Spontaneous Sex Isn’t The Hottest Sex, Study Says

Good things come to those who wait, according to a new study. New research from York University published in the Journal of Sex Research found that planning ahead can be just as sexy and satisfying as spontaneous sex—despite popular beliefs otherwise. “But, despite these beliefs, across our two studies, we did not find strong support that people actually experience spontaneous sex as more satisfying than planned sex,” the study’s authors said.

“When we suggest that couples or other romantic configurations carve out that time, we’re not necessarily saying you put it into a calendar—like 7 p.m. on a Tuesday, after putting dinner in the oven and before folding the socks,” explained a registered psychotherapist specializing in romantic relationships. The study’s authors concluded that the key to planning sex ahead of time is “intention, versus expectation” and to plan to regularly spend quality time together with no distractions to keep hold of the spark and alleviate any pressure. “But the intentionality behind it can be transformative in the sense that we don’t wait around for the right moment, because sometimes the mood just never strikes, really, for some people, and that might deter them.”

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Spicy Food Lovers More Likely To Consider Themselves Hot, Poll Finds

If you tend to reach for spicier foods, chances are you lead a spicier life. A new survey of 2,000 American adults explored whether there are any personality correlations between people who are spicy food enthusiasts. The results showed spicy food eaters are more likely to enjoy trying new things (76%), consider themselves attractive (62%) and are more content with their lives (66%) than those with milder heat preferences.

Of those who prefer hot foods, 21% consider themselves extroverted, compared to 15% of mild food eaters. Those who pack on the heat are also more likely to describe themselves as creative (54%), confident (51%) and adventurous (44%). “It makes perfect sense that those who take the heat head on are ready to take on anything and everything else. Heat fans go big on both flavor and adventure, and they’re always chasing the spice of life,” said a representative involved with the survey.

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Check out more about a survey showing spicy food enthusiasts have spicier lives: https://nypost.com/2022/11/22/spicy-food-eaters-more-likely-to-consider-themselves-attractive/

Ocean Sounds Can Make You Cum Better, Audio Erotica Expert Claims

The founder of an erotic audio company claims listening to the sound of crashing waves can help train the brain to have better orgasms. The businesswoman recently gave a TED talk explaining why sound is intrinsic to sexual pleasure. She said listening to less obviously erotic noises can expand a person’s imagination, and sexual horizons.

“It is not a betrayal to use your imagination to bring you more pleasure,” she said. “Fantasy is a safe space, and it’s time we bust the myth that what you fantasize about and what you want to happen in reality are always the same thing.” She explained sounds—not words—can often be a gateway to fantasy. The sound of waves crashing against the shore, for instance, can induce listeners into a state of relaxation, which in turn produces better orgasms.

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Check out more about how ocean sounds can make you cum better: https://nypost.com/2022/04/21/ocean-sounds-can-make-orgasms-better-audio-erotica-expert/

Local Washington State Station Accidentally Airs Porn During Weather Report

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In today’s forecast, it’s raining T&A! A local news station in Washington State accidentally aired about 13 seconds of porn during a weather report. Meteorologist Michelle Boss reported that the state was expecting “some bonus days of nice weather after a gorgeous weekend of mild temperatures,” seemingly completely unaware of the XXX playing behind her.

In the X-rated video, a woman lies in bed showing her bare ass, before spreading her cheeks for a close-up. Boss’s co-anchor also showed no reaction to the clip as the CBS-affiliated station continued to show more weather footage. The station later apologized for the unfortunate boner (wink wink) and issued a statement by the Spokane City Police Department about an investigation as to “how the image appeared and where it came from.”

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Check out more about a local Washington State station airing porn during the weather report: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10108153/Cops-investigating-Washington-State-TV-station-airs-13-seconds-PORN-weather-report.html

7 Hilarious Sex Horror Stories On Twitter

volcanoWho doesn’t love a good sex horror story to lift your spirits. We all have some embarrassing story, and the good people on Twitter are more than happy to share theirs. Here are the best/worst ones.

  1. “my worst one was DEFINITELY the time i was on top w this guy & out of NOWHERE the ball of my nipple piercing FELL OFF & LANDED IN HIS MOUTH & HE STARTED CHOKING HAHAHAHA.”
    When naughty piercings go wrong…
  2. “Did it on a bed with wheels and I honestly could not contain myself when we started making our way over to the other side of the room.”
    That’s one way to switch it up!
  3. “Went home with a girl one night (very drunk) to cut a long story short in my taxi home the next morning the taxi driver looks at me and says ‘what’s happened to your face mate, fighting last night was you?’ Period blood everywhere.”
    Accidental blood hound!
  4. “The one and only time I’ve ever had a three way. I got both girls pregnant.”
    Three’s company too?
  5. “giving my bf head in a straight up public street in coolock at 2am and some girl shouted over HOWS IT TASTE and i stopped briefly, shouted FUCKING UNREAL LOVE then continued.”
    Delicious!
  6. “ate some hot wings once and when i went to finger a bird the remains of the hot sauce started burning the insides of her fanny and she started screaming.”
    Not hot…
  7. “I had a guy over and woke up the next morning to find that he SHAVED HIS PUBES IN MY SINK WITH MY RAZOR.”
    Fetish thing?

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Check out more hilarious sex horror stories on Twitter: https://www.buzzfeed.com/jamedjackson/sex-horror-stories-straight-from-twitter

These Cities Have The Hottest Sex In Winter

volcanoIt seems cold winter nights get Americans hot and bothered. The Kinsey Institute’s sexperts asked 5,000 people of “all ages, ethnicities, incomes and walks of life” about their sex lives to determine how much or little sex people have in winter. The research considered the amount of casual dating that goes on in a given city, as well as the amount of sex locals are having, to rank American cities’ seasonal sex lives.

