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4 Kink Tips For Women to Ring in Your 4th of July

womandominatingmanLadies, do you want to let your kink flag fly? Many women want to experiment with kink, but aren’t sure where to begin. If you’re new to kinky play, here are some handy tips for your next sexual adventure.

  1. Kinky sex is different for everyone
    Kink is an umbrella term that includes everything from BDSM, fantasy, sensation, fetish play, sex toys, and so much more. Try some things you’re curious about and see how it feels for you. Just “play!”
  2. Communication is key
    This is true for any sexual activity, but it’s especially important during kinky play. Be sure to share what you’re comfortable with and talk about any inhibitions beforehand. Always express your limits when stepping outside your own sexual comfort zone.
  3. Do your research
    Masturbate and explore your fantasies before you act on them with a partner. Read books, take a sex workshop, talk to people—in other words, explore kink and be creative! Think outside the box when getting freaky!
  4. Practice sex play and embrace novelty
    As with everything, you’ll get better at it the more you do it. Variety is the spice of life—be open to trying new things.

Want to add some spice to your sex life? We’re up for anything kinky at NiteFlirt!

Check out more kink tips for ladies here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/8-things-every-woman-should-know-before-trying-kink_us_59494c04e4b07d3e35d88f44

6 Of The Kinkiest Sex Confessions Ever

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sexual_dominatrixSure, you’ve done some kinky stuff before. But we’re willing to bet these sex confessions are some of the kinkiest you’ve ever heard! From piss enemas to anal centipedes to piss-exhibitionism, these are the naughtiest, dirtiest things people have done during sex ever!

  1. The piss enema
    “My master put in an anal speculum and opened it up all the way. After he came in my ass, he gave me a piss enema and peed inside of me. I came super hard from it.” Whatever turns your on!
  2. Anal centipede
    “I experimented with an ass-eating train including around 10 people. Not bad at all. I also experimented with putting grapes up my ass and eating them.” It’s like that movie—but kinkier!
  3. The piss bucket
    “This year my boyfriend wanted to branch out and try new things. He took off my clothes and made me kneel on the ground, then he invited some people over and they used me as a piss bucket. After that they jacked off onto my face. Then my boyfriend fucked me in front of them.” Annnnd: this wins the kinky award!
  4. The stranger’s car
    “My girlfriend and I have a thing for sex outside. Over the summer we’ve checked off quite a few places. There’s been a police station, alleyway, and waterfront, but the sexiest place was on a city street during nightclub hours. We found a small car lot. Cunnilingus never felt better onlooking passersby from upside-down on the hood of a stranger’s Audi.” Naughty!
  5. The toy drawer
    “I told him to choose a surprise from my toy drawer. Sixty seconds later, I had a leash and collar around my neck, a vibe in my vagina, and his dick in my ass. I’ve never had a more intense orgasm.” Surprise!
  6. Slut collar
    “I wore a vibrating anal plug for the whole day, turning it on at random times no matter where I was or what I was doing. Another time I also wore a slut collar while being spanked with a paddle that left the impression of the word ‘slut’ on my ass.” You’ve been very naughty today!

Want to experiment with some kinky stuff yourself? Let your freak flag fly at NiteFlirt!

Check out more of the kinkiest sex confessions ever: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/do-not-put-vodka-in-a-vagina

5 Secrets Sex Shop Workers Want You To Know

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Let’s face it, sex shop workers have a wealth of knowledge. They’ve seen it all and they’ve heard it all about the latest, kinkiest, best sex toys out of there. Here are 5 secrets they want you to know.

  1. No matter how wacky you think your kink or fetish is, they’ve had folks request it before
    You might think you’re all alone on Planet Kinkster, but there’s nothing sex shop workers haven’t heard before. “We hear, ‘Am I normal for wanting ___?’ all the time, and as long as whatever you’re doing or want to do is between two consenting adults or a solo activity, the answer is absolutely!”
  2. If there’s something new you want to try but don’t know where to start, just ask
    Whether it’s BDSM, a fisting toy, or getting info about anal play, always ask the sexperts.
  3. Be prepared to share
    “We are experts on the products we sell and you are the expert on your body, so together, we can work together to find a product you’ll really love.” Perfect!
  4. They’re not nymphomaniacs and they don’t have after-hour orgies
    While they might know a thing or two about local parties and scenes, the stereotype that all sex shop workers are hyper-sexual is just not true…for everyone.
  5. A lot of shops have classes you can take advantage of
    Think of it like sex ed—that’s actually helpful! They cover pleasure-based sexual education to help you discover what really turns you on.

