Tag: Good Sex

Women Who Have More Sex Have Better Developed Brains, Study Says

It seems women with sex on the brain are actually smarter. Scientific researchers have identified the brain region linked to genital touch in women, finding that it is better developed in those who frequently fuck. The study scanned women’s brains using an MRI while they had their clits stimulated.

The researchers then measured the thickness of that brain area—finding it was more robust in the female volunteers who reported having the most sex. In other words: The more sex, the bigger the region of the brain called the “somatosensory cortex.” Researchers believe having a more developed somatosensory cortex is a result of “brain plasticity,” which happens when certain parts of the brain become bigger the more they are used.

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Check out more about a study showing that women who have more sex have better developed brains: https://nypost.com/2021/12/27/women-who-have-more-sex-have-better-developed-brains-study/

Here’s the study: https://www.jneurosci.org/content/early/2021/12/09/JNEUROSCI.1081-21.2021

Don Johnson, 71, Says His Sex Life Has Gotten Better With Age

Maybe we should call him Don Juan-son? 71-year-old Miami Vice star Don Johnson says, like a fine wine, his sex life has improved with age. In a recent interview, the actor said he’s received rave reviews over the years from his ex-lovers, including Melanie Griffith, Cybil Shepherd, Barbra Streisand, along with countless one-night stands.

When asked by host Andy Cohen if his sex drive remains as active as in his youth, Johnson replied with a straightforward “Yes.” He said, “You actually get better at it … I have turned it into a science.” He claims that his reputation in bed is so good that women have approached him for sex: “I’ve had that happen,” Johnson admitted, adding that he has “never felt any of that pressure because most of my customers leave satisfied.”

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Check out more about Don Johnson saying his sex life has gotten better with age: https://nypost.com/2021/11/19/don-johnson-71-says-sex-life-has-gotten-better-with-age/

Dr. Ruth Says 90-Year-Olds Should Still Have Sex

Renowned sex therapist, 93-year-old Dr. Ruth Westheimer, has advice for her peers: keeping having sex. But there’s a caveat—the sex has to be good. She says, “If they have a good partner, they should have sex. If you don’t have a partner, they should satisfy themselves. Period. There is no age limit.”

Dr. Ruth went into sex therapy many decades ago to help “strengthen family life.” She said growing up as a Jewish person, “sex was never a sin, but an obligation—for a husband to satisfy his wife—period.  I realized I did not know enough and I just wanted people to know about contraception and STDs.” Speaking of her own “good” marriage, she said her husband was very supportive of her career: “He went with me to NBC every Sunday night for 10 years when I did my ‘Sexually Speaking’ program,” she said.

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Check out more about Dr. Ruth telling 90-year-olds to keep having sex: https://nypost.com/2021/06/05/dr-ruth-yes-90-year-olds-should-still-have-sex/

Women Reveal The Specific Moves That Make Them Cum

Photo via Conceived Brooklyn
Photo via Conceived Brooklyn

A recent study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy examined the different types of clitoral stimulation that makes women cum. Researchers partnered with OMGYes and asked women a variety of questions about female pleasure. They found that 36 percent of women need clitoral stimulation to cum, with another 36 percent saying that don’t need it but it definitely makes an orgasm much more intense.

As far as they types of touch women prefer to achieve orgasm, there’s a huge range in terms of what gets women off. Researchers asked very specific questions about the amount of pressure (light to medium and hard), the motion (side to side, up and down, diagonal, circular, pulsating, etc.), and where they like to be touched (directly on the clit; around the clit). According to the study’s findings, two thirds of respondents preferred direct clitoral stimulation with most reporting that they also like stimulation just around the clitoris, and 51 percent like circular movement. In the end, the study encourages women to simply “go explore and see what you like.”

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Check out more about the study on female pleasure: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/straight-women-reveal-the-specific-movements-that-make-them-orgasm_us_59a43c7ee4b05710aa5dd83e

Morrissey’s Sex Scene Is So Awful It Inspired a Good Sex Award

imagesMorrissey’s latest foray into fiction writing has made him Twitter’s laughing stock and a shoo-in for this year’s Bad Sex Awards. Between his description of a boner as a “bulbous salutation” and his part about breasts “barrel-rolling” across the protagonist, Morrissey certainly made readers blush with his painfully bad sex scene. Thankfully, some great authors have done a much better job at writing good sex scenes. Here’s some of the best:

  1. Gustave Flaubert, Madame Bovary
    “The cloth of her habit caught against the velvet of his coat. She threw back her white neck, swelling with a sigh, and faltering, in tears, with a long shudder and hiding her face, she gave herself up to him.”
  2. Annie Proulx, Brokeback Mountain
    “…their mouths came together, and hard, Jack’s big teeth bringing blood, his hat falling to the floor, stubble rasping, wet saliva welling, and…pressing chest and groin and thigh and leg together, treading on each other’s toes until they pulled apart to breathe and Ennis, not big on endearments, said what he said to his horses and his daughters, little darlin.”
  3. Anaïs Nin, Delta of Venus
    “She pushed his hand away, took his sex into her mouth again, and with her two hands she encircled his sexual parts, caressed him and absorbed him until he came. He leaned over with gratitude, tenderness, and murmured, ‘You are the first woman, the first woman, the first woman …’”
  4. Arundhati Roy, The God of Small Things
    “She tasted him, salty, in her mouth. He sat up and drew her back to him. She felt his belly tighten under her, hard as a board. She felt her wetness slipping on his skin. He took her nipple in his mouth and cradled her other breast in his calloused palm. Velvet gloved in sandpaper.”

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How Long Sex Lasts Versus How Long (We Think) We Want it to Last

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_havingsexIn pop culture, getting it on “all night long” and “till the break of dawn” seems to be the gold standard that makes sex great. So it makes sense that there’s a disconnect between how long sex lasts and how long people think they’d like it to last. But does longer sex mean better sex? Maureen O’Connor reported in New York that 75 percent of men prematurely ejaculated within only two minutes in 1948, whereas men now usually last on average between 5.7 and 7.5 minutes. Even though sex lasts much longer now, 80 percent of participants in a survey said they wanted sex to last 30 minutes or longer—at least twice as long!

O’Connor reports that “According to…sex therapists, sex is ‘too short’ when it lasts one to two minutes. ‘Adequate’ is three to seven minutes, and ‘desirable’ is seven to 13. The range for ‘too long’ went up to 30 minutes.” So why is that most people say that they want sex to be double what it is when “too long” can often be, well, too long? Despite porn’s and pop culture’s influence on what we think of as good sex, duration is not the most important factor. Good sex is really more about all the things that make it good—how hot it is, a partner’s responsiveness, how good you cum, etc.

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