Tag: Lifestyle

Those Good Vibes You Feel After Sex Can Last For 48 Hours, Study Finds

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_havingsexYou’ve probably noticed how your mood improves after sex, thanks to a flood of endorphins and other feel-good chemicals in your body. But what if we told you those post-sex good vibes can actually last days? It’s true: a new study suggests that the positive effects of getting laid can last for up to two days—not to mention the relationship benefits, which can last months.

A team of researchers at Florida State University examined data from hundreds of newlywed couples, who were asked to report how satisfied they were with three things: their sex life, their partner and their relationship as a whole. Unsurprisingly, when the couples had sex, they felt increased sexual and relationship satisfaction—but what’s interesting is that the “afterglow” effect lasted up to 48 hours. Not only that, but they were also happy with their relationships for months afterward! So, there you have it: science says get it on!

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Check out more about how the benefits of sex can last 48 hours: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/those-good-vibes-you-feel-after-sex-can-last-for-48-hours-study-finds_us_58d3f3b2e4b0b22b0d1aa255

Swedish Politician Advocates For Paid Sex Breaks During Work Hours 

bathroomIf you’ve ever fantasized about moving to Sweden, here’s another reason why you should seriously consider it: a politician is proposing that workers be compensated for sex breaks while on the job. The 42-year-old local council member wants Swedes to be able to take a one-hour paid break from work to go home and have sex with their partners. He expressed concern about couples who don’t have enough time together, and reasoned that sex is healthy and leads to “better relationships.”

In the Swedish press, he emphasized the wellness benefits of sex-breaks, which he said would be enjoyed by both single and coupled people. In a country where Swedes already enjoy breaks to drink coffee, disconnect and recharge, the sex-breaks would be another way to allow citizens to have a healthy work-life balance. The country, which works 9 percent less than the rest of the world, and is considered one of the places with the happiest people, would have yet another reason to keep the good mojo going!

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Check out more about paid sex-breaks in Sweden here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/sweden-politician-paid-sex-break_us_58af0e4be4b0140601309dd2

Portland’s Kinky Coffee Shop Is Spearheading Alternative Sexual Lifestyle

coffeeIf there’s two things Portland loves, it’s coffee and sex. And now the city which proudly boasts the most strip clubs per capita is combining its two loves—with a kinky new coffee shop! The MoonFrye Cafe is the nation’s second-ever sex-positive coffee shop where customers can meet, drink coffee, learn about sex, and get kinky. The dedicated spot for coffee enthusiasts who are also members of the kink and BDSM communities is spearheading the alternative sexual lifestyle.

While you can’t bring food or beverages into the dungeon, you can sit with a latte and watch an ex-military sergeant called “Puppy” bark like a dog in a Polyamory workshop. As Willamette Week says, “You can go to classes covering everything from ‘electrical play’ to the master/slave relationship to high protocol service to a monthly Fetish Night.” It also features handcrafted sex toys, leather items and paddles from local vendors, a play room to cater to blood and scalpel play and an after care room where you can heal. Kink University called Portland the “Kinkiest City in America,” and it sure seems to be living up to its reputation.

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Check out more about Portland’s kinky new coffee shop here: https://www.wweek.com/culture/2017/02/07/at-long-last-portland-has-the-kinky-coffee-shop-its-needed/

How to Do Polyamory, Successfully

If polyamory seems hard, that’s because it is. Polyamorous couples often have partners in other polyamorous relationships, and those partners have other relationships, and so on. So how do polyamorous couples juggle their time, deal with the inevitable jealousy, and all the other difficult factors that go into dating multiple people? Here’s how to do polyamory, successfully, according to those who know:

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  1. There’s no such thing as TMI
    It’s all about communication. Being transparent is the best way to defuse the jealousy: checking in, tell-alls, daily texts. This is the key to avoiding envy.
  2. Be a planner
    According to one long-term polyamorous couple, Google calendar is a godsend. Since there’s so many people involved, this is an indispensable tool where everyone can log and view plans, dates, and vacations up to a year in advance. “Time is the most valuable resource within a poly relationship.”
  3. Accept your jealousy and grow from it 
    “There’s a growth opportunity in being able to see your partner in love with someone else.” Instead of letting the jealousy overwhelm you, think of it as an opportunity for growth.
  4. Get to know your lovers’ lovers
    This is also key for managing jealousy. “The tendency is to build things up in your head. ‘I haven’t met you, so you must be way cuter, younger, smarter, sexier.’ It helps alleviate a lot of concerns if you get face to face.”
  5. Never force it
    Starting a monogamous relationship with someone you hope will be into polyamory later on is a recipe for disaster.

