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Just One Hour In The Sun Can Boost Your Sex Drive

Here’s another reason to get more sun this summer: it boosts your sex life. Just an hour in the sun is enough to heat things up in the bedroom for men and women, thanks to vitamin D, often dubbed the sex vitamin. Several studies have linked vitamin D to sex drive, since the sun is very important for stimulating sex hormones, which are directly related to how much you want to fuck.

“A vitamin D deficiency can cause low estrogen levels in women, which results in a low sex drive. It also has the same impact on men, only they lose testosterone,” reports NY Post. A little time out in the sun significantly boosts sex hormones in both women and men, which in turn boosts libido. As a sex researcher says, “With this upcoming heat wave that means there’s every excuse to be spending our days in the sunshine – and our nights between the cool sheets.”

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Check out more about how the sun boosts your sex drive: https://nypost.com/2018/07/05/why-your-sex-life-probably-needs-a-little-more-vitamin-d/

People Who Sleep 8 Hours Have More Orgasmic Sex, Study Shows

Here’s a really good reason to get a good night’s rest: those who sleep more each night have more orgasmic sex. On top of the numerous other health benefits of sleep, a study found that more shut-eye can lead to a greater increase in sexual desire and boost sex hormones such as testosterone. A sex researcher explains that sex and sleep are intimately tied, since not only can good sleep lead to better sex but good sex can also lead to better sleep.

“A good night’s sleep can increase interest in sex and a good sexual encounter can lead to a better sleep,” she explains. Her work is backed by a different study at the University of Michigan Medical School that found that women who slept longer had more sexual desire the following day. “For every hour longer the women slept, the odds of having sex with their partner increased by 14 percent. The same study found that more sleep also equated to better genital arousal,” reports Daily Mail. Time to hit the sheets!

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Check out more about a study that shows people who sleep more have more orgasmic sex: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5809457/People-sleep-8-hours-orgasmic-sex-researcher-claims.html

‘Viagra For Women’ May Not Be A Pill At All

It turns out that all women really need for a libido boost is a zap, not a pill. According to a study, sending a current up a nerve from the foot to the base of the spine boosts female sex drive. It works by sending blood surging up to a woman’s pussy, creating a mild “tickle-like tingle.”

So far, three-month trials will show whether it could help women who suffer from low libido. Professor Tim Burns, from the University of Michigan, said: “We’re really hopeful. If stimulation is repeated over three months, it could lead to better blood flow and nerve connections to the vagina.” If it works, it could be a cost-effective treatment for genital arousal disorder that wouldn’t require drugs. Here’s hoping a little zap will go a long way in helping women get their groove back!

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Check out more about ‘Viagra for women’: https://nypost.com/2018/02/20/viagra-for-women-may-not-be-a-pill-at-all/

Sex Before Bed Is The Secret For A Better Night’s Sleep, Says Study

Forget about drinking warm milk before bed—according to a new study, the secret to getting a good night’s sleep is sex. Researchers found that two thirds of people slept better after having sex and achieving an orgasm. According to the study’s lead sleep researcher, people should “switch off their phones, and switch on their libidos.”

Researchers believe people might sleep better after getting off with a partner because sex is the perfect distraction before bed—not to mention the best relaxer. The findings from the study support an earlier study done by Oxford that found a combination of sex and a good night’s sleep had the biggest impact on well-being. As the study’s lead researcher said, “(t)here’s strong evidence to suggest substituting screen time for play time.”

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Check out more about the study that shows sex is the best way to get a good night’s sleep: https://nypost.com/2017/12/03/sex-before-bedtime-is-the-secret-for-a-better-nights-sleep-study/

Record Numbers of Couples Living In Sexless Marriages In Japan

A recent report found that nearly half of Japanese married couples have not had sex for more than a month, which is defined as a “sexless” marriage. The Guardian reports, “A record high 47.2% of married men and women said they were in sexless marriages, up 2.6 percentage points from the previous poll in 2014, and significantly higher than the 31.9% recorded when it conducted its first survey of the nation’s bedroom habits in 2004.”

