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NEWS: Diary of a Submissive Man Who’s Not Allowed to Cum

In NY magazine’s diary entries of the sexually kinky, a submissive man describes being tied up, brought to his sexual limit, as his mistress (wife) denies him the big finish. On the first day, he (the submissive) wakes up at 6:30 am in bondage, as every morning, waiting for his mistress to un-lock his leather cuffs so he can finally move his restrained, “completely useless” fingers. He explains he hasn’t cum in 9 days, is completely hard, but will not be allowed to cum until his mistress believes he is ready—that is, until she sees “the need.” He watches BDSM porn, and waits for his mistress to put on his chastity belt.

Later, his mistress feels like fucking him—but instructs him not to cum as she rides him. His reply: “Yes, Ma’am.” Next morning, it’s more porn, masturbation, fucking—all pushing him right to the edge of cumming, but without actually finishing. At the end of day fourteen, still without cumming, he explains he’s masturbated 3 times, had his mistress masturbate him 5 times, masturbated his mistress once, fucked his mistress once, watched porn 7 times, read erotica 3 times, had 7 bondage sessions—all with no big O’s!

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NEWS: Dominatrixes Help 28 Prisoners Escape After Seducing the Guards

In what seems like a ridiculous comedy sketch too outlandish to be real (except it is), 28 inmates escaped a Brazil prison after 3 dominatrixes duped the guards into thinking they’d have a mass orgy. The naughty trio showed up at the prison in full dominatrix gear and tempted the guards into partying with some whiskey and a little role-play. In true dominatrix fashion, this included—you guessed it—handcuffs!

The whiskey was spiked (no kidding!), so once the guards passed out, the seductresses stripped them, handcuffed them, and stole their master keys. They then unlocked every cell, because, well, since they’re dominatrixes, they really know who’s in charge. The disoriented guards were found naked and handcuffed the next morning with a bag of dominatrix lingerie and naughty police outfits nearby!

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NEWS: A Dominatrix’s 3 Truths about Fetishes

A dominatrix and phone sex operator dishes on Cracked.com about the surprising things she’s learned about fetishes over the years. Even though many people believe that men are straight forward and uncomplicated when it comes to sex, this mistress-dominatrix/phone sex operator knows better: she’s encountered clients who are simply kinky, to others who have bizarre, even outlandish fetishes. Here are this dominatrix’s 3 truths about fetishes:

Fetishes are not about sex; they’re about sexual fantasies
As a dominatrix, she explains what many people get twisted about BDSM fetishes: there’s no actual sex involved. That would alter the power dynamic and put her, the dominatrix, in a vulnerable position—a turn off for both dom and sub. Instead, a dominatrix’s role is to act out the sub’s sexual fantasies and fetishes. Although many of the fantasies/fetishes involve sex (spanking, whipping, etc.), she does not fuck any of her “slaves.”
Fetishes have surprisingly little to do with sex
As a phone sex operator and dominatrix she understands that because of internet porn, very few customers want to hear her moaning and talking dirty while they get off—instead, they call to indulge their fetishes with a hot lady who will not judge their kinks and who is game to play whatever twisted, kinky game they like.
Certain fetishes are very very common
Even though she describes the clients she encounters as having “elaborate [kinky] fantasy worlds” that she helps “guide them through,” she explains that most of her clients have the same fetishes. In particular, there are a lot of guys who like to be feminized (i.e., forced to cross dress) and/or humiliated. She also says that about 75% of her clients have homosexual fantasies—and that most are freaked out by this, even though it’s completely normal to fantasize about a dick in your mouth (again, it can be a turn on because of power, dominance/submission) and, by her accounts, extremely common.

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NEWS: Dominatrix Led Fetish Fitness Classes in LA

Los Angeles dominatrix, Snow Mercy, wants to whip your pathetic ass into shape at her new fetish fitness class for submissives. She looks like Snow White, holds a Ph.D. in biochemistry, and likes to get her students sweaty and fit by exercising her control over them, dominatrix style. Mercy says of her class, “I am the dominatrix leading all the submissives, and the submissives have to compete. It’s a genuine fitness class and it’s designed to increase their endurance, agility and stamina.”

Hard to argue when your dominatrix instructor looks like that!

Mercy started out working in a dungeon in LA as a way to pay for grad school, and has continued to work as a dominatrix for the past 10 years. She started doing a fetish-themed fitness class back in 2008 because she wanted to perfect her flogging techniques, and from that developed a new fitness regime that combines humiliation, strength, agility, endurance and, most importantly, obedience which meshed with her dominatrix self. She even does private training sessions with clients—one fellow likes working out in a yellow tutu while a group of beautiful women taunt and humiliate him. She also leads group treks around LA, where some “carry [her] water and wipe the sweat off [her] brow.” Only in LA! Love the dominatrix lifestyle!

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“Our Beds Are Crowded”

By Wicked Barbie

As the noted psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud famously said, “Our beds are crowded,” and indeed they are. What Freud meant is that quite simply, our current sexual interactions are the sum total of past relationships, fantasies, and to some extent, current fetishes or sexual conflicts. I have never been more acutely aware of this than during my time as a Niteflirt Phone Sex Mistress. When a new submissive calls me, and a connection is made, that is I take him on as my submissive, and he chooses me as his dominatrix, I am not only dealing with the submissive and his or her fetishes; rather, I am dealing with the psychosexual layers of his past mistresses. It is akin to a sexual archeological dig, and one must be careful when dealing with cherished relics of the past.

It has been my experience that a past Mistress may have been a positive experience for the submissive who has now made his way to me, or perhaps she has left some emotional debris that must be dealt with in order to move on in the sub’s sexual odyssey. Whatever the case may be, regardless of her impact, she is to some extent a component of the relationship I am now establishing with the submissive, and when dealing with a submissive who has been engaged in a fetish lifestyle for a number of years, we are dealing with a bed that is overflowing with people!

It is interesting how we are in some sense all interconnected, though in actuality, our paths may never cross. As I am a fairly new dominatrix, I would submit that I not only learn about this lifestyle via the submissive callers I have had the pleasure of knowing, but also from what their Mistresses have taught them. I in turn, use what I have learned in conjunction with my own methodology, and the process of sharing information carries on in a continuum of sorts.

In any case, I would submit that Freud was correct; “Our beds are Crowded,” but do give me a call. There’s always room for one more.

-Ze Wicked Barbie