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Great Orgasms Are Inherited In Your DNA, Study Says

The ability to have earth-shattering orgasms is partially genetic, British researchers have uncovered. The study, which focused on female orgasms, asked identical and nonidentical twins two questions: “Overall, how frequently do you experience an orgasm during intercourse?” and “How frequently do you experience an orgasm during masturbation by yourself or a partner?” Researchers were interested in uncovering whether there was a difference in answers between the sets of identical and nonidentical twins.

Identical twins share a DNA code with each other, meaning the differences in their answers were likely a result of the different environments in which they were induced into orgasm. Nonidentical twins, on the other hand, only share 50% of their DNA, meaning differences in their answers come down to genetics as well as the different environments in which they might come to orgasm. Sure enough, the researchers found that genetic factors played an important role, accounting for up to 60% of a woman’s ability to reach the big O.

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Check out more about a study showing orgasms are inherited in your DNA: https://nypost.com/2022/06/23/great-orgasms-are-inherited-from-your-parents-dna-experts/

Couples Are Experimenting With ‘Soft Swinging’

Some couples are finding clever ways to add spice to their sex lives: “soft swapping.” These kinksters cavort naked with other couples in hotel rooms and at sex parties without ever “going all the way.” “Soft-swapping”—or “soft-swinging”—is unusual enough that even noted sexperts weren’t overly familiar with the topic until a TikTok went viral and brought attention to the saucy lifestyle.

Experts say the practice can be a safer way for couples to get kinky: “It could be a risk-mitigation strategy in that it allows for some degree of sexual novelty without taking as much risk for STIs and/or unintended pregnancy,” one said. While fucking isn’t on the menu, threesomes, foursomes, making out, foreplay, mutual masturbation and oral sex are. “Another benefit of soft-swapping for women is that we have so many parts that feel good when touched, and realistically one person can’t get to all of them at once,” one “soft-swinger” explained about indulging her “feminist” fantasies.

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Check out more about “soft swingers”: https://nypost.com/2022/06/13/were-soft-swingers-and-our-marriage-has-never-been-better/

More Women Than Men Turned On By ‘Aggressive’ Porn, Study Finds

A new study proves more women than men enjoy watching “aggressive” porn—dispelling myths about what each gender likes when it comes to XXX. The study, published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, found that “those who did say that they enjoyed displays of aggression, including rougher aggression, somewhat surprisingly women were a majority.” One of the study’s researchers explained, “Women were more likely to report being aroused by aggression, actively seeking aggression and wanting to see more aggression in mainstream pornography.”

After exploring 122 anonymous porn users’ preferences, the study found over half of all viewers, 53%, liked at least a little bit of aggression in porn—breaking down to 66% of women and 40% of men. Women, too, were more likely to go for “harder” expressions of aggression in porn and to seek it more than men, with themes such as bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and sadomasochism. “Very little attention has been given … to female viewers, their preferences and their desires,” a researcher said. “I noticed that much of the literature talked about aggression in mainstream pornography as a growing phenomenon (my findings show that this is not the case), claiming that this is driven by men’s desires for domination over women.”

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Check out more about a study showing more women than men enjoy “aggressive” porn: https://nypost.com/2022/06/07/more-women-than-men-turned-on-by-aggressive-porn-study/

Here’s more on the study: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-021-02053-1

NiteFlirt’s Own “Shadow Priest” Offers Their Advice

Image Credit: Men’s Health

Here at NiteFlirt, we’re fully aware of how powerful the voice can be. And one Flirt, Shadow Priest, spoke to Men’s Health with their experience to help others with their own dirty talk.

The very first tip offered? “Listening,” he said. “What do they think about when they fantasize? What words do they use? Paying attention to your partner is the most basic and most important skill.” After that, Shadow Priest opened up about everything: consent, fetishes, even how to get around any awkward moments in the conversation. It’s definitely worth reading, or having someone read it to you… let that voice guide you wherever you’re hoping to go!

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Read more at Men’s Health – https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a40159370/dirty-talk-tips-phone-sex-operator-shadow-priest

These Are The Objects To Let You Know If Someone Is A Swinger

An upside-down pineapple was recently revealed on TikTok as a symbol for swingers indicating they are DTF. And now, swingers are sharing other objects to signal their sexual openness. It seems kitschy lawn ornaments are all the rage for suburbanite swingers: garden gnomes are a way to show your home is a swinging hotspot.

Hot tubs, not surprisingly, could also indicate you have a naughty neighbor. Pampas grass planted in a person’s front yard is another telltale sign of a kinky neighbor. Additionally, if a woman is wearing an anklet or a toe ring, she may be advertising that she is into an alternative sexual lifestyle, the website Bigger Love proclaims.