So what could be to blame for the country’s tragic loss of libido? Since the highest rate of sexlessness was found among people in their mid-to-late 40s, a time when the demands of work can be at its highest, it’s clear that Japan needs to do more for its hard-working, sex-starved citizens. The report said, “This is the first time over 30% of men answered that they were too tired from work to have sex”—this shocking percentage highlights the need for a major overhaul in employment practices. Japan should remember this very important proverb: all work and no play makes couples very dull.

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Check out more about Japan’s record-high sexless marriages: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/feb/14/record-numbers-of-couples-living-in-sexless-marriages-in-japan-says-report

Man Who’s Slept With 400 People Refuses To Be Slut Shamed

Dylan Jones is a gay man with what one might call a very indulgent appetite for sex. He’s slept with 400 people—“an average of two every week for four years. And that’s not even counting weekends”—and for him, there’s no shame in that. While he fully embraces his supercharged libido, he says it’s pretty common to get slut shamed, especially by other gay men.

To him, this is a big problem. Obviously, the word “slut” carries a negative connotation, but why is that, and why do numbers matter? He speculates that gay men slut shame because of insecurities: “If they encounter someone who’s unapologetically sexually active, it can be threatening, and perhaps makes a little dose of self-loathing homophobia bubble to the surface.” He adds that “It’s impossible to have too much sex. As long you’re comfortable with what you’re doing and go about it safely, THERE. IS. NO. SUCH. THING. AS. TOO. MUCH. SEX. How can there be?” You do you, Dylan Jones—and a lot of other people while you’re at it!

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Check out more about the man who’s slept with 400 people and refuses to be slut shamed: https://www.queerty.com/man-slept-400-people-refuses-slut-shamed-says-theres-no-thing-much-sex-20160519

The Power of Aphrodisiacs Is In Your (Naughty) Imagination

Have you ever gotten turned on watching your lover slurp down an oyster, or gotten hot when eating a chili pepper? Well, what if we told you that science doesn’t have an explanation for why known aphrodisiacs like oysters and chiles rev up the sex drive? Shocking, right? Scientists believe that the power of so-called “love foods” are all in your head, literally: your imagination is what’s turning you on, not anything in the food per se.

While certain foods do have some chemicals or nutrients that make you feel sexy, like how chili raises your metabolism and releases feel-good endorphins not unlike those tingly, hot sensations during sex, nothing in food inherently would make you have a virile sex drive. Instead, the associations of food with sex or the experience of eating certain types of love foods could be what’s actually triggering your desire. Even the way food feels and looks—like the creaminess of an avocado, or the way it hangs down in round pairs—could spark your libido and make you hungry for action. So, really, sexual innuendo and your own dirty imagination are the true aphrodisiacs!

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Check out more about aphrodisiacs here.

Dominatrix Says Brain Injury is Behind Her Intense Sex Drive

Vancouver dominatrix Sasha Mizaree says a brain injury resulting from a car accident is the reason for her overactive sex drive and chosen profession in the BDSM community. And recently, mistress Mizaree was awarded $1.5 million in a lawsuit for her brain injury. Allegedly, her impulse to have sex after the accident became so severe that she no longer felt she had control over it. She explains that because of her brain injury, she couldn’t stop thinking about sex, all day every day.

Her intense sexual desire led her to become a stripper, and eventually a dominatrix. She even built a dungeon in her basement. Mistress Mizaree says that before the accident, she had an average libido, so she’s now taking measures to get a handle on her voracious appetite for sex. We bet that becoming a dominatrix has also helped her to feel more in control and empowered sexually!

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Check out more about dominatrix Mizaree on 20/20’s “My Strange Affliction”: https://abcnews.go.com/Health/women-dominatrix-brain-trauma-gave-intense-sexual-desires/story?id=29595458

NEWS: 3 Generations of Sex, Intimacy, & Relationships (Part III)

Our Dirty Thirty Lady Brings Up The Caboose.