Want to discover what gets you really hot? We offer a hands-on sexual education at NiteFlirt!

Check out more secrets sex shop workers want you to know: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/sex-toy-shop-secrets

Number Of Men Who Want To Be Cuckolded Has Doubled In a Decade

cuckoldCuckolding, a sexual fetish where men encourage their partner to have sex with others, is on the rise. Once a disparaging term to describe men who had been cheated on, cuckoldry is becoming a more popular and sought-out fetish. Research shows it has boomed over the past decade as people have come to embrace what was once considered taboo.

Since 2004, the number of people searching for the fetish online has almost doubled, according to Google Trends. Internet forums promoting the “cuckold lifestyle” and Reddit threads such as “Cuck wannabe who is curious” and “My girlfriend wants me to be a cuck,” are evidence that people are indulging their “forbidden fantasies” more and more. “It’s essential to grasp that what might be humiliating about imagining one’s wife having sex with another male is, in its idealized formulation, transformed into something not humiliating at all but engrossingly erotic,” said a psychologist in Psychology Today.

Want to indulge your hidden fantasy? We are all about the fetish lifestyle!

Check out more about how cuckolding is on the rise: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3966888/Research-shows-number-men-want-partner-sleep-people-cuckoldry-fetish-doubles-decade.html

Gummy Bear Sex On ‘Sex Sent Me To The E.R.’

imagesWho ever thought gummy bears could be dangerous?—or kinky! A not-so-sweet sexual encounter involving melted gummies was recreated on the always exciting TLC series Sex Sent Me To The E.R. The incident began when Michael gave Josi a giant gummy bear, which inspired her to get kinky with the candy. “You know what’d be hot? Let’s eat this gummy off me,” she remembers telling Michael.

So, of course, Michael was in: he tied Josi to the headboard and went downstairs to melt the giant gummy bear in the microwave. Unfortunately, when he started to drizzle the hot gummy goo on Josi’s chest, it didn’t cool like candle wax, and when it started to burn her skin, he tried to help her by licking it off with equally bad results. “Her chest is burning off while my tongue is on fire,” he said. Thankfully, they were okay, and the story has a happy ending: they still have a hot sex life, but “stay away from hot things.”

Looking to heat things up yourself? We are all about kinky HOT sex here!

Check out more about gummy sex gone wrong: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/04/10/sex-with-gummi-bears_n_5128267.html

Whiplr Dating App Helps Connect BDSM Fans To Kinky Play Partners

body-1095226_640Have you been craving a kinkier version of Tinder to fulfill your bondage-needs in the dating world? Look no further than Whiplr, the Fifty Shades of Grey inspired messaging app that allows users to discreetly connect with people who share similar interests in BDSM or other fetishes. “The inspiration comes directly from the kink community where people are looking for ways to find and meet other like-minded people,” said Whiplr Chief Commercial Officer Daniel Sevitt.

According to the app’s description, it’s “the world’s first and only location-based messaging app to help you connect with potential play partners online or in person.” The login is anonymous and private, and users will have the ability to delete shared content from both their device and the Whiplr user’s device where they sent the content to. The broad preference categories include every kink and every level of experience and, best of all, there’s a free version you can download right now to search for your very own Christian Grey!

Looking to satisfy your bondage needs? Come find like-minded kinksters right here!

Check out more about Whiplr, the kinky dating app: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2971069/Whiplr-new-Fifty-Shades-inspired-dating-app-helps-BDSM-fans-connect-kinky-play-partners.html

Katy Perry’s New Video Depicts a Fetish About Devouring Women

katyperryKaty Perry’s new video “Bon Appetit” is shocking viewers with its depictions of her being literally consumed as food—but the erotic fantasy is a popular fetish easily found in the vore community. In the vaguely NSFW video, Perry is shown kneaded with flour, boiled in a pot, and served on a platter, garnished with fruits and vegetables. It’s generated disapproval for “catering to the cannibal demographic,” but the idea more closely aligns with vore, the fantasy of being consumed or consuming, not actually eating.

