Submissive Boredom and Finding the “One”

By CindyBell

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One of the things I hear from a lot of Submissive callers is that they are bored/unhappy with their current Mistress, or that they haven’t found the “One” that really clicks all their buttons. Most often I get an email that reads like this “will you dominate me?”. Perhaps I want to, but I need more information than that. Everyone’s definition of Domination is not the same. I need to know what YOU want to experience and I will let you know if that fits my style of Femdom.
The same goes for other terms like humiliation, slave, etc… Your level of humiliation might be completely different than my last caller, so please be specific with your requests and instructions. I want to make the call something you will remember, but I will not alter my hard rules, or go against Niteflirt rules.

There are lots of ways to entertain your Submissive brain; you just have to have a little creative imagination, or a really good Mistress with one! I like to experiment with just how far I can push your buttons in your daily life. Not just when you’re horny and aching for my attention. I want you to think of me all day, every day, to crave for my acceptance of your existence. There are lots of ways to begin this process of course, depending on the type of Submissive you are.

This is a 7 day task that is not just about being a Sissy or Slave or Humiliation junkie (but does include elements of all 3), but is about giving up control of some pretty basic daily functions that will increase your awareness of the 24/7 presence of your Mistress Cindy. I call it “7 days of Service” (click below).

Greedy Money Bitch

By Intoxicating Isabelle

What’s Up Money Pig?

Are you just a lonesome sad little piggie?  Are you lusting after your Greedy Money Bitch lover’s body?  You know that everything comes with a price with a Financial Domination Phone sex bitch like me, don’t you?
No… You expect to pay for something that is as priceless as a Greedy Money Bitch with a sexy, smoking hot body.  You would do anything just to be in my presence…
You know that you could never deserve a woman such as me.
You have probably lusted after women like me from afar for as long as you can remember.

You can even probably remember the plethora of times you have tried to buy the affections of a gorgeous woman only to be laughed at or petted like a pathetic dog.

You have learned to accept your place: a stupid money pig phone sex slave that was meant to serve only the strictest and meanest of women.

You Are A Human ATM Slave
This is why you stand now broken, worthless and useless before your Greedy Money Bitch Mistress, ready to beg and plead to serve me.  You know that I do not NEED or even WANT your money, but your financial domination is the price you must pay to be offered a spot as my obedient money pig.
I find it mildly amusing to use you like some sort of human ATM slave.  You are nothing more than another credit card for me to pamper and spoil myself like the financial domination phone sex Queen that I am.
You will only find pleasure in being used for the money in your wallet.  You will take on extra jobs and tasks just so that you can keep your Greedy Money Bitch happy.  You will work endlessly for only minutes of my time and in those minutes you will be complete and happy.
Come now my obedient money slave phone sex boy and get ready to be used by your Greedy Money Bitch.  I have a Wish List  that needs some attention too!
Ciao,
Isabelle

What I Want in a Boyfriend/Husband/Lover

By Sexy HypnoGirl

I want a man who is strong and manly and who can defend me.
A man who takes care of Me in every way but is submissive when I need him to be.
A man who treats Me like his Princess. One who is soft spoken and kind.
A man who stands up for what he believes in and yet is ready to be My good boy. He never raises his voice or hand in anger to Me.
A man who can take charge in the bedroom and ravage Me. But he is also willing to trust Me to have My way with him when I want that.
A man who is ready at the drop of a hat when I am ready, but yet will come in and surprise Me and just have his way with Me.
A man who loves hypnosis as much as I do… who craves being placed under trance.
A man that makes good money so I never have to stress about bills again.
He must enjoy the same shows on TV so We/we can watch together.
A man who loves to cuddle as much as I do. That’s the type of man I want.

Femdom

By MissReaghan

You all know the saying, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, yes? Well, I can counter that with a phrase of my own that summarizes exactly the nature of our relationship and how you can best serve your Mistress.

What is a Femdom?

When you think of a Mistress, what is the first image that pops into your head? Is it the image of a woman, all decked out in black rubber and carrying a whip while she screams at you in German? An impossible-to-please woman who will crush your balls beneath her stiletto-ed heel and make you beg for the privilege of thanking her for her time? Do you picture a well-dressed, be-suited woman hovering over your every move and correcting even the smallest of mistakes with a disappointed look and a quiet “Hmm” under her breath?

Recently I had a survey on my phone sex blog, asking people that same question and the variety of answers it brought back were somewhat surprising to me. Even “non-kinky” people had an opinion about what it meant to them and, I was surprised to find that quite a few weren’t that far off the mark. They all seemed to radiate an answer that boiled down to power exchange and a woman that is sure of herself and absolutely in control.

Control me, Mistress!

How does that control manifest itself? Like the definition of “Femdom”, there are many definitions to what “control” is. Some would search through the pages of a phone sex site looking for just the right woman to expertly teach them cock control and orgasm training. Others want jerk-off instructions or just to listen as a woman guides their masturbation. Some require a strict Dominatrix with a “take no prisoners” approach to obedience while others would respond far better to a more sensual, teasing flirt. Still others like it somewhere in the middle … Sensually Strict, as it were.

Her level of control over you is entirely dictated by what you respond to. Just like in anything else in life … if YOU aren’t enjoying yourself, she’s going to know it and that will make for an unsatisfactory call for everyone.

So I leave you with the phrase I promised you at the beginning.

“The way to a femdom’s heart is through your mind.”

Know what you enjoy and the kind of phone sex domination that suits your personality best and then go find her!