Meet Erika Lust, An Indie Feminist Porn Producer

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sexy7Erika Lust is best known for making porn with high production value and a focus on women’s subjectivity, desire, and pleasure. She makes X-rated content in response to what she calls “mass-produced porn,” or the porn she says “fuckographers” churn out like McDonald’s hamburgers. She’s interested in depicting real female pleasure—which she doesn’t consider exclusively “porn for women”—while upholding “ethical” working conditions for adult entertainers.

Lust is best-known for her series XConfessions, which takes viewer-submitted fantasies—about everything from noisy next door neighbors to period sex with a vampire—and brings them to life in highly stylized cinematic shorts. The porn she makes includes girl-on-guy, lesbian, gay, group sex, kink and fetish play, BDSM, and nonbinary performers. The XConfessions website currently has 10,000 subscribers and a net monthly revenue of more than $120,000—not bad for an independent, feminist porn producer!

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Check out more about Erika Lust’s independent porn: https://jezebel.com/erika-lust-says-she-has-an-ethical-alternative-to-mass-1824090251

Harvard Hosts Annual ‘Anal Sex 101’ Class

cuckoldHarvard students who aspire to be at the bottom of the class are signing up for “Anal Sex 101.” The prestigious Ivy League hosts the class annually as part of Sex Week, which also offers classes like “Kink 101” and “Beyond the Hub: Broadening Your Porn Horizons.” “It’s all about practice, practice, practice,” instructor Natasha tells the pupils at the nation’s No. 2 college.

Students learn how to relax their rectums and the importance of butt plugs as they’re schooled on the ins and outs of sodomy. “Not all men have penises, not all women have vaginas … the butthole is the great sexual equalizer. All humans have a butthole,” says Natasha. Some lucky raffle winners take home vibrators, and everyone walks away with free condoms and sex toy cleaners—not to mention a million dollar sexual education!

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Check out more about Anal Sex 101 at Harvard: https://nypost.com/2017/11/08/harvard-hosts-annual-anal-sex-101-class/

Portraits In Kink

body-1095226_640A photographer decided to explore the fetish, BDSM, and kink communities in his latest photography project. He found his models on FetLife, a “social network for the BDSM and fetish community,” that describes itself as “similar to Facebook and MySpace but run by kinksters like you and me.” His ongoing series, “The Fetlife” takes viewers into the homes of kinksters, submissives, cosplay enthusiasts, and other “sexual deviants” all over New York City.

Some of his photographs include role-play, dominatrixes, foot fetishists, rope-play, age-play, bondage, and cross-dressing. The photographer’s intent is to familiarize, not exoticize, his unique subjects. His experience with Fetlife has also taught him about gender and sexual identity: “It’s been really interesting meeting people who fully accept who they are and aren’t afraid to express themselves honestly.”

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Check out more about The Fetlife: https://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/2014/09/23/danny_ghitis_photographs_the_kink_and_fetish_community_in_new_york_city.html

These Are The Most Common Sexual Fantasies

PinkPussyPaige02You might be surprised how common certain fantasies and fetishes are. A new survey of 400 people from a mobile dating app discovered that a lot of us have the same desires. The survey asked 241 women and 159 men about their sexual fantasies and found that the most common fantasy is having sex with multiple people at the same time, which 17.6% reported thinking about during masturbation.

Other popular sexual fantasies include role play, BDSM, and having an affair. Surprisingly, only 3% of respondents said they get turned on by the idea of public sex. “The big take-away from this data is that we are all more alike than we may think,” a researcher told Refinery29. “There’s safety in numbers, and if our survey can help people feel more comfortable in the knowledge that others share their thoughts on threesomes and role play, for example, perhaps it can lead to more fulfilling sex lives for all.”

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Check out more about the most common sexual fantasies: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/11/180046/common-sexual-fantasies-data

6 Times Sex Got Pretty Damn Kinky In 2017

condomsWe are proclaiming 2017 as the “Year of Kink”. Even though the year’s now over, we’re looking back on all the hot kinky sex that was had. Get ready for 6 kinky sex stories from 2017.

  1. He lifted me on to the professor’s podium and started to eat me out. I moaned ‘professor, how can I bring my grade up? I need to pass this class.’ He picked me up and threw me onto the professor’s table, demanding I give him head. After doing so, he pinned my arms above my head and fucked me.” Hot for teacher!
  2. I had sex inside of an active volcano next to the world’s largest lava lake. We repelled down into the crater and camped on the interior plateau overlooking the lava. Luckily the only explosions were figurative.” Hot hot hot!
  3. “A few highlights include sharing my partner’s cock with his other partner and spitting his cum into her mouth after he finished. Also, my own experience with bimboification – a partner and I enjoy playing with hypnosis and ‘reprogramming’.” A hypnotic experience!
  4. “I worked at a shop as a fitting room operator. At the time, I had a fuck buddy in another department. For his birthday, I sucked him off in the fitting room.” The perfect birthday gift for a fuck buddy!
  5. “I had sex doggy style in a movie theatre while the lights were still on and people were walking in.” X-rated!
  6. “I bought a dildo for the first time. My boyfriend tied me up and put it in my ass and spanked me with a crop. He pulled it out just as I was on the brink and had sex with me while pulling my hair and came on my back. It was the best orgasm I’ve ever had.” Sexy!

