10 Masturbation Techniques For Adventurous Ladies

magicwandarthistoryYou probably have your tried-and-true masturbation techniques. You know what you like, and what gets you off. But aren’t you a little curious what other people might be doing when they indulge in a little self-love? Here are 10 techniques that you just might want to try for a little added adventure in your sex life.

  1. Use two vibrators
    With two vibrators, you can use one for your clit and one for your G-spot—double the pleasure!
  2. Sit in a chair and straddle your G-spot vibrator
    “I straddle it on a chair and have a pair of pants in between the chair and vibrator and it’s such as AMAZING hands-free orgasm!” Thanks for the tip!
  3. Watch yourself in the mirror while you masturbate
    What is it about watching yourself get nasty in a mirror that is just so hot?
  4. Be liberal with lube
    Same as with partner sex, wetter is better!
  5. Switch up your positions
    On your back, on your stomach, on your knees, on your side—have at it!
  6. Watch porn and replicate the action on yourself
    Whatever they’re doing in the porn, do on yourself: “So if a woman is having sex, I’ll time the thrusts of my vibe with the guy’s or if she’s getting rimmed, I’ll stroke my asshole.”
  7. Bring your waterproof toys into the bath with you
    “I suction cupped a dildo to the side of the tub and used a vibe to stimulate my clit. A+” Splish, splash, I was taking a bath!
  8. Use the shower head 
    We’d be willing to bet probably every woman has tried this amazing sensation on her clit at one time or another…
  9. Try ass-play
    “Sometimes I treat myself to my G-spot vibrator and butt plug, and it’ll have me coming within a minute.” Gets the job done!
  10. Take your time with turning up the vibration
    Slow and steady wins the race!

Looking to treat yourself tonight? Come get adventurous with us!

Check out more masturbation techniques you just might want to steal here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/tldr-lots-of-humping?utm_term=.tddBQZe2xj#.lfwk5oql41

Men in Cuba Are Putting Pearls in Their Dicks To Become Better Lovers

pearlsIn the latest baffling sex trend, men in Cuba are surgically inserting pearls into their cocks to become better lovers. In Cuba, sexual prowess is everything, which is why men go to dangerous lengths to enhance themselves downstairs. The pearl, which is a tiny ball made of plastic, is slipped in under the skin of the penis through a small incision. According to Cuban myth, “women who feel the pearl go mad with pleasure.”

Unfortunately, the surgery is not often performed with proper sanitary measures, and many of the men become infected and need to have the pearl removed because of complications, such as tetanus, balanitis, and gangrene. But what’s even more shocking than the riskiness involved is the fact that the pearl doesn’t actually make sex more pleasurable for women. Dr. Almudena López, a sex therapist in Cuba, told Vice that “for it to really stimulate the clitoris, the pearl should be placed at the very base of the penis, which never happens. As for the G-spot, that’s something you can easily reach with a finger, but it’s much more complicated to reach directly with the penis.” We think it’s fair to say that these guys might consider giving the pearl to the sexy lady in their lives with a ring or necklace—instead of with their cocks!

Want to enhance your sex life the natural way? You don’t need pearls to make the ladies around here go mad with pleasure!

Check out more about “the pearl” here: https://distractify.com/sex-relationships/2016/03/09/pearl-enhancements

The Most Outrageous Sex Toys

Image Source: Blewit.comWhile Valentine’s Day might be over, there’s no reason you still can’t get your belated kink on! Any time is a good time for sex toys, whether you’re looking for ways to spice things up in the bedroom or something a bit more edgy. Here are some of the most outrageous sex toys to put your next fuck-fest truly over the top.

  1. TAZapper
    This sex toy gives off a 9-volt jolt depending on which body part it touches. It’s sure to make your sex life that much more electrifying!
  2. X2 Orgasmatron
    “The manufacturer claims the vibrator uses basic physics to ensure the buzzing not only hits the tip of the clitoris but also nerve endings inside the body,” reports the Huffington Post.
  3. Sasha Grey Deep Throat Pocket Pal 
    This is probably the closest you’ll come to getting head from porn star Sasha Grey. The sex toy creates a natural suction effect and is “molded directly from her pouty lips and tongue.”
  4. My Diletto
    This is basically a rowing machine with a dildo attached, so you can work out while getting off!
  5. Fetish Fantasy Web Restraint
    Who wouldn’t want to turn their bed into a “fantasy bondage sex web of seduction”? With this, you can be like a captive insect caught in a spider’s web, with your hands and feet completely restrained.
  6. The Face Fuck
    For those advanced kinksters who want to add something new to their BDSM sessions, this is a mouth gag AND a dildo!
  7. G-Spot Touch Finger Vibe
    This sex toy turns your middle finger into a vibrator, and its enlarged size makes it easy to hit that oh so magical G-Spot.
  8. Auto Banger
    Picture a nailgun with a dildo attached—it’s perfect for getting screwed!
  9. SlapHappy
    This amazing device bills itself as the “Swiss Army Knife of Sex Toys,” and for good reason: it can contort into several different shapes to get you off in various sexual positions.

Looking to add some spice to your life? We can electricity you in the most outrageous ways here!

