Tag: love

6 Sex Toys That You’ll Want To Be Your Valentine

naked beautiful bodyWhile chocolates and flowers are nice, a good sex toy is really the only thing you need this Valentine’s Day. Why not indulge with some self-love? From dildos to prostate massagers, these sex toys will make you forget all about bae.

  1. Power Play 7 Function G-Spot Vibrator
    This vibrator never disappoints in hitting your spot—something a Valentine might not be able to do! It has three different vibe speeds and four different patterns to keep things exciting.
  2. Velvet Touch Intense Vibrations Silicone Rabbit
    This modern Rabbit has everything you love about the original, but its sleek design is updated for the twenty-first century. It has 12 different settings, is rechargeable, waterproof, and, of course, has those cute little bunny ears for maximum clit stimulation.
  3. Bondara Master B Vibrating Male Masturbator
    Guys, if you don’t have a date for V-Day, this is what you need. There’s three different versions, which simulate oral sex, vaginal sex, and anal sex. The bonus is that these ones vibrate too!
  4. King Cock 7 Inch Dildo Flesh
    Who doesn’t want a realistic 7-inch dildo for Valentine’s? This waterproof dick is latex free and strap-on compatible.
  5. TENGA ONACUP: Deep Throat
    This is the ultimate toy for male masturbation: it creates a sucking sensation, so you can actually give yourself a blowjob!
  6. Porator Anal Vibrator
    This prostate massager has four settings to get your anal rocks off while masturbating.

Looking for some good, good lovin’ this Valentine’s? Come indulge right here!

Check out more of the sex toys that you’ll want this Valentine’s Day: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/cheaper-than-a-date

How to Do Polyamory, Successfully

If polyamory seems hard, that’s because it is. Polyamorous couples often have partners in other polyamorous relationships, and those partners have other relationships, and so on. So how do polyamorous couples juggle their time, deal with the inevitable jealousy, and all the other difficult factors that go into dating multiple people? Here’s how to do polyamory, successfully, according to those who know:

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  1. There’s no such thing as TMI
    It’s all about communication. Being transparent is the best way to defuse the jealousy: checking in, tell-alls, daily texts. This is the key to avoiding envy.
  2. Be a planner
    According to one long-term polyamorous couple, Google calendar is a godsend. Since there’s so many people involved, this is an indispensable tool where everyone can log and view plans, dates, and vacations up to a year in advance. “Time is the most valuable resource within a poly relationship.”
  3. Accept your jealousy and grow from it 
    “There’s a growth opportunity in being able to see your partner in love with someone else.” Instead of letting the jealousy overwhelm you, think of it as an opportunity for growth.
  4. Get to know your lovers’ lovers
    This is also key for managing jealousy. “The tendency is to build things up in your head. ‘I haven’t met you, so you must be way cuter, younger, smarter, sexier.’ It helps alleviate a lot of concerns if you get face to face.”
  5. Never force it
    Starting a monogamous relationship with someone you hope will be into polyamory later on is a recipe for disaster.

Looking for a “growth opportunity” yourself? We can help you grow in ways you never thought possible!

Check out more tips on how to do polyamory successfully here: https://www.pdxmonthly.com/articles/2016/4/22/how-to-do-polyamory-successfully

5 Celebs Over 50 Talk Mature Love

oldsexAccording to 5 feisty older celebs, wisdom and experience aren’t the only things that get better with age. Just as many studies have shown, these celebs prove that age is just a state of mind when it comes to having good sex well into the twilight years. So here are some words of sexual wisdom from 5 older celebs who know a thing or two about good mature lovin’.

