Why BDSM Kinksters Have a Smoking Fetish

Smoking is sexy. The allure of a woman seductively inhaling and exhaling smoke is undeniable. So a smoking fetish is when someone takes the naughtiness and hotness of smoking one step further. Most men with a smoking fetish get off to a woman smoking while giving a blowjob, or smoking while fucking. But why is that some people who are into BDSM have a smoking fetish? best_phone_sex_niteflirt_smoking_fetish

For those who have a smoking fetish and are into BDSM, bringing smoking into their kinky repertoire is just another way to exercise dominance and submission. One way dom’s like to bring BDSM into their smoking fetish is by using their partner as an ashtray. Some even kinkier people like to flick the ash of their cigarette onto their partner’s face. And of course, for more extreme BDSM/smoking fetishists, there’s also burning—hurts so good!

Want to play Puff Puff Blow? You bring the smokes, we’ll bring everything else!

 

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Animal Rescuer By Day, Dominatrix By Night

Depositphotos_dominatrix_smallLorraine White, aka Princess Lucina, gets to incorporate dog collars into both of her lines of work: animal rescuer and dominatrix. By day, she works with animals, and by night she gets paid $300 an hour to whip her clients into submission in her dungeon. So what’s it like for her to carry on a (kinky) double life? White has only recently opened up about her alter ego as Princess Lucina when she needed to apply for permission from the city to keep her dungeon up and running.

And now that she’s gone public as a dominatrix, she’s enjoying the excitement of keeping up two very different roles: “As a dominatrix, I’m very stern. I wear rubber dresses and brandish various instruments of torture…But when I help with the dogs, I’m…giving them plenty of hugs.” In her dungeon, she has all types of torture instruments, but says that most people like “middle of the road stuff like boot worship, tied and teased, little bit of pain, a little bit of nipple torture, spanking, smoking fetishes, a bit of cross-dressing, hoods, gags, losing control, bondage.” She likes balancing the roughness and power of being a dominatrix with taking care of and nurturing animals: “It mixes my passion for animal rescue with the sensual and sadistic side of BDSM.”

Interested in trying out a kinky double life yourself? Just bring your safe word and we’ll do the rest!

Check out more about Princess Lucina here: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/dominatrix-second-job-animal-rescue-5552272

Whiplr is the New App for Kinksters

Are you into apps like Tinder that help you get laid with no strings attached, but have been longing for something, well, a little more kink friendly? If so, we have good news for you. Whiplr is a new app that is specially for those who want to have kinky sex. “The idea came from within the kink community. There simply wasn’t a mobile app for people to find and connect with other people into fetish and kink,” said Whiplr’s Chief Communications Officer, Daniel Sevitt.

Whiplr came on the scene just this year and right in time for Valentine’s Day. And since it’s so new, it’s still gaining users (time to sign up, kinky horny people!). It’s also location based, like Grindr, which means that you can find potential play partners close to you or farther away if you’re looking for more discretion. But most importantly, you can define your kinks according to various categories (objects, shopping, odors), but you are also free to discuss any aspects of your fetishes in private. Sevitt explains, “Kink is a journey and everyone should be free to be who they want to be and like what they want without someone else defining it for them.” Right on, Whiplr!

Want to get kinky with us? We are always down for some fetish fun with no strings attached!

Check out more about Whiplr on Vice.

NiteFlirt March Badness BDSM Champion for 2015!

Strap-On
NiteFlirt March Badness BDSM Champion for 2015!

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You spoke loud and clear and we “counted” all of your voices over the last two weeks. We had literally thousands of votes cast amongst a worthy cast of sexy fetishes, but in the end there can be only one champion, and that champion is the Strap-On fetish!

Strap-On dominated the championship match just as it dominated the rest of the competition. Here’s a breakdown of it’s victim’s over the last two weeks of our event:

Ballbusting/CBT
Physical Domination
Spanking
Tease & Denial
Goddess Worship

These are all outrageously incredible BDSM fetishes in their own right, but the lovers of Strap-On proved too loud and powerful to overcome. You sexy beasts love the ferocity of your Strap-On fetish and you wouldn’t take anything less than a championship trophy to prove it. Congratulations!

