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12 Things People Wish They Knew About Anal Sex

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For many people who’ve experimented with anal sex, they wish they knew then what they know now. You know, like not to pull out those anal beads like you’re starting a lawnmower! Here are 12 things people wish they knew about anal sex before trying it for the first time.

Don’t go from 0 to 100
“You need to work up to it. Do NOT go straight to the penis.” Foreplay is all, people!
Slow and steady wins the race
No need to rush! Ease it on in nice and slow.
It might raise your sexpecations
“I wish I had known that anal sex would increase my expectations for sexual pleasure. I had a partner who made it really enjoyable for both if us.”
Don’t pull anything out too fast
“Best advice related to toys: Don’t remove anal beads as if you’re starting a lawnmower.”
You can never use too much lube
Nuff said.
Cleanliness is next to godliness
Don’t forget those wipes!
Just say no to the burrito
Maybe stay away from burritos the day you’re having anal sex…
Those tingly, warming lubes could burn your butt
“I do NOT recommend tingly lube! That stuff feels like a fire demon.”
Might be wise to switch out your white sheets beforehand
Or use towels!
Bottoms can still run the show
“The receiver or bottom should know that they are always in control and most definitely have the ability to shut down like Fort Knox.”
Don’t put whatever was in the ass back in the pussy
You could get an infection!
Pegging can be fun!
“I wish I knew that giving (for me, pegging) is just as fun as receiving. People are too quick to judge something before trying it!”

Looking to have an enjoyable, fun experience? We can definitely raise all your sexpectations!

Check out more things people wish they knew about anal sex here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/carolinekee/never-eat-chipotle-the-day-before#.qvMbwedpjz

The Pleasures of Dry Humping

Ah, yes. Dry humping. Perhaps you haven’t thought about this little bit of foreplay since you were a teenager furiously making out on your parent’s sofa. But adding some hot, dry humping into the mix before getting into the wet, real humping can definitely help you to spice things up in the bedroom. Here are some reasons to start grinding tonight.

The best reason to dry hump is simply because it feels really really good, especially for women. Many women get off when masturbating by rubbing against things, adding firm pressure, and grinding. Dry humping can also be a fun, sexy tease that will build up the anticipation in your foreplay until you’re both begging for the real thing. Some people even prefer the taunting pressure without allowing themselves the release afterward (mainly those who are into BDSM). You can dry hump in jeans for less direct contact (but for heaven’s sake, no belt buckles!), in your underwear, or even naked for more intense clitoral stimulation. Then just “do the humpty hump” to your heart’s content!

Feel like getting into some frisky action yourself? We know how to build you up till you’re begging for more!

Here’s more about the pleasures of dry humping.

The Internet Weighs In On What Makes Someone Great at Sex

BuzzFeed recently asked their readers an important and often debated question: what makes someone great at sex? And from that seemingly simple question, BuzzFeed compiled the answers into a list called “21 Sex Tips That Aren’t Bullshit.” They insist that the list is NOT “a rolodex of sex positions, above-average genitalia, or decades of experience,” but rather an honest response from real, sexual humans on what they value from someone who is very good in bed. Here are some highlights (check out the full list, complete with sexy/silly gifs, below):

Worshipping someone’s body

Treating someone’s body as the best thing you have ever experienced is perhaps the ultimate indicator of how good you are in bed.
Speaking up during sex

Someone who’s willing to tell you what they like and dislike or what feels amazing is definitely a turn on!
Being honest about orgasms

The internet’s advice: stop faking orgasms! One woman says instead of faking it, “Mov[e] your hips or guid[e] them with your hand or moans [to] turn them into great lovers…” Great advice!
Sharing a kink

Kink is sexy—why not let your partner in on yours?!
Focus on the pleasure, not the end-goal

Taking the pressure off of cumming really allows you to just focus on the pleasure and enjoy yourself in the moment.
Taking your time

Don’t rush the foreplay! Have fun and don’t forget all the steps that lead up to the amazing main event: lip biting, earlobe nibbling, grinding—the possibilities are endless!
Being up for anything

“Being open-minded to trying new things but also knowing the definitive boundaries for each person.” —Alexis Ferguson (Facebook)

Want to have a great sexual experience yourself? We are all about focusing on the pleasure and having a good time here!

Check out BuzzFeed’s “21 Sex Tips That Aren’t Bullshit”

Photo Series – Men and Sex Dolls

Copenhagen photojournalist, Benita Marcussen, got several sex doll enthusiasts to be part of her photo series which shows men in intimate and mundane settings with their beloved silicone lady friends. The artist explains that the men featured in her photos “care about their dolls and treat them with respect like dear friends.” The photos range from men (who mostly choose to remain anonymous) half-naked, engaging in foreplay in bed with their dolls, to men having a picnic with a doll, to others who introduce their sex dolls to their parents!

The dolls, which cost between $6,000 to $50,000, and take upwards of 80 hours to make, are considered prized possessions for these men who own them. They customize their dolls and choose their bodies, faces, breast size, hair, and eye color, and the men are as varied as the dolls themselves: some are married with kids, some divorced; some rich, others blue collar. But one thing they all have in common is the sense of security, comfort, and pride they seem to find in their dolls. All of them are part of the doll community and enjoy showing off their lovely lady friends at meetings or on internet forums. For these men, the artist explains, the dolls are someone to “come home to…who will remain by their side, for years to come.”

Feel like finding a little living comfort yourself? Ain’t nothing like the real thing, baby.