The study found that frigid Midwestern city Indianapolis took the top spot with the most sex in winter. Other cities that know how to stay warm when it’s cold outside include Denver, Chicago and Columbus, which took spots three, four and eight, respectively. But while cold-weather states took many of the top spots, San Diego actually ranked No. 2.

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Check out more about which cities have the most sex in winter: https://nypost.com/2019/11/06/these-us-cities-have-the-hottest-sex-in-cold-winter-months-survey/

Firefighters Called To Put Out Blaze Find Flaming Vibrator

volcanoFirefighters were called to action after some very hot sex. Emergency services rushed to the scene to extinguish a burning sex toy that was on fire at the side of a road in Austria. Firefighters thought they were putting out a burning tire, but were stunned to discover the flaming object was actually a vibrator.

When firefighters scoured through the charred remains, they found a piece of paper promising women “a world full of sensual experiences that will enrich you and your life time and again.” The note read: “By choosing the Womanizer vibrator, you are not only guaranteed orgasms that are beyond comparison, but also an entirely new lust for pleasure.” It is unclear whether the sex toy caught fire after malfunctioning or if someone intentionally set it on fire, but one thing’s for sure: that sex was smokin’!

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Check out more about firefighters putting out a flaming vibrator: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6852471/Hot-sex-Firefighters-called-blaze-flaming-vibrator.html

Firefighters Suspended For Allegedly Filming Porn In Fire Station

Image Source: Flickr - 434picsIt’s getting hot in Akron, Ohio’s local fire station, where two firefighters are now suspended for allegedly filming porn. Arthur Dean and Deann Eller have been on paid leave since uploading proof of their fiery love life on the internet. The footage appeared on multiple porn sites, and shows a woman working out naked in a basement gym.

The Akron mayor and Fire Chief released a joint statement denouncing the porn, saying “These allegations bring unwelcome dishonor and embarrassment to Akron Fire Department and the City of Akron and unfairly discredit the reputation of other Akron Fire officers.” There is currently an investigation to determine the “appropriate action.” The X-rated firefighters now in hot water were hired on the same day in September 2000, and have been with the fire department for 18 years.

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Check out more about the firefighters suspended for making porn in the fire station: https://gizmodo.com/firefighters-suspended-for-allegedly-filming-porn-in-fi-1827051928

8 Sex Tips Everyone Should Know About

threesome-sex-positions_1447521164When it comes to giving head and fucking well, BuzzFeed Brazil readers have some helpful suggestions. Whether you’re into pussy or dick—or both!—here are 8 sex tips everyone should know about. Then the next time you’re eating pussy, giving a blowjob, or fucking, put these tips into action (see full list below)!

  1. Remember: the clit is sensitiveGo slow and be gentle at first. “Oral sex has to be like a well-placed kiss: moist, unhurried, and organized,” says a reader.
  2. If she’s not saying much, everything is probably good“When a woman is really quiet, sometimes even silent or only lightly moaning, it’s almost always a good sign! Women like this to be a truly intimate moment, with no pressure and especially no rush!” Silence is golden!
  3. “Like that” means “exactly like that,” not “faster”“Rhythm is everything! You’re better off trying to keep the same rhythm than thinking that you need to samba all over the place with your tongue! Did you hear that little gasp?” KEEP IT UP!
  4. When giving a blowjob, don’t forget the happy place“Sucking the balls is essential, but then use your tongue to trace that little line between the scrotum and anus (aka the perineum). That’s when he’ll really lose his mind.” Good tip!
  5. Know about the male G-spotThe male G-spot, aka the prostate, is about one finger-length from the entrance of the anus. Use light pressure and massage with your finger as if you were pointing up towards the penis. “If you do this while sucking him too, watch out for surprise ejaculation, because he won’t be able to control himself.”
  6. For sex, one good lay is better than a lot of average onesQuality over quantity!
  7. Know your own body “If you don’t know your own body, there’s no way you can expect someone else to get familiar with it, so figure yourself out!” What the world needs now is self-love, sweet self-love!
  8. Sex isn’t just penetrationA lot of women say the best part is actually the foreplay, so remember not to skimp on all the hot action before the main event.

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Check out more sex tips everyone should know: https://www.buzzfeed.com/deliacai/kiss-that-vulva

Dominatrix-Turned-Cop Vows To Get Her Cuffs Back After Firing

Depositphotos_dominatrix_smallAn ex-dominatrix is calling foul on the New Jersey sheriff’s office for firing her over her kinky past. The dominatrix-turned-cop recently lost a court battle to get her cuffs back following a three-month-long disciplinary hearing she likened to a “kangaroo court.” She said, “They don’t live in a modern society. This is not the crowd that can go comfortably watch ‘Fifty Shades of Grey.’”

The former dominatrix was suspended as a sheriff’s officer when her bosses learned of her past as latex-clad bondage actress Domina Nyx Blake, who starred in racy fetish videos like “Domina Nyx Beatdown.” The sheriff’s office ruled that Hyman lied on her application by not disclosing she was dominatrix for hire. But Hyman claims she wasn’t, and had simply been an actress playing a role, and had honestly written “actress/model” on the form as a past occupation. The sheriff’s office accused her of being an embarrassment to the force—when really, the only thing embarrassing is prudish law enforcement discriminating against sex workers.

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Check out more about the dominatrix-turned-cop getting fired: https://nypost.com/2018/02/10/dominatrix-turned-cop-vows-to-get-her-cuffs-back-after-firing/