With lyrics like “looks like you’ve been starving” and “I’m on the menu,” Perry’s song is about sexual hunger, but the images shown are widely found in the vore community. The fetish includes sexual fantasies about swallowing people or being swallowed, and pornographic images shared on fetish sites of women being prepared to be eaten, like in Perry’s video: “The women are tied up, in huge pots or ovens, placed on spits or plates, and are very clearly alive and consenting,” reports Broadly. While the fetish may be taboo, people who are into vore explain that it’s ultimately a sexual fantasy, not meant to be enacted.

Looking to play out your fantasy? Our motto is the kinkier the better!

Check out more about Katy Perry’s fetish video here: https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/katy-perrys-cannibalistic-bon-apptit-reveals-our-fantasy-of-devouring-women

Pregnant Sex Worker Fully Embraces Pregnancy Fetish


Pregnant sex worker Summer Sebastian will not be taking any time off from her job at the Bunny Ranch, the infamous legal brothel in the state of Nevada. The 30-year-old, who’s in her second trimester, plans to “publicly, regularly and most of all proudly” blog about her experience as a “prego-working girl”—right up until she gives birth. For Sebastian, keeping her job is not only a personal decision, but also a political one: “I want to make a statement that supports the right of a woman to choose…to work as a prostitute while pregnant!”

Sebastian makes the point that, contrary to myths, sex during pregnancy is safe—and even beneficial—as long as condoms are used, which is a requirement at the Bunny Ranch. And she’s fully embracing the clients who get to live out their fantasy of being with a pregnant woman: she says, “[A]dding this creative component to my parties with my clients has just made sex that much more exciting, and interesting!” She adds, “I know being with a pregnant girl sexually is a HUGE sex fetish for a lot of people, and I sure hope to accommodate you over the next six months!”

Got a kinky fetish yourself? We’re always happy to accommodate your creative fantasies here!

Check out more about the pregnant sex worker fully embracing pregnancy fetish: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/pregnant-sex-worker/

East Asia Has a ‘Japanese Fetish’ 

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_japangirlResearchers believe that East Asia may have a “Japanese fetish.” According to PornMD, eight disparate East Asian countries all share the same kinky penchant for Japanese porn. Data shows that while people from a country will most often seek out porn of their own nationality (In the Philippines, they search for Filipinos, and so on), in these East Asian countries, they all search for “Japan.”

Even though South Koreans love them some American porn, “Japanese” remains one of the most popular search terms there and in every other East Asian country. This could have to do with the massiveness of Japan’s porn industry, which rakes in 20 billion dollars annually and popularized anime and hentai/tentacle porn. Or perhaps a different phenomenon is at play: the Guardian recently reported that many people in Japan have stopped having sex because it takes too much effort. If there’s one thing for sure it’s this: porn is what unites us!

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Check out more about East Asia’s ‘Japanese Fetish’: https://www.dailydot.com/news/east-asia-porn-md-data-japan-fetish/

You Can Smell Your Porn With OhRoma 

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_glutenCamsoda is at it again with its newest invention to bring adult webcam entertainment into the future. The company that introduced 3D projections of cam models, and let you sync a video with a teledildonic sex toy to feel what the model is doing, is now introducing its latest sexy gimmick: OhRoma. OhRoma will be able to pump scents into your fantasy while you’re fully immersed pumping yourself.

You simply put the mask over your head, insert the cartridge of your choice into the canister, and it will automatically pair with your smartphone’s Bluetooth to sync up with your content. The options range from explicit sex fragrances like “body odor,” “panties” and “private parts” to more subtle ones that’ll set a sexy mood, such as “aphrodisiacs” and “breath.” You can even smell food if you want, or a cam girl’s perfume or the incense in her bedroom. As Camsoda emphasizes: it’s your fantasy; do with it what you want.

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Check out more about how you can smell your porn with OhRoma here: https://www.dailydot.com/debug/camsoda-ohroma-lets-you-smell-your-porn/