  1. Jane Fonda
    The 77 year old still hot sex-pot had this to say about starting a love affair after a period of celibacy: “If you have been celibate for a long time and then begin a new love affair, be aware that your vagina is likely to need some attention.” Good advice!
  2. Betty White
    This Golden Girl is famous for her lusty appetite for sex. And at 93 years old, she shows no signs of slowing down any time soon: “I’m still just as horny as I’ve ever been.” Betty, you are truly an inspiration!
  3. Lisa Rinna
    The sexy 52 year old said of her marriage to actor Harry Hamlin: “We’re kinky as hell in bed.” That must be the secret to their long-lasting relationship!
  4. John Stamos
    The celeb who was formerly married to super model Rebecca Romijn said, “I’d rather have a woman have 10 orgasms than me have 10 orgasms.” We can see your point, John.
  5. Sting
    The hot musician—who is also an unofficial spokesman for tantric sex—said, “I like the theater of sex. I like to look good. I like her to dress up. I like to dress her up.” Sounds like a good time!

Have a lusty appetite for sex yourself? We can make you just as horny as you’ve ever been right here!

Porn Stars’ Boyfriends Live Out Every Teenage Boys’ Dream

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_positionsVice recently sat down with the boyfriends of legendary porn stars Joanna Angel, Sydney Leathers, and Annie Cruz to discuss whether dating someone who has sex for a living is actually as awesome as it seems. And we’ll give you one guess what their response was—yup, all of them said “Hell yes!” That’s right, these dudes are most certainly having amazing sex with their hot porn-star girlfriends!

All three boyfriends agreed that to avoid jealousy, they had to understand that it’s just a job like any other. That’s why Aaron, the boyfriend of Joanna Angel, decided to start doing porn himself: once he got more familiar with the business side of the adult entertainment industry, he got a lot more comfortable with the idea of his girlfriend getting it on with lots of other people. Tyler, boyfriend of Sydney Leathers, said that he knows, “A lot of people want to fuck [his] girlfriend,” including an Indiana congressman who respectfully called him on his birthday to say: “Happy birthday, Master Tyler.” And Donald, Annie Cruz’s boyfriend, actually likes to be on set to watch as his girlfriend fucks other people! He said, “I’ve been on set before and watched her get plowed by a big Russian cock and gave her a high five. Like, ‘Yeah baby, get it!'”

And if you’re wondering what their sex life is like: “Everyone thinks we must have the greatest sex life. And we do have the greatest sex life!” Want to have some mind-blowing experiences yourself? Come live out every teenage boys’ fantasy right here with us!

NEWS: Sending Out The Positive Vibes!

I’m sure everyone has a heavy heart today after yesterday’s devastating events at the Boston Marathon. I’ve spent the better part of the morning keeping up to date with the news coverage. It’s depressing and disheartening to say the least. As cliché as it might sound I strongly believe in the power of positive words and thoughts. I’d like to share what I try to do on a regular basis to uplift myself, and the people around me, especially during times like this.

  1. Spread the love. Tell the people you care about how much you love them, and how you’re hoping they have a wonderful day. You have no idea how much this means to a person, whether they admit or not.
  1. Try to meditate. I’m no yogi but I do try to take 5-10 minutes every day to sit in silence, or with soothing music and just let myself be. If I can’t clear my head (which is usually the case), I aim to turn every negative thought that passes through my mind into something wonderful and upbeat. I took 1 minute of my mediation session this morning to send healing and loving vibes to the victims of the Boston Marathon, and the city of Boston at large.
  1. SMILE EVERYWHERE YOU GO! Smile Therapy is a real thing!
  1. Give a coworker or friend a compliment that you’ve wanted to share with them, but haven’t for whatever unknown reason. You’ll for sure rock their world!
  1. Get lost in music! Pick an album from your past that reminds you of a fabulous time in your life or something new that tickles your fancy. I’ll be jamming to Foster the Peeps all damn day!
  1. Try to do something active for 30 minutes: jogging, walking, skipping, hiking, pilates, yoga anything to get your endorphins kick started! You could even start a 5-minute dance off in your office or solo! Your soul WILL thank you!
  1. Break the ice in the awkward elevator ride with a good morning or good afternoon.
  1. Call or shoot an email to a friend that you’ve lost touch with. How dope is it to reconnect with someone special!?
  1. HUG AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.
  1. Here is how you can help with the Boston Marathon crisis

 

PhoneSexLove: My Interview with “MJ”

I am Mistress June and this is an interview with the new marketing guy at NiteFlirt, MarketingJohn. Referred to sometimes as MJ but not to be confused with Michael Jackson. (I have a few connections, but not those kinds of connections.)