We can’t thank all of you enough for participating in our tournament all month long. You made it a sexy and thrilling ride for all of us, coming out so strongly for all of your respective fetishes. We are impressed and more than a little sexually aroused by the last month. We hope you had half as much fun as we did with our little competition and learned a little more about what turns you on. We know that we did.

If you ever want to practice one, or all, of these sexy fetishes come visit NiteFlirt and Speak to Your Desire™!

We’ll be here waiting.

 

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March Badness; Championship

It’s time to crown NiteFlirt’s 2015 March Badness BDSM & Fetish Champion!

Then there were two left standing!

Only two fetishes remain in our entire bracket as we are now down to the championship match. Both took different paths to get here and it seems there is a clear favorite, but we still need to count your votes to determine the most popular fetish of 2015!

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Strap-On vs. Goddess Worship
Strap-On again dominated the competition taking almost 75% of the total vote in it’s battle with Tease & Denial. Clearly Strap-On has to be our favorite moving on into the championship match. They’ve dominated the entire tournament and it’s pretty tough to pick against them now.
Goddess Worship just barely eked out a win against Ass Worship in their own Frisky Four matchup, winning only 52%-48%. It was incredible that Goddess Worship was able to pull off the victory by just the slimmest of margins. We predicted a walk-through for it, but that’s not how it played out. Perhaps the Goddess Worship lovers aren’t quite up to the task as we thought they were?
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. We see no reason that the domination won’t continue in this, our final, matchup of the tournament. Strap-On has roared through this competition with ferocity and power and we just don’t see it ending now.

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This is it! Get those votes in so we can crown a champion for 2015! You can vote until this Wednesday. We’ll crown the champion that day!

Vote early and vote often!

 

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March Badness; Frisky Four

As the NCAA basketball tournament gets underway today we are getting closer and closer to the climax of our March Badness event. With that said, there are only four fetishes left standing…

We have finally reached our Frisky Final Four and we are here to tell you they are about as frisky as you can get!

Each fetish has defeated a few favorites along the way and connected with their audience in a big way! You’ve come out in massive numbers for your fetishes and we expect that to continue through the championship round. We will count your votes for our last four BDSM fetishes until next Monday, March 23rd. Get your votes in early and get them in often. You can vote once an hour for your favorites.

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Let’s get to the matchups!

FRISKY FINAL FOUR
TOP DIVISION

Strap-On vs. Tease & Denial

In a battle of incredible power and control, respectively, these two extremely different fetishes square off in our Frisky Four this year. It’s a difficult matchup to pick because each fetish is from a different section of the BDSM universe. Do you like your power or do you want your control? This is a personal taste decision all the way.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. Raw sexual power begets more raw sexual power. Strap-On keeps rolling here.

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BOTTOM DIVISION

Goddess Worship vs. Ass Worship

We were speechless when our tournament favorite, Bondage, was defeated handily by Goddess Worship. We thought our pick had what it took to go all the way but obviously you Goddess Worship lovers had different plans. Well done. Ass Worship put a sound defeat on Foot Worship as well, but we see the end of their BDSM road here.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Goddess Worship. We see a crushing and total victory here for Goddess lovers.

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All that’s left is to crown our championship matchup in the final round. As we said, get those votes in now! The competition is going to be stiff, ahem, so ensure your fetish has the best chance to win.

We’ll announce the final battle on Monday!

 

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March Badness; “Scintillating Sixteen” Second Round

Our first round is over and it got pretty racy in a few of these battles! There were some results we didn’t see coming, some results we called with our predictions perfectly, and some that were just so close it was ridiculous. On to the second round and the Scintillating Sixteen!

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Your response in our March Badness competition has been incredible so far so let’s keep it going!

SECOND ROUND, THE SCINTILLATING SIXTEEN
TOP DIVISION

Spanking vs. Verbal Humiliation

We were shocked with Spanking’s close victory over Masturbation Instruction in the first round. Maybe that was just the test it needed though to really get you spanking lovers to wake up and come out in force! It’s a matchup of classic strength vs. classic strength in this second round battle. Make your voices heard!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Spanking. We’re sticking with this classic fetish in the second round.