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One Woman’s Adventures in Pegging

One woman made it her mission to become a pegging expert, but before she bought her first strap-on, she wanted to learn everything she could about ass-play and the male G-spot. According to experts, pegging is not an uncommon practice, and if it weren’t for the social stigma, a lot more guys would embrace it. This is because men, like women, also have a G-spot, except theirs is located inside the prostate. Armed with this knowledge, the woman practiced finding the G-spot with her fingers.

After learning her way around the prostate with several guys, she felt ready to move on to pegging. She bought a harness and a small dildo, and described the experience with her boyfriend like this: “This guy who had been fucking me was now on his back with his legs up around his ears. I was sitting back on my heels with my thighs outside his hips, rocking my hips back and forth in little humping movements.” When he came, her mind was blown: “I hadn’t come, but watching him come felt just as amazing for me. I had put on a dick, fucked a guy’s butt for the first time, and now he was lying before me in a puddle of melted bliss.” Now she’s happy to say that she’s experienced in pegging, and finds the sex fun and literally stimulating to be the one who’s giving instead of receiving.

Feel like having a stimulating experience yourself? We can make you melt into a puddle of bliss right here!

Check out more about one woman’s experiences with pegging here: https://www.bustle.com/articles/135261-ive-tried-pegging-with-my-male-sex-partners-and-this-is-exactly-what-it-looked-and

Men Try to Find the G-Spot

Alright, guys, you’ve heard of the G-spot, but do you know how to find the G-spot? Buzzfeed wanted an answer, so they made a new video asking guys to find the mythical G-spot. And as you can imagine, hilarity ensued. Here are some of the highlights (watch the video below).

First, the guys were shown a picture of the female reproductive system, and not surprisingly, many of them admitted that they really did not know what they were looking at. One guy, in his confusion, answered: “This is beautiful. It’s beauty.” When asked if they knew what the G-spot is, most correctly understood that “it’s this extra sensitive place,” and “lots of good times rollin’ when you get to the G-spot!” But when asked where it is, they didn’t have a clue: “This tunnel or this…?” One guy closed his eyes and pointed to a random spot on the image. Thankfully, they at least knew how to stimulate the G-spot—well, for the most part: “with a penis?” answered one guy. “Fingers, tongue, penis….toe,” said another. Alright, guys, time to head back to Sex Ed!

Looking to have a stimulating experience? We can help you find everything you’re looking for right here!

Check out Buzzfeed’s video “Men Try To Find The G-Spot” here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliapugachevsky/men-try-to-find-the-g-spot#.bsQlwBp2rK

7 Facts You Should Know About the Male G-Spot

Image Source: Flickr.com | Richard FosterYou’ve heard of the G-spot, but have you heard of the male G-spot? If you’re a guy who’s experimented with ass-play, you probably aren’t surprised to learn that there is in fact a G-spot inside the prostate. When stimulated properly, the male G-spot can make orgasms all the more pleasurable. Here are 7 facts you should know to enhance you or your partner’s experience.

  1. It’s located about 3 inches inside the anus
    This proves that when it comes to ass-play, bigger is definitely not better!
  2. It’s shaped like a walnut
    The prostate reaches its full, adult size at 20-years-old. It measures 1.6 x 1 x 1.2 inches, and weighs between 0.66 -0.75 ounces—the shape and size of a walnut.
  3. You’re probably rimming the wrong place
    “Unless you have a giraffe’s tongue, you’re not going to be able to reach his prostate. Instead, you should lick his perineum to maximize pleasure, which is located between his testicles and anus. It puts pressure on his prostate externally,” says Pride.
  4. Kegels will help you have better and longer prostate orgasms
    By doing Kegel exercises, you can strengthen your prostate and in turn have better, more intense G-spot orgasms. Contract the muscles in the anus and release repeatedly to get those muscles ready for awesome orgasms.
  5. Dildos and prostate massagers are not the same thing
    While a dildo is straight, a prostate massager is curved, vibrates, and is specially designed to maximize prostate stimulation.
  6. Use the “come hither” motion to hit the G-spot
    Use your index finger or middle finger (or both!), and make the “come here” motion with your finger facing towards his belly.
  7. Prostate orgasms are full-body orgasms
    Orgasms occurring in conjunction with stimulation of the prostate gland can result in orgasms perceived as ‘deeper,’ more widespread, intense and longer lasting,” says a doctor and sex expert.

Want to have a “full-body” experience? “Come here” and we’ll do the rest!

Check out more facts about the male G-spot here: https://www.pride.com/gay/2016/1/22/8-things-everyone-needs-know-about-male-g-spot

The Best Threesome Positions For Her

threesome-sex-positions_1447521164If you are lucky enough to be dating a lady who’s down for a threesome, well, that is awesome. Or if you’re someone who just likes to get in on one every now and again (or as often as possible!), that is also pretty amazing. Even if you’re well versed in all the hot threesome sexual positions, here’s some you should know to make it super enjoyable for her (check out the steamy images below).

