4 Kink Tips For Women to Ring in Your 4th of July

womandominatingmanLadies, do you want to let your kink flag fly? Many women want to experiment with kink, but aren’t sure where to begin. If you’re new to kinky play, here are some handy tips for your next sexual adventure.

  1. Kinky sex is different for everyone
    Kink is an umbrella term that includes everything from BDSM, fantasy, sensation, fetish play, sex toys, and so much more. Try some things you’re curious about and see how it feels for you. Just “play!”
  2. Communication is key
    This is true for any sexual activity, but it’s especially important during kinky play. Be sure to share what you’re comfortable with and talk about any inhibitions beforehand. Always express your limits when stepping outside your own sexual comfort zone.
  3. Do your research
    Masturbate and explore your fantasies before you act on them with a partner. Read books, take a sex workshop, talk to people—in other words, explore kink and be creative! Think outside the box when getting freaky!
  4. Practice sex play and embrace novelty
    As with everything, you’ll get better at it the more you do it. Variety is the spice of life—be open to trying new things.

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Check out more kink tips for ladies here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/8-things-every-woman-should-know-before-trying-kink_us_59494c04e4b07d3e35d88f44

8 Of the Kinkiest Things People Have Ever Done During Sex 

body-1095226_640What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done during sex? Well, if you’re into BDSM and fetish play, it’s probably involved some pretty kinky stuff! Here, Buzzfeed readers share their kinkiest sexual experiences (check out more kinky confessions below).

  1. The cone of shame
    This “slave” enjoys piss play and humiliation, and his “fondest memory” is when 22+ men pissed on him while he wore a cone a shame. He says, “After being peed on, my Master forced me to sit in the pee for a long time before being allowed to shower off. It was definitely one of the hottest things I’ve ever done.” You naughty, naughty boy!
  2. The Daddy/dom fetish
    This dom has his girl call him Daddy or Sir, otherwise strict punishment is enforced. “There’s something amazing about having a person put their total trust in you and let you completely control and use their body,” says Daddy. We promise to be good, Daddy!
  3. The secret party
    “Me and my ex had a party and in the middle of it we stealthily made our way to the back room and while we were having sex I tied her up. When we were done I left her like that and then after an hour I came back and we did it again.” Sounds like a great party to us!
  4. The cuckold
    “My girlfriend and I are into cuckolding. We met a guy and I watched him fuck her in the ass while I sucked her toes. After he came in her ass, I licked it out and we kissed. Five minutes later, she started giving him a blowjob again. He came in her mouth, she kissed me, and then spat it into my mouth.” Wow. That’s kinky.
  5. Confessions of a cam girl 
    One cam girl confesses that her boyfriend peeks on her doing private shows. Then, after she’s done for the night, they have mind-blowing sex. Watching her flirt and talk dirty really turns him on.
  6. The welcome home party
    “My girlfriend’s parents were giving me a lift back home from the airport one afternoon. My girlfriend and I were in the backseat, one thing led to another, and I was getting a blowjob. It was the quietest orgasm I’ve ever had.” Now that’s a good welcome home!
  7. The overtime at work 
    “I fucked my boss in the ass using a strap on while we were in his office during the middle of a work day.” Something tells us this person will be up for a promotion soon!
  8. The in-car entertainment
    “I once drove 30 minutes to a guy’s house with a butt plug in the whole time. The vibrations from the car made me orgasm twice.” Butt-plug: the only way to travel.

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Check out more of the kinkiest things people have ever done during sex: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/watch-out-for-the-armadillo

The Most Effed Up Sex Injuries

crimsonninjagirl(2)Maybe you’ve seen the show Sex Sent Me to the ER? Well, let’s just say that the injuries on that show are child’s play compared to the sex injury data compiled by the federal Consumer Product Safety Commission. Although the sex injuries make up less than .02% of the 2.3 million reported general injuries, they are still seriously effed up. Here are some of the worst (see more below).

Not surprisingly, most of the injuries occurred from foreign objects “disappearing” into orifices after insertion, according to Vice. Some other unfortunate accidents occurred in the, um, pelvic region. One man made a homemade cock ring from PCVP pipe rings and a ring from a horse halter. Another guy attempted to anally fuck a pencil. And, of course, there were freak accidents during hot fuck-fests: a lady gave herself a head injury when riding a guy so hard that her head lurched into the headboard. And a 19-year-old woman allegedly suffered a dental injury after a sex swing detached from the ceiling and hit her in the mouth. Ouch! The lesson here: Enter At Your Own Risk!

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Check out more of the most effed up sex injuries here: https://distractify.com/sex-relationships/2016/02/18/margot-dont-stick-it-there