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Harvard Sex Week Covers ‘BDSM In The Dorm Room’

Harvard Sex Week was all about kinky sex this year, covering a range of topics for eager students. The course “BDSM in the dorm room” was one of the more popular offerings, along with a class on polyamory and an “A-Z guide of sexual fetishes.” The focus of the fetish class was to help students learn how to communicate their desires to try out a fetish with their partners.

The Sex Week program coordinators also chose to host a lecture with the cheeky title “Hit Me Baby One More Time: BDSM.” They explained, “We embrace a sex positive ethos, which includes but certainly is not limited to, fetishes.” In general, Sex Week hopes to teach students the… ahem, ins-and-outs of sex; more specifically, topics that definitely aren’t covered in Sex Ed. “Young adulthood is a time when it’s natural to be inquisitive about sex and sexuality. But, without formal education, we often turn to TV, the internet and friends for sex advice, which is not always accurate or helpful,” they said.

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Check out more about Harvard Sex Week 2018: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-6398901/Harvard-treats-students-week-talks-BDSM-dorm-room-sex-toys-more.html

5 Balloon Fetish Secrets

Balloon fetishists get off on balloons—literally. Whether they use them as sex toys or get sexually excited from them popping, the balloon fetish community is filled with naughty secrets. Here are 5 confessions from a real balloon fetishist (check out more below).

The mere sight of balloons gets them hot.
“There’s one thing that all balloon fetishists have in common: they love the sight of balloons,” says a balloon fetishist. Some get aroused by the sight, while others need more action: blowing them up, popping or fondling them.
“Feeling the way the balloon is expanding and how the pressure is building and getting more intense makes me almost ache with pleasure.”
Many fetishists get off on the feel of the latex against their skin, but some get aroused by the pressure of the balloon building before it pops. “I really flip if my husband holds an uninflated balloon against my vagina and then blows it up with his mouth.”
B2P (blow to pop) and S2P (sit to pop) balloons are very popular.
“The topic of popping balloons is highly controversial in the community. The poppers find it really great and can even climax from it. Some don’t even need to be actively involved, just watching it and the thought of the balloon popping is enough for them,” says the balloon fetishist.
They use balloons as sex toys.
Looners like to fuck on balloons because the building pressure of the balloon combined with the rubbing sensation is really really hot. “Our movements cause the balloon to pulsate and returns every thrust with even more strength. My favorite sex position is on the balloon, lying on my belly, taking it from behind,” she says.
Looners don’t buy balloons at the supermarket.
Despite fetishes still being taboo (boo!), looners would never buy their balloons from the supermarket. Supermarket balloons are too small and round to sustain horny looners, so they buy special, giant balloons from fetish sites like Balloons United.

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Check out more secrets of a balloon fetishist: https://www.buzzfeed.com/maximilianzender/secrets-from-a-balloon-fetishist

Women Are Watching More Porn

It seems ladies are finally getting turned on to porn, according to Pornhub’s latest data. Women all over the world are watching more porn, with “porn for women” at the very top of the list of the most searched fetishes online. “The female-friendly term soared a panty-droppin’ 1,400 percent in 2017, compared to a 396 percent spike the year before, according to a report released by the steamy site PornHub.com,” reports NY Post.

Horny women made up 26 percent of the site’s 28.5 billion world-wide annual visitors. And more women are watching adult entertainment in countries such as South Africa, Saudi Arabia and Mexico, according to xHamster.com. In the U.S., the porn term most often searched by women was “Daddy,” though “lesbian” is also still very popular among both women and men. If these porn stats are any indication, 2018’s shaping up to be the year women feel more sexually empowered than ever before!

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Check out more about women watching more porn: https://nypost.com/2018/01/09/women-are-watching-more-porn-reports/

Asexuals Have Sexual Fantasies About Fetishes and BDSM, Study Finds

169249078_475b70b357_o New research reveals that the vast majority of asexual people have had sexual fantasies and even engage in self-pleasure. Published in Archives of Sexual Behavior, the study found that out of 351 asexual participants (292 women, 59 men), more than three-quarters of asexual men and half of asexual women have sexual fantasies and even masturbate. The study also discovered that asexual people were just as likely to fantasize about fetishes and BDSM as sexual participants.

It seems asexual people are less likely to fantasize about group sex, public sex, or engaging in an affair. They’re also much more likely to have sexual fantasies that involve fictional people and not themselves. “I do have sexual fantasies but most of the time they do not involve me or any real person,” said a 19-year-old asexual woman. “I sexually fantasize about fictional male couples and my sexual fantasies can involve many and varying sexual preferences and fetishes.” This study proves that sexuality is certainly on a spectrum.

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9 Fetish Confessions That Will Make You Go WTF

The kinky people of Whisper recently confessed what really gets them hot when masturbating. And some of their fetishes are a little, um, strange (ever jerked off to images of hot dogs?). Here are the best fetish confessions that will make you go WTF.

“I love all black Camaros so much that I masturbate to a video of one starting up sometimes…”
Talk about revving your engine!
“I save pictures of plants on my phone to masturbate to later.”
This person takes “plant-lover” to a new level!
“I know I’m weird but I masturbate to death core rock music.”
Hey, everyone gets their aggression out in different ways.
“Something I’ve never told anyone is that I masturbate to images of hot dogs.”
Mmm, cancerous meat in a phallic casing.
“My husband doesn’t know I masturbate to audio clips of Australian men talking. They make me so hot!”
Thunder down under!
“I masturbate to Judge Judy. Turns me on when she gets mad. Is that weird?”
Strange, but nothing out of order here!
“I masturbate to One Direction songs to the thought of Liam Payne tweeting me back.”
Talk about a Number One fan!
“I masturbate to the best deals I can find on Amazon.”
Talk about getting excited by a good deal!
“I masturbate to pictures of naked Disney princesses…I think my childhood is ruined.”
The magical world of Disney!

