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How Orgasms Can Help You Look Younger

white-1822497_640If you’re looking for the Fountain of Youth, you might start the search in your own bedroom. According to a ten-year study, a healthy sex life can make a person look four to seven years younger. “A good sex life leads to greater contentment, significant reductions in stress, better sleep and, in men, an increase in testosterone output,” says researchers.

The study looked at data from 3,500 participants and concluded that genetic factors were only 25 percent responsible for youthful looks, while behavior—mainly, sexual behavior— accounted for 75 percent. Other research has shown that having an orgasm is a profoundly youth-promoting phenomenon. Cumming decreases the production of cortisol, a hormone associated with higher levels of inflammation, aka a bodily response that is linked to aging.

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Anal Beads Will Make Your Orgasms Better and Stronger

As anyone who’s ever tried anal beads can attest, they really work when it comes to cumming! The beads act like a massage inside your body, but the magic really happens when you pull them out before or during orgasm. Here are some tips to get started on your anal beads journey.

  1. Start gradually
    When starting out, choose one with a slight pearlsgradual increase of beads. “As the beads start to get larger up the length of the strand, you are allowing yourself to get used to the toy,” explains a sexpert.
  2. Use thick anal lube
    Lube is a must during anal play, but using anal lube specifically will be even better. The thickness of anal lube sticks to the toy better, so you don’t have to apply as often.
  3. Make sure there’s a loop or a handle
    Just like with butt plugs, you want to make sure the toy can be easily removed.
  4. Relax and communicate!
    If you’re nervous, you can always start out teasing the area with a vibrator to get warmed up. You want to be as relaxed as possible before insertion, so be sure to communicate how you’re feeling.
  5. Get an anti-bacterial cleaner
    In order to use your anal beads repeatedly, you’ll want to clean your beads between use with this.
  6. Try a kit
    If you’re not sure what you’ll like—something thicker, sturdier, etc—purchase an anal bead kit and experiment!

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What To Do When Your Partner Doesn’t Have an Orgasm

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_maleorgasmHave you ever been with someone who you weren’t sure came or not? Since so much pressure is put on having an orgasm during sex, it can sometimes be awkward to ask if they did get off or to know what to do if they didn’t. Here are some tips to help you the next time this happens and to help your partner have an orgasm:

  1. Show that you care about your partner’s pleasure
    The sexiest thing you can do in bed is to show your partner that you genuinely care about them having a good time. Simple questions like “does that feel good?” and “what turns you on?” show that you care about their pleasure. This will help encourage them to relax and have a good time.
  2. Spend some time focusing on what turns them on
    Try taking some time to just pleasure your partner: give them head, kiss them all over, etc. While focusing on them, let them know that you enjoy what you’re doing by saying things like “you taste amazing” or “I could do this for hours.” This relaxes them and lets them know that there’s no rush.
  3. Communicate about how close you are to The Big O
    If you’re getting close to reaching orgasm but you don’t think your partner’s there yet, take a breather and switch it up for a while. This is a great opportunity to give them some more head and to focus on their pleasure while you cool down. And if you do cum before your partner, ask if they’d like to cum, too—sex isn’t the only way to get off!
  4. Take the focus off of cumming
    Cumming is not the end-all-be-all of sex. Make every moment count and don’t just focus on the end-goal. It’ll take pressure off of having an orgasm and it’ll make the experience that much more enjoyable.

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NEWS: Diary of a Submissive Man Who’s Not Allowed to Cum

In NY magazine’s diary entries of the sexually kinky, a submissive man describes being tied up, brought to his sexual limit, as his mistress (wife) denies him the big finish. On the first day, he (the submissive) wakes up at 6:30 am in bondage, as every morning, waiting Depositphotos_dominatrix_smallfor his mistress to un-lock his leather cuffs so he can finally move his restrained, “completely useless” fingers. He explains he hasn’t cum in 9 days, is completely hard, but will not be allowed to cum until his mistress believes he is ready—that is, until she sees “the need.” He watches BDSM porn, and waits for his mistress to put on his chastity belt.

Later, his mistress feels like fucking him—but instructs him not to cum as she rides him. His reply: “Yes, Ma’am.” Next morning, it’s more porn, masturbation, fucking—all pushing him right to the edge of cumming, but without actually finishing. At the end of day fourteen, still without cumming, he explains he’s masturbated 3 times, had his mistress masturbate him 5 times, masturbated his mistress once, fucked his mistress once, watched porn 7 times, read erotica 3 times, had 7 bondage sessions—all with no big O’s!

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