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New Kinky Video Game Lets You Scrub Down Men in the Locker Room Shower

Robert Yang is revolutionizing video games with his queer, kinky scenarios that subvert the typically “straight dude gamer audience.” Last year, he created several sexually-focused games such as “Hurt Me Plenty,” a game about spanking and kink, “Succulent,” where gamers fellate a popsicle, “Stick Shift,” about cars and handjobs, and “Cobra Club,” where gamers send dick pics. And now, his latest queer-centric creation, “Rinse and Repeat,” is an exploration into the kinky world of submissives in the very sexualized realm of a communal shower.

Yang explains that the game is a gay male fantasy for those who are interested in experimenting with dom/sub relationships. Yang says, “My game isn’t unique in this sense, lots of video games have domineering relationships with their players, but I think my game is one of the few that sexualizes this dynamic, especially in a gay way designed to poke at a predominantly straight…audience.” In “Rinse and Repeat,” the player is asked by a sexy naked dude to scrub his back—and other important areas—as he showers. The scenario soon turns into a BDSM experience of dominance and submission. “Gay sex is the only thing that’s hot and dirty enough to subvert the video game industry’s lazy reliance on graphic violence and consumerism,” Yang explains.

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How to Keep Your Wet and Messy Fetish Safe

If you have a food or sploshing fetish, it’s important to keep it safe when getting all wet and messy with food and other sloppy materials. When rubbing, throwing, and rolling around in different types of messy things, you need to be careful not to let your sloppy good time turn into something unpleasant or painful. So here are some tips for how to keep it safe when sploshing.

Avoid sugary stuff near your pussy
“Sugar-free foods and syrups are definitely suggested because yeast typically loves sugar,” says Flanigan, a BDSM and kink expert. At the very least, sugary things can cause irritation. This includes honey.
Stay away from gritty textures
“If your frosting or cakes contain sprinkles, beware. And watch out for strawberries, kiwis, or anything else with little seeds, because those can scratch or hurt you if they get somewhere they shouldn’t be,” says Flanigan. Ouch!
Be careful not to get things in your eyes
If you’re pouring or throwing things in the face, be sure to wear goggles. Also make sure to wash your eyes afterward.
Be careful when using food as lube
“The only thing I would suggest as lube would be a food-grade oil, like coconut oil or olive oil,” says another sex expert. Also keep in mind that anything oil-based can break down latex condoms, so stick to a silicone-based lube or water-based lube when using latex.
Be VERY careful with spicy things
Unless you are incorporating spicy things as a BDSM thing, be very very careful!
Clean up afterward
If anything gets near your naughty bits, make sure to clean up afterward with regular soap and water. And for the rest of your body, dish soap will work well.

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What Gets People Off at Sex Emporiums Around the World

International sex shops, just like the different cultures and people of various parts of the world, are unique and distinctive. Since every continent and country has their own naughty tastes and preferences when it comes to getting off, Vice decided to investigate international sex emporiums to find out what turns people on all around the world. Here’s some of the interesting things that they found.

In Germany, the uber-popular sex mega-shops cater mainly to fräulein (women), with vibrators as their best-selling item last year. Berlin is also home to DILDOKING, which as the name suggests sells dildos, but also plenty of vibrators, anal beads or “love balls”, fetish gear and more. In Japan, the most famous sex shop is M, a seven-story mecca that carries, of course, Doll pillows, and basically anything else you might fancy. In China, the biggest sex store is Juse, which has 500 stores nationwide, and sells vibrators and BDSM toys as its most popular merch. So, as it turns out, while people are different all over the world, we’re all pretty similar when it comes to our sex toys!

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Here’s Vice‘s international sex mega-shops investigation.

How to Share Your Sexual Fantasies

While it’s true that everyone has sexual fantasies, it’s also true that many people don’t feel comfortable sharing theirs. Thankfully there are ways to get more comfortable with divulging your desires with others. Here are some tips for feeling more at ease with exploring your fantasies with a partner.

Get comfortable with your fantasies
Take the time to explore what turns you on without judgement. Everyone has personal desires and fantasies, and what gets you hot is nothing to be ashamed of. Figure out what you like—and what you’d like to happen in real life—before letting someone else know.
Don’t overanalyze what turns you on
There’s no reason to ask yourself “why” you have a particular fantasy. It doesn’t necessarily say anything about you as a person. Accept that sex isn’t rational, and just go with it.
Figure out a good time to discuss your fantasies
Timing is everything, so it’s important to feel very comfortable with someone before discussing your fantasies. At the same time, if it’s a deal breaker to date someone who might not share your particular kink, it’d be a good idea to discuss your sexual tastes with them sooner rather than later. Regardless, you should gauge how the other person might respond by asking some leading questions like “I saw this thing on the internet. How would you feel about doing something like that?”
Practice asking
Here are some good lines: “You know what sounds really hot to me?”; “There’s this thing I’ve always wanted to try, but I’ve been waiting until I found the right person.”; “I would love to see you doing…”

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The Raciest Lines From the New Fifty Shades of Grey Book

The new E.L. James book, Grey, is just as hot and naughty as readers would expect it to be. The book, which re-tells Fifty Shades from Christian Grey’s perspective, has already sold 1.1 million copies—just 4 days after it was released! Readers just can’t seem to get enough of the Fifty Shades, BDSM phenomenon, which is why news outlets like Entertainment Weekly are already compiling lists of the best, raciest lines. Here are some of the jewels:

“Her sharp intake of breath is music to my dick.”
“Vanilla sex? Can I do this?”
“Genital clamps—you have got to be kidding me.”
“I drag my hand through my hair, and in as even a tone as I can manage I ask, ‘Are you hungry?’/ ‘Not for food,’ she teases. / Whoa. She might as well be addressing my groin.”
“Oh, this is going to be fun. You’d be amazed what I can do with a few cable ties, baby.”
“’How would you like your eggs?’” / “ ‘Thoroughly whisked and beaten,’ I reply.”
“Oh, this ass is mine, so mine. And it’s going to get warmer.”