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Check out more about the objects to let you know someone is a swinger: https://nypost.com/2022/06/08/sex-and-the-suburbs-how-to-know-if-your-neighbor-is-a-swinger/

America Has Two Of The World’s Kinkiest Cities

A new study ranked the kinkiest cities in the world and two American hotspots made the cut. Not surprisingly, Las Vegas and New York City are among the raciest destinations across the globe, sexperts say. London is rated the kinkiest city in The Bottle Club’s latest study where they ranked cities on a 40-point scale.

Las Vegas follows shortly behind London’s near-perfect score of 39 with a score of 38, while Berlin comes in third place with 33 points, and New York City is in the top four with a score of 29. In order to determine each city’s “kinky” score, they were ranked on the number of kinky people, sex events, and porn stars named after the city. London leads the way due to a whopping 131 sex events, 10,000 content creators on OnlyFans, and at least 30 porn stars named “London.”

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Check out more about the kinkiest cities in the world: https://nypost.com/2022/04/20/america-has-two-of-the-worlds-kinkiest-cities/

British TV Show Tests How Ready Couples Are To Being In Open Relationship

A TV show in the UK is trying an astonishing sexual experiment that aims to introduce ordinary couples to the world of non-monogamous relationships. The series, called Open House: The Great Sex Experiment, tests how “ready” couples are to try an open relationship. Participants are given a series of escalating tasks, each pushing them slightly further than the last towards actually having sex with someone other than their partner.

According to the programmers, the show is an examination of an “increasingly popular lifestyle choice.” Producers of the show purposely selected total novices to non-monogamy—people who are “happily married” and have satisfying sex lives. Dr Lori—a psychologist who helps couples to achieve “a deeper level of sexual congruence”—assigns the couples tasks, ranging from flirting to playing “innocent” party games, right up to having a threesome while the cameras roll.

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Check out more about the British TV show, The Great Sex Experiment: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10669099/TV-experiment-proves-women-men-think-differently-sex-fidelity.html

Kourtney Kardashian Reveals Details Of Her ‘Sex Fast’

Kourtney Kardashian found a unique way to spice up sex with her fiancé Travis Barker—going on a sex and orgasm fast. During a very candid interview recently, the reality star revealed that taking a break from fucking “actually made everything better.” She said, “Like, if you can’t have caffeine, when you have your first matcha, it’s so good.”

She also discussed how becoming so satisfied in the bedroom has affected articles on her lifestyle website. Rather than continuing to write about “vibrators and porn,” she asked her team: “What about people who are just so into each other and don’t need any of that? Like, should we write a story on that?” The amorous couple give new meaning to “abstinence.”

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Check out more about Kourtney Kardashian’s “sex fast”: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10576319/Kourtney-Kardashian-dishes-crazy-sex-fast-fiance-Travis-Barker.html

This Is How Dicks Measure Up Around The World

If you’ve ever wondered where in the world men have the largest cocks, we’ve got answers. In fact, there have even been color-coded interactive maps showing the different sizes of men’s manhood, depending on where they’re from. Taking first place, the African countries highlighted in red have the largest members while erect: Western African countries like Ghana, the Congo and Gabon grab the top spot, with averages of 16cms.

Also men from Australia, Italy, Norway, Mexico and South Africa are also on the well-endowed end—these countries go up to an average of 5.8-6.3 inches. Meanwhile, Asian countries like India, Thailand and South Korea got the short end of the stick with the smallest size on average, varying between 3.6 to 4.1 inches. Mexico is home to the man with the biggest penis in the world, measuring in at 18.9 inches!

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Check out more about the average penis sizes around the world: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/271647

Woman Claims Switching to Vegan Diet Improved Her Sex Life

It seems going vegan may have some surprising additional health benefits. A woman claims that her libido is soaring after switching to a plant-based diet. “Not only do our sessions now last longer, but so do my orgasms,” she says of her sex life.

She believes the diet helped her lose some pounds and gave her more energy for “rigorous sessions in the sack.” Science backs her claim: many vegan foods boost blood circulation, which increases chances of orgasm, as there’s more blood flow down below. Leafy greens, figs, pumpkin seeds, cayenne pepper, dark chocolate and almonds are all packed with vitamin B and zinc, which raise testosterone levels and sexual desire, increasing our appetite for sex.

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Check out more about a woman claiming going vegan improved her sex life: https://nypost.com/2022/01/05/woman-claims-switching-to-vegan-diet-improved-her-sex-life-gave-her-longer-orgasms/