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Check out more fetish confessions that will make you go WTF: https://www.buzzfeed.com/jarrylee/weirdest-things-people-have-masturbated-to#.aw0dY6WRDM

Khloe Kardashian Is Down To Experiment With Foot Fetishes

Khloe Kardashian recently opened up about her sex life and which sexual fetishes she’s into. And as it turns out, she’s down for a lot of kinky stuff! Not only is she into S&M, but she’s also up for some foot fetish play. Here’s what she said.

She’s down for some (light) S&M
Khloe confessed that she keeps a rhinestone whip by the side of her bed! “Sadists get off on pain, which I can appreciate,” writes Khloe. She also likes “love bites,” but she’s probably not going to get in “cages and shit like that” anytime soon.
She’s cool with your foot fetish
If her lover has a foot fetish and wants to kiss or massage her pretty feet, she’s all for it!
Furries are a no-no
“Some people like getting dressed up as animals when they have sex. Just not my thing.” Take note, Furries who are also Kardashian fans—she probably won’t be pulling on your squirrel tail to get a nut anytime soon!
Adult Diaper Fetish is not her thing
She summed up her feelings for this kinky fetish with a simple “Fuck no.” Fair enough.

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Check out more about which sexual fetishes Khloe Kardashian’s down with here: https://www.cosmopolitan.co.uk/entertainment/news/a42304/khloe-kardashian-shares-fetish-preferences-sexual/

Sexual Fetish Research Shows the Endlessness of Erotic Desire

Researchers have come a long way since 2004 when they first attempted to catalogue human’s seemingly endless sexual fetishes. Back then, the most common fetishes involved body parts, namely feet and toes, followed by body fluids (blood, urine, etc.), then body types (tall, short, fat, to name a few). The research also documented objects that go on the body—stockings, shoes, skirts and, of course, the most popular, underwear. The most shocking fetishes recorded then probably had to do with catheters and pacemakers…we’ll let you use your imagination.

But now, psychiatrists have taken on the monumental task of attempting to record all of the sexual fetishes in the world in order to include them in the ever evolving Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). In the latest DSM released in 2010, the focus turned to Paraphilia, or “the experience of intense sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, or individuals.” Before doctors understood that paraphilia fetishes were just a kinky sexual preference, people called these fetishists “perverts” or “sexual deviants.” These days, researchers just want to understand fetishes like Dacryphilia (a BDSM variant whereby sexual enjoyment or arousal is gained from tears and crying) to record and try to make sense of all the endless ways people express erotic desire.

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Check out more about the history of sexual fetish research here.

NEWS: Japan’s Fetish Destination: Cross-Dressing Maid Cafe

Tokyo’s Akihabara district is where you’ll find all the restaurants that cater to the cosplay fetishes of tourists and Japanese alike, including everything from chubby maid cafes, to scientist lab coat cafes, to even butler cafes. So the latest cosplay fetish cafe—a cross-dressing maid cafe—is just the latest trend in Japan’s kinky fetish culture. Hibari-tei is the world’s first and only cross-dressing maid cafe, staffed by drag maids who for the most part work in Akihabara’s IT industry, and are fetishists of the cosplay/fantasy world variety.

The cross-dressing fetish cafe is “floating,” i.e., it doesn’t have a permanent location; instead it sets up shop in other kinky cafes for a variety of fetish-themed events, including the famous “nostril challenge,” which we’ll just leave to your imagination. The cross-dressing maid cafe is all about playing to the fantasies and fetishes of manga fans, and the cross-dressing maids themselves get off to enacting their own fantasies in real-life. So computer nerds by day, cross-dressing fetish maids by night. Just another reason to love Japan: the fetish center of the world!

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“Our Beds Are Crowded”

By Wicked Barbie

As the noted psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud famously said, “Our beds are crowded,” and indeed they are. What Freud meant is that quite simply, our current sexual interactions are the sum total of past relationships, fantasies, and to some extent, current fetishes or sexual conflicts. I have never been more acutely aware of this than during my time as a Niteflirt Phone Sex Mistress. When a new submissive calls me, and a connection is made, that is I take him on as my submissive, and he chooses me as his dominatrix, I am not only dealing with the submissive and his or her fetishes; rather, I am dealing with the psychosexual layers of his past mistresses. It is akin to a sexual archeological dig, and one must be careful when dealing with cherished relics of the past.

It has been my experience that a past Mistress may have been a positive experience for the submissive who has now made his way to me, or perhaps she has left some emotional debris that must be dealt with in order to move on in the sub’s sexual odyssey. Whatever the case may be, regardless of her impact, she is to some extent a component of the relationship I am now establishing with the submissive, and when dealing with a submissive who has been engaged in a fetish lifestyle for a number of years, we are dealing with a bed that is overflowing with people!

It is interesting how we are in some sense all interconnected, though in actuality, our paths may never cross. As I am a fairly new dominatrix, I would submit that I not only learn about this lifestyle via the submissive callers I have had the pleasure of knowing, but also from what their Mistresses have taught them. I in turn, use what I have learned in conjunction with my own methodology, and the process of sharing information carries on in a continuum of sorts.

In any case, I would submit that Freud was correct; “Our beds are Crowded,” but do give me a call. There’s always room for one more.

-Ze Wicked Barbie