also helps sex last longer
    And it can help men sustain an erection, especially for those with sexual dysfunction problems.

Want to have a slippery, pleasurable experience? We’ve got just what you need right here!

Check out more facts about lube everyone should know here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/lube-it-up-lube-it-up#.sr9wxoVBan

Alabama Walmart Stocks Gun Shelf with ‘Gun Oil’ Lube

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An Alabama Walmart made a major boner (no pun intended) recently when it stocked Gun Oil, a popular lube for gay men, next to its actual guns! An unsuspecting (and literal-minded) shopper got a big surprise while browsing Walmart’s gun department, and he posted a hilarious video of his reaction on Facebook. “It says water-based lubricant for your gun!” the shopper said in the video (watch below). “I was like, ‘Water-based? That could rust, right?’…”

He was almost sold on the product he thought was for his actual gun: “’Long-lasting lubrication with easy cleanup. Glycerin and paraben free. Wetter, lighter feel than silicone.’ Oh that sounds good. That sounds really good. I think my gun would work really good, wetter and lighter.” Well, what doesn’t work really well wetter and lighter, right? It wasn’t until he saw the ingredients list, which included things like ginseng “to promote blood flow,” that he started scratching his head in confusion. Then, when he saw “For topical use, apply desired amount to genital areas,” it all clicked into place. We say to those Alabama, Gun Oil cowboys, “Yee-haw!”

Need a little water-based lubrication for your gun? We’ve got all the gun oil you need right here!

Check out the video of a shopper finding Gun Oil in the Walmart gun aisle.

5 Tips For Having Better Orgasms

Image Source: TheJennyBlock.com/Jenny Block, author of O Wow: Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasms sat down with Buzzfeed to dish on how to cum in bigger and better ways. Block says, “Sex should be fun and silly and exciting and experimental and messy and loud and always an adventure. It should go where it goes for as long as you like in whatever way you like.” That’s some good advice! Here are 5 more tips about how to have better orgasms:

  1. Masturbate to figure out what you like
    “All you have to do is what feels good,” says Block. This is the best way for figuring out what you like, which you can eventually share with a partner for the ultimate orgasm.
  2. Don’t focus too much on getting off
    “Masturbation, just like sex, should be pleasure oriented, not goal oriented. The only goal should be to enjoy and to learn what works for you.”
  3. Enthusiasm is everything when it comes to giving head
    Whether it’s pussy-licking or cock-sucking, just make sure you’re having a good time and letting the person know that you are! See what they respond to, and keep doing it (unless they tell you to stop)!
  4. Use lube—especially with anal
    “If you are interested in experimenting with anal play, lube has to be the key player. The anus, unlike the vagina, is not self-lubricating.” Nuff said.
  5. There’s nothing shameful about loving sex, ladies
    “And women are a lucky lot. We have no refractory period, which means we can come over and over without resting in between and we have the only organ in the human body – male or female – with pleasure as its only purpose – the clit. And, while we’re on the subject – every woman’s pussy is perfect.”

Feel like giving some of these tips a try? We are all about fun, messy and loud adventures here!

You can find more of Buzzfeed‘s tips on how to have better orgasms here.