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BDSM Community Furious At Schneiderman’s ‘Role-Playing’ Defense

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_bdsm_chateauAnybody who has kinky sex knows the importance of giving consent before engaging in role-playing and rough sex. That’s why members of the kink community are outraged that Eric Schneiderman, in resigning as New York’s attorney general because of alleged violence toward several women, depicted the abuse as “role-playing and other consensual sexual activity.” Since Ronan Farrow co-authored the New Yorker story that first revealed the allegations against Schneiderman, various online communities on social media and blogs devoted to BDSM have explained that any non-negotiated encounter is “ABUSE. End of story.”

Ronan Farrow also spoke to CNN, adding “that this was not role-playing, that this was not ‘Fifty Shades of Grey.’ It wasn’t in a gray area at all.” EJ Dickson, an editor of MensHealth.com wrote “It is one of the very basic tenets of BDSM. Often, sex acts will be negotiated beforehand in the form of contracts, and either way, anyone practicing BDSM responsibly will implement a ‘safe word’ to make it clear if they are uncomfortable with anything happening.” Hey, Schneiderman, don’t drag kinksters down in the mud with you!

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Check out more about Schneiderman’s offensive BDSM defense when accused of abuse: https://nypost.com/2018/05/08/bdsm-community-angry-at-schneidermans-role-playing-depiction/

Whiplr is the New App for Kinksters

Are you into apps like Tinder that help you get laid with no strings attached, but have been longing for something, well, a little more kink friendly? If so, we have good news for you. Whiplr is a new app that is specially for those who want to have kinky sex. “The idea came from within the kink community. There simply wasn’t a mobile app for people to find and connect with other people into fetish and kink,” said Whiplr’s Chief Communications Officer, Daniel Sevitt.

Whiplr came on the scene just this year and right in time for Valentine’s Day. And since it’s so new, it’s still gaining users (time to sign up, kinky horny people!). It’s also location based, like Grindr, which means that you can find potential play partners close to you or farther away if you’re looking for more discretion. But most importantly, you can define your kinks according to various categories (objects, shopping, odors), but you are also free to discuss any aspects of your fetishes in private. Sevitt explains, “Kink is a journey and everyone should be free to be who they want to be and like what they want without someone else defining it for them.” Right on, Whiplr!

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Check out more about Whiplr on Vice.