Today we reveal what our 30-year-old women had to say when it comes to sex, relationships, and intimacy. After reading all 3 surveys, it’s obvious to see that as women age things become less complicated, in modern terms, we acquire a YOLO attitude.  Whether it’s about what we expect from men (in and out the bedroom), how we feel about ourselves, or what we’re open to, we let go a bit. All ladies answered honestly, and the common denominator is that at the end of the day all of these women want a committed partner, and it doesn’t have to be in the traditional fairytale fashion.

Age:
31.

Current level of sexual libido: 1-5, 5 being can’t live without sex:
3.

Astrological Sign:
VIRGO.

Does astrology play any effect on who you date, or have sex with?
I think its always fun to know your partners sign and read their horoscopes, compatibility but it doesn’t effect my final decision if it’s someone who I think I’m compatible with.

Have you ever been in love, if so how old were you when you were first in love?
Hmm, I thought I was in love at 17 yrs old.

What was the astrological sign of the man you were in love with?
Aquarius.

What did/do love about sex with him?
His large penis, LOL!

What characteristics of a man are you looking for, be detailed and be honest. Also, what characteristics are you looking for in the sheets, and how has that changed since your first sexual experiences if at all?
A man who is motivated and loyal. I think it’s important to have the same values and motivations in life. I feel that your significant other’s relationship with their family is important and what they have to say about their ex says a lot about them. I’m looking for someone who is striving to better himself on a personal and professional level – not becoming stagnant. I’m looking for someone that can hang with my friends and feel comfortable around my family. I’m looking for a guy who is physically fit and who enjoys sports. A man’s man!

What is the biggest turn off in bed?
When guys make noises – grunting, etc. When a guy is shy.

Do you enjoy dirty talk, do you contribute to the dirty talk?
It depends on how many drinks I’ve had. 

Is there a position that you just dread? Is there a position that you love but are too bashful to ask for?
I feel like I’m fairly open.

Would you change anything about yourself in the bedroom?
Feeling more comfortable with my body.

Are you open to sex with no attachments, have you ever had that type of relationship and was it a harmonious? (Be honest ladies)
Sometimes this type of sex is the best kind (I think this depends on where you are in your life and what you are looking for and what you have time for) and yes, I have had this type of relationship, and it worked.

Have you ever been cheated on, and if so, what can your next partner do to ease your fears about cheating?
Almost every guy I have dated has cheated on me. I would like to think that there are guys that can keep their dicks in their pants but sometimes I question if men aren’t meant to monogamous. I think to ease my fears they just need to prove through actions cheating is not on their agenda. Actions always speak louder than words.

Do you feel that men have changed when it comes to intimacy, loyalty, and relationships since your first sexual experiences/relationships? If so, why do you think this is the case?
Yes. I feel like my first sexual experiences and relationships were elementary and immature.

Do you feel that you’ve changed when it comes to intimacy, loyalty, and relationships since your first sexual experiences/relationships? If so, why do you think this is the case?
You have to be cautious and keep your guard up until you feel you can really trust someone. When you really trust someone and the loyalty is there, the sex has more meaning and can be better than a “one night stand.”

When you’ve been in a relationship what have you done to revive the sex life when you’ve hit a rut?
Spontaneous blow jobs, guys love blow jobs!

Have you ever tried dating sites, if not are you open to it?
I have and I wasn’t a big fan. I feel like you never know who the real person is on the other end, and that people can make themselves be whatever they want.

In a perfect world what is your fairytale ending, marriage? marriage with kids, unmarried with no kids, unmarried with kids, open relationships, a few more long- term relationships with different men with or without kids?
Ideally, I would like to be married someday, maybe with a baby running around. Realistically, I don’t know that will happen. I don’t feel the value of marriage is the same as it used to be. There is too much out there to cause chaos in relationships. The Internet, social medial, even TV. Back in the day a couple actually worked at dating!