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‘Aftercare’ Helps Kinksters ‘Come Down’ After BDSM Sex

In the world of BDSM, aftercare is a post-play ritual in which partners exchange physical or emotional comfort following an intense sexual experience. Aftercare might involve cuddling, talking, or tending to any minor injuries sustained during the BDSM “scene.” This kind of nurturing helps both partners gently come down from the “high” of the BDSM scene, and avoid the low emotional state known as “drop” in kink circles.

“BDSM play is inherently risky, whether physically or emotionally,” a sex educator explains. “It involves a higher level of vulnerability and trust than normal sex.” This is why “Taking care of someone after this is an act of protection and care,” they explain. Aftercare is a way to help kinksters “ease back into normal consciousness.”

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Check out more about how aftercare helps kinksters after BDSM: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/aftercare-bdsm-vanilla-sex_l_61958a0de4b0ae9a429b1eba

This Is The No. 1 Thing Women Want From A Lover

Image Source: Flickr.com | Richard FosterYou might think women want a sex god with a huge dick, but it turns out women want something simpler from a lover. Kindness is the top quality women overwhelmingly want to see, according to one of the most extensive surveys on what women look for in a long-term partner. Almost 90% of the nearly 40,600 women surveyed rank kindness highest among desirable qualities, followed by supportiveness, intelligence, and confidence.

“Attractiveness” did not not top the list, but gay and straight women agreed they appreciate a nice smile and eyes. Lesbian women completed their Top 5 with average breasts, an average butt and an attractive back, whereas straight women put average penis as No. 3, followed by large hands and, interestingly, a short head of hair. There you have it: what women really want from a lover.

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Check out more about what women want from a lover: https://nypost.com/2019/07/24/this-is-the-no-1-thing-64000-women-want-from-a-lover-survey/