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What Gets People Off at Sex Emporiums Around the World

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International sex shops, just like the different cultures and people of various parts of the world, are unique and distinctive. Since every continent and country has their own naughty tastes and preferences when it comes to getting off, Vice decided to investigate international sex emporiums to find out what turns people on all around the world. Here’s some of the interesting things that they found.

In Germany, the uber-popular sex mega-shops cater mainly to fräulein (women), with vibrators as their best-selling item last year. Berlin is also home to DILDOKING, which as the name suggests sells dildos, but also plenty of vibrators, anal beads or “love balls”, fetish gear and more. In Japan, the most famous sex shop is M, a seven-story mecca that carries, of course, Doll pillows, and basically anything else you might fancy. In China, the biggest sex store is Juse, which has 500 stores nationwide, and sells vibrators and BDSM toys as its most popular merch. So, as it turns out, while people are different all over the world, we’re all pretty similar when it comes to our sex toys!

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Here’s Vice‘s international sex mega-shops investigation.

How to Share Your Sexual Fantasies

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_friendsWhile it’s true that everyone has sexual fantasies, it’s also true that many people don’t feel comfortable sharing theirs. Thankfully there are ways to get more comfortable with divulging your desires with others. Here are some tips for feeling more at ease with exploring your fantasies with a partner.

  1. Get comfortable with your fantasies
    Take the time to explore what turns you on without judgement. Everyone has personal desires and fantasies, and what gets you hot is nothing to be ashamed of. Figure out what you like—and what you’d like to happen in real life—before letting someone else know.
  2. Don’t overanalyze what turns you on
    There’s no reason to ask yourself “why” you have a particular fantasy. It doesn’t necessarily say anything about you as a person. Accept that sex isn’t rational, and just go with it.
  3. Figure out a good time to discuss your fantasies
    Timing is everything, so it’s important to feel very comfortable with someone before discussing your fantasies. At the same time, if it’s a deal breaker to date someone who might not share your particular kink, it’d be a good idea to discuss your sexual tastes with them sooner rather than later. Regardless, you should gauge how the other person might respond by asking some leading questions like “I saw this thing on the internet. How would you feel about doing something like that?”
  4. Practice asking
    Here are some good lines: “You know what sounds really hot to me?”; “There’s this thing I’ve always wanted to try, but I’ve been waiting until I found the right person.”; “I would love to see you doing…”

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Get more ideas on how to share your sexual fantasies here.

The Alien-Themed Brothel

You may have heard of Dennis Hof, the famous entrepreneur and owner of several legal brothels in Las Vegas. Well, now Hof is adding a completely different element to his newest sex-establishment: aliens. If you’re dying to try a kinky, extraterrestrial themed sexual experience, look no further than Hof’s “Alien Cathouse.” Here you can finally live out that Princess Leia sex fantasy you’ve always dreamed of (decked out in her chained-and-bound slave costume, of course), or even fuck one of those sexy blue creatures from Avatar.

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All the rooms have different themes, such as “Atlantis,” “Alien Abduction,” and, of course, there’s a “probing room” for all the dangerous, kinky, BDSM stuff. But the kicker: Hof bought the land close in proximity to the sci-fi wet-dreamland spot, Area 51, which is known as the mother of all UFO conspiracy sites. Hof is calling his spot Area 69, and luring all his nerdy, horny patrons to come experience the joys of extraterrestrial fucking.

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Cracked has more about Alien Cathouse here.

Strippers Explain Strip Club Etiquette

Copy-of-Stripper_on_a_Pole_svgLet’s face it, in any establishment there are unwritten rules about how to behave—and this is especially true at a strip club. That’s why some exotic dancers were only too happy to sit down with a writer at Vice to discuss how customers should behave when getting down at the strip club. Here’s the dancers’ best advice for those looking to have some fun, and not piss anyone off:

  1. Don’t try to have sex with the dancers
    Strippers work in the sex industry, but they aren’t sex workers. Meaning, they don’t have sex for money. Don’t ask; it’s rude.
  2. Be nice; don’t be creepy Some strippers have had some not so nice experiences with dudes telling them that they look like a sister or a daughter. That’s creepy. Best not to mention relatives at the strip club.
  3. Wear deodorant
    Body odor kills the mood pretty quick. Be kind; wear deodorant.
  4. Fetish play costs extra If you’ve got a fetish you’d like a dancer to indulge in the champagne room, understand that you will need to pay extra.
  5. Don’t cum in your pants
    If you are going to cum, please give the dancer a heads up (pun intended!) beforehand. It’s not polite to have her sit in your jizz without a warning.
  6. Respect the strippers
    These women are mothers, daughters, sisters, students, future surgeons, you name it. They need to be treated with respect.

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Check out more of the strippers’ best stories and tips.

Sexual Fetish Research Shows the Endlessness of Erotic Desire

sexy-scientistResearchers have come a long way since 2004 when they first attempted to catalogue human’s seemingly endless sexual fetishes. Back then, the most common fetishes involved body parts, namely feet and toes, followed by body fluids (blood, urine, etc.), then body types (tall, short, fat, to name a few). The research also documented objects that go on the body—stockings, shoes, skirts and, of course, the most popular, underwear. The most shocking fetishes recorded then probably had to do with catheters and pacemakers…we’ll let you use your imagination.