Question #1 – Who are you? You can be direct, you can muse metaphysically, you can share whatever you like. But please tell us who you are and be sure to include what you do for a living.

MJ: I am the new guy. The guy who has taken over Marketing at NiteFlirt. I come from a crazy background, with hands in all kinds of quirky businesses and ‘off the beaten path’ gigs and adventures. I bring a real strong creative sensibility to my world here at NiteFlirt and intend on pushing as many envelopes as I possibly can, although admittedly most of those envelopes may already be open in this little world that we all call home now. Ha.

I’ve already had about a thousand ideas for ways that we could grow business here at the ‘Flirt, but it’ll be a bit of a push for a little while to get things up and running. I think within a short amount of time we’ll all come up with a million new ideas that we can work into the company, and I can really piss off my immediate superiors with. That’s my cute way of mentioning that I LOVE input and creative ideas thrown my way, so don’t hesitate!

Question #2 – You mention testing your boss and getting creative. I relate to that rebel artist energy very much! But I am curious about the structure you will be rebelling against. What can you share with us about NiteFlirt to help us understand this phone sex industry platform that so many of us have come to depend on?

MJ:  I’m more referring to that rebel energy in terms of coming up with newer and more creative ways to market ourselves. It can always be a challenge within the adult industry so we need to spin a web that is inclusive of everyone without scaring anyone away. It can be tricky! It is such an interesting space because, let’s face it, almost everyone LOVES what we do, but a lot of those people prefer to keep that love somewhat hidden. It’s my job to find ways to draw those people out a little more and show them that it’s alright to let their kink flag fly with us!
At NiteFlirt we really consider ourselves and the site to be just one big wacky, kinky team. We value the Flirts so much, as well as our callers, and just want to continue to create a world where we can all keep playing and enjoying ourselves. A big part of that is my job since I’m figuring out how to bring that world to all of us. The truth is that we all really love our jobs and we have a really great time working together.

Okay, question #3 – My last question, have you ever tried phone sex?
He he… just kidding! Are you blushing? No, that is not my last question either.
Final question, what is one of your goals for the future of NiteFlirt? Tell us about something you are working on.

MJ:  Ha. I am a bit of a pussycat so I haven’t really delved into phone sex too much. I know that’s not your official question but just answering because i don’t mind. I definitely don’t have the “I want to be dominated and pushed around” side really. But I guess sometimes the boys don’t know they do, huh? Ha.
I honestly have so many goals at the ‘Flirt. Continue to grow and build on the social media footprints that we have already started on the last few months. Everything from continuing to grow our Tumblr blog to better communication on Twitter, and a deeper community feel on Facebook. Not to mention NiteFlirt’s own blog! We’re active on so many other sites, but that’s just to name a few where people can engage with me and NiteFlirt as a whole.

We are also working to come up with some new and innovative ways that callers can interact with the Flirts. It’s all a little overwhelming right now because we are just trying to get things really rolling while cooking up new concepts as well. The beginning of something is always the toughest and I’m definitely dealing with that right now. My specialty is ‘having fun’ though so really I just want to come up with new and exciting ways that we can satisfy all the communities at NiteFlirt; the callers, the Flirts, the company, and everyone in between.

Well, thank you for your time, MarketingJohn! I am excited about the future of NiteFlirt and eager to see your fun angle on how we can all better connect.
Folks should feel free to contact MJ through any of the NiteFlirt social media outlets or through comments here.

(This is the first installment of PhoneSexLove, a
new weekly column to be published here each Wednesday. Find out
more and listen to an accompanying podcast at PhoneSexLove.com.)