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Physical Domination vs. Strap-On

Physical Domination eked out a win over Forced Bi in their first round matchup while Strap-On was forceful and dominant in it’s face-off with Ballbusting. The latter wasn’t much of a fight as Strap-On took over 80% of the vote. What do you expect from Strap-On? To ask for a victory nicely and walk away? Come on, now.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. Huge upset by Physical Domination in the first round. We don’t think it can continue.

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Orgasm Control/Ruination vs. Face Sitting

We couldn’t have been more wrong with our first round prediction of Orgasm Control going down early. It thoroughly dominated in it’s first round vote and now finds itself up against a much more formidable foe in Face Sitting, who scored a surprise upset over Financial Domination with a late push in the first round. We underestimated just how wicked so many of you are.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Face Sitting. We expect this Cinderella to keep things going in this second round bout.

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Tease & Denial vs. Cuckolding

Keeping with the theme of people not being allowed to cum, Tease & Denial did quite well in their first round matchup despite our prediction. Looks like we’ll never get a chance to see that Princess gang after all. Cuckolding seems like a real favorite though so we sense we might be in for a real close vote in this second round matchup.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Cuckolding. Just can’t see this one being all that close.

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BOTTOM DIVISION

Bondage vs. Feminization/Sissy

What a battle of heavyweights! So early in the bracket! Both completely dominated their competition in their respective first rounds. It’ll be interesting to see which fetish is more beloved here as they truly differ in their tactics. We just wish it could have come a little later in the tournament. Make your picks!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Bondage. Frankly we just like being tied up more than we like wearing a dress.

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Goddess Worship vs. Oral Servitude

We were hoping for a little more fight out of Electric Play against Goddess Worship, as it’s one of our favorites, but it just wasn’t meant to be. Both of these fetishes are public favorites and both crushed in the first round. Which do you prefer? A strong Goddess or a strong tongue?
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Goddess Worship. We expect another strong victory for this classic fetish.

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Chastity vs. Ass Worship

Chastity is always a tough one for us here at NiteFlirt because, let’s face it, we like to have sex! With that said though, you all spoke and it came through the first round with flying colors! Now it’s up against Ass Worship and we’re having a tough time calling this one. This ‘not having sex’ thing has us so confused.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Chastity. You all seem to really enjoy your discipline!

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Foot Worship vs. Spitting

Both Foot Worship and Spitting had two of the closest victories (mid 50%) of the first round which quite frankly we just didn’t expect. We are expecting it here though and think it’ll be a real dogfight between these two niches.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Foot Worship. Another surprise victor in the first round, we really just think we underestimated Foot Worship from the beginning.

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Get your votes in now! This round only last for two days and will be over on March 17th!

Next stop: the Exotic Eight!

As always, come Speak to Your Desire™ at NiteFlirt if these fetishes are getting you as hot as they are us!

 

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BDSM Class at Community Center Shut Down

A BDSM class disguised as a “relationship support” meeting was gagged recently by community center officials when they found out about its kinky intentions. The class was being run by a group called the Cambridge Kink, who wanted to educate locals about the BDSM lifestyle. After several classes, which included such titillating topics as “violence/resistance play” and the “basics of erotic hypnosis,” community officials discovered the true nature of the naughty, BDSM classes, and banned the event for good. Boo!

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For around $16, the Cambridge Kink offered BDSM courses in caning, dominance/submission, and general “kink on a budget”—not to mention tea and pastries! The community center, which usually hosts girl scout meetings and bingo, admitted that while BDSM is more socially accepted now than ever before (thanks in part to the wild success of Fifty Shades of Grey), it is still not enough for the center. We guess it’s back to the underground BDSM sex dungeons for these Cambridge Kinksters!

Looking for a top-notch education in BDSM? We can make you whip-smart in no time!

 

 

Welcome to March Badness 2015

March Madness, you say? Nah, we don’t care much about cutting down the nets in college basketball. We care about how naughty each of you are in the bedroom. At NiteFlirt, we’re all about March Badness!