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Check out more tips on how to do polyamory successfully here: https://www.pdxmonthly.com/articles/2016/4/22/how-to-do-polyamory-successfully

Most Women Prefer Hairless Pussies, New Study Confirms

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_pubicThe intriguing question of whether women prefer their pussies to be perfectly groomed continues to be a source of interest for researchers. And now, a new study proves that most women, particularly those with access to luxuries such as waxing, do indeed like to go hairless. So what exactly is it about bald pubes, or as The New York Times so aptly puts it, “female genitalia, bereft of hair,” that appeals to women?

The study published recently in the journal JAMA Dermatology “surveyed a sample group of 3,316 women (age 18 to 65) and found that 62.1% of them prefer to have no pubic hair and many (59%) do it for pure hygiene reasons, whether through waxing, shaving or other means,” reports Jezebel. It seems women—especially those who are younger, white, and more educated—shave their snatches increasingly for cosmetic purposes, and also because their partners prefer it: “A total of 875 (31.5%) reported grooming because they believe it makes their genitals more attractive, and 586 (21.1%) reported grooming because of partner preference,” the study concludes. The study also found that the ladies getting laid the most are the ones who regularly groom. Finally, the age-old question of why women shave their pussies has been answered!

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Check out more about the new study that confirms most women like hairless pussies here: https://jezebel.com/most-women-prefer-having-bald-pubes-new-study-confirms-1782826994

Study Finds Middle-Aged People Have More Adventurous Sex

oldsexWorried that sex will never be as good as when you were young? Think again. A new study commissioned by the Trojan and the Sex Information and Education Council of Canada asked 2,400 Canadians, between 40 and 59, to reveal their sexual habits. And as it turns out, middle-age is prime time for exciting, satisfying sex!

“There is a public perception that as we age, sex becomes less important, less enjoyable and less frequent,” says Dr. Robin Milhausen, sexuality and relationship researcher. “The study findings indicate that most midlife Canadians are indeed leading satisfying and active sexual lives.” Nearly two-thirds of those surveyed said they had a pleasurable experience last time they had sex, which for a good majority of respondents is pretty often—at least once a week for two in five people. And not only is the sex good and frequent, but a whooping “63 percent said they felt more adventurous sexually than they did a decade ago, wanting to try new things for better satisfaction,” reports Huffington Post. Here’s to living long and (sexually) fulfilling lives!

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Check out more about middle-aged people having great, raucous sex here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/middle-aged-people-have-more-adventurous-sex-study-says_us_574468fde4b00e09e8a002c2

The Goopiest Sex Advice From Goop’s First Sex Issue

LetsTalkSexWhat exactly is Goop sex? None other than Gwyneth Paltrow’s lifestyle advice column for rich health-freaks—but for sex. And as you can probably guess, the sex advice is about as ridiculous and impractical as you’d expect. Here are some of the Goopiest highlights from Goop’s first-ever sex issue.

  1. Become an erotic theater member—for $50,000
    In Los Angeles, you can join an exclusive erotic theater called Snctm for a cool $10,000-$50,000! The theater requires male guests to be a member, be a part of a couple, or reserve dinner. Women can buy tickets and are the only people allowed to touch or initiate contact with another guest.
  2. Only use edible lube
    According to Goop, most lube has parabens, which are “endocrine disruptors.” Therefore, it is only 100% safe to use edible lube. Yeah…
  3. Apply Vitamin E oil or olive oil to your labia to “help moisturize and strengthen the vaginal tissue.”
    Uh huh…. Maybe don’t do that unless you want to sting or infect your pussy?
  4. Condoms have dairy in them
    Vegans, take note!
  5. “Ideally, you want to find a vegan, paraben-free, glycerin-free, Nonoxynal-9-free, and benzocaine- and lidocaine-free condom.”
    Ok, can I get that at the drug store?
  6. Goop’s favorite sex toys include a $395 vibrating necklace, a $535 Agent Provocateur cat whip, and a $15,000 gold dildo.
    First class all the way with Goop sex toys! Now where’s that diamond studded cock ring?
  7. “Kegels are important at all stages of life.”
    Now that’s good advice, Goop!

Looking to enhance your sex life? You don’t need vegan condoms and a $15,000 dildo to have first-class fun!

Check out more about Goop’s first-ever sex issue here: https://jezebel.com/the-goopiest-advice-from-goops-first-ever-sex-issue-1775614748