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Women Reveal The Specific Moves That Make Them Cum

Photo via Conceived Brooklyn
Photo via Conceived Brooklyn

A recent study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy examined the different types of clitoral stimulation that makes women cum. Researchers partnered with OMGYes and asked women a variety of questions about female pleasure. They found that 36 percent of women need clitoral stimulation to cum, with another 36 percent saying that don’t need it but it definitely makes an orgasm much more intense.

As far as they types of touch women prefer to achieve orgasm, there’s a huge range in terms of what gets women off. Researchers asked very specific questions about the amount of pressure (light to medium and hard), the motion (side to side, up and down, diagonal, circular, pulsating, etc.), and where they like to be touched (directly on the clit; around the clit). According to the study’s findings, two thirds of respondents preferred direct clitoral stimulation with most reporting that they also like stimulation just around the clitoris, and 51 percent like circular movement. In the end, the study encourages women to simply “go explore and see what you like.”

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Check out more about the study on female pleasure: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/straight-women-reveal-the-specific-movements-that-make-them-orgasm_us_59a43c7ee4b05710aa5dd83e

Japan Opens First Bar Devoted to Getting Women Off

bartokyoIn a very buzz-worthy move, Japan has opened its first bar devoted to vibrators, dildos, and other female sex toys. Love Joule, a funky, colorful bar in Tokyo is the first “love and sex bar dedicated to women,” according to the Tokyo Reporter. The owner of the bar wanted to make female masturbation a less taboo, more open discussion in her famously regressive country. “Since most people view female masturbation as something of a mystery or taboo, it is not a usual topic at typical bars,” she said.

This place is sure to get people talking! Behind the bar where liquor bottles would normally be, there are rows and rows of colorful sex toys. So far, the spot has been very popular with Japan’s commercial sex and adult film stars. One patron explains why she likes the bar: “It is a great place to drink and talk about what we women love to talk about, sex and guys, that’s also a big pull.” Not only that, but the bar prohibits single men from entering without being accompanied by a female companion. Guess they’ll just have to go to one of the many male sex toy shops!

Want to celebrate the joys of female pleasure? Ain’t nothing taboo about women getting off!

Check out more about Japan’s first bar devoted to female masturbation here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/01/love-joule-japans-first-bar-devoted-female-masturbation-opens-tokyo_n_1930552.html

5 Tips For Having Better Orgasms

Image Source: TheJennyBlock.com/Jenny Block, author of O Wow: Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasms sat down with Buzzfeed to dish on how to cum in bigger and better ways. Block says, “Sex should be fun and silly and exciting and experimental and messy and loud and always an adventure. It should go where it goes for as long as you like in whatever way you like.” That’s some good advice! Here are 5 more tips about how to have better orgasms:

  1. Masturbate to figure out what you like
    “All you have to do is what feels good,” says Block. This is the best way for figuring out what you like, which you can eventually share with a partner for the ultimate orgasm.
  2. Don’t focus too much on getting off
    “Masturbation, just like sex, should be pleasure oriented, not goal oriented. The only goal should be to enjoy and to learn what works for you.”
  3. Enthusiasm is everything when it comes to giving head
    Whether it’s pussy-licking or cock-sucking, just make sure you’re having a good time and letting the person know that you are! See what they respond to, and keep doing it (unless they tell you to stop)!
  4. Use lube—especially with anal
    “If you are interested in experimenting with anal play, lube has to be the key player. The anus, unlike the vagina, is not self-lubricating.” Nuff said.
  5. There’s nothing shameful about loving sex, ladies
    “And women are a lucky lot. We have no refractory period, which means we can come over and over without resting in between and we have the only organ in the human body – male or female – with pleasure as its only purpose – the clit. And, while we’re on the subject – every woman’s pussy is perfect.”

Feel like giving some of these tips a try? We are all about fun, messy and loud adventures here!

You can find more of Buzzfeed‘s tips on how to have better orgasms here.