NiteFlirt’s been in business for over twelve years so we know a thing or two about fetishes and BDSM, and we love them all. But which BDSM fetish is the best? We want to crown a winner for the sexiest and most deserving BDSM fetish of the year, and we need your votes to do so! 32 of our favorite fetishes will face off against each other until we have a clear winner — NiteFlirt’s 2015 March Badness Champion!

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_march_badness_fetish_2015_smallWe’ve separated our fetishes into two divisions: Top and Bottom. Vote for your favorite in each match to see it continue on to the next round. The voting schedule is below. Each round of voting will last for only a few days, depending on the round, so make your votes count! You’re allowed to vote once per hour.

First Round: 3/11 – 3/15
Second Round (Scintillating Sixteen): 3/15 – 3/17
Third Round (Exotic Eight): 3/17 – 3/19
Frisky Four: 3/19 – 3/22
Championship: 3/22 – 3/24

The first round winners will be announced on March 15th!

Let’s kick things off with our Top Division:

TOP DIVISION

Spanking vs. Masturbation Instruction

On paper, this may seem like a mismatch. Spanking is a classic fetish — who doesn’t love a little smack on the backside every now and again? — so you might think is has a big advantage. But Masturbation Instruction has really been on the rise in recent years with many Dommes now offering this service, so don’t count it out quite yet!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Spanking. Too much history to overcome.

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Verbal Humiliation vs. Home Wrecking

Another tried and true classic, Verbal Humiliation, is pitted against another upstart in this first round matchup. This time Homewrecking is attempting to unseat a favorite and make a deep run. Some have reservations about Homewrecking and just how “real world” it can get, so let’s see how this fetish fares with all of you!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Verbal Humiliation. The real world can sometimes get a little too real.

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Physical Domination vs. Forced Bi

A little Physical Domination is up against Forced Bi in this matchup. In a sense, both of these fetishes can be pretty intimidating as they both involve the exertion of real force and domination. Many would argue that we all have a little Bi in us already, just waiting to come out! Which do you prefer?
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Forced Bi. We think we all do have a little in each of us!

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Strap-on vs. Ballbusting/CBT

Strap-on?! Ballbusting and CBT?! Which can you choose? Both are about power and taking control and both get us so hot! We think this is going to be one of the closest match ups of this first round. Just the thought of these amazing fetishes gets us worked up, and also sitting with our legs a little more closely crossed.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Strap-On. The power. The ferocity. We love it.

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Orgasm Control/Ruination vs. Whips/Canes/Paddles

Hmmm, Orgasm Control. Another real power fetish. Of course, on the other hand, we’ve got another classic with Whips, etc. It may just come down to acquired taste as to which of these two fetishes gets you going. To each their own, we always say…
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Whips/Canes/Paddles. See our prediction above.

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Financial Domination vs. Face Sitting

Now we’re talking! A real, ahem, face-off we have here! Two true powerhouses going after each other. It’s really going to boil down to just how strong your wallet is or how developed your tongue is. May the best fetish win!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Financial Domination. Quickly becoming a classic. Too much cash to not love!

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Tease & Denial vs. Brat/Princess Girls

We really wish that we could see the physical manifestation of all of these fetishes battling each other in real life. It goes without saying that we would pay a large amount to see a gang of Princess Girls hanging out on a stoop outside waiting for the lovers of Tease & Denial!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Brat/Princess Girls. We want to see that gang!

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Cuckolding vs. Small Penis Humiliation

One of our personal favorites here at NiteFlirt, cuckolding, is going up against small penis humiliation and we think it’s going to be a seriously close fight. If you judge by the calls our girls take on the site, this could be one of the tightest votes in the Top Division!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Cuckolding. We see a runaway here.

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That’s it for our Top Division! Now let’s get to the Bottom:

BOTTOM DIVISION

Bondage vs. Ponyplay

We absolutely love the creativity of Ponyplay, but we just can’t see this equine fetish overcoming the pure joy of Bondage. Bondage has practically been around since the beginning of time. It’s involvement in so many other fetishes makes Bondage seem it can’t lose. How can a fetish that often incorporates the fetish it’s facing off against win?!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Bondage. Probably the biggest mismatch of the first round.

