Tag: First Time

People Reveal What Surprised Them The Most About Having Sex For The First Time

Reddit users have revealed the things that surprised them the most about having sex after doing it for the first time, from the initial awkwardness to the weird noises to the physical exertion. “I was like damn that is actually a lot of work,” one person wrote. “It made me understand Charles Barkley’s quote when talking about NBA teams playing three nights in a row — ‘I wouldn’t even want to have sex three nights in a row.”‘

Others mentioned bodily functions, including “all the weird noises” that are made during sex, while one person was surprised that “vaginas are like, super warm inside.” Some shared that it took sleeping with a member of the opposite sex to realize that they are gay: “I didn’t actually want to do it with guys anymore,” one woman explained. “My desire for dudes had been rooted in a curiosity about what sex would feel like, and once that curiosity was sated, latent lesbianism was like, ‘So, funny story…”‘

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Check out more about Reddit users sharing what surprised them about having sex for the first time: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8404627/People-reveal-surprised-sex-time.html

Couples Try Bondage For the First Time and Dish About It

feet-1095408_1280Vanilla sex is great—but so is spicing things up with something a bit kinkier. In a new BuzzFeed video, real couples decided to give bondage a whirl (or is it a slap?) for the very first time. They were all very excited—and slightly nervous—to explore a different side of their sex life (watch the video below).

“I’m not putting these on my nipples,” one woman told her boyfriend while holding up nipple clamps. “It’s not happening…maybe?” “We might need to Google some of these,” another woman said, looking at the feathers, whips, and ball-gags. So what’d they think of the “intense” experience? One guy who said that he and his boyfriend have vanilla sex was surprised that he enjoyed it more than he thought he would. A few other couples observed how it was both sexy and playful, even sometimes “humorous”: “you ever try to laugh and climax at the same time?” one guy asked. And, not surprisingly, “the nipple clamps were great.”

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Check out the video of couples trying bondage for the first time: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/couples-used-to-vanilla-sex-try-bondage-for-the-first-time_us_583f5cd4e4b0c68e047ecebf

Women Try Female Condoms For the First Time

imagesFor most women, the female condom is a mysterious and often scary form of contraception. It’s huge, has two rings at either ends, and can only be described as slimy. For this reason, Buzzfeed made a new video asking women to try the intimidating female condom for the first time. Here’s what they said (check out the hilarious video below).

When the women first opened the package, one remarked that it looked “like an elephant condom.” They also immediately noticed how well lubricated the female condom is: “very slimy.” Then, they tried inserting it, pinching the smaller end with the index fingers and sliding it inside. And as you can imagine, not all of the responses were positive: “it feels like a trash can bag inside of my pussy,” said one woman. Another woman had trouble with hers “popping back out.” Insertion hassles aside, what was sex like with a female condom? The reviews weren’t exactly glowing—“sort of felt like a Ziploc bag,” said one woman. A few said that the guys they were with liked it, but as one woman explained, most women probably wouldn’t be thrilled about using the female condom unless “you’re doing a double dick.”

In the mood to try something new? We can promise positive results here!

Check out the video of women trying female condoms for the first time here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/juliapugachevsky/women-try-female-condoms-for-the-first-time#.tyYr1xG8WM

Guys Try Tinder For the First Time

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_tinder“Okay, so it’s left if I’m not interested, right if I am interested, correct?” Well, yeah; that’s pretty much the gist of it. That and the promise of finding hot dates with minimal difficulty. In Buzzfeed’s new video, guys try Tinder for the first time and experience all the quirks of trying to find romance on a dating app. Here are some highlights.

“This person’s kissing another person. I don’t know what that means…” says one confused new-comer. Another guy isn’t sure why a woman is sucking her finger provocatively while eating a croissant, other than that seems cool: “I’m down to eat croissants!” In another sexually suggestive picture, you just see “boobs and there’s like a cigarette hanging out of her mouth.” After scrolling through the seemingly endless selfies, confusing pics of people and their friends (“I have no clue which one you are.”), options to view “Tinder Plus,” (whatever that is) and accidental swipes right, one astute newbie says, “this feels like shopping for people.” Except with more boobs, of course.

In the mood for a hot date? You don’t need to scroll endlessly through sexually suggestive selfies for that—we are always down to eat croissants and swipe right here!

Check out Buzzfeed’s video of guys trying Tinder for the first time: https://chroniclevitae.com/jobs/0000910017-01

8 Unavoidably Unsexy Things That Happen the First Time You Fuck Someone

imagesDistractify recently put together a list of the unavoidably unsexy things that happen during sex that will make you cringe with embarrassment and laugh with recognition. Let’s face it, sex for the first time with someone can definitely bring some awkwardness, and this list is a hilarious reminder of all those simply unavoidable moments. Here are the 8 unsexy things that happen the first time you fuck someone (check out the full list below):

  1. Your bodies will make several sounds when they slap and detach, slap and detach
    Distractify describes this phenomenon as “the sound of a wet suction cup being peeled from the side of a bathtub.”
  2. You’ll direct your partner to what feels good like an air traffic controller
    Wave an arm; use a code; try to decipher what the other person wants while trying to stick a perfect landing.
  3. Yes, you will smell and probably have your face in their armpit
    And possibly, if you’re into that, you will lick their armpit.
  4. You will get hair in your mouth
    At some point you will need to pause to get hair, pubic or otherwise, out of your mouth.
  5. The condom ask and search party
    Someone will ask, the other will search…and sometimes search and search and search for a condom: “sort of like a business deal and a scavenger hunt.”
  6. There’ll be awkwardness putting the condom on 
    You try to do this as smoothly as possible, but it will inevitably be awkward.
  7. Yes, air will get pushed inside places and noises will be made in response
    Aw, yes. The unavoidable queef. It happens.
  8. You are going to get sweaty
    Distractify: “Not in a glisten-y way, but in an ‘oh my god, I didn’t know I could sweat there’ animal way.”

These are funny cause they’re true. In the mood to have some real experiences yourself? We don’t mind getting sweaty here!

Check out Distractify’s list.