  1. The Daisy Chain
    This is where the guy is fucking one lady from behind while she goes down on the other lady. The ladies could switch up giving head and getting fucked, or you could swap out one woman for a dude and explore double penetration. Hot for everyone involved!
  2. Bobbing for Apples
    The guy lies down while one woman sits on his face and the other woman gives him head. “They can can also get off giving oral while touching themselves or surrender when they’re receiving oral sex, so she gets to be both submissive and dominant,” explains a sex therapist.
  3. The G-Spot Jiggy
    The guy fucks one woman doggy-style, while she gives the other woman head, who is lying beneath the guy, alternating between licking his balls or sucking the lady’s clit. “If that sounds intense, that’s because it really, really is — in the best way possible,” says the Frisky.
  4. Double Penetration
    “Many women find anal penetration very pleasurable, especially coupled with vaginal penetration and potentially tripled with her or one of the guys clitorally stimulating her with their hand or sex toy,” Dr. Kirk says.
  5. The Strap-on
    This is where you incorporate a strap-on into the threesome, either to use on the guy(s) or the women. “Strap ons allow women to become empowered by their ability to control penetration,” Dr. Kirk says. Many of them also come equipped with vibrators, so she can get off while fucking a dude or another woman.

Want to have some new, hot experiences yourself? Come have an exciting, intense good time right here!

Check out more about the best threesome positions for her (and you!) here: https://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_250/279_love_tip.html

Is the G-Spot a Myth?

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_autoblow2Some medical researchers have been arguing that the G-spot is about as real as unicorns and angels, which has made women everywhere wonder if they’ve been wasting their time searching for the elusive “vaginal orgasm.” A review published in the Journal of Clinical Anatomy asserts that the existence of the so-called G-spot, or the magical spot located inside the pussy that can make a woman cum, cannot be proven with scientific evidence. This is why the researchers say that women should focus on the “female orgasm” instead of the “vaginal orgasm,” since every woman has the capacity to orgasm if her clit is nice and stimulated.

The researchers explain that the clit is basically the “female penis” since its anatomical structure is so closely related to a male’s cock (see pictures below). While the comparison may seem strange, a clit and a dick are similar in the way that increased blood flow causes their spongy tissues to engorge right before orgasm—the only difference is that the clit is very small and hard to find, which is why it’s important to educate and demystify women about their pussy’s. The study’s aim is to raise awareness about the myths of the “vaginal orgasm” so that women who feel shame at not being able to cum through PIV sex alone can start taking control of their own sexual pleasure.

At NiteFlirt, we’re all about empowering women through sex! Come celebrate the amazing and wonderful joys of the “female orgasm” right here!

Read more about the G-spot study here.

These Sex Toys Will Make You Orgasm Better

Every lady loves her sex toys. They’re fun alone or with a partner, and best of all, they make you cum in incredible new ways. But what if we told you that there are some sex toys that can make you cum even better? Here are 4 incredible sex toys that will give you bigger, better, louder, and more intense orgasms than you ever dreamed possible (and check out the video below that the co-founder of Babeland created):

  1. INA Wave Vibrator
    This LELO vibrator is the more refined sister sex toy to the infamous vibrator/dildo, The Rabbit. It has a vibrator on the top, a dildo on the back, and instead of making The Rabbit’s circular motion, it does a “come hither” type motion that is perfect for hitting your special sensitive spots.
  2. Hand-blown glass dildo
    If you’re looking to go right for your G-spot, this is the dildo for you. Make sure to get yourself nice and aroused beforehand, then slip it inside to make some G-spot magic! It can also be heated in water or cooled in the freezer for added sensation.
  3. Stronic Pulsator
    This sex toy is the perfect combo of vibrator and dildo. Although it looks like a vibrator, it doesn’t vibrate. Instead, it acts just like a cock (or a fucking machine), and is the closest thing you’ll get to actually getting fucked when you’re by yourself.
  4. The Pop Plug
    When women masturbate, it’s usually about stimulating the clit and the G-spot—but what about the ass? It’s getting stimulated too, and it wants to get invited to the party! With this sex toy, you can lube it up, pop it in, and forget about it. It will make everything much more stimulated and ready for that ultimate, mind-blowing orgasm!

All this talk of bigger and better orgasms really put us in the mood! Want to get invited to our party? Everything’s more intense with us!

Check out the co-founder of Babeland’s video here!

The Joys of Finger-Fucking

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_orgasm5Looking to switch it up in the bedroom and make your lady very very happy? Look no further than finger-fucking—an underrated and seriously amazing way to get your lady off and leave her sat.is.fied. Here are some reasons why you should throw some healthy fingering into the mix tonight.

While getting fucked is fantastic, fingers can offer a more focused, intense stimulation than any other body part. You can hit every erogenous spot while using your fingers—rubbing her clit with one hand and using the other inside her for an amazing internal/external combination. Fingering’s also more likely to make her cum than PIV (penis in vagina) sex: since 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, you can hit all her spots this way. But best of all, fingering allows you to watch your lady respond to all the pleasure you’re giving her!

This sounds like a great way to spend an evening to us! Want to get some good practice in? We’re always down for some amazing ways to switch it up!

Read more about the joys of finger-fucking here, along with some tips about how to do it right!