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Feminization/Sissy vs. Human Furniture

Feminization has really taken off as a popular fetish in recent years, and it’s one of the most popular on NiteFlirt as well. Deep down, many big, strong men are just longing for that pretty, pink dress. Not to say that Human Furniture isn’t gaining in popularity, but it still is a pretty niche fetish. With that said, we can think of a gorgeous individual or two that we’d like to turn into a human table or chair.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Feminization/Sissy. We think more men want to be feminized than people want to be furniture.

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Goddess Worship vs. Electric Play

We just love these two fetishes! Goddess Worship speaks for itself and is incredibly popular. But we really get off on the high-tech nature of Electric Play here at NiteFlirt — an electrified wand being used on our naughty bits gets us all aflutter.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Goddess Worship. It’s just not Electric Play’s year.

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Oral Servitude vs. Pumping/Suction

While these two fetishes sound like they are somewhat related, we’re looking at two very different concepts. Feed your oral obsession with Oral Servitude or enlarge and make more sensitive different parts of the body through Pumping/Suction? Both sound great to us! Cast your votes!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Oral Servitude. Hard to say ‘no’ to a hot pair of lips and a strong tongue.

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Chastity vs. Feeding/Eating

The winner of this matchup may boil down to how submissive or dominant you are. Chastity is all about discipline and power. Feeding/Eating is all about messy fun in the bedroom.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Feeding/Eating. We love to eat! Plus we feel that pure fun is going to win out over the more disciplined fetish here.

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Foot Jobs vs. Ass Worship

Do you love a sexy pair of feet or do you crave a perfect, round ass? It’s a question that every person must ask themselves at some point in their life. We know this is a tough one because we struggled with our pick as well.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Ass Worship. We love a perfect, shapely, gorgeous, bouncy ass. We think most out there will agree.

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Hypnosis vs. Foot Worship

The feet are back for another battle! But this time, they’re taking a less active role by being worshipped. Hypnosis, on the other hand, is quite an active fetish with many nuances and variations. Perhaps we need to be hypnotized into worshipping some gorgeous feet? Things are starting to get complicated.
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Hypnosis. In a clean sweep, we don’t see either of our foot-related fetishes making it out of the first round.

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Spitting vs. Wax Play

Wax Play is so — ahem — hot! We love this messy fetish here at NiteFlirt so very much. Can we say it lights our fire? Ok, enough. The question really becomes how can it compete with a fetish so simple, so pure, as Spitting though? Can it? We’re rooting for it!
NiteFlirt’s Prediction: Spitting. As much as our hearts say Wax Play, our minds say Spitting is the pick here.

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Which fetishes are your favorites? Get your votes in to get them counted! We’ll announce the first round winners on March 15th and then we’ll move on to the second round.

If getting through this first round got you all hot and bothered, come visit NiteFlirt and Speak to Your Desire™!

 

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NEWS: Fetishist Explains Pregnancy Fetish

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What is it about pregnant women that is so damn sexy? Is it the glow, the confidence, the fact that they are a walking emblem of fertility? Whatever it is, pregnant women are hot, which is why a pregnancy fetish is actually pretty common. And one self-proclaimed pregnancy fetishist took the time to explain his kinky fetish to Jezebel. Here’s what he said:

  1. Pregnant women are meant to be “chaste,” a common stereotype about mothers. So a pregnancy fetish turns that idea on its head by sexualizing pregnant women as naughty objects of desire. So dirty!
  2. It is common knowledge that pregnant ladies are much hornier, and kinky fetishists love sexy women who have an insatiable need to fuck (and eat a box of donuts—maybe at the same time!).
  3. There’s a cuckold aspect, where pregnant women are having someone else’s baby, therefore making her even more desirable. The fetishist says he doesn’t like cheating, “But I love people who are desirable to many people. This is something a lot of fetishists play with.”
  4. Fetishists get off to the wild, hot changes a woman’s body goes through during pregnancy. Kinky!

Some men just love them a powerful pregnant lady! Got a fetish itch of your own you’d to scratch? We love being part of your desires!

 

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