But now, psychiatrists have taken on the monumental task of attempting to record all of the sexual fetishes in the world in order to include them in the ever evolving Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). In the latest DSM released in 2010, the focus turned to Paraphilia, or “the experience of intense sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, or individuals.” Before doctors understood that paraphilia fetishes were just a kinky sexual preference, people called these fetishists “perverts” or “sexual deviants.” These days, researchers just want to understand fetishes like Dacryphilia (a BDSM variant whereby sexual enjoyment or arousal is gained from tears and crying) to record and try to make sense of all the endless ways people express erotic desire.

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Check out more about the history of sexual fetish research here.

Cuckold Fetishists Pay Big Bucks for “Wives-Only” Brothel

In Russia, cuckold fetishists pay over six times (!) the average price to have sex with a married woman. There’s even “wives-only” brothels, where men get off to cuckolding a perfect stranger by sleeping with their wife. And the wives can’t work unless they bring their marriage license to prove that they’re cuckolding their husbands!

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These wedded ladies are willing to secretly cuckold their husbands because the fetishists are willing to pay the big bucks to have an exciting affair. But these cuckold trysts don’t come cheap. It costs $380 an hour to cuckold these women’s husbands, where a non-cuckold rendezvous only costs around $60.

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Fetishists Love to Buy Women’s Used Panties Online

lingerieshoppingsmallYou probably heard about Japan’s used panties vending machines (those Japanese fetishists sure are kinky!), but did you know that selling women’s used panties is thriving online in the UK? It’s true. Sexy women model their lingerie in pictures on the internet and sell them off to eager fetishists. So what do the fetishists like the ladies to do with their panties before buying them?

The “dirty knickers” craze in the UK is all made to order, meaning fetishists can make requests for what types of, ahem, activities they’d like the ladies to do before sending their panties. The main one is for the women to wear the panties while masturbating, and one lady who sells her used panties online for $23 a pop says, “quite a lot want [the women] to wee in them.” She also says that most of the fetishists who buy used panties online do so to masturbate with them and smell them, although others like to wear them or simply put them in a drawer to admire longingly. One dominatrix likes to send her slaves her dirty knickers as a present: “I like to send some panties through the post and make someone’s day.” That is definitely a good gift…for a fetishist!

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Check out more about UK’s thriving used panties market here!

Top 10 Favorite Fetishes

Psychologist Kris Saknussemm has been studying sexual fetishes for 20 years, which he says “is itself a kind of fetish.” Now, he’s listed out his ten all-time favorites for Nerve, and these kinky fetishes aren’t your usual ones with whips and high heels. Here are some highlights:

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  1. Mirror fetish
    This isn’t about hanging a mirror above the bed to watch yourself have sex (which is just hot!). These fetishists get off to “a psychic double or doppelganger.”
  2. Held-up at gun-point fetish
    The excitement and thrill of getting held-up or robbed is what gets their kinky motor running.
  3. Mannequin fetish
    As it turns out, that cheesy 80’s movie about a dude who falls in love with a mannequin isn’t so far-fetched! These fetishists are also aroused by statues and dolls.
  4. Amputee fetish
    They are attracted to amputees and to the fascination of becoming an amputee. There’s a David Lynch movie in here somewhere…
  5. Ant fetish
    Yes, there is even a fetish for very tiny insects.

This list goes to show there really is a fetish for everything! Want to explore your kinky side with us? We have a fetish for your fetish on www.NiteFlirt.com

 

Kink Is Out and Proud at Legendary Queer Street Parade

ff-posterA new documentary called “Folsom Forever” chronicles the history of San Francisco’s legendary gay pride parade that celebrates the right of queers and kinksters everywhere to explore their sexuality out in the open. Even though it now seems like the leather-bound parade was always just about the kink, the film shows that the event was much more than just a scene for exhibitionists. The documentary focuses on the historically gay-friendly neighborhood the Castro in the 1970s, when “Folsom Street was the West Coast’s mecca for anyone on their leather journey in life.”

During the time when the fair originated, the queers in the Castro were being pushed out of their neighborhoods by developers who wanted to “bulldoze buildings and sex businesses — like the bathhouses — being closed by the city in misguided AIDS hysteria.” This is why the parade has always been “an expression of human rights, be it the right to low-cost housing or to willingly be flogged without fear of arrest.” San Francisco in the ’70s was a time when queer people were able to fully explore and celebrate their sexuality. That’s why today, members of the LGBT community and kinksters alike flock to the Folsom Street Parade with whips, chains, leather, and more to really celebrate sexual expression and freedom.

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Check out HuffPo‘s article on the documentary to watch the trailer for “Folsom Forever!”

Aspiring BBW Model Gorging Herself to Gain 200 Pounds

23-year old Tammy Jung is an aspiring model—of the BBW fetish variety! Her goal is to gain 200 pounds so she can become a BBW “internet sex symbol.” Looking at her BBW weight-gain photos, you’d think the “after” photos are the “before” photos, when actually the “after” photos are the “after” photos! So how does a healthy non-BBW person become a BBW sex symbol?

Jung has a boyfriend and a personal coach who helps her meet her “dietary guidelines” of 5,000 calories a day. Jung explains, “I start the day with a huge breakfast of waffles, cream cheese, bacon and sausage then head to McDonalds for a few burgers in the afternoon,” Jung told the Huffington Post UK. “I can snack on cheese all day, a couple of blocks is no problem, then for dinner I’ll either eat pizzas or make Mexican food.” Jung is now—after basically force feeding herself for months—230 pounds, and has a BBW fetish site in which she expects to earn $3,100 a month. Her NYE-BBW goal is to reach 420 pounds by the end of next year.

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Check out more about Jung’s BBW journey here: https://gawker.com/aspiring-bbw-fetish-model-gorging-herself-to-gain-200-p-500218767