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Kink Educator’s BDSM Workshops Boomed During Lockdown

A kink educator helped thousands of people around the world live out their sexual fantasies during lockdown. One of her most popular workshops is her spanking class, which has up to 100 people at a time and up to 50 participants in real-life sessions. “My business boomed in lockdown. The pandemic gave people time to think about what they want in bed and explore their desires in the comfort of their home.”

“It’s not all about flogging, spanking and tying each other up,” she explains. “It can be a very sensual experience.” She talks about pouring hot wax all over your partner’s naked body “like a work of art,” letting your partner “control” when you orgasm, and experimenting with sensory deprivation. “There really is something for everyone so don’t be afraid to try.”

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Check out more about a kink educator’s BDSM workshops booming during lockdown: https://nypost.com/2022/01/13/sex-educator-reveals-the-surprising-items-all-her-clients-love/

Pornhub Reveals 2021’s Most Popular Searches In America

Another year, another Pornhub review revealing America’s X-rated viewing habits. The most popular search term across the United States was “hentai”—a type of Japanese anime. Fantasy was a theme: “The Suicide Squad” anti-hero Harley Quinn was the most-searched movie franchise or character, followed by Wonder Woman, Harry Potter, “Star Wars” and Black Widow.

Lara Rhoades was the most popular porn star internationally, followed by Abella Danger, Eva Elfie, Riley Reid and Mia Malkova. The adult site further revealed that Americans were the biggest porn consumers on the planet—Brits made up the second-largest share of Pornhub users, the Japanese placed in third, the frisky French came in fourth, while Italians rounded out the top 5. “Ebony” remained the most-viewed category of video for the second year running, ahead of “lesbian” and “MILF.”

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Check out more about Pornhub’s 2021 year in review: https://nypost.com/2021/12/15/pornhub-reveals-2021s-most-popular-searches-in-america/

Sex Workers Reveal Most Memorable Requests From Clients

Sex workers are sharing details of their most memorable kinky clients. An escort described a booking with a balloon fetishist: “It was an hour and a half of blowing up balloons, popping them and rubbing them against ourselves and that was it,” she laughed. Another escort said a man with a food fetish asked her to sit on a cake and rub it all over his body.

A burlesque dancer revealed a unique highlight of a polyamorous event: “There was a woman sitting at the bar and I slowly slide down into a split, face crotch level, and as I hit that split I heard her audibly moan, and it was the best moment of my life,” she said. A male worker revealed his “best paid” booking was a 10-hour marathon where he was told to model designer underwear for a man—he was paid $5000 and gifted over $3000 in designer briefs.

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Check out more about sex workers’ most memorable requests: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10232153/Sex-workers-reveal-unusual-requests.html

A Common Mistake Men Make In Bed

A sexpert who shares sexy pics and advice with her 4.5 million Instagram followers says she knows exactly what you can do to guarantee your partner has a good time, every single time. She says that the one mistake men make is believing that “sex just happens, like roll over, take it, and done.” “It’s about conversation, connection, making time for each other, listening, laughing, and being sexy with each other,” she explains.

She advises men to “make her desires your priority,” in other words “You need to be vigilant of her, take care of her, watch out for her and be solicitous of her needs.” She advises couples to make time for intimacy, flattery, experimentation with sex toys and foreplay. “Most importantly it’s about being healthy, happy and serving each other’s interests as well as your own,” she says.

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Check out more about a common mistake men make in bed: https://nypost.com/2021/11/12/a-common-mistake-men-always-make-in-bed-plus-tips-to-guarantee-orgasm/

How To Not Catch Feelings For A One Night Stand

Sometimes the joys of casual sex can be outweighed by pesky “feelings.” Thankfully, a psychotherapist says these hookups can be easy ways to satisfy carnal desires with no strings attached. During sex, the body releases oxytocin, commonly called the “love hormone,” so it’s natural to feel a deep connection during and after the act, even if it only happens once, explained a Sydney-based psychotherapist.

She explained that when people catch serious feelings for a casual hookup, they may be ignoring the reality of the situation, perhaps to get more out of it: “It’s possible that that person is not responding to what’s available at this moment, and trying to fulfill deeper needs…” She added that people who find themselves with feelings for a one night stand should take time to gauge the gravity of those feelings, and reflect to see if the feelings align with what they really want. People who found themselves getting emotional would do well to acknowledge those feelings honestly, allow them to exist, then let them go: “We can catch feelings, but we don’t actually have to hold onto them. It’s possible to let them come, stay for a while, and pass.”

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Check out more about how not to catch feelings for a one night stand: https://www.vice.com/en/article/wxd835/how-to-sex-one-night-stand-hookup-emotions

‘Aftercare’ Helps Kinksters ‘Come Down’ After BDSM Sex

In the world of BDSM, aftercare is a post-play ritual in which partners exchange physical or emotional comfort following an intense sexual experience. Aftercare might involve cuddling, talking, or tending to any minor injuries sustained during the BDSM “scene.” This kind of nurturing helps both partners gently come down from the “high” of the BDSM scene, and avoid the low emotional state known as “drop” in kink circles.

“BDSM play is inherently risky, whether physically or emotionally,” a sex educator explains. “It involves a higher level of vulnerability and trust than normal sex.” This is why “Taking care of someone after this is an act of protection and care,” they explain. Aftercare is a way to help kinksters “ease back into normal consciousness.”

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Check out more about how aftercare helps kinksters after BDSM: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/aftercare-bdsm-vanilla-sex_l_61958a0de4b0ae9a429b1eba

The Most Underrated Sex Positions, According To Porn Stars

Porn stars have some advice for those looking to spice up their sex lives: try underrated sex positions. According to more than a dozen adult performers, some sex positions are simply overhyped—like reverse cowgirl—considering their limited potential for pleasure and high level of effort. As one porn star explains, “We do more acrobatic positions in scenes because they look wild on camera. And we don’t do a lot of things like missionary because they look boring.”

They claim that underrated sex positions—missionary and spooning—are actually really great, since they offer intimacy, deeper penetration, and better clitoral stimulation. “If you want to get good at sex, treat it like a science, not a primal instinct. Angle, depth, and speed are your units of measure. You can make adjustments to all of these factors with every position you try when you’re experimenting with them,” one porn star says. They say to experiment with what feels good, and to “Try not to judge yourself if things go wrong. It’s completely normal, and OK, to laugh during sex—to make fun of ourselves when we try new things and it doesn’t totally work.”

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Check out more about underrated sex positions, according to porn stars: https://mashable.com/article/sex-positions

The Age When You First Have Sex Could Be Written In Your DNA

According to a team of scientists led by the University of Oxford, the age when you first have sex may be written into your genetic code. The study revealed 371 genetic variants that contribute to when people first have sex or when they have children. The research team surveyed 214,547 women and 182,791 men for when they first had sex using a database called UK Biobank, which contains health and genetic data for people in the UK.

They discovered more than 300 segments of our DNA that could be linked to when people first had sex and gave birth. Using this data, the team analyzed how the timing of having sex and giving birth could be linked to other health conditions, like addiction, diabetes and ADHD. “We anticipate that our results will address important interventions in infertility, sexual and mental health,” said the study leader.

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Check out more about a study showing the first time you fuck could be written in your genetic code: https://nypost.com/2021/07/01/when-you-lose-your-virginity-may-be-up-to-your-genes-study/