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Inside Los Angeles’ Exclusive Gay Sex Party

marcus_hansson:Los Angeles is home to one of the best and most exclusive gay sex parties out there. Guys travels from other countries, pay large sums of money, and put through themselves through a rigorous screening process all to have the experience of attending what can only be described as a giant gay orgy. The attendees represent an underground network of people who want to celebrate their sexuality through watching or participating in erotic and sexual events. And this LA sex party definitely lets them explore their sexuality and fantasies while having a night they’ll never forget!

The orgy party’s organizer, who goes by V, said, “We have a mix of gay, straight and bisexual men and women in the audience, so it’s important for us to have a wide variety for guests.” A lot of the guests like to watch the live-show, which usually consists of guys getting on stage, stripping, and masturbating in front of the others. Straight men and women also enjoy the scene, including one couple who said that the parties help them to open up sexually, and add some spice to their sex life. “I am not gay or bi or anything like that, but something about seeing these guys whack off gets me hard, and seeing my wife turned on is always a plus. So, by the time we leave and get home, I’m ready to just pound her out,” said the man. And according to V, that’s the point of the parties: “I want people, couples, everyone, to experience sexuality in their own way. I want them to explore their bodies and fantasies to get the full flavor of life.”

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NEWS: A Dominatrix’s 3 Truths about Fetishes

A dominatrix and phone sex operator dishes on Cracked.com about the surprising things she’s learned about fetishes over the years. Even though many people believe that men are straight forward and uncomplicated when it comes to sex, this mistress-dominatrix/phone sex operator knows better: she’s encountered clients who are simply kinky, to others who have bizarre, even outlandish fetishes. Here are this dominatrix’s 3 truths about fetishes:Depositphotos_5328859_small

  1. Fetishes are not about sex; they’re about sexual fantasies 

    As a dominatrix, she explains what many people get twisted about BDSM fetishes: there’s no actual sex involved. That would alter the power dynamic and put her, the dominatrix, in a vulnerable position—a turn off for both dom and sub. Instead, a dominatrix’s role is to act out the sub’s sexual fantasies and fetishes.  Although many of the fantasies/fetishes involve sex (spanking, whipping, etc.), she does not fuck any of her “slaves.”

  2. Fetishes have surprisingly little to do with sex 

    As a phone sex operator and dominatrix she understands that because of internet porn, very few customers want to hear her moaning and talking dirty while they get off—instead, they call to indulge their fetishes with a hot lady who will not judge their kinks and who is game to play whatever twisted, kinky game they like.

  3. Certain fetishes are very very common 

    Even though she describes the clients she encounters as having “elaborate [kinky] fantasy worlds” that she helps “guide them through,” she explains that most of her clients have the same fetishes. In particular, there are a lot of guys who like to be feminized (i.e., forced to cross dress) and/or humiliated. She also says that about 75% of her clients have homosexual fantasies—and that most are freaked out by this, even though it’s completely normal to fantasize about a dick in your mouth (again, it can be a turn on because of power, dominance/submission) and, by her accounts, extremely common.

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“Our Beds Are Crowded”

By Wicked Barbie

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As the noted psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud famously said, “Our beds are crowded,” and indeed they are. What Freud meant is that quite simply, our current sexual interactions are the sum total of past relationships, fantasies, and to some extent, current fetishes or sexual conflicts. I have never been more acutely aware of this than during my time as a Niteflirt Phone Sex Mistress. When a new submissive calls me, and a connection is made, that is I take him on as my submissive, and he chooses me as his dominatrix, I am not only dealing with the submissive and his or her fetishes; rather, I am dealing with the psychosexual layers of his past mistresses. It is akin to a sexual archeological dig, and one must be careful when dealing with cherished relics of the past.

It has been my experience that a past Mistress may have been a positive experience for the submissive who has now made his way to me, or perhaps she has left some emotional debris that must be dealt with in order to move on in the sub’s sexual odyssey. Whatever the case may be, regardless of her impact, she is to some extent a component of the relationship I am now establishing with the submissive, and when dealing with a submissive who has been engaged in a fetish lifestyle for a number of years, we are dealing with a bed that is overflowing with people!

It is interesting how we are in some sense all interconnected, though in actuality, our paths may never cross. As I am a fairly new dominatrix, I would submit that I not only learn about this lifestyle via the submissive callers I have had the pleasure of knowing, but also from what their Mistresses have taught them. I in turn, use what I have learned in conjunction with my own methodology, and the process of sharing information carries on in a continuum of sorts.

In any case, I would submit that Freud was correct; “Our beds are Crowded,” but do give me a call.  There’s always room for one more.

-Ze Wicked Barbie