Lots of men love being told what to do, especially when it comes to masturbation. Guided masturbation, jerk off instruction (JOI), these are quite popular kinks with callers. It can be a lot more exciting to have someone else control your orgasm and pace of your touching yourself. When you don’t know what’s coming next, it’s more like in real life when someone else is doing the touching. Surrendering control for the sake of pleasure brings ecstasy to many. It’s not as easy as it seems to know what someone would like, but once you figure it out, they go wild for it.
Stopping and starting, how fast, how slow, how hard, how soft. There’s countless combinations of the directions you can give to them. Many callers are into edging themselves for a long time before they even pick up the phone, so they are no strangers to stopping and starting and being able to control their orgasm. Is guided masturbation one of your favorite ways to masturbate? That is one thing that you cannot do yourself. You need someone else to do the instructing and surprise you with their directions. Not all men are interested in this of course, but for the ones that are, they genuinely enjoy someone else taking over the action, so to speak.
Some callers are hoping the lady they call will be up for some fun and the man wants to guide their masturbation. Not all operators are up for this sort of interaction, but some certainly are and will delight at your telling them what to do to themselves. Messaging them beforehand and asking if they are willing to do this certainly will improve your chances of it happening on a call for you. All operators also have their own style, so while you may call several different ladies, they will each have their own distinct methods they use for guided masturbation. If this sounds like it’s right up your alley, why not give it a try on NiteFlirt… you just might like it!
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