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Check out more kinky sex stories of 2017: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/a-kinky-2017

Essential BDSM Toys For Beginners

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_heartbleedBDSM toys and equipment aren’t just for kinksters. Gear that’s used to restrain, bind, or sexually tease can be enjoyed by everyone. And if you’re new to the exciting world of BDSM, here’s the 4 must-have equipment and sex toys for your kinky treasure chest.

  1. Blindfold
    The blindfold is perhaps the most popular kinky item, and for good reason. The sensory deprivation it provides heightens erotic sensations. Blindfolds are also exciting because they add to the kinky power play between subs and doms—you literally don’t know what’s coming.
  2. Hitachi’s Magic Wand
    Not only is the Magic Wand one of the best vibrators around, it’s also great in bondage dom/sub play sessions. Wands can be tied and bound to a sub’s genitals, or used for edging and orgasm control, to name a few options.
  3. Bondage Tape
    Kink fans love bondage tape, and it’s especially good for beginners. It’s used to wrap together different parts of the body, but unlike duct tape, bondage tape only sticks to itself. It’s hard to break without scissors and it’s safe to use on the skin.
  4. Dildos
    A dildo is one of the most versatile sex toys, so it’s perfect for kinky play. Whether you use it for pegging or with a harness, the kinky options are literally endless!

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Check out more of the must-have BDSM toys for beginners: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/bdsm-toys/

7 Kinky Sexual Fantasies

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  1. Submission
    “I just want to have some really wild, animalistic sex. Like shove me down and fuck me brutally. Call me a dirty bitch. Make me submit. Command me.” They like it rough!
  2. Sexually teased and orgasm control
    “A full BDSM scene: tied, restrained, in nipple clamps or sticks; being flogged, cropped, sexually teased and orgasm controlled.” Naughty naughty!
  3. Completely dominated
    “My fantasies always include choking/hard spankings/control/biting. I like it when I have no power.” We can see the appeal!
  4. Public sex
    “I want to have sex in a two-way mirror box in a busy public place, so that me and my partner can see outwards, but everybody else just sees a mirrored box.” Risque!
  5. Being forced into a locked room
    “I’ve always fantasized about a manager or security guard forcing me into the janitor closet and having their way with me. It really gets me going.” Sexy.
  6. Being submissive with a butt plug
    “I’m a very loud, dominant woman, and I like switching it in the bedroom.” If you can dream it, you can do it.
  7. Being submissive with a vibrator
    “I want to be on all fours while my mate ‘inspects’ me. Spreading, poking, investigating every crevasse of my body. Inserting things, vibrating when I’m not expecting it.” Kinky!

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Check out more kinky sexual fantasies: https://www.refinery29.com/sexual-fantasies#slide-42

These Are The Strangest Things People Masturbated To

It’s probably true that there’s nothing you can think of that someone hasn’t masturbated to. Whether it’s a sexy cartoon character or an inanimate object, sometimes really weird stuff can turn you on. Here are the strangest things Redditors jerked off to.

  1. A clean apartmentbest_phone_sex_niteflirt_disneyprinces
    “I laid in bed looking at it and got off on how organized and clean my space was.” A clean home is a happy home—especially when you orgasm in it!
  2. A biology book
    “I humped a drawing of a vagina.” Next best thing?
  3. Watching my boyfriend sleep
    “Is that creepy?” Maybe it’s kinky!
  4. Mommy kink
    Not on NiteFlirt you don’t!
  5. Malcolm in the Middle
    “Don’t ask why. I don’t know.” Sitcoms—the new porn?
  6. Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives
    “Watching someone eat a seven-stack burger was honestly one of the most satisfying things I’ve ever watched. Also one of the best orgasms I’ve ever given myself.” Food porn, literally.
  7. Male Disney Characters
    “You know those oddly sexy drawings of male Disney characters? Yeah…those.” Let’s face it, cartoons are sexy!
  8. A tea set
    “I had a weird experience a few years back that whenever I was close I would visualize a tea set.” It does get all wet!

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Check out more of the strangest things people masturbated to: https://www.refinery29.com/hot-horny-masturbation-sexual-thoughts#slide-10

This Viral Cartoon Is Actually Fetish Porn

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It can also involve men transforming into women with huge tits, big asses, and high stripper heels. The piece that went viral was commissioned for a fetishist who wanted to see the transformation in reverse—not expecting anyone outside of the transformation porn community to ever see it. While the cartoon was intended for a specific, kinky audience, the artist made a statement saying they strive to “create erotica that is both sexy and feminist.”

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Check out more about the fetish porn that went viral: https://www.buzzfeed.com/krishrach/this-sexist-cartoon-everyone-is-freaking-out-about-is-actual

The World’s First Naked Barber Will Satisfy All Your Fetish Needs

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The Naked Barber provides all your fetish grooming needs and will get naked right along with you. He throws you in a BDSM sling, and then gets you into various erotic positions like doggy style to shave all those hard to reach places. He says a lot guys get turned on by a straight-razor shave or a scrotum shave, but in general, his fetish clients—gay and straight men, and women—just like the kinky experience.

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Check out more about the Naked Barber: https://www.thegailygrind.com/2014/08/19/worlds-first-naked-barber-will-totally-shave-balls-sling-nsfw/