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Check out more racy lines in Grey here!

The Internet Weighs In On What Makes Someone Great at Sex

BuzzFeed recently asked their readers an important and often debated question: what makes someone great at sex? And from that seemingly simple question, BuzzFeed compiled the answers into a list called “21 Sex Tips That Aren’t Bullshit.” They insist that the list is NOT “a rolodex of sex positions, above-average genitalia, or decades of experience,” but rather an honest response from real, sexual humans on what they value from someone who is very good in bed. Here are some highlights (check out the full list, complete with sexy/silly gifs, below):

Worshipping someone’s body

Treating someone’s body as the best thing you have ever experienced is perhaps the ultimate indicator of how good you are in bed.
Speaking up during sex

Someone who’s willing to tell you what they like and dislike or what feels amazing is definitely a turn on!
Being honest about orgasms

The internet’s advice: stop faking orgasms! One woman says instead of faking it, “Mov[e] your hips or guid[e] them with your hand or moans [to] turn them into great lovers…” Great advice!
Sharing a kink

Kink is sexy—why not let your partner in on yours?!
Focus on the pleasure, not the end-goal

Taking the pressure off of cumming really allows you to just focus on the pleasure and enjoy yourself in the moment.
Taking your time

Don’t rush the foreplay! Have fun and don’t forget all the steps that lead up to the amazing main event: lip biting, earlobe nibbling, grinding—the possibilities are endless!
Being up for anything

“Being open-minded to trying new things but also knowing the definitive boundaries for each person.” —Alexis Ferguson (Facebook)

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Check out BuzzFeed’s “21 Sex Tips That Aren’t Bullshit”

Kink Is Out and Proud at Legendary Queer Street Parade

A new documentary called “Folsom Forever” chronicles the history of San Francisco’s legendary gay pride parade that celebrates the right of queers and kinksters everywhere to explore their sexuality out in the open. Even though it now seems like the leather-bound parade was always just about the kink, the film shows that the event was much more than just a scene for exhibitionists. The documentary focuses on the historically gay-friendly neighborhood the Castro in the 1970s, when “Folsom Street was the West Coast’s mecca for anyone on their leather journey in life.”

During the time when the fair originated, the queers in the Castro were being pushed out of their neighborhoods by developers who wanted to “bulldoze buildings and sex businesses — like the bathhouses — being closed by the city in misguided AIDS hysteria.” This is why the parade has always been “an expression of human rights, be it the right to low-cost housing or to willingly be flogged without fear of arrest.” San Francisco in the ’70s was a time when queer people were able to fully explore and celebrate their sexuality. That’s why today, members of the LGBT community and kinksters alike flock to the Folsom Street Parade with whips, chains, leather, and more to really celebrate sexual expression and freedom.

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Check out HuffPo‘s article on the documentary to watch the trailer for “Folsom Forever!”

Rent a Dungeon With the New AirBNB For Kinksters

Ever run into the problem of wanting to take a kinky vacation but not wanting to deal with the hassle of going through airport security with whips, chains, and various other sex toys? Well, a new kinky alternative to AirBNB called (appropriately) KinkBNB has your perfect solution. KinkBNB will offer its adventurous guests sex-positive, kink-friendly accommodations in desirable vacation locales at any budget.

KinkBNB’s founder, Darren McKeeman, told The Huffington Post that he started the business after a friend was rejected by AirBNB “because there were sex toys visible in the photos.” So now, as of May 1, if you’re looking for a great house to host an orgy, look no further than KinkBNB! In fact, one listing in L.A has that naughty convenience and a dungeon (but not an air conditioner!). Another listing for a “Kinky West Coast Getaway” on Vancouver Island has a custom spanking bench, a hot sex swing, and a massage table!

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NEWS: The New Search Engine Made Specifically for Porn

Finally, the days of searching the internet for porn and getting trackers, cookies, or the dreaded safe-for-work results are over. Now there’s Boodigo, the search engine that helps you get right to the good stuff without all the annoying hassles that come with viewing porn on the internet. One of the site’s founders, Colin Rowntree, says: “Boodigo’s search algorithm is designed to find ‘real’ adult sites and give top listings to them.” About damn time! Here’s how it works:

Boodigo filters out unlicensed and illegal content, which makes browsing through hundreds of thousands of pages of hot, x-rated material so much easier and quicker. So with this, when you search for “blowjob,” you won’t have to sift through Wikipedia articles and Cosmo’s how-to-guides—you’ll just get the real, hot deal. Same thing if you search for Playboy, Hustler, or Penthouse; the top listing will be for the actual company’s website. In short, by getting rid of illegal upload sites and fileshare programs, you can finally (finally!) get the erotic content you’re looking for, without any of the pesky consequences.

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