Tag: Disabled

4 Reasons Why We Need Queer, Disabled Male Porn Stars

1465053692_37e1d45f37_mIf you’re a gay man, you know exactly what’s going to happen in a gay porn scene: two hot, able-bodied dudes making out briefly, blowing each other, fucking, then money shot. Although there’s somewhat more diversity in porn these days in terms of race and body types, adult entertainment still has a ways to go with representing all bodies, especially disabled ones. Here are 4 reasons why we need queer, disabled male porn stars.

  1. Different types of scenes 
    With a disabled person, the typical queer sex scene is made completely fresh and novel. In addition to sexualizing a disabled person by watching them undress, the viewer also sees the reality of what it’s like to have to negotiate getting into bed, with lifts/slings/etc, adding a new level of honesty and intimacy to the scene.
  2. Different positions
    With gay, disabled porn, the positions and sex are wholly new and exciting. As Andrew Morrison-Gurza, the founder of Deliciously Disabled Consulting says in the Huffington Post, “It would mean that the camera would capture something completely new and different, allowing for the viewing audience to get something fresh in their fantasy.”
  3. It would empower queer men with disabilities
    By including queer male porn stars with disabilities, queer men in the real world are able to see that their bodies are beautiful and desirable, too. “Seeing ourselves on film in this regard would act as a powerful and potent reminder that we have sexual agency and sexual capital while seated,” says Morrison-Gurza.
  4. It would send an important message to the larger queer community
    Depicting gay, disabled sex sends a powerful message to the queer community that disability is sexy, and that it’s okay to sexualize disabled bodies. It also allows LGBTQ people to become more comfortable with the idea of disability and sex. Right on!

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Check out more about why we need gay, disabled porn stars: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/andrew-morrisongurza/pwd-pornstars-with-disabi_b_9601594.html

Nursing Home Offers Sexual Healing to Residents

4629570540_d7645a6608_zOne British assisted living facility takes the holistic approach to health and wellness very seriously. Chaseley Trust, a respected nursing home in an historic seaside mansion, offers amenities like a movie theater, gym and, occasionally, strippers and prostitutes! “People have needs,” explains the manager. “We are there to help.”

While it is controversial to allow strippers and prostitutes to offer services to the disabled residents, Chaseley Trust defends the practice, explaining that many of the people they help are young and have neurological problems. “Most of the time, these are people who feel frustrated by a primeval need they cannot fulfill,” says the manager. And as for the older residents, it’s become common knowledge that sex is a key element of the elderly leading a happy life. In fact, one of the strippers, who recently gave a lap dance to a blind and deaf man, was put in touch with the assisted living facility through TLC Trust, an organization that advocates for the sexual rights of the disabled. Right on!

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An Orgy For People With Disabilities

1465053692_37e1d45f37_mOne thing you maybe never thought of when it comes to attending a massive sex party: is it wheel chair accessible? Well now a Toronto sex party calling itself the first accessible orgy for people with disabilities has that and much more. The event is called “Deliciously Disabled” and its aim is to both throw a great sex party and to create an empowering space for people with disabilities.

Deliciously Disabled is a masquerade ball that will include a sex toy workshop, a swinging orgy, and, of course, hydraulic lifts for wheelchairs. One of the event’s organizers explains it like this: “this event is about providing access to People living the experience of disability to be part of an experience they are so often denied. This event is about putting disability and agency over one’s body at the forefront.” The disabled-friendly orgy wants to show that people with disabilities are sexual beings who enjoy getting frisky and freaky: “Hey, we’re here and many of us enjoy sex just like everybody else…I think that it’s important that people realize that sexual expression is a